FabSwingers.com forum: Cha-cha-cha changes

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Time to make a change as David Bowie once sang...

However, how much are you willing to change to get that elusive meet?

Level 1 - Shave or beard? (or fuzz on the peach)

Easy to fix, Throw the razor away 'cos the lady likes the Viking look or the man isn't adverse to a fur burger. Or maybe you'll brave the shave and remove your beard to catch the eye?

Level 2 - Ink or removal.

A lorra lorra people seem to like a bit of ink on their beefcake. Would you go for a sleeve to appease the masses? Or undergo removal to get rid of that tatt you got in Benidorm after a rave and a bottle of absinthe.

The list goes on.

How much would you change to get a meet?

Would you expect someone to change themselves to meet your requirements?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually do like to ask what outfit they would like to see me in. I do not follow suggestions always but nice to pick together.

I would not change physical appearance. I do that for myself.

not for others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not one iota

And no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not. I would never expect anyone to change who they are. As I would never change myself to fit in with another's ideal, I am who I am accept or move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take me as I am or not at all

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Even if you change a meet is not guaranteed..... besides if your not my type with beard, ink or anything else your not going to be my type without them

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By *aughty_tonyMan
over a year ago

King's Lynn

"Take me as I am or not at all"

Yep agree here, if someone expects you to change then your not right for each other in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Even if you change a meet is not guaranteed..... besides if your not my type with beard, ink or anything else your not going to be my type without them "

Wouldn't that be a gutting feeling? You changed and they changed their mind! Not worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never change... unless you’re a tit! Then maybe lol

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

No, I wouldn't expect someone to change themselves to meet my requirements; I'm not sure I have any aesthetically! I don't mind beard or no beard.

Oh, I'm not particularly fond of people dousing themselves in aftershave/perfume because of sensory reasons but I just deal with it.

I wouldn't change me. I might wear something if I know they particularly like a colour. Or wear my hair up if they have a real thing for it and I know them very well. But other than that, no, not really.

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By *s Verity VeneryWoman
over a year ago

Bliss

Out ward look yes I do, but thats tailoring the look to a roleplay dogging, secretary, escort, outdoors etc etc

I wouldn't change my look preferences in order to get a non role-play sexual meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s about the personality if the lady’s chatty fun to be with would not expect any lady to change her appearance for date or otherwise visa versa you get what you get only a personal view

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am what I am and so's he. That's how you pick em.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Take me as I am or not at all"

This

. Although this attitude has become stronger as I’ve got older.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I'm changing nothing but of my meets, I expect them to bow to my every whim

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I can't physically change obviously. I would wear a particular item of clothing or outfit if it was something I already had. I expect our meets to want to please me, why wouldn't I want to please them.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"I'm changing nothing but of my meets, I expect them to bow to my every whim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing. If they dont like who I am then they are not worth my time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am who I am. Before a meet I will try to present myself in as positive a light as possible but I'm not changing who I am.

For example if I shave my beard it's because I want to not someone else's preference. In fact I am the type of person who often feels the need to go against other people's expectations just to feel good about myself.

Sex isn't that important that I would compromise who I am or my standards just to get my dick wet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I actually do like to ask what outfit they would like to see me in. I do not follow suggestions always but nice to pick together.

I would not change physical appearance. I do that for myself.

not for others. "
This is

. I had a friend and every day I picked one item of clothing for her. It was lovely.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

up a bit, right a bit...that's the spot

No! Why on earth would I meet someone if I don't like them the way they are??!?

And why would I want to meet someone who didn't like me the way I am?

There are plenty of people in the world, it's not too difficult to meet the ones where you have mutual attraction/friendship etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not changing. Would probably shave for a meet unless asked not to.

Essentially if you want to meet me then I presume I am 'ticking your boxes' but I wouldn't change just to get a meet or present myself differently.

Likewise if I likes the other person as they are presenting themselves why would I want them to change?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love me or don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love me or don't.

We need approval

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I actually do like to ask what outfit they would like to see me in. I do not follow suggestions always but nice to pick together.

I would not change physical appearance. I do that for myself.

not for others. This is

. I had a friend and every day I picked one item of clothing for her. It was lovely. "

It's nice to be involved in those little "rituals". Being part of someone's day, even if they are far. And caring too.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I won’t dress for others tastes. Take me or leave me

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I won’t dress for others tastes. Take me or leave me

I’ll take you

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Bedford

"I won’t dress for others tastes. Take me or leave me

I’ll take you

Can i have you both?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I won’t dress for others tastes. Take me or leave me

I’ll take you

Can i have you both?

g’wan then jump in the middle

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"I won’t dress for others tastes. Take me or leave me

I’ll take you

Can i have you both?

Are we back to threesomes?

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"I won’t dress for others tastes. Take me or leave me

I’ll take you

I’ve got Nora

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I wouldn't change myself and don't expect anyone else to change for me ... this said I might decide not meet because of a personal preference of mine

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Bedford

"I won’t dress for others tastes. Take me or leave me

I’ll take you

Can i have you both?

Are we back to threesomes?

Id quite happily just watch.........

For the first 30 seconds.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I won’t dress for others tastes. Take me or leave me

I’ll take you

Can i have you both?

Are we back to threesomes?

Id quite happily just watch.........

For the first 30 seconds.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Bedford

"I won’t dress for others tastes. Take me or leave me

I’ll take you

Can i have you both?

g’wan then jump in the middle "

if i jumped in the middle of the bed you 2 may be bounced out of the window.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I actually do like to ask what outfit they would like to see me in. I do not follow suggestions always but nice to pick together.

I would not change physical appearance. I do that for myself.

not for others. This is

. I had a friend and every day I picked one item of clothing for her. It was lovely.

It's nice to be involved in those little "rituals". Being part of someone's day, even if they are far. And caring too. "
exactly. It was very intimate in a non sexually intimate way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind having a wash, not picking my nose and trying not to fart.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I won’t dress for others tastes. Take me or leave me

Thats no problem......I like what you're wearing

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I got asked not to wear jeans once and a loud shirt , I did as I was told as she was lovely and I got to choose her outfit too

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