FabSwingers.com forum: Do women find it sexy when a man does housework

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am curious to know does a woman find it sexy for a man to do housework??

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I live on my own so I have to do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes especially when he is wearing stockings and has queens I want to break free playing while he’s hoovering

lol

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Depends how they are doing it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes especially when he is wearing stockings and has queens I want to break free playing while he’s hoovering

lol"

Lol good old queen

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depends how they are doing it

Stark naked lol or fully clothed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a man that can cook x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like a man that can cook x "

A man who has the whole package, cooking cleaning and putting a wash on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I get twitchy when they miss a bit so i'd rather do it myself

Now if they're good at DIY or cooking that's a different story

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No. I get twitchy when they miss a bit so i'd rather do it myself

Now if they're good at DIY or cooking that's a different story"

So it's in the balance of DIY and cooking, not shrinking the washing because if the wrong setting lol ????

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

No. Do men find it sexy when a woman does?

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

Ah yes... choreplay.

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
over a year ago

south coast IOW

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
over a year ago

south coast IOW

No it’s just being a decent human. Why wouldn’t a man do cleaning? Or a woman ? If your part of the household you contribute however you can surely.

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

The only man who does housework in my house is my son and it would be wrong if I found that sexy.

Does anyone want to come and give it try at mine and I'll let you know if its sexy when you've finished?

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

Is there anything at all in life that some bloke won't try and fetisise??

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"The only man who does housework in my house is my son and it would be wrong if I found that sexy.

Does anyone want to come and give it try at mine and I'll let you know if its sexy when you've finished? "

Well played!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like today cleaned up did the shopping at Lidl of coarse mowed back garden jet washed patio took dog walk might even get time cook chicken wraps salad maybe can cider then relaxing shower

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

"No. Do men find it sexy when a woman does?"

Depends on whether they miss the skirting boards or not

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Sexy? No.

Although I will appreciate it if it's being done properly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sexy? No.

Although I will appreciate it if it's being done properly."

properly ...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"No. Do men find it sexy when a woman does?

Depends on whether they miss the skirting boards or not

Damn! That's where I've been going wrong

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Sexy? No.

Although I will appreciate it if it's being done properly.

properly ... "

Can't be doing with needing to redo it afterwards.... damn slackers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sexy but appreciate it. Thoughtfulness and consideration traits make someone more attractive though

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I would gladly enjoy watching that

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No. It's called being an adult.

Do you find it sexy when people can wipe their arses or tie their shoelaces?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sexy? No.

Although I will appreciate it if it's being done properly.

properly ...

Can't be doing with needing to redo it afterwards.... damn slackers

Pmsl

.. pure jokes

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Its more that its unsexy when they don't help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends. Is he cleaning out her attic, polishing his OSCAR, washing his car in a wet t-shirt?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"Yes especially when he is wearing stockings and has queens I want to break free playing while he’s hoovering

lol"
I always sing this when I hoover

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By *onkyLemonsCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Sitting down and staring at a peachy bum while they’re doing the dishes or hoovering ... theres worse things

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

More endearing than sexy. I recently had my laundry done by a man...it's the first time in my life that anyone has ever folded my knickers

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I don’t find it sexy, but I do find men who refuse to do it or deliberately do it badly extremely unsexy. There are few passion killers bigger than having to act like your partner’s mother.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"No it’s just being a decent human. Why wouldn’t a man do cleaning? Or a woman ? If your part of the household you contribute however you can surely. "

This.

I hate it when people expect ‘rewards’ for doing what is a normal part of living. There’s no quid pro quo for things that need to be done

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Only if he's just in a pinny...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done men on cleaning up after yourselves

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"No it’s just being a decent human. Why wouldn’t a man do cleaning? Or a woman ? If your part of the household you contribute however you can surely.

This.

I hate it when people expect ‘rewards’ for doing what is a normal part of living. There’s no quid pro quo for things that need to be done"

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Not sexy all. Why would it be?

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I’m sure this isn’t the manner in which the thread was meant but it puts me in mind of when guys expect sex for being ‘nice’.

If you’re expecting sex because you treat a person like a human being, then I’ve got news for you; you’re not nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sexy all. Why would it be?"

Cause like he’s doing something he feels is slightly beneath him

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I expect some of this attitude stems from the times men complain that their partners have gone off sex and people ask them if they "help" with the housework.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I expect some of this attitude stems from the times men complain that their partners have gone off sex and people ask them if they "help" with the housework. "

I read an interesting article recently about ‘the mental load’ that quite a few guys could do with looking at

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Men should b able 2 cook .clean and do domestic choirs .all this bullshit its a women's job makes me angry ..x

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"Men should b able 2 cook .clean and do domestic choirs .all this bullshit its a women's job makes me angry ..x "

Well said

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

I have to do it or I will be living in a shithole, only me and my child.

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

"Men should b able 2 cook .clean and do domestic choirs .all this bullshit its a women's job makes me angry ..x "
I do everything and have not heard it was womens work since the 1980's.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham, North Yorkshire and can travel

No idea. It's been a heck of a lot of years since I've seen a man doing housework.

Mrs

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Actually like doing the dishes with Radio 5 on in the background. Dusting, ironing and washing machine also fine. I can make quite a decent meal in fact I can do that palm thing with steak.

But I hate hoovering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

I find it sexy if a guy stops whatever hes doing, to play or fuck.

Think the whole, "your sexy when you do the dishes" thing. Is just said, if you're just not pulling your weight with the housework.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"I expect some of this attitude stems from the times men complain that their partners have gone off sex and people ask them if they "help" with the housework. "

Probably, but if so it’s kind of looking at it from the wrong angle and thinking sex should be their reward for “helping”. When what it is actually is if the woman is a) exhausted from doing everything and b) sick of being a substitute mother, she isn’t going to want sex. Or not with the partner that puts all the burden on her, anyway.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I expect some of this attitude stems from the times men complain that their partners have gone off sex and people ask them if they "help" with the housework.

Yes it is.

I think it's a cliche that needs addressing partly because it is often true but also because it often dismisses as his fault, a man's concerns about his partner's loss of libido.

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By *lint-EverhardMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

There's nothing sexy about emptying the trap from the shower and under the kitchen sink

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By *lint-EverhardMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

Oh and ironing with a stiffy is very very dangerous.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"I expect some of this attitude stems from the times men complain that their partners have gone off sex and people ask them if they "help" with the housework.

I read an interesting article recently about ‘the mental load’ that quite a few guys could do with looking at "

Thanks for sharing that. It made me exhausted just to read the comic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men and housework what are these tales you speak of?

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I have my daughter living with me and never seem to stop. I love cooking for us but tidying up,,washing bedding , washing , drying and ironing clothes, hovering, cleaning bathrooms , it’s just endless.

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
over a year ago

south coast IOW

"No it’s just being a decent human. Why wouldn’t a man do cleaning? Or a woman ? If your part of the household you contribute however you can surely.

This.

I hate it when people expect ‘rewards’ for doing what is a normal part of living. There’s no quid pro quo for things that need to be done"

Totally agree. X

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Not really. It's attractive when they cook a nice meal for me though but that's more about the thought and effort of doing something nice for me. Plus good cooking is a skill.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’d have to ask Lu. I can’t imagine my obsession with cleaning and the pile on the rug having to be fluffed up sexy at all. But I’m sure women do find it appealing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is sexy/attractive is a man who can and does sometimes just put out the stops to look after you be that helping around the house or just cuddling you when he knows you’re having a shit day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, but the attraction would die if a man I lived with didn't do his fair share of the chores.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldnt know.

Single pringle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, if he’s living in the same house he should do his share x

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By *aughty_tonyMan
over a year ago

King's Lynn

If they do then I'm sexy AF today, having done the housework, some washing and cooked and froozen meals for the coming week lol

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I find a man sexy when I come home to find he has cleaned the house (including bathrooms), done the ironing, hoovering, fixed the squeaky door has a delicious meal in the oven and a lovely hot bubble bath run for me though...... I do wonder how this stranger got in my house

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What’s sexy about it??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find a man sexy when I come home to find he has cleaned the house (including bathrooms), done the ironing, hoovering, fixed the squeaky door has a delicious meal in the oven and a lovely hot bubble bath run for me though...... I do wonder how this stranger got in my house

All of it but ironing.. I am not good at it and you left spare keys in the flowers pot...

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I wouldn’t say C finds it sexy if I do housework, but if it’s shared or I do it whilst she’s doing something else then it frees up more time so we spend it in bed more...

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

All of it but ironing.. I am not good at it and you left spare keys in the flowers pot... "

I will let you off with the ironing since you drove all the way from Lancaster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like a man that can cook x

A man who has the whole package, cooking cleaning and putting a wash on "

this is sexy , maybe not while in their joggies bleaching the bath (wouldn’t imagine thats sexy on a woman either) but a man that is a rounded package is definitely sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. Do men find it sexy when a woman does?"

If she wears this outfit Ive got....;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of it but ironing.. I am not good at it and you left spare keys in the flowers pot...

I will let you off with the ironing since you drove all the way from Lancaster "

You could it while I bake a Cadbury choc fondant pudding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sexy, but I do appreciate it. I live with my teenage son so I do it all...eye roll

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By *psidedown PineapplesCouple
over a year ago

Sussex

Depends what Mr Sm is wearing. Or, whoever else is our housemaid for the day...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am curious to know does a woman find it sexy for a man to do housework?? "

only if you wear a french maids outfit to do it

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