FabSwingers.com forum: Intelligence

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I find extremely attractive and sexy....

Could you fuck someone that had brains over looks?

Asking as I met someone a while ago for a social. Wasn't really my type in the looks department, but I was so fascinated by his knowledge and intelligence that he really did it for me...Turned me on massively...

Any similar experiences.? Could you or have you?

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By *alty surpriseMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

Definitely agree, intelligence can be so alluring, so enticing.. To be in awe of someone's words and thoughts can be very sexual...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The brain is the biggest erogenous zone, even before twilight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The brain is the biggest erogenous zone, even before twilight "

That

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Entice a woman’s mind and the rest will follow

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By *all me FlikWoman
over a year ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

Intelligence and imagination for me every time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The brain is the biggest erogenous zone, even before twilight "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the car she drives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course. Intelligence and personality can add to (and detract from) attractiveness of a person.

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By *elpful and caringMan
over a year ago

Scarborough

This sounds like me.

I am highly intelligent and I have certification by way of proof. Also being in my 50’s has given me a long time to hone my common sense and conversational technique.

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

Definitely not, If I don't fancy him I friend zone him, there has to be sexual attraction to him

Stephen Hawkins has an amazing brain, am I attracted to him no.

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

I like intelligence in a woman, always have. To turn your thread around, I would find a very attractive lady that lacked intelligence, someone that I could tolerate for very long.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depends on the car she drives "

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Audi A5 convertible..sorry to disappointed you

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

"I like intelligence in a woman, always have. To turn your thread around, I would find a very attractive lady that lacked intelligence, someone that I could tolerate for very long. "

*Couldn't! Must proof read.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I don't really have a specific 'type' I go for anyway but I'm definitely attracted to the way the mind works. Physical attraction isn't really a thing for me so if they can get inside my mind they win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely not, If I don't fancy him I friend zone him, there has to be sexual attraction to him

Stephen Hawkins has an amazing brain, am I attracted to him no."

Can’t stand the phrase ‘Friend zone’ its a toxic concept.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Intelligence used in the right way can be attractive. Use it for good and not for evil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely not, If I don't fancy him I friend zone him, there has to be sexual attraction to him

Stephen Hawkins has an amazing brain, am I attracted to him no."

This says what I was thinking but quicker and more efficiently. When reading it add an Irish accent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Limited experience but intelligence is definitely a turn-on.

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

Both mental and physical attraction are important. Although I don't have a 'specific type', it is important to have that over all package.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I try not to stick my wick in stupid

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I’m very attracted to intelligence, huge turn on for me - providing arrogance isn’t added to the mixture. Looks have never been important to me anyways, intelligence would always top trump

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

I like intelligence as long as it doesn't turn into arrogance,

Ps on a lighthearted note I find the more intelligent someone is the less common sense they have.

A doctor friend bought a new car and rang me to come and rescue her two times in one day.

A, couldn't work out where the "key" went (it was a push button start)

B, dam car kept breaking down(stop/start)

Still tease her about it now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well a lack of intelligence is definitely a turn off so....

True story. An ex once said to me once "If trees were made of wood, and if fences were made of wood, then when you put a fence in the garden, why doesn't it turn into a tree?"

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Given that "intelligence" is an inherently classist and ableist construct, I can definitely feel attraction to people less "intelligent" than I am.

I hope people more "intelligent" than I am will treat me in the same manner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm from a poverty background. I'm intelligent. How is it classist?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like intelligence as long as it doesn't turn into arrogance,

Ps on a lighthearted note I find the more intelligent someone is the less common sense they have.

A doctor friend bought a new car and rang me to come and rescue her two times in one day.

A, couldn't work out where the "key" went (it was a push button start)

B, dam car kept breaking down(stop/start)

Still tease her about it now

Haha...love it! Probably me that

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I fell in love with my partner because of his intelligence and personality. His looks where irrelivant which is rich coming from me as 8m not the sharpest knife in the draw. But they say opposites attract

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Irrelevant to me, i like aspects of intelligence as much as slightly dizzy women, ive experienced sometimes with high intelligence comes lack of commonsense which is a bug bearer of mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Given that "intelligence" is an inherently classist and ableist construct, I can definitely feel attraction to people less "intelligent" than I am.

I hope people more "intelligent" than I am will treat me in the same manner. "

HOUSE!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many years ago, I met a woman who was an actual rocket scientist - she was effortlessly sexy to me - so intelligent, kind and funny

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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago

Solihull and Brentwood

Lilleth, Frasier's other half in Cheers, had lots of intelligence and was imho, seriously attractive. But, she was lacking in the humour dept. So imho, need a bit of humour as well as intelligence, for me at least.

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By *agertha73Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Personality counts, a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely not, If I don't fancy him I friend zone him, there has to be sexual attraction to him

Stephen Hawkins has an amazing brain, am I attracted to him no."

He's also been dead for three years so there's that

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

It’s one of a few pointers for me along with looks and personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely this is a case of we're all "wired" differently? Intelligence can certainly be part of the mix, and different people identify intelligence differently. There's personality too for me. Just because someone's a Nobel laureate wouldn't float my boat alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personality counts, a lot."

If the personality not there and there’s not a click as they say only my opinion of course intellectual is good a strong character and knows what she wants I’m a bit of dreamer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can be equally a turn on and a turn off, especially when someone is trying to show off how smart they are! Does my head in and find it so unattractive.

But nope need to have physical attraction.

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

I think it definitely adds to the mix but most need some physical attraction too! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I met a chap who, in person just didn't do it for me physically and I'd decided that it wouldn't go any further than a social, but as we chatted about his hobby he spoke with such knowledge and passion that I changed my mind!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No, I couldn't. I find intelligence very attractive but not sexually attractive

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

If I did I'd fancy Mary Beard like mad

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

Over looks? No, physical attraction is key for me. I like to be able to talk to people about a variety of subjects, so if they're below a certain level of emotional and/or academic intelligence then we're going to struggle, which would put me off. And if they have no sense of humour then it's a definite no...I'm not compatible with "serious" people in any walk of life, they get irritated by me making jokes about everything

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I know that I find intelligence attractive, I also find emotional intelligence attractive and self awareness attractive. I still need physical attraction though.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I know that I find intelligence attractive, I also find emotional intelligence attractive and self awareness attractive. I still need physical attraction though. "

Yep. Agreed. I want it all

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

For me its the ultimate turn on - hence the sapiosexual. There are possibly limits to it though if I'm being honest.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"I know that I find intelligence attractive, I also find emotional intelligence attractive and self awareness attractive. I still need physical attraction though. "

Those are all plus points Tea but rarely do they all manifest in one person. Emotional intelligence is an attribute so many cannot get the grips with. It really can be a destroyer

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

I once met a bloke who looked like the hunchback of notre dame with boils.....

I didn't know if I could go through with it but once he recited the entire works of Shakespeare, explained the offside rule , then cried when he saw a new born deer , I fucked him there and then!

Tesco manager threw us out. All fucking brawn and no empathy Tesco managers.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I don’t look at theirs brains when I’m balls deep up them

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I know that I find intelligence attractive, I also find emotional intelligence attractive and self awareness attractive. I still need physical attraction though.

Those are all plus points Tea but rarely do they all manifest in one person. Emotional intelligence is an attribute so many cannot get the grips with. It really can be a destroyer "

That’s probably why I didn’t meet lots and take time to get to know people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find, if I'm attracted to someone physically, that a lack of personality, intelligence and sense of humour will likely put me off.

But ultimately, if I don't find them attractive physically, they're more likely to be someone I want as a friend! A great personality wouldn't make me sleep with someone unless I fancied them too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I once met a bloke who looked like the hunchback of notre dame with boils.....

I didn't know if I could go through with it but once he recited the entire works of Shakespeare, explained the offside rule , then cried when he saw a new born deer , I fucked him there and then!

Tesco manager threw us out. All fucking brawn and no empathy Tesco managers. "

Hahahahahahahaha oh mio Dio! Just spat my tea out laughing! Brilliant!

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