FabSwingers.com forum: Nothing off limits??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’m ‘seeing’ a guy not on Fab and he’s basically said he’s an open book and nothing is off limits!

This has made me realise I’m a bit more vanilla than I thought lol

If nothing was off limits, what would you do to your male partner?

Men what would you have done to you?

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I'd give anything a go except the 3 P's Pixie .

There's plenty of unfulfilled fantasies and kinks left for me to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Peg, flog, bite and torment

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd give anything a go except the 3 P's Pixie .

There's plenty of unfulfilled fantasies and kinks left for me to do

He’s even open to two of them but not the brown sticky stuff

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

I'm not keen on her having a strap on, and not into pee and such but she has a riding crop, hand restraints and can do whatever she likes, really.

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

Nothing off limits? No thanks.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"I'd give anything a go except the 3 P's Pixie .

There's plenty of unfulfilled fantasies and kinks left for me to do

He’s even open to two of them but not the brown sticky stuff

Ewww just no on all 3 for me sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Peg, flog, bite and torment

That’s all planned already *rubs hands in glee

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Peg, flog, bite and torment

Sounds fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nothing off limits? No thanks."

Thanks for your contribution!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm not keen on her having a strap on, and not into pee and such but she has a riding crop, hand restraints and can do whatever she likes, really."

It seems this is where it’s going!

I thought I was quite naughty in the ways of kinky fuckery but now I’m excited to discover more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m ‘seeing’ a guy not on Fab and he’s basically said he’s an open book and nothing is off limits!

This has made me realise I’m a bit more vanilla than I thought lol

If nothing was off limits, what would you do to your male partner?

Men what would you have done to you?"

I don't have one of those. But I have hard limits, too many to list. I can't for the life of me think what the third 'p' is , if anyone could enlighten me, ta .

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"I’m ‘seeing’ a guy not on Fab and he’s basically said he’s an open book and nothing is off limits!

This has made me realise I’m a bit more vanilla than I thought lol

If nothing was off limits, what would you do to your male partner?

Men what would you have done to you?"

Ask for his bank card and PIN.

Shave his head, eye brows, wax his chest and legs

Have him come over and do your house work

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

Wales

I’d see if he’d let me take him dogging so I could watch him get used by at least 3 men.

If you don’t ask you don’t get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are always limits...

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"I don't have one of those. But I have hard limits, too many to list. I can't for the life of me think what the third 'p' is , if anyone could enlighten me, ta ."

Pain

Pee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d see if he’d let me take him dogging so I could watch him get used by at least 3 men.

If you don’t ask you don’t get

If he agrees I’m happy to help out with this

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By *ear in the chairMan
over a year ago

Godstone

If you trust someone enough, no limits can work so long as they get that no always means no.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m ‘seeing’ a guy not on Fab and he’s basically said he’s an open book and nothing is off limits!

This has made me realise I’m a bit more vanilla than I thought lol

If nothing was off limits, what would you do to your male partner?

Men what would you have done to you?

Ask for his bank card and PIN.

Shave his head, eye brows, wax his chest and legs

Have him come over and do your house work

His head is already shaved, he wants me to wax his mono brow and his back for him!

I’m pretty sure he’d do my housework... nekid too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’d see if he’d let me take him dogging so I could watch him get used by at least 3 men.

If you don’t ask you don’t get

I think that may be one of his hard limits lol

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

"I don't have one of those. But I have hard limits, too many to list. I can't for the life of me think what the third 'p' is , if anyone could enlighten me, ta .

Pain

Pee

Poop"

Awww I was hoping one would be Pie.

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

"I'm not keen on her having a strap on, and not into pee and such but she has a riding crop, hand restraints and can do whatever she likes, really.

It seems this is where it’s going!

I thought I was quite naughty in the ways of kinky fuckery but now I’m excited to discover more

Enjoy!!

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"I’d see if he’d let me take him dogging so I could watch him get used by at least 3 men.

If you don’t ask you don’t get

I think that may be one of his hard limits lol"

So he does have limits?

Honestly if you are stuck for ideas find a BDSM checklist (not the BDSM quiz that tells you your role) as they list numerous activities, sexual and non sexual and can spring board your imagination.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you trust someone enough, no limits can work so long as they get that no always means no."

ALWAYS! No question about that xx

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

"I’d see if he’d let me take him dogging so I could watch him get used by at least 3 men.

If you don’t ask you don’t get

I think that may be one of his hard limits lol

So he does have limits?

Honestly if you are stuck for ideas find a BDSM checklist (not the BDSM quiz that tells you your role) as they list numerous activities, sexual and non sexual and can spring board your imagination."

Used to be one called MOJO I think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm up or open to most things apart from poo pee yes if it's your thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’d see if he’d let me take him dogging so I could watch him get used by at least 3 men.

If you don’t ask you don’t get

I think that may be one of his hard limits lol

So he does have limits?

Honestly if you are stuck for ideas find a BDSM checklist (not the BDSM quiz that tells you your role) as they list numerous activities, sexual and non sexual and can spring board your imagination."

The only limits he’s given me are no poop n no men play.

So I’m thinking there must be loads of things we can have a go at!

He has the same mindset as myself, try everything once and if you don’t like it, stop!

I’ll have a look at some sites, thank you x

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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield

Anyone who says they have "no limits" in that context, I'd be saying no to, or at the very least having a proper talk about things like consent, safety, and, well, limits.

Not having "no limits" doesn't make you vanilla. It makes you safe.

Otherwise what do they see as a limit? It's more a sign they haven't thought about what they want or are looking for, and that they haven't considered what others want or will do either. There are people who have a thing for breaking bones. Would that be a limit? What about nettle play? Not something most would do. Plenty of other examples. What a vanilla person sees as wild, crazy and extreme is possibly very tame to someone into BDSM.

But not realising that that kind of thing exists, or might be encompassed within the term 'no limits', is a sign they haven't thought it through or don't know enough to be able to say that.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"I don't have one of those. But I have hard limits, too many to list. I can't for the life of me think what the third 'p' is , if anyone could enlighten me, ta .

Pain

Pee

Poop"

I thought it was puke

So glad it isn't!

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

"Anyone who says they have "no limits" in that context, I'd be saying no to, or at the very least having a proper talk about things like consent, safety, and, well, limits.

Not having "no limits" doesn't make you vanilla. It makes you safe.

But not realising that that kind of thing exists, or might be encompassed within the term 'no limits', is a sign they haven't thought it through or don't know enough to be able to say that. "

It depends completely from where you view it, you're absolutely right.

Joined another website (won't mention it in case I'm not allowed to promote others but it begins with an F) and wow! I used to think whips and masks we're wild but......just.....wow.

Anyway, we're vanilla - just clotted cream vanilla with sprinkles.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

I'm currently sporting quite a few holes where a pinwheel got through my skin and fluid came out, only one bite mark but have had many more in the past.

Bruises from a well swung wooden spoon and am more than happy being pegged.

I dont actually know what my limits are yet and have had to be laid out on the floor due to a pain induced fainting so clearly I like some kinds of pain.

Only one of the P's is off limits and although I do have things I would say no to if I had to think about it I know I've allowed stuff to happen in the moment as well.

Bring on the finding my limits as and when stuff happens

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Anyone who says they have "no limits" in that context, I'd be saying no to, or at the very least having a proper talk about things like consent, safety, and, well, limits.

Not having "no limits" doesn't make you vanilla. It makes you safe.

But not realising that that kind of thing exists, or might be encompassed within the term 'no limits', is a sign they haven't thought it through or don't know enough to be able to say that. "

We are having a talk, hence why he’s asked me to find things to do to him and discuss them beforehand. I’ve put what limits he does actually have and we are exploring this together, safely.

Thank you for your input though xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d see if he’d let me take him dogging so I could watch him get used by at least 3 men.

If you don’t ask you don’t get

I think that may be one of his hard limits lol

So he does have limits?

Honestly if you are stuck for ideas find a BDSM checklist (not the BDSM quiz that tells you your role) as they list numerous activities, sexual and non sexual and can spring board your imagination.

Used to be one called MOJO I think?"

Mojo upgrade

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

"I’d see if he’d let me take him dogging so I could watch him get used by at least 3 men.

If you don’t ask you don’t get

I think that may be one of his hard limits lol

So he does have limits?

Honestly if you are stuck for ideas find a BDSM checklist (not the BDSM quiz that tells you your role) as they list numerous activities, sexual and non sexual and can spring board your imagination.

Used to be one called MOJO I think?

Mojo upgrade

That's the boy. Gets quite in depth as I recall.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm currently sporting quite a few holes where a pinwheel got through my skin and fluid came out, only one bite mark but have had many more in the past.

Bruises from a well swung wooden spoon and am more than happy being pegged.

I dont actually know what my limits are yet and have had to be laid out on the floor due to a pain induced fainting so clearly I like some kinds of pain.

Only one of the P's is off limits and although I do have things I would say no to if I had to think about it I know I've allowed stuff to happen in the moment as well.

Bring on the finding my limits as and when stuff happens

Love this response, that’s exactly where we are!

We’re both exploring and looking forward to finding new & exciting ways to pleasure each other x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m ‘seeing’ a guy not on Fab and he’s basically said he’s an open book and nothing is off limits!

This has made me realise I’m a bit more vanilla than I thought lol

If nothing was off limits, what would you do to your male partner?

Men what would you have done to you?

Ask for his bank card and PIN.

Shave his head, eye brows, wax his chest and legs

Have him come over and do your house work

Aren't you just describing a stag night?

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By *he Cum PumpMan
over a year ago

Hatfield

I wouldn't say I have no limits.

In some areas I might be open minded and subject to persuasion, but there are some things that for me would just be big No!

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By *ambozaMan
over a year ago

kilburn park

Hard limits are consent,chems,humiliation and shit ... I’m pretty broad minded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't have one of those. But I have hard limits, too many to list. I can't for the life of me think what the third 'p' is , if anyone could enlighten me, ta .

Pain

Pee

Poop"

Ah yes, thank you for the enlightenment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing off limits than flogging followed by pegging, fisting and sounding finishing of with watersports, so men be careful careful what you say to me when saying no limits. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm currently sporting quite a few holes where a pinwheel got through my skin and fluid came out, only one bite mark but have had many more in the past.

Bruises from a well swung wooden spoon and am more than happy being pegged."

Oops

"I dont actually know what my limits are yet and have had to be laid out on the floor due to a pain induced fainting so clearly I like some kinds of pain.

Only one of the P's is off limits and although I do have things I would say no to if I had to think about it I know I've allowed stuff to happen in the moment as well.

Bring on the finding my limits as and when stuff happens

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"I'm currently sporting quite a few holes where a pinwheel got through my skin and fluid came out, only one bite mark but have had many more in the past.

Bruises from a well swung wooden spoon and am more than happy being pegged.

Oops

I dont actually know what my limits are yet and have had to be laid out on the floor due to a pain induced fainting so clearly I like some kinds of pain.

Only one of the P's is off limits and although I do have things I would say no to if I had to think about it I know I've allowed stuff to happen in the moment as well.

Bring on the finding my limits as and when stuff happens

Hahahaa oops indeed, you had quite the swing on you with that spoon

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By *heonixRaven 777Woman
over a year ago

Guildford

I would not say that does not make you vanilla OP, you have met someone who as has an open mind and perhaps experienced more things that you have.

I personally think it’s wonderful that you have met someone who you can explore with and have some fun and enjoy the journey

The limits I am making an assumption that he means regarding exploring, and he is perhaps keeping an open mind or just simply hasn’t found something that he doesn’t enjoy enough to not do.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Chian him up...to the sink

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Nothing off limits than flogging followed by pegging, fisting and sounding finishing of with watersports, so men be careful careful what you say to me when saying no limits. X"

That sounds like hell , I can take a really hard massage and a bit of a nibble !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im pretty open although, pegging, crossdressing, dog leads or that bondage malarkey & poo is a turn off.. i wont do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have the lady swallow my man juice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Peg, flog, bite and torment

That’s all planned already *rubs hands in glee

You sound dangerous

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Nothing off limits? No thanks."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ball busting

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nothing off limits? No thanks.

If you scroll up I’ve stated his limits!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one has no limits. Not really.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I enjoy administering CP.

I'd one to try needles on someone.

Also forced bi, for my entertainment.

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

The 3 p's are a no and no ball torture or anything that makes me bleed.

I reckon everything else I'd be up for at least once

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No one has no limits. Not really. "

We’re exploring together, pushing boundaries and finding limits in a healthy consensual way.

I agree with you though, you don’t necessarily know you’re limits until something is suggested or tried, that’s the fun of exploring x

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Nothing is off limits is different from having no limits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing off limits than flogging followed by pegging, fisting and sounding finishing of with watersports, so men be careful careful what you say to me when saying no limits. X

That sounds like hell , I can take a really hard massage and a bit of a nibble !!!

Then don't bend over in front of me in a no limits holes barred meeting xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when someone say they have no limits either they are incredibly naïve or just have not thought it through.

Tell him your fetishes at the moment including whipping his boner with nettles whist being pegged with your rolling pin covered in hot chill paste!

We promise he will come up with some limits fairy darn quickly...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only things I can think off that is definite no are the 3 p's

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By *exydoctorsCouple
over a year ago

Galway/Clare

"when someone say they have no limits either they are incredibly naïve or just have not thought it through.

Exactly! I (male) was at a regular nightclub in Berlin once and got talking in a group to a chap from Cameroon. I remember d*unkenly saying I'd try anything once. He immediately quietly suggested to me that we go down the back and do some together.

I suddenly sobered up and was like

.... Well, what I meant waaaas....

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By *exydoctorsCouple
over a year ago

Galway/Clare

Oh there's a word removal there. Pepsi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the fact that you found an open minded guy who wants to explore with you. I think it's wonderful.

I would recommend going nice and slow and ticking off every box you can.

Keep in mind, today's hard limit can be tomorrow's soft desire.

And that the reverse is also true.

Hope you have the best of times

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Anyone who says they have "no limits" in that context, I'd be saying no to, or at the very least having a proper talk about things like consent, safety, and, well, limits.

Not having "no limits" doesn't make you vanilla. It makes you safe.

But not realising that that kind of thing exists, or might be encompassed within the term 'no limits', is a sign they haven't thought it through or don't know enough to be able to say that. "

This!

I always think that people who say “I’ve not got any limits” haven’t thought much about it.

Everyone has limits

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like the fact that you found an open minded guy who wants to explore with you. I think it's wonderful.

I would recommend going nice and slow and ticking off every box you can.

Keep in mind, today's hard limit can be tomorrow's soft desire.

And that the reverse is also true.

Hope you have the best of times "

Thank you!

We’ve started making lists of what we’d like to try and looking forward to trying them

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