FabSwingers.com forum: Do you recognise your own arrogance?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well, do you?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Me, arrogant?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, but I don't care because I'm still the best

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I'm not arrogant....I'm awesome... because I get told I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do, most definitely. I am the best at spotting my own arrogance. No one else can do better. It’s simply a fact. I am the best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a fine line between confidence and arrogance.

I don't believe I have crossed it

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"There is a fine line between confidence and arrogance.

I don't believe I have crossed it

Was just about to write the same thing Ivy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I'm far too adorable to notice such things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I revel in it its not my fault if im superior

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When your as good looking as me we don't know what arrogance is...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes. Px

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve nothing to be arrogant about

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Arrogance is the belief that you’re the best or very good at something, if it’s a belief then you wouldn’t be dissuaded of it, so a person can’t really catch themselves in their own arrogance.

Ego is a different thing though and it’s something that everyone has. Having anxiety generally keeps my ego ground down to the nub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confident maybe

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

I used to be arrogant but now I'm absolutely perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup... And I don't bloody care!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who the F#&k do you think youre talking to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I don't think I do.

At times I'm strident and I know most of the time right in what I say.

I assume that other people also think I'm right.

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

I'm waving the uber confidence flag

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

If I was graphing the arrogance of my life, i'd like to think it'd be bell shaped.

Just because someone points a finger and calls someone arrogant doesn't mean it's true.

It would serve some people well to look inwardly.

Arrogance is not always a bad trait. It's just used as a general pejorative in today's psychobabbled, populist 'expert' society.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

P.S. No i've never been called arrogant.

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By *undayTarkaMan
over a year ago

South west

Yes arrogance is bliss

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

"Yes arrogance is bliss"

Cute

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I think I come across as confident and not arrogant, as I’ll happily accept my weakness as much as my strengths. I don’t think arrogant people are willing to accept they’re not absolutely brilliant at everything. Yes I’m looking at you Donald Trump

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am arrogant on certain things.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Arrogant people don't know they're arrogant so no, I don't recognise my own arrogance. I can jolly well recognise it in others though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

"I am arrogant on certain things.

Are you though ? Aren't you just good at the things you do and recognise your talents ?

What do you think is arrogant ? Cos knowing what you are good at isn't arrogance........

You don't hear Dragon's Denner going ....... Oh God I Couldn't Sell a Pork Chop to a Starving Dog...

They know they are good and they sell themselves....

That's not arrogance to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you know who I am!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

"[Removed by poster at 27/04/21 14:18:28]"

Yeah......

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

Fucks Sake Tittssarossa !

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

"Arrogant people don't know they're arrogant so no, I don't recognise my own arrogance. I can jolly well recognise it in others though."

I think they do ....... they can ........ they have.. It would bother some and not others.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Never. Wot wot

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

"Well, do you?"

Fucking right I do!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

"Well, do you?

Fucking right I do!

^ Fucking right he does !

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

Probably not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am arrogant on certain things.

Are you though ? Aren't you just good at the things you do and recognise your talents ?

What do you think is arrogant ? Cos knowing what you are good at isn't arrogance........

You don't hear Dragon's Denner going ....... Oh God I Couldn't Sell a Pork Chop to a Starving Dog...

They know they are good and they sell themselves....

That's not arrogance to me. "

Being good at something can come off to some people as arrogance. Knowledge skills ect...

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

"I am arrogant on certain things.

Are you though ? Aren't you just good at the things you do and recognise your talents ?

What do you think is arrogant ? Cos knowing what you are good at isn't arrogance........

You don't hear Dragon's Denner going ....... Oh God I Couldn't Sell a Pork Chop to a Starving Dog...

They know they are good and they sell themselves....

That's not arrogance to me.

Being good at something can come off to some people as arrogance. Knowledge skills ect... "

I know but that's not the fault of the person who is good at it. Only if they use it to belittle others. It really isn't arrogant to be proud of achievements .....

Not in my 'always right and better' book.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I am arrogant on certain things.

Are you though ? Aren't you just good at the things you do and recognise your talents ?

What do you think is arrogant ? Cos knowing what you are good at isn't arrogance........

You don't hear Dragon's Denner going ....... Oh God I Couldn't Sell a Pork Chop to a Starving Dog...

They know they are good and they sell themselves....

That's not arrogance to me.

Being good at something can come off to some people as arrogance. Knowledge skills ect...

I know but that's not the fault of the person who is good at it. Only if they use it to belittle others. It really isn't arrogant to be proud of achievements .....

Not in my 'always right and better' book.

I agree with you there Granny

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I'm not arrogant, I'm just a twat with everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am arrogant on certain things.

Are you though ? Aren't you just good at the things you do and recognise your talents ?

What do you think is arrogant ? Cos knowing what you are good at isn't arrogance........

You don't hear Dragon's Denner going ....... Oh God I Couldn't Sell a Pork Chop to a Starving Dog...

They know they are good and they sell themselves....

That's not arrogance to me.

Being good at something can come off to some people as arrogance. Knowledge skills ect...

I know but that's not the fault of the person who is good at it. Only if they use it to belittle others. It really isn't arrogant to be proud of achievements .....

Not in my 'always right and better' book.

I agree with you there Granny"

Being focused in competition comes off as arrogant sometimes people confuse the 2.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

Sometimes people are jealous/have low self esteem/don't understand/ don't support / can't take competition.

It's not always arrogance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to be humble but I'm far to good for that!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Sometimes people are jealous/have low self esteem/don't understand/ don't support / can't take competition.

It's not always arrogance.

And again I agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fucks Sake Tittssarossa !"

Yeah, you knew it as well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has some form of arrogance be it life skills being proud of a achievement knowledge ect.

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By *ourNextAddictionMan
over a year ago

Somerset

Arrogance or self assurance?

Tough one - but I think a lot of people might confuse my sarcastic arrogance for real...

Like said above, I think it depends on who’s around you at that moment & how they feel in themselves. I want to be sarcastic about it & for them to rip me to shreds & vice versa.

But most of the time I’ll be reserved & just avoid being myself. Learned in the corporate world.

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

Treat me right I'll treat you with the same curiosity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Arrogance or self assurance?

Tough one - but I think a lot of people might confuse my sarcastic arrogance for real...

Like said above, I think it depends on who’s around you at that moment & how they feel in themselves. I want to be sarcastic about it & for them to rip me to shreds & vice versa.

But most of the time I’ll be reserved & just avoid being myself. Learned in the corporate world.

But is arrogance situational

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do on the odd occasion...the other times I must be too arrogant to notice...

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Sometimes people are jealous/have low self esteem/don't understand/ don't support / can't take competition.

It's not always arrogance.

I’d say you are absolutely spot on there

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By *ourNextAddictionMan
over a year ago

Somerset

"Arrogance or self assurance?

Tough one - but I think a lot of people might confuse my sarcastic arrogance for real...

Like said above, I think it depends on who’s around you at that moment & how they feel in themselves. I want to be sarcastic about it & for them to rip me to shreds & vice versa.

But most of the time I’ll be reserved & just avoid being myself. Learned in the corporate world.

But is arrogance situational

Yeah I’d say so - all depends on your confidence on that subject or whatever as you’ll just look like a dik if not.

There is a rare occasion you’ll meet a know it all... that’s a funny one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah, but I don't care because I'm still the best

Simply the best, better than all the rest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well its another one of my attractive qualities

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

My preference is for people to point it out to me. That way I know I am doing it right...

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