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By *riar Belisse OP   Woman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

How important is penetration to you on a sexual meet

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I've had non penetrative meets , usually first time meets, and it was still a lot of fun

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I wouldn’t be satisfied without it I don’t think.

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By *agertha73Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We've had meets without penetration. Everyone seemed to enjoy themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had non penetrative meets , usually first time meets, and it was still a lot of fun "

Some here. I'm good at oral and you don't need to penetrate to tease

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How important is penetration to you on a sexual meet "

How important is it to you?

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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I have to be honest and say it would be near the top of my list of wants were I looking to meet, but I have had enjoyable liaisons without penetration before...like every meet, it hinges on the person and the mood.

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By *entlemansRelishMan
over a year ago

Colchester


"How important is penetration to you on a sexual meet "

I’ve had first meets where it was taken more slower until next time including no penetration..... I think it’s a respect thing. If someone requests that for their own comfort until they are cool with you after the first meet then it’s all good.

I certainly wouldn’t be put off there is plenty else you can do to up the fun levels!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Im lucky if I get a snog.

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

Not important at all. We don't plan what happens or how far things go because we'll only know how we feel on the night.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Essential

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Essential"

I agree.

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By *riar Belisse OP   Woman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss


"How important is penetration to you on a sexual meet

How important is it to you?"

Its not important to me, I have played soft quite a few times, I have been blessed with showing some men that pleasure needs not to be restricted by ED xxx

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By *heekyeyesMan
over a year ago

Southampton

My opinion about penetration is that if you know what you doing you don't need the penetration that much!

Myself I like (her) to be the one that needs to be satisfied so I will get a reward

Penetration it is important but totally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say it's important.. if there's enough chemistry for soft play, I'm happy to go all the way. Make the most of the moment!

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By *ex-BombsCouple
over a year ago

Flitwick

Essential, soft play is something you can do yourself effectively, have spoken to some couples who are soft play only and each to their own but doesn’t interest us

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

It wasn't the question, but I think I'd actually find it less important than kissing. Would still be frustrating though to be fair.

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

Not at all. Connection is paramount in any situation the rest just comes as it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not always essential, but always a bonus if it happens

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I've had multiple meets where PIV was never on the cards or part of the dynamic.

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I'd say it's important.. if there's enough chemistry for soft play, I'm happy to go all the way. Make the most of the moment!"

Yeah, I'd generally feel that way. I fail to see the function that the soft play barrier creates... you've got this far, do you think refusing that last stop keeps you safe from something? If it actually does, then that seems worrying!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not the be or and end off for me but if it happens then woohoo and if not maybe next time

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By *riar Belisse OP   Woman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss


"I'd say it's important.. if there's enough chemistry for soft play, I'm happy to go all the way. Make the most of the moment!

Yeah, I'd generally feel that way. I fail to see the function that the soft play barrier creates... you've got this far, do you think refusing that last stop keeps you safe from something? If it actually does, then that seems worrying!"

Sometimes it's not a refuse its a physical inability, not everyone can penetrate successfully, through health, stamina, over excitement etc. I've had interesting chats with lots of men who won't approach women as they fear they cannot "satisfy" them with penetration

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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It's not that important - sometimes I enjoy a mutual masturbation session or just giving oral. There's a lot of pressure on men to perform isn't there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on what you mean about penetration. I have had meets where I have not been penetrated but that is not to say they have not been. X

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Not in the least bit important

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By *istnbroke69Man
over a year ago

Cheshire / Shropshire

Nice to build up the anticipation and chemistry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of my most exciting meets haven't involved penetration.. I can't explain very well, but the mental head fuck and the desire to be penetrated is very intense

I don't think i could do all meets like this though, i think I'd explode

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By *riar Belisse OP   Woman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss


"It's not that important - sometimes I enjoy a mutual masturbation session or just giving oral. There's a lot of pressure on men to perform isn't there? "

There is an awful lot of pressure put upon them indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not

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By *riar Belisse OP   Woman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss


"It depends on what you mean about penetration. I have had meets where I have not been penetrated but that is not to say they have not been. X "

Natural penile penetration x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't even remember what that is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its frowned on at socials.

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"It depends on what you mean about penetration. I have had meets where I have not been penetrated but that is not to say they have not been. X

Natural penile penetration x"

Nothing natural about that you, you, you perverts.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

I don't like penetration so none c

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Pretty important. But doesn't have to be with a peen....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How important is penetration to you on a sexual meet "

Not a deal breaker, but very pleasant. I am happy to be satisfied in other ways and I am primarily a giver.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had non penetrative meets , usually first time meets, and it was still a lot of fun "

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I don't like penetration so none c"

X

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Not at all, just a bonus if we click x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I me someone regularly, I'd be miffed if it didn't happen fairly often.

I don't think I'd meet if it was never on the table

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

From here it's imperative.

With my regular buddy it's not always necessary.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"How important is penetration to you on a sexual meet "
on fab Its not. I'd say mostly ive done oral meets. If I do penetration it's in s gsngbang situation.

However if it was 121 then I would be wanting to move pretty much straight to penetration. Dont really want foreplay but straight to it. Hence I dont really do 121

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the person and how long we've been chatting really, but with guys it's always oral for me anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's the first meet, I never will do, but after that and once I know someone better then I would like it too...

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"It's not that important - sometimes I enjoy a mutual masturbation session or just giving oral. There's a lot of pressure on men to perform isn't there? "

I've never pressured anyone to perform. If they didn't want penetration in the first place I would decline (unless there was some particular circumstance I was ok about). If they struggled to get an erection from nerves, that wouldn't be a problem.

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By *lasphemouscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire


"It's not that important - sometimes I enjoy a mutual masturbation session or just giving oral. There's a lot of pressure on men to perform isn't there? "

This,

We love mutual masturbation and long play sessions, sometimes there's no need or want for penetration at all for us.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"I've had non penetrative meets , usually first time meets, and it was still a lot of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very, don’t really like soft play alone x

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

If I didn't have penetration on a 121 meet it would just be a social as I dont do soft play really

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"How important is penetration to you on a sexual meet "

Not enormously. We have sex with each other that sometimes doesn't involve penetration. Obviously penetration is the the ultimate form of people giving their bodies for others to enjoy. It is lovely to do it on a meet, but if we all enjoy ourselves and have orgasms to satisfaction, I wouldn't consider not penetrating to be a let-down. Going with the flow is more important than meeting targets.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"It depends on what you mean about penetration. I have had meets where I have not been penetrated but that is not to say they have not been. X "

Same, and my "non Penis in Vagina" meets are far from soft play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends on what you mean about penetration. I have had meets where I have not been penetrated but that is not to say they have not been. X

Natural penile penetration x"

I have had no penile penetration meets when having Dom Mistress meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Penetration with something; penis, fingers, vibrator etc is pretty essential for me.

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By *riar Belisse OP   Woman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss


"Penetration with something; penis, fingers, vibrator etc is pretty essential for me."

I should have slipped penis penetration into the title

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By *nfin8yWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

I enjoy it but enjoy the build up just as

much.

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Penetration with something; penis, fingers, vibrator etc is pretty essential for me.

I should have slipped penis penetration into the title

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Penis penetration of something; bum, nose, fistula etc is pretty essential for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only if you cant see my elbow anymore

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I’d rather have a flirty social than soft play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very, veryyyyyyy important!

A must

Her x

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Essential, think I would feel frustrated without it, even if I came by other means.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

First meet after the initial social yes!

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Lol except on the odd occasion (TDTF, though not at the expense of trying anyway) it has always featured. I could go without assuming the rest was fun for all.

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By *riar Belisse OP   Woman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Lots of interesting answers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find the build up great but of course nothing beats the full wack

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

It features high on the agenda but circumstances might dictate otherwise , I could adapt

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

Wouldn't bother me not being penetrated by a penis, as long as I have my fun in other ways.

And oral/toys have always produced better results for me, as I don't orgasm from penile penetration

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"How important is penetration to you on a sexual meet "

My dick is the least impressive thing I own that I can use on you, so its not that important to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think for me there has to at least be the possibility of it happening.

If we get carried away with other things then fair enough but I don’t think I’d be happy arranging a meet if it was off the table from the start but who knows ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How important is penetration to you on a sexual meet "

Wouldn't be needed for me if when we met you were wearing the pants in your public photos.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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Essential

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

essential

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We only have penetration between the two of us, and sometimes haven't on club meets. We've had amazing meets too.

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