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By *aughty_Smooth_Operator OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Has anyone ever met through here the forums?

If so how many can say they have put your hands up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many yes, I have met loads and made some great friends.

I even live with one now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Raises hand*

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines


"Has anyone ever met through here the forums?

If so how many can say they have put your hands up."

I actually met my ex through the forums

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Yes I have

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

What Ivy said and her pillows are insanely comfortable, I slept well on them last night

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By *lwayshorny79Woman
over a year ago

Leicester

I have

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Yes plenty . Infact nowadays I tend to see forum people as opposed to non forum folk .

And made many great friends

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Yes.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yes

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By *oxy lady40Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater

No not yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I didn't.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We met through the forums...I seen C’s name on a forum post, liked her profile and pics - green arrowed her to make sure she wasn’t weird - realised she was and so that’s why I messaged. She confirmed her weirdness by replying and the rest is history

K

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Yes, you get a more rounded and complete idea of what the person is like by watching their interactions with other people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We met through the forums...I seen C’s name on a forum post, liked her profile and pics - green arrowed her to make sure she wasn’t weird - realised she was and so that’s why I messaged. She confirmed her weirdness by replying and the rest is history

K"

loving the story!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not yet no .... but who knows

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Haven't met but we are in a pandemic, have continued chatting on here or even took matters further numbers

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By *aughty_Smooth_Operator OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Many yes, I have met loads and made some great friends.

I even live with one now "

Wow really so some hope then

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Yep. My fiancé and quite a few friends. Even a couple of besties.

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By *BootyfulDayWoman
over a year ago


"We met through the forums...I seen C’s name on a forum post, liked her profile and pics - green arrowed her to make sure she wasn’t weird - realised she was and so that’s why I messaged. She confirmed her weirdness by replying and the rest is history

K"

Awww you guys hehe so cute

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"We met through the forums...I seen C’s name on a forum post, liked her profile and pics - green arrowed her to make sure she wasn’t weird - realised she was and so that’s why I messaged. She confirmed her weirdness by replying and the rest is history

K"

Congratulations you do look a lovely couple

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By *exy dee 69TV/TS
over a year ago

Manchester

I haven't as yet but would be nice if a group met in manchester or blkpool hotel and have a relaxing time soon as possible I don't drive so need to plan or maybe share a lift if you're interested text message me ps dressed up or male mode

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I used to meet loads from the forums but not anymore

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I went on to meet one chap through a forum thread

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"We met through the forums...I seen C’s name on a forum post, liked her profile and pics - green arrowed her to make sure she wasn’t weird - realised she was and so that’s why I messaged. She confirmed her weirdness by replying and the rest is history

K"

Awe love this, I’ve still to meet my weird person however have met some amazing people through forums some socially some for fun

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I met a regular FWB through the forums (he was local to me) and had a year and a bit of hot sex. It took a year prior to that of chatting to meet up mind, we were slow burners

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By *aughty_Smooth_Operator OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I used to meet loads from the forums but not anymore"

Why what put you off?

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By *aughty_Smooth_Operator OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I went on to meet one chap through a forum thread "

Really how did it go?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to meet loads from the forums but not anymore"

You break my heart Granny, you really do. Sighs*

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Met many at various social events.... All started with the Doris' and the pussy posse in Barnsley then chams, Manchester, London, Heathrow etc.

Met my now ex after chatting on the forum for a bit. We were together for almost 6 years.

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Amazing

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By *aughty_Smooth_Operator OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I met a regular FWB through the forums (he was local to me) and had a year and a bit of hot sex. It took a year prior to that of chatting to meet up mind, we were slow burners

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I guess if you manged to meet someone local its a bonus as you would normally search within a range in your area through messaging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By *aughty_Smooth_Operator OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Amazing "

Had a quick perve wow you look amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I used to meet loads from the forums but not anymore

Why what put you off?"

I just stopped going to clubs and parties and just decided to take a step back

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By *aughty_Smooth_Operator OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Nope "

Would you if you got speaking to a person?

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By *aughty_Smooth_Operator OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I used to meet loads from the forums but not anymore

Why what put you off?I just stopped going to clubs and parties and just decided to take a step back"

Would you meet again in the future?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I used to meet loads from the forums but not anymore

Why what put you off?I just stopped going to clubs and parties and just decided to take a step back

Would you meet again in the future?"

I really cant see it happening i just meet my regular friends now noone new

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Yep! Sadly they tend to live quite a distance away so meets are infrequent. Though I did meet someone through the forum who is only the next postcode which was a nice surprise.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I've met many women through fab in the past.

I'd say 90% came about through forum interaction. So much easier to connect with people as opposed to randomly messaging someone you might see on the site whom you might fancy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone ever met through here the forums?

If so how many can say they have put your hands up."

Not really,no...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First time on the forum a d been speaking to a gorgeous girl I can’t wait to meet up with, really looking forward to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met most of my meets through the forum last time I was here. And no complaints about any so for me worked well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope

Would you if you got speaking to a person?"

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I haven't really made any friends on here but I don't post/comment frequently on here!

I would if I became friends with someone and they wanted to!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope I haven't really made any friends on here but I don't post/comment frequently on here!

I would if I became friends with someone and they wanted to! "

Same here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No...but I joined during a pandemic.....bad timing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have previously met people from the forum.

NBVN x

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I met Jack my partner here in the forums.

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

Absolutely!

Made great friends from the forums and can't wait for MLS!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven't as yet but would be nice if a group met in manchester or blkpool hotel and have a relaxing time soon as possible I don't drive so need to plan or maybe share a lift if you're interested text message me ps dressed up or male mode "

Have a look out for parties and socials when the covid stuff dies down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met forum people. Some of them even still speak to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whats strange is i dont see people on the forums as potential meets.....I can't be the only one?

I treat forums and searches as separate

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By *ustfun1000Man
over a year ago

hanwell

Have met for a social from forums but that’s it so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve met a few forumites at socials, and I have plans to meet a few others, as friends soon

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I have yes, 1:2:1 meetings, clubs and socials

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Social wise loads

I tend to find my sexual meets in fab and introduce them to the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met 3 people via the forums. 2 are great friends and have been for quite a while with nothing physical involved.

I was warned off forumites in the beginning of my fab time being told to 'never fuck a forumite'

God job I take people as I find them and don't judge.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

Pretty well all the fab people I've ever met have been directly or indirectly through forum interactions. I suppose it's even possible that one day I might get to have sex with some of them...

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Yep!

I’ve met a past ex, lots of meets, friends and my fiancé through the forums

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

*hand raised*

For example: a “show me a face pic” thread introduced me to someone I had eventually had a short term relationship with. That person was someone I thought was 100% out of my league and lived too far away that I’d never meet her.

I was proven wrong about the distance

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By *aughty_Smooth_Operator OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I used to meet loads from the forums but not anymore

Why what put you off?I just stopped going to clubs and parties and just decided to take a step back

Would you meet again in the future?I really cant see it happening i just meet my regular friends now noone new"

If you have regular friends then true why would you want more.

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton


"Pretty well all the fab people I've ever met have been directly or indirectly through forum interactions. I suppose it's even possible that one day I might get to have sex with some of them..."

I met Poly through the forums, and after meeting her; I’ve never been in so much pain!!! And it was nothing sexual before you dirty minded so and so’s say anything haha

She waxed my back for charity

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Not yet as they all live too far away and since we have been on fab most of that time has been in lockdown.

Made some friends and hope too meet sometime in the future. Mostly for friendship though.

Kx

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By *aughty_Smooth_Operator OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Pretty well all the fab people I've ever met have been directly or indirectly through forum interactions. I suppose it's even possible that one day I might get to have sex with some of them...

I met Poly through the forums, and after meeting her; I’ve never been in so much pain!!! And it was nothing sexual before you dirty minded so and so’s say anything haha

She waxed my back for charity "

Ouch bet that was like 40 year old virgin

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Whats strange is i dont see people on the forums as potential meets.....I can't be the only one?

I treat forums and searches as separate "

No you're not. Several posters have posted previously about keeping things separate. It's understandable why some people do.

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By *aughty_Smooth_Operator OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Not yet as they all live too far away and since we have been on fab most of that time has been in lockdown.

Made some friends and hope too meet sometime in the future. Mostly for friendship though.

Kx"

Yes get to make some good friends through here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton


"Whats strange is i dont see people on the forums as potential meets.....I can't be the only one?

I treat forums and searches as separate

No you're not. Several posters have posted previously about keeping things separate. It's understandable why some people do."

I don’t understand that. Why wouldn’t you meet forumites? They’re still people. You get to see (read) their personalities, in fact, if anything, you get a good idea about them and about if they’re the type of person you’d like to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup. Met people from the Irish forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not yet but it’s early days and there’s a pandemic on. I’m hoping to back scuttle a few in time.

I’m such a romantic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope I haven't really made any friends on here but I don't post/comment frequently on here!

I would if I became friends with someone and they wanted to! "

Those lips

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We have met Stubbsy and IDreamOfGenie because of our chats which started on the forums. Hopefully it won't stop there.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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No you're not. Several posters have posted previously about keeping things separate. It's understandable why some people do.

I don’t understand that. Why wouldn’t you meet forumites? They’re still people. You get to see (read) their personalities, in fact, if anything, you get a good idea about them and about if they’re the type of person you’d like to meet. "

The drama, avoiding becoming one on a bed notch, wanting to keep things relatively private (although that's possible-ish to do on here), keeping things simple in case it turns sour etc. There are lots of reasons. Sometimes people don't find forum users attractive. Preference.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Whats strange is i dont see people on the forums as potential meets.....I can't be the only one?

I treat forums and searches as separate

No you're not. Several posters have posted previously about keeping things separate. It's understandable why some people do.

I don’t understand that. Why wouldn’t you meet forumites? They’re still people. You get to see (read) their personalities, in fact, if anything, you get a good idea about them and about if they’re the type of person you’d like to meet. "

If you’ve met forumites you would get it

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

I joined the forums in lockdown so none as yet, as soon as we can I will meet those I've spoken to on here and would like to meet, distance/time allowing x

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By *aughty_Smooth_Operator OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Whats strange is i dont see people on the forums as potential meets.....I can't be the only one?

I treat forums and searches as separate

No you're not. Several posters have posted previously about keeping things separate. It's understandable why some people do.

I don’t understand that. Why wouldn’t you meet forumites? They’re still people. You get to see (read) their personalities, in fact, if anything, you get a good idea about them and about if they’re the type of person you’d like to meet. "

Yes I agree you get to build a better personality of some on the forums and know what the person is like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whats strange is i dont see people on the forums as potential meets.....I can't be the only one?

I treat forums and searches as separate

No you're not. Several posters have posted previously about keeping things separate. It's understandable why some people do.

I don’t understand that. Why wouldn’t you meet forumites? They’re still people. You get to see (read) their personalities, in fact, if anything, you get a good idea about them and about if they’re the type of person you’d like to meet. "

I think with searches its what im looking for physically then personality....I have a friend on the forums...unfortunately we are too far away to meet and thats disappointing but I get your point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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No you're not. Several posters have posted previously about keeping things separate. It's understandable why some people do.

I don’t understand that. Why wouldn’t you meet forumites? They’re still people. You get to see (read) their personalities, in fact, if anything, you get a good idea about them and about if they’re the type of person you’d like to meet.

The drama, avoiding becoming one on a bed notch, wanting to keep things relatively private (although that's possible-ish to do on here), keeping things simple in case it turns sour etc. There are lots of reasons. Sometimes people don't find forum users attractive.

Preference. "

BINGO!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not yet no, I only discovered the forums during lockdown. I would happily meet many people from here though, for a social anyway.

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By *aughty_Smooth_Operator OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Nope I haven't really made any friends on here but I don't post/comment frequently on here!

I would if I became friends with someone and they wanted to!

Same here."

We can be friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not as yet but I truly hope to sometime

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By *aughty_Smooth_Operator OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Not as yet but I truly hope to sometime "

Yep me to as far to many fakes in general local search

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Many of my meets have come from chatting to others in the forums.

I've pretty much given up on trying to talk to local people direct.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t say who’s fake and who isn’t cause I’ve not been conned lol

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By *uddly GoblinMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Not yet but hope to change that

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Yes in and out of the forums, 1-2-1 and socials mixture of just friends and more.

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By *athan 123Man
over a year ago

rochdale oldham border

Hand raised

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

Yes. Ended up in a relationship with a chap. Didnt end well

However I did also meet a very good mate thru the forum. Not for naughty fun but my point is that's even better in some ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. And not had one from the site either

Not expecting one either

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton


"Whats strange is i dont see people on the forums as potential meets.....I can't be the only one?

I treat forums and searches as separate

No you're not. Several posters have posted previously about keeping things separate. It's understandable why some people do.

I don’t understand that. Why wouldn’t you meet forumites? They’re still people. You get to see (read) their personalities, in fact, if anything, you get a good idea about them and about if they’re the type of person you’d like to meet.

If you’ve met forumites you would get it "

I have. Multiple

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
over a year ago

Epsom

On our friends list just waiting for the green

Bx

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials


"Has anyone ever met through here the forums?

If so how many can say they have put your hands up."

We met through the forums (now married) & have met lots of other people too

J x

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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No you're not. Several posters have posted previously about keeping things separate. It's understandable why some people do.

I don’t understand that. Why wouldn’t you meet forumites? They’re still people. You get to see (read) their personalities, in fact, if anything, you get a good idea about them and about if they’re the type of person you’d like to meet.

The drama, avoiding becoming one on a bed notch, wanting to keep things relatively private (although that's possible-ish to do on here), keeping things simple in case it turns sour etc. There are lots of reasons. Sometimes people don't find forum users attractive. Preference. "

Meli is right

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Any forumites want a shag?

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Yes I've met People who I got to know through the forum's and some have become really good friends both on and off fab.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"Any forumites want a shag? "

F&B does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes a few times

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"Any forumites want a shag?

F&B does "

Only if he shaves his hole

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"Any forumites want a shag?

F&B does

Only if he shaves his hole "

It was shaved last time I looked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope I haven't really made any friends on here but I don't post/comment frequently on here!

I would if I became friends with someone and they wanted to!

Same here."

Not met anyone yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I'd be put off meeting someone from the forums for a physical thing, but I'd need to find them attractive and I'd also need to know they can be discreet and not end up blabbing it all over the forums lol

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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" Meli is right "
Nuff said.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Raising my hand here; I’ve met one solo female and one couple as a result of forum interaction

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


" Meli is right Nuff said."

As much as I hate to admit it she is right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whats strange is i dont see people on the forums as potential meets.....I can't be the only one?

I treat forums and searches as separate

No you're not. Several posters have posted previously about keeping things separate. It's understandable why some people do.

I don’t understand that. Why wouldn’t you meet forumites? They’re still people. You get to see (read) their personalities, in fact, if anything, you get a good idea about them and about if they’re the type of person you’d like to meet.

If you’ve met forumites you would get it "

What does this even mean? We’re all different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think I'd be put off meeting someone from the forums for a physical thing, but I'd need to find them attractive and I'd also need to know they can be discreet and not end up blabbing it all over the forums lol"

Hello there

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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" Meli is right Nuff said."

Tis true

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"Any forumites want a shag?

F&B does

Only if he shaves his hole

It was shaved last time I looked "

OK I’ll bum him then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any forumites want a shag?

F&B does

Only if he shaves his hole

It was shaved last time I licked "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I've met lots of forumites for socials and a handful for play meets. My ex and I met through a dating thread over 5 years ago. I prefer to meet people through the forum because I get a better feel for who they are by observing them interact on here.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"I don't think I'd be put off meeting someone from the forums for a physical thing, but I'd need to find them attractive and I'd also need to know they can be discreet and not end up blabbing it all over the forums lol"

It’s not generally on the forum where it’s blabbed but it does get around unfortunately - it’s a small pool. If you don’t mind then it’s not an issue but if you’re like me and do mind, then keeping the mucky stuff away from the forums is a good idea

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"Any forumites want a shag?

F&B does

Only if he shaves his hole

It was shaved last time I looked

OK I’ll bum him then "

Can I watch?

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"Any forumites want a shag?

F&B does

Only if he shaves his hole

It was shaved last time I licked

"

Oi

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"Any forumites want a shag?

F&B does

Only if he shaves his hole

It was shaved last time I looked

OK I’ll bum him then

Can I watch? "

Only if you don’t tell anyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have and wouldn't rule it out in the future

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"Any forumites want a shag?

F&B does

Only if he shaves his hole

It was shaved last time I looked

OK I’ll bum him then

Can I watch?

Only if you don’t tell anyone else "

Your secrets are always safe on the forums

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Not yet but working on it 4 the future x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone ever met through here the forums?

If so how many can say they have put your hands up."

Yup, met many lovely people at various group socials over the years.

Made some terrific friends and even had some very fulfilling sexual encounters.

I’m looking forward to the next group social planned for December and meeting more great friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is a myth, most forumites are fakes or professionals

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

It’s never happened to me. I don’t think I’m professional enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s never happened to me. I don’t think I’m professional enough "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is a myth, most forumites are fakes or professionals"

I have a double for the nude threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is a myth, most forumites are fakes or professionals"

Most forumites eat cakes.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"It is a myth, most forumites are fakes or professionals

Most forumites eat cakes."

It’s true

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Yes I have and would do again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Not something I'm keen to repeat.

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By *ear in the chairMan
over a year ago

yeah there

Best and most ongoing meets have been with a forumite or two. Mostly they can at least hold a conversation between bouts of frantic sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think I'd be put off meeting someone from the forums for a physical thing, but I'd need to find them attractive and I'd also need to know they can be discreet and not end up blabbing it all over the forums lol

It’s not generally on the forum where it’s blabbed but it does get around unfortunately - it’s a small pool. If you don’t mind then it’s not an issue but if you’re like me and do mind, then keeping the mucky stuff away from the forums is a good idea "

Interesting, thanks for the tip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve been to forum socials and had socials as a result of the forums. Never actually had a full meet though

J

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By *evilandTheBeastCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough and Bedford

Yes, we did. Devil liked how Beast was presenting himself on the forum (and liked his profile) and decided to message him. Long story short (almost not happened due to Devil's accident shortly after the initial message), we have been together for around 2.5 years now. Despite loss of mobility, wheelchair, then crutches. Beast is a very good PT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I've met a few on the forums..Great bunch on here. Hopefully meeting a few more too

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I’ve met loads......

Shagged a few.......

And made some brilliant friends

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport


"Whats strange is i dont see people on the forums as potential meets.....I can't be the only one?

I treat forums and searches as separate

No you're not. Several posters have posted previously about keeping things separate. It's understandable why some people do.

I don’t understand that. Why wouldn’t you meet forumites? They’re still people. You get to see (read) their personalities, in fact, if anything, you get a good idea about them and about if they’re the type of person you’d like to meet.

If you’ve met forumites you would get it "

What’s that’s spose to mean?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Raises hand*"

Me too.

Met him, he's dreamy

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

I might have

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Forum socials are a great way to meet your fellow forumites and then some hook up later on

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"It is a myth, most forumites are fakes or professionals"

Some are even foreign

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"I don't think I'd be put off meeting someone from the forums for a physical thing, but I'd need to find them attractive and I'd also need to know they can be discreet and not end up blabbing it all over the forums lol"

Thats the risk you take with them unfortunately, the green eyes also come out when said person starts flirting with a new person as well, that goes for men and women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Forum socials are a great way to meet your fellow forumites and then some hook up later on "

There's a few regular contributors I would like to meet in person for sure

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

I'm not really friends with forum posters so no. My friends tend to be no forum people.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I have.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

I’ve never slept with anyone from the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is a myth, most forumites are fakes or professionals"

I'm a professional faker, master blagger and blatant bum burgler

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of mine apart from 2, maybe 3...

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I've met people from the forum, some are my closest friends now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think I'd be put off meeting someone from the forums for a physical thing, but I'd need to find them attractive and I'd also need to know they can be discreet and not end up blabbing it all over the forums lol

Thats the risk you take with them unfortunately, the green eyes also come out when said person starts flirting with a new person as well, that goes for men and women "

It's funny how jealous people get given its a swinging site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my ex through the forum and have met some lovely people including 3 lounge socials. It's just so lovely saying hello in person after seeing everyone post for so long

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By *aughty_Smooth_Operator OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Yep. Not something I'm keen to repeat. "

Why was it a bad experience for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met someone who's on the forums, but not on the forums. Confused, you will be ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Met someone who's on the forums, but not on the forums. Confused, you will be ..."

The comments you regret reading middle of the night. #eyerub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Met someone who's on the forums, but not on the forums. Confused, you will be ..."

Thank you Yoda

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think I'd be put off meeting someone from the forums for a physical thing, but I'd need to find them attractive and I'd also need to know they can be discreet and not end up blabbing it all over the forums lol

Thats the risk you take with them unfortunately, the green eyes also come out when said person starts flirting with a new person as well, that goes for men and women

It's funny how jealous people get given its a swinging site "

You’d think so but it could be because the relationship has to be established first. I have no experience of this but from what I’ve observed, the connection has to be firm first, the relationship established and trust built. Then swinging would be at its best when you know what the boundaries are between both of you.

Otherwise, it would be a FWB, NSA, One night stand, whatever other acronyms and names there are for a ‘casual’ intimate playmate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have not met though forum yet, but I am keen to do that. Get a better picture of the social skills of the person which will definitely compliment the rest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not through lack of offers I imagine

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By *harisajidanWoman
over a year ago

london

I feel like forumites are certainly the type I’d enjoy having a lunch or dinner party with. They know at least how to keep an interesting conversation going.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are Meets????

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By *ornado69Man
over a year ago

Swindon

I have met a few single ladies and couples through forums. Its nice to see how each reacts to discussions and i get an idea of how we will get on in person prior to meeting. I still hope to meet that special lady on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I do like putting names to faces at the organised socials. That’s always fun

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I do like putting names to faces at the organised socials. That’s always fun "

Or faces to boobs

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"I do like putting names to faces at the organised socials. That’s always fun

Or faces to boobs "

I inspected closely and yours matched

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I do like putting names to faces at the organised socials. That’s always fun

Or faces to boobs

I inspected closely and yours matched "

Haha yay I have genuine unphotoshopped boobs! Babs can confirm

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"I do like putting names to faces at the organised socials. That’s always fun

Or faces to boobs

I inspected closely and yours matched

Haha yay I have genuine unphotoshopped boobs! Babs can confirm "

I can, but I’m willing to check again if required

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I do like putting names to faces at the organised socials. That’s always fun

Or faces to boobs "

Faces into boobs?

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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back


"I do like putting names to faces at the organised socials. That’s always fun

Or faces to boobs

I inspected closely and yours matched

Haha yay I have genuine unphotoshopped boobs! Babs can confirm "

I'll confirm your unphotoshopped arse if you like not Nora from the cross of course

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"I do like putting names to faces at the organised socials. That’s always fun

Or faces to boobs

Faces into boobs? "

My face was in her boobs

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I’ve met quite a few people from the forums. Some at a group social and some for naked frolicking.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I do like putting names to faces at the organised socials. That’s always fun

Or faces to boobs

Faces into boobs?

My face was in her boobs "

Standard fab greetings

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Yes, I have. Only one, but would love to meet another!

Is that greedy?!!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I do like putting names to faces at the organised socials. That’s always fun

Or faces to boobs

I inspected closely and yours matched

Haha yay I have genuine unphotoshopped boobs! Babs can confirm

I'll confirm your unphotoshopped arse if you like not Nora from the cross of course "

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Yes, I have. Only one, but would love to meet another!

Is that greedy?!! "

Yes. And foolish. Don't meet more than one person from the forums, we're all alike and rather dull.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met Meli in a crowded room

She’d got there on a straw bristled broom

She sat me down and so began

The story of her love for Edam

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