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By *heekyeyes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southampton

I've tried many times to be someone that I'm not !

You see a lot people here having so many good vibes in their words and tried to be like them (basically trying without a success )

And sometimes when I just go with the flow or being myself I get so many positive response !

From now on I'll just do that !

Be like that

I like the new me

You don't have to write something if you don't feel like

Just wanted to check if anyone has been like me !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Congratulations. What a positive start. Good show.

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By *heekyeyes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southampton


"Congratulations. What a positive start. Good show. "

Thanks for that

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

But I want to be a unicorn.

Someone told me I could be a unicorn.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I've always been me on here , admittedly I'm a bit more of a confident me than I was, but I'm me .

One or two don't like me and that's totally fine

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Eh yes Iget the self evident part of it, but it can contradict with putting that best you there. It's a balancing act, and when the best you can become the everyday normal you, all the better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The more you try to be what you think people want, you move further away from who you are.

I learnt the hard way many profiles ago. I'm pretty much here "as is" and have made some new friends as a result.

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By *heekyeyes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southampton


"But I want to be a unicorn.

Someone told me I could be a unicorn."

You can be who ever you want

As long is best for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry, didn’t exactly answer your question, did I?

I try to put out positive energy to keep my spirits up and hope it will help to lift someone else up as well.

If you’re not the type to do it, don’t be. People like me, ‘optimists,’ can be annoying. . I persist regardless.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"But I want to be a unicorn.

Someone told me I could be a unicorn."

Well you've always got the horn so close enough

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I think it is something that happens with age so well done for being ahead of the curve.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"But I want to be a unicorn.

Someone told me I could be a unicorn.

Well you've always got the horn so close enough "

I didn't have last night.....

Oh. Hang on. Scratch that.

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By *heekyeyes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southampton


"Eh yes Iget the self evident part of it, but it can contradict with putting that best you there. It's a balancing act, and when the best you can become the everyday normal you, all the better."

I know sometimes being yourself brings some unbenefits

But it's good hearing from other their thoughts

Who knows?

You might learn and trying to be the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

If I’m totally honest I’m not totally “me” on here. It’s still me but only the sides I want to show. On here I’m Nora, a part of me. In real life I’m ****** the real me which only a few get to see. if that makes sense!

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"But I want to be a unicorn.

Someone told me I could be a unicorn.

Well you've always got the horn so close enough

I didn't have last night.....

Oh. Hang on. Scratch that."

Is that a statement or a request ??

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By *heekyeyes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southampton


"But I want to be a unicorn.

Someone told me I could be a unicorn.

Well you've always got the horn so close enough

I didn't have last night.....

Oh. Hang on. Scratch that."

Right

Someone can explain me why wanted to be a unicorn is a bad thing?

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By *un In SussexMan
over a year ago

Hailsham


"But I want to be a unicorn.

Someone told me I could be a unicorn."

But you are. Single girl on swinging site is a unicorn. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I’m totally honest I’m not totally “me” on here. It’s still me but only the sides I want to show. On here I’m Nora, a part of me. In real life I’m ****** the real me which only a few get to see. if that makes sense!"

Oooo....I’m intrigued.

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

I’m always myself. Only problem is that sometimes I’m not sure who I really am.

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By *heekyeyes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southampton


"If I’m totally honest I’m not totally “me” on here. It’s still me but only the sides I want to show. On here I’m Nora, a part of me. In real life I’m ****** the real me which only a few get to see. if that makes sense!"

With families and real friends I get that

Here is different

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"If I’m totally honest I’m not totally “me” on here. It’s still me but only the sides I want to show. On here I’m Nora, a part of me. In real life I’m ****** the real me which only a few get to see. if that makes sense!

Oooo....I’m intrigued. "

I wouldn’t be. It’s really quite boring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've tried many times to be someone that I'm not !

You see a lot people here having so many good vibes in their words and tried to be like them (basically trying without a success )

And sometimes when I just go with the flow or being myself I get so many positive response !

From now on I'll just do that !

Be like that

I like the new me

You don't have to write something if you don't feel like

Just wanted to check if anyone has been like me !

"

No you've gotta be what others want you to be, you not kniw how society works pfft

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By *heekyeyes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southampton


"If I’m totally honest I’m not totally “me” on here. It’s still me but only the sides I want to show. On here I’m Nora, a part of me. In real life I’m ****** the real me which only a few get to see. if that makes sense!

Oooo....I’m intrigued. We all checked your profile and is not that boring

I wouldn’t be. It’s really quite boring "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being yourself is something that comes with age. Once you get to the point in life where you stop worrying what people think and do what's best for you, it can be pretty fantastic

I am what I am, people can either take it or leave it. Either way, I'm happy

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"If I’m totally honest I’m not totally “me” on here. It’s still me but only the sides I want to show. On here I’m Nora, a part of me. In real life I’m Agamemnon the real me which only a few get to see. if that makes sense!"

FIFY.

Sorry I real named you. But the people need to know.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"But I want to be a unicorn.

Someone told me I could be a unicorn.

Well you've always got the horn so close enough

I didn't have last night.....

Oh. Hang on. Scratch that.

Is that a statement or a request ??"

Yes. It is

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"If I’m totally honest I’m not totally “me” on here. It’s still me but only the sides I want to show. On here I’m Nora, a part of me. In real life I’m ****** the real me which only a few get to see. if that makes sense!

Oooo....I’m intrigued.

I wouldn’t be. It’s really quite boring "

I'll take the risk

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"But I want to be a unicorn.

Someone told me I could be a unicorn.

But you are. Single girl on swinging site is a unicorn. X"

Single BI woman on a swinging site is a unicorn.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"But I want to be a unicorn.

Someone told me I could be a unicorn.

But you are. Single girl on swinging site is a unicorn. X

Single BI woman on a swinging site is a unicorn.

"

Isn’t it only if they meet couples though?

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Anybody can be anything they want to be, if you want to take on some traits that you admire in another person, why not we each need to grow

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"If I’m totally honest I’m not totally “me” on here. It’s still me but only the sides I want to show. On here I’m Nora, a part of me. In real life I’m Agamemnon the real me which only a few get to see. if that makes sense!

FIFY.

Sorry I real named you. But the people need to know."

Haha. And you’re one of the few who actually do know my name . Don’t freak me out like that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I’m totally honest I’m not totally “me” on here. It’s still me but only the sides I want to show. On here I’m Nora, a part of me. In real life I’m ****** the real me which only a few get to see. if that makes sense!

Oooo....I’m intrigued.

I wouldn’t be. It’s really quite boring "

That’s what James Bond says as well!

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"But I want to be a unicorn.

Someone told me I could be a unicorn.

But you are. Single girl on swinging site is a unicorn. X

Single BI woman on a swinging site is a unicorn.

Isn’t it only if they meet couples though? "

I don't know..... I'm so confused.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"If I’m totally honest I’m not totally “me” on here. It’s still me but only the sides I want to show. On here I’m Nora, a part of me. In real life I’m Agamemnon the real me which only a few get to see. if that makes sense!

FIFY.

Sorry I real named you. But the people need to know.

Haha. And you’re one of the few who actually do know my name . Don’t freak me out like that! "

Sorry Balthazar

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

I'm me can't change that.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"But I want to be a unicorn.

Someone told me I could be a unicorn.

But you are. Single girl on swinging site is a unicorn. X

Single BI woman on a swinging site is a unicorn.

Isn’t it only if they meet couples though?

I don't know..... I'm so confused."

It’ll be me who’s wrong. I know fook all. Don’t even start on acronyms!

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Always be yourself.

Unless you can be a dragon, in which case then, always be a dragon.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Always be yourself.

Unless you can be a dragon, in which case then, always be a dragon."

I’m that too but only in the mornings.

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By *heekyeyes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southampton


"Being yourself is something that comes with age. Once you get to the point in life where you stop worrying what people think and do what's best for you, it can be pretty fantastic

I am what I am, people can either take it or leave it. Either way, I'm happy "
like it

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I'm just me on here I may not give out my personal info but anything I post is just me I don't see the point in pretending to be anything I'm not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would not try to be someone else. I am me, always.

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By *heekyeyes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southampton


"I'm just me on here I may not give out my personal info but anything I post is just me I don't see the point in pretending to be anything I'm not."

The real you is quite interesting

for that

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I do try to be adulty sometimes but it doesn’t work so I’ve given up

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I do try to be adulty sometimes but it doesn’t work so I’ve given up "

Adulty is overrated.

We should have people to do that for us.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Yeah you be you O.P. It's what we all do best.

Pretence always looks so amusing and sometimes absurd.

Unless we are in a surreal panto....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah you be you O.P. It's what we all do best.

Pretence always looks so amusing and sometimes absurd.

Unless we are in a surreal panto.... "

The Lounge would make a surreal panto material for screenplay for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've tried many times to be someone that I'm not !

You see a lot people here having so many good vibes in their words and tried to be like them (basically trying without a success )

And sometimes when I just go with the flow or being myself I get so many positive response !

From now on I'll just do that !

Be like that

I like the new me

You don't have to write something if you don't feel like

Just wanted to check if anyone has been like me !

"

It takes less energy to be you rather than someone you are not. Everyone will have a different version of you in their heads but it's not up to you to be who they think you are

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By *heekyeyes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southampton


"I do try to be adulty sometimes but it doesn’t work so I’ve given up "

I tried that to

And my Mom keep saying that to me but I can't

Do stupid things

Like spending so much money

Buying clothes that I forget to wear

So many

It's nice to act like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop caring what others think.

I do what I want and if someone got a problem with that then that's on them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah you be you O.P. It's what we all do best.

Pretence always looks so amusing and sometimes absurd.

Unless we are in a surreal panto....

The Lounge would make a surreal panto material for screenplay for sure. "

Fab is the very model of a screenplay very comical,

The forumites are here to see, some straight, some homosexual,

The forum poses questions that are sometimes just rhetorical,

From Look at me to Cock Snot, some times posts are quite hysterical.

Depending on the post the answers can be horticultural,

And some posts ask for meets , back in the day when you could find a bull,

About bisexual fabstraight folks, fab is teeming with a lot o' them --

With many sneaky men deny that they are fond of cock up them.

[very fond of cock up them]

I'm sure if you could write a script the screenplay would be fabulous,

Of all the people here on fab, it's verging on miraculous,

To all of those who sit and judge, us swingers are hysterical.

Fab is the very model of a screenplay very comical...

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Yeah you be you O.P. It's what we all do best.

Pretence always looks so amusing and sometimes absurd.

Unless we are in a surreal panto....

The Lounge would make a surreal panto material for screenplay for sure.

Fab is the very model of a screenplay very comical,

The forumites are here to see, some straight, some homosexual,

The forum poses questions that are sometimes just rhetorical,

From Look at me to Cock Snot, some times posts are quite hysterical.

Depending on the post the answers can be horticultural,

And some posts ask for meets , back in the day when you could find a bull,

About bisexual fabstraight folks, fab is teeming with a lot o' them --

With many sneaky men deny that they are fond of cock up them.

[very fond of cock up them]

I'm sure if you could write a script the screenplay would be fabulous,

Of all the people here on fab, it's verging on miraculous,

To all of those who sit and judge, us swingers are hysterical.

Fab is the very model of a screenplay very comical...

"

10:30 and the forum has already been won for the day. no fair!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah you be you O.P. It's what we all do best.

Pretence always looks so amusing and sometimes absurd.

Unless we are in a surreal panto....

The Lounge would make a surreal panto material for screenplay for sure.

Fab is the very model of a screenplay very comical,

The forumites are here to see, some straight, some homosexual,

The forum poses questions that are sometimes just rhetorical,

From Look at me to Cock Snot, some times posts are quite hysterical.

Depending on the post the answers can be horticultural,

And some posts ask for meets , back in the day when you could find a bull,

About bisexual fabstraight folks, fab is teeming with a lot o' them --

With many sneaky men deny that they are fond of cock up them.

[very fond of cock up them]

I'm sure if you could write a script the screenplay would be fabulous,

Of all the people here on fab, it's verging on miraculous,

To all of those who sit and judge, us swingers are hysterical.

Fab is the very model of a screenplay very comical...

"

Oh you! It made my day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah you be you O.P. It's what we all do best.

Pretence always looks so amusing and sometimes absurd.

Unless we are in a surreal panto....

The Lounge would make a surreal panto material for screenplay for sure.

Fab is the very model of a screenplay very comical,

The forumites are here to see, some straight, some homosexual,

The forum poses questions that are sometimes just rhetorical,

From Look at me to Cock Snot, some times posts are quite hysterical.

Depending on the post the answers can be horticultural,

And some posts ask for meets , back in the day when you could find a bull,

About bisexual fabstraight folks, fab is teeming with a lot o' them --

With many sneaky men deny that they are fond of cock up them.

[very fond of cock up them]

I'm sure if you could write a script the screenplay would be fabulous,

Of all the people here on fab, it's verging on miraculous,

To all of those who sit and judge, us swingers are hysterical.

Fab is the very model of a screenplay very comical...

10:30 and the forum has already been won for the day. no fair!"

I feel it deserves thread on its own.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Yeah you be you O.P. It's what we all do best.

Pretence always looks so amusing and sometimes absurd.

Unless we are in a surreal panto....

The Lounge would make a surreal panto material for screenplay for sure.

Fab is the very model of a screenplay very comical,

The forumites are here to see, some straight, some homosexual,

The forum poses questions that are sometimes just rhetorical,

From Look at me to Cock Snot, some times posts are quite hysterical.

Depending on the post the answers can be horticultural,

And some posts ask for meets , back in the day when you could find a bull,

About bisexual fabstraight folks, fab is teeming with a lot o' them --

With many sneaky men deny that they are fond of cock up them.

[very fond of cock up them]

I'm sure if you could write a script the screenplay would be fabulous,

Of all the people here on fab, it's verging on miraculous,

To all of those who sit and judge, us swingers are hysterical.

Fab is the very model of a screenplay very comical...

"

Genius

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been there. Tried to fit in but no more. On here it's me (or some parts of me). If it intrigues someone and they want to know more then that's a bonus.

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