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Tomorrow is the saddest day of my life

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Tomorrow I'll be in stealth mode. Tomorrow is a sad anniversary when I lost someone ...

"My dear Angel, sleep well

Your Daddy just want to tell

I still remember your eyes and smile,

Like you wanted to tell me: "Daddy please don't cry..."

My dear Angel...farewell..."

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Sending hugs and strength. It's the hardest thing

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
over a year ago

south coast IOW

Sending you love and hugs. Someone isn’t totally lost if they live in your heart and memories. I know that doesn’t take the pain away but try remember positive memories and celebrate what you’ve had rather than what you have lost xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't reach my 1st anniversary of my sons death until 15th of July. I know your pain totally buddy... your not alone if you need me.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Can’t even begin to imagine how you feel, it’s breaking me just reading it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

So sorry to hear OP. Hug of support

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm so sorry to read this.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I can't imagine how you must feel.

I'm really sorry to read this.

Wishing you strength for tomorrow and always x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sending hugs to you

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I feel you loss and understand the heartache. My thought are with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, I have such a day in my calendar too. It's a hard, hard thing. This year it will be the 29th one I've had to face. It never gets easier but somehow we find the strength to cope and the peace to remember with love.

I'll be thinking of you.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

I know my Grandad took the grief of his youngest daughter's passing to his grave, so although I don't have personal experience, I know what it's like to support a relative. Hugs to you, Scorpio at a difficult time

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By *elethWoman
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I'm so sorry Scorpio. I'm thinking of you.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Sorry to read this

Sending you strength to get through it and a big hug x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm so sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m sorry to read this. Big hugs x

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By *asilForty77Man
over a year ago

a hundred and sixty of us living in a small shoebox in the middle of the road

Sending a big hug

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"Tomorrow I'll be in stealth mode. Tomorrow is a sad anniversary when I lost someone ...

"My dear Angel, sleep well

Your Daddy just want to tell

I still remember your eyes and smile,

Like you wanted to tell me: "Daddy please don't cry..."

My dear Angel...farewell..."

"

Big hugs you'll always be a great daddy

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I have no words nor can I even begin to imagine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lost for words, thoughts are with you

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

I simply can't imagine, will just say thoughts are with anyone going through such a loss..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Healing vibes your way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sending hugs and strength. It's the hardest thing "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *liXbigMan
over a year ago

Wellington

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry for your loss, tho still walking beside you

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

Ohhh op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry for your loss, sending hugs xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry for your loss

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By *horehouseprincessWoman
over a year ago

small town near Munich

Sending hugs

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Thinking of you xx

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Cannon Henry Scott Holland :

I am I and you are you

Whatever we were to each other, that we are still ...

Thinking of you OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sending hugs xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sending love +strength, so so sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That was hard to read and can’t even imagine what you feel.....sending my deepest sympathy and love man x

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By *hantasmagoriaWoman
over a year ago

Newport

Love to you scorpio xx

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Unfortunately OP It never gets easy but it gets slightly easier with the days and years that go by. I know your pain

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

"Would you know my name

If I saw you in heaven?

Would it be the same

If I saw you in heaven?

I must be strong

And carry on

'Cause I know, I don't belong

Here in heaven

Would you hold my hand

If I saw you in heaven?

Would you help me stand

If I saw you in heaven?

I'll find my way

Through night and day

'Cause I know, I just can't stay

Here in heaven

Time can bring you down

Time can bend your knees

Time can break your heart

Have you begging please

Begging please

Beyond the door

There's peace, I'm sure

And I know there'll be no more

Tears in heaven

Would you know my name

If I saw you in heaven?

Would it be the same

If I saw you in heaven?

I must be strong

And carry on

'Cause I know, I don't belong

Here in heaven

'Cause I know, I don't belong

Here in heaven..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just no words. Sending you love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry for your loss

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

“Grief, I’ve learned is really just love. It’s all the love you want to give but cannot. All of that unspent love gathers up in the corner of your eyes, the lump in your throat and that hollow part of your chest. Grief is just love with no place to go.”

I was sent this quote when my grandson died

Sending love OP

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"“Grief, I’ve learned is really just love. It’s all the love you want to give but cannot. All of that unspent love gathers up in the corner of your eyes, the lump in your throat and that hollow part of your chest. Grief is just love with no place to go.”

I was sent this quote when my grandson died

Sending love OP "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You used to say I won't know a win until it cost me

Like I wont' know real love till I've loved then I've lost it

And if you've lost a sister, someone's lost a mom

And if you've lost a dad, then someone's lost a son

And they're all missing now, and they're all missing now

So if you get a second to look down at me now

Mom, Dad, I just missing you now...

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton


"I'm so sorry to read this.

I don't think so

I was being genuine.

Yeah...whatever"

I’m sorry for your loss, your child will always be looking down on you

Confused as to why you’re questioning this though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tomorrow I'll be in stealth mode. Tomorrow is a sad anniversary when I lost someone ...

"My dear Angel, sleep well

Your Daddy just want to tell

I still remember your eyes and smile,

Like you wanted to tell me: "Daddy please don't cry..."

My dear Angel...farewell..."

"

I'm so sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thought of losing a child is devastating.

There really are no words and I am so sorry you and others have to go through such a thing.

Hugs and thoughts

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton


"I'm so sorry to read this.

I don't think so

I was being genuine.

Yeah...whatever

I’m sorry for your loss, your child will always be looking down on you

Confused as to why you’re questioning this though "

As was I.

To lose a child (an assumption I am making based on the OPs first post) is a terrible thing. And in that, you are alone OP but not alone, I know full well that loss. There is a whisper in my halls when there should be laughter, we march on, because that’s what we do.

But your grief does not give you the right to belittle or question another’s empathy in such a manner. I’ll leave it at that. Be strong tomorrow, and the next day, and the day after that, for all days.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

I'm so sorry op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a dad myself I cannot even begin to imagine the pain and hurt you feel...just remember everyone here is sending love and strength to you xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm so sorry to read this.

I don't think so

I was being genuine.

Yeah...whatever

I’m sorry for your loss, your child will always be looking down on you

Confused as to why you’re questioning this though "

I can recognize if someone's honest or not. But now I'm in mood of blues. So please, don't questioned me. Please. Thank you in advance.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’ve avoided this thread all day because I never know what to say, sometimes words just can’t say enough they seem so inadequate. But regardless, I wanted to send love x

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

More love and hugs Scorpio

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton


"I'm so sorry to read this.

I don't think so

I was being genuine.

Yeah...whatever

I’m sorry for your loss, your child will always be looking down on you

Confused as to why you’re questioning this though

I can recognize if someone's honest or not. But now I'm in mood of blues. So please, don't questioned me. Please. Thank you in advance."

I do understand the loss; I lost a son in 2006 and at the time, I wanted to lash out at someone, anyone.

It’s just that I know the poster and saying she’s dishonest would be completely out of character for her.

I’m not questioning you though. And I’m here anytime you need to speak/rant/cry. Just drop me a PM.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If tomorrow never comes

Will she know how much I loved her

Did I try in every way to show her every day

That she's my only one

And if my time on earth were through

And she must face this world without me

Is the love I gave her in the past

Gonna be enough to last

If tomorrow never comes

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

https://youtu.be/JxPj3GAYYZ0

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm so sorry to read this.

I don't think so

I was being genuine.

Yeah...whatever

I’m sorry for your loss, your child will always be looking down on you

Confused as to why you’re questioning this though

I can recognize if someone's honest or not. But now I'm in mood of blues. So please, don't questioned me. Please. Thank you in advance.

I do understand the loss; I lost a son in 2006 and at the time, I wanted to lash out at someone, anyone.

It’s just that I know the poster and saying she’s dishonest would be completely out of character for her.

I’m not questioning you though. And I’m here anytime you need to speak/rant/cry. Just drop me a PM. "

Yeah...but I can't because of your filters. Pretty honest, isn't it?

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton


"I'm so sorry to read this.

I don't think so

I was being genuine.

Yeah...whatever

I’m sorry for your loss, your child will always be looking down on you

Confused as to why you’re questioning this though

I can recognize if someone's honest or not. But now I'm in mood of blues. So please, don't questioned me. Please. Thank you in advance.

I do understand the loss; I lost a son in 2006 and at the time, I wanted to lash out at someone, anyone.

It’s just that I know the poster and saying she’s dishonest would be completely out of character for her.

I’m not questioning you though. And I’m here anytime you need to speak/rant/cry. Just drop me a PM.

Yeah...but I can't because of your filters. Pretty honest, isn't it?"

My filters? I’ll go check now. Sorry

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton


"I'm so sorry to read this.

I don't think so

I was being genuine.

Yeah...whatever

I’m sorry for your loss, your child will always be looking down on you

Confused as to why you’re questioning this though

I can recognize if someone's honest or not. But now I'm in mood of blues. So please, don't questioned me. Please. Thank you in advance.

I do understand the loss; I lost a son in 2006 and at the time, I wanted to lash out at someone, anyone.

It’s just that I know the poster and saying she’s dishonest would be completely out of character for her.

I’m not questioning you though. And I’m here anytime you need to speak/rant/cry. Just drop me a PM.

Yeah...but I can't because of your filters. Pretty honest, isn't it?

My filters? I’ll go check now. Sorry "

Didn’t realise, all fixed now if you want to talk

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

"There's never a right time to say goodbye

But we know that we gotta go

Our separate ways

And I know it's hard, but I gotta do it

And it's killing me

'Cause there's never a right time

Right time to say goodbye..."

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By *elethWoman
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I'm thinking of you today.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm thinking of you today. "

Thank you

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

So sorry OP. Can’t think of the right words to say so I’ll just say I hope you’ll be ok. Big man hug sent

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What have I become?

My sweetest friend

Everyone I know goes away

In the end...

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

More hugs mate

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

You must be strong

And carry on

Cos you know it's not your time

To be in heaven

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You must be strong

And carry on

Cos you know it's not your time

To be in heaven "

Thnx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

"Near, far, wherever you are

I believe that the heart does go on

Once more, you open the door

And you're here in my heart

And my heart will go on and on..."

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