FabSwingers.com forum: How do you like to be messaged

By *r. Mac OP Man
over a year ago

Bexleyheath

Do you like someone being straight to the point or small talk (as in hi how are you )

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Straight to the point.

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By *r. Mac OP Man
over a year ago

Bexleyheath

"Straight to the point.

Do you mind giving an example?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight to the point

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

With respect

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By *r. Mac OP Man
over a year ago

Bexleyheath

"With respect "

That's understandable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tried all sorts of messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With a picture of boobs attached ideally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you mean? Messaged first time? Messaged on ongoing basis?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite enjoy a bit of small talk. Allows us to suss out each others sense of humour etc.

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By *r. Mac OP Man
over a year ago

Bexleyheath

"What do you mean? Messaged first time? Messaged on ongoing basis?"

The first message

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Stright to the point

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By *r. Mac OP Man
over a year ago

Bexleyheath

"I quite enjoy a bit of small talk. Allows us to suss out each others sense of humour etc. "

I see and sense of humour a big thing for you then

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"Straight to the point.

Do you mind giving an example?

Hello. Would be interested in getting to know me with a view to fucking at some point in the not too distant future?

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

ALL IN CAPS PLEASE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ALL IN CAPS PLEASE "

Lol

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

As a first message I’d say flirty friendly talk , not too small but not FAF either

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

"Straight to the point.

Do you mind giving an example?

Hello. Would be interested in getting to know me with a view to fucking at some point in the not too distant future?

Best get this gem onto my clipboard for copy and pasting. Thanks Luna

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would just like anyone to message me on here lol as a single guy it’s a hard days work to talk to anyone lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enjoy clean chat first

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

"Straight to the point.

Do you mind giving an example?

Hello. Would be interested in getting to know me with a view to fucking at some point in the not too distant future?

I’m gonna copy and paste that one

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Do you like someone being straight to the point or small talk (as in hi how are you )

Little bit more than just hi or how I was around about a paragraph would be interesting

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By *nkforthekinkMan
over a year ago

london/fareham/brighton

Just send a sick pic

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"You're the hottest couple on Fab with a great profile and we seem really well suited, maybe we could hook up when allowed"

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Like it’s an introduction and then a conversation. We do it every day out in the real world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not by a guy talking about my bits and bobs

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"Straight to the point.

Do you mind giving an example?

Hello. Would be interested in getting to know me with a view to fucking at some point in the not too distant future?

I’m gonna copy and paste that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Straight to the point.

Do you mind giving an example?

Hello. Would be interested in getting to know me with a view to fucking at some point in the not too distant future?

I wonder how many times that’s going to light up your inbox over the next few hours!

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"Straight to the point.

Do you mind giving an example?

Hello. Would be interested in getting to know me with a view to fucking at some point in the not too distant future?

I wonder how many times that’s going to light up your inbox over the next few hours!

So long as they remember the dick pic I’ll be happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With humour. Not too serious x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do I like to be messaged?

A message would be a start, then I could form an opinion!

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Something starwars related is good

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

One of the best messages I've ever received was a limerick about my profile and username...I wasn't interested in the chap in a biblical sense, but we had a lovely chat because of his first message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Small talk helps.

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By *r. Mac OP Man
over a year ago

Bexleyheath

"Something starwars related is good"

Ohhh I like you

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Small talk helps.

Hmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly don’t mind tbh.

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By *_yeahPartiesCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Showing you can actually read is a bonus

Every message we get on this profile about meeting when it is very clear (and in caps too!) that it’s not for that, makes me die a little inside and fear for the future of humanity

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

As long as it's clear that the profile hasn't been read at all, fire away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

normally howdy works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Something starwars related is good"

So princess Leigh will you come in my milliunim Falcon and play with my lightsaber

From a very small ewok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As long as it's clear that the profile hasn't been read at all, fire away

You put words on your profile? Boy you guys are out of my league. I’d much rather see a profile that’d 6 years old (or there abouts) that states “fill in later”.

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

"As long as it's clear that the profile hasn't been read at all, fire away

You put words on your profile? Boy you guys are out of my league. I’d much rather see a profile that’d 6 years old (or there abouts) that states “fill in later”."

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Polite and in English not text speak and non sexual, clearly showing that they have read my profile.

Or just chatty regarding a forum thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as you don't start with TADA here's my cock.. your good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any lady’s want clean chat message me if interested fingers bit prawn cocktail at the moment

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"As long as you don't start with TADA here's my cock.. your good

Awww those are my favourites!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One of the best messages I've ever received was a limerick about my profile and username...I wasn't interested in the chap in a biblical sense, but we had a lovely chat because of his first message

It stands out. And it says- effort

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

By the use of a flaming arrow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would be nice to get any message at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coherently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messaged?

I am unfamiliar with this alien term

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By *r. Mac OP Man
over a year ago

Bexleyheath

"As long as you don't start with TADA here's my cock.. your good

Awww those are my favourites!

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

"Small talk helps.

"I've got a little one"?

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

"Polite and in English not text speak and non sexual, clearly showing that they have read my profile.

Or just chatty regarding a forum thread."

Pretty much this. A bit of humour thrown in also helps!

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Polite and in English not text speak and non sexual, clearly showing that they have read my profile.

Or just chatty regarding a forum thread.

Pretty much this. A bit of humour thrown in also helps! "

It certainly does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight to the point but nothing vulgar as it’s off putting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face and boob pic would be nice, bit of small talk. I don’t think I’ve ever been messaged first on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of respect and interesting conversation.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

With respect of course.

Failing that, a FAF message from a sexy woman also works

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"With respect of course.

Failing that, a FAF message from a sexy woman also works

Noted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FAF message accompanied by nudes does the trick

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"With respect of course.

Failing that, a FAF message from a sexy woman also works

Noted

Still waiting

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"With respect of course.

Failing that, a FAF message from a sexy woman also works

Noted

Still waiting

Good things come to those that wait

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By *oberts_onMan
over a year ago

King's Lynn

Just a message of any kind would be something...!!??

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By *nterprizeABCMan
over a year ago

Aberystwyth

"Something starwars related is good"

Ooooh. How obscure? I could go on about the economic and political ramifications of the Anaxes War College Naval Classification Scheme if you wanted.

https://starwars.fandom.com/wiki/Anaxes_War_College_System

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By *ourNextAddictionMan
over a year ago

Somerset

Straight to the point - avoids the small talk.

But can be profile dependent, if their profile gives details on their preferences then no need as ill see it there. It’s got to be something more than ‘Hi’

Intro yourself, what you’re after & what value you think I could add to your search.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Preferably not like the the one I had from a guy who told me he likes to watch his girlfriend shit then lick her bum hole clean

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"Preferably not like the the one I had from a guy who told me he likes to watch his girlfriend shit then lick her bum hole clean

Gosh, that’s a bit of an ice breaker

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Preferably not like the the one I had from a guy who told me he likes to watch his girlfriend shit then lick her bum hole clean

Gosh, that’s a bit of an ice breaker

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

With respect, after someone has actually bothered to read my profile.

I really don't mind a "Hi how are you" first.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We like somebody to actually have something to say, most likely responding to our profile text or photos, or something we put on the forum. Just something relevant you would just say to absolutely anybody. Something that indicates they may just be able to hold a conversation.

In my experience, people who say "Hi. How are you?" don't have anything interesting to say. We don't want to just jump into bed with somebody, so suggesting anything like that is a non-starter too.

Just talk to us like we are all mature adults. That's by far the best way of getting interest from us.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Without asking what I'm looking for

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

I like a picture of the lady bent over (lingerie optional) and a simple message “Hmmmmm?”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Around the shoulders with some aromatic oils.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you like someone being straight to the point or small talk (as in hi how are you )

I like them to add pictures of their gaping bumholes

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By *athan 123Man
over a year ago

rochdale oldham border

I think somewhere in between bu get your point over soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My favourite way to be messaged is in the style of a Black Country market fruit and vegetable trader.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By someone to show she still cares

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of banter to break the ice and then more detail and to the point. Obviously no rude folk ether

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Market Harborough / Kettering

I was going to say with plenty of oil and a firm hand but then I realised that the question is messaged and not massaged

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"I like a picture of the lady bent over (lingerie optional) and a simple message “Hmmmmm?”"

I posted this 2 hours ago. Inbox still empty. #justsayin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Something starwars related is good"
These are not the cocks you are looking for, move along to my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Straight to the point.

Straight to the point !!!!

Coffeeeeee or tea !!!!! Lol

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

Let us know what caught your eye, why are you messaging us specifically? What are you after yourself? What do you bring to the table that we should respond to your message?

We like wit, fully formed sentences and manners.

Oh and poor Mr Racer would love people to read the profile, cos the amount of times he's been told blokes like his ass or to cum over him!

he deals with messages, me (Mrs) on forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a message out of blue asking for a quickie and a mobile number attached so.... Yeah I think a simple hello is a safer bet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got a message out of blue asking for a quickie and a mobile number attached so.... Yeah I think a simple hello is a safer bet

Dammit!

Deletes my number from message*

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I got a message out of blue asking for a quickie and a mobile number attached so.... Yeah I think a simple hello is a safer bet

Dammit!

Deletes my number from message*

Crap. You did it too?

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

"I got a message out of blue asking for a quickie and a mobile number attached so.... Yeah I think a simple hello is a safer bet

Yeah, we've had a few like that. Rather uncomfortable to be honest.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

It’s just nice to get a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight to the point.

Express yourself.

What it is in our profile that grabbed your attention and what you think you can bring to the meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We expect to be spoken to as a couple. Prefer something interesting and a little amusing. Not to be sent dick pics and not a sexual opening message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you like someone being straight to the point or small talk (as in hi how are you )

Depends what the point is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From behind and pull my hair a bit.

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By *r. Mac OP Man
over a year ago

Bexleyheath

"From behind and pull my hair a bit.

Wow now that is a good way

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

I don't mind as long as they are polite.

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

What is this message thing, you speak of?

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By *heMightySpud69Man
over a year ago

Milton keynes

"Hi, I've been browsing your profile, and now I'm fingering myself. When shall we fuck?"

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