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"If I got butt hurt everytime I was passed over on a thread I'd never post again, it's all supposed to be fun, I don't let it get to me " I'm the same...I just post nonsense anyway | |||
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"If I got butt hurt everytime I was passed over on a thread I'd never post again, it's all supposed to be fun, I don't let it get to me " Yep. I've not been replied to on the OP's threads a few times, I just about manage to keep the tears in and carry on posting. (Sorry, one slipped out) | |||
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"I dont know about it being a popularity contest but there are quite a few groups of people that are very friendly with each other (that's a nice thing) but as a casual poster, I do find "joining in" a little apprehensive sometimes " I mingle in | |||
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"Without hurting your feelings Op, your popular, not in the shadows or wings as you claim, so the point of you starting thread is exactly what... gets my little over active mind ticking " I'm quite happy taking a back seat, I started this because of the comments coming out on the other thread and I just thought there was no need for them x | |||
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"How do you become popular lol" Show your bum hole | |||
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"Without hurting your feelings Op, your popular, not in the shadows or wings as you claim, so the point of you starting thread is exactly what... gets my little over active mind ticking I'm quite happy taking a back seat, I started this because of the comments coming out on the other thread and I just thought there was no need for them x" How often do you take a back seat?? | |||
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"How do you become popular lol" Don't know...ask one of the others lol | |||
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"How do you become popular lol Show your bum hole " You silly arse | |||
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"Without hurting your feelings Op, your popular, not in the shadows or wings as you claim, so the point of you starting thread is exactly what... gets my little over active mind ticking I'm quite happy taking a back seat, I started this because of the comments coming out on the other thread and I just thought there was no need for them x How often do you take a back seat?? " Ermmmm depends who's on it with me | |||
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"How do you become popular lol Show your bum hole " | |||
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"Without hurting your feelings Op, your popular, not in the shadows or wings as you claim, so the point of you starting thread is exactly what... gets my little over active mind ticking I'm quite happy taking a back seat, I started this because of the comments coming out on the other thread and I just thought there was no need for them x" Its a public forum anybody can post what they like on any thread they like, if that's how they felt ,then they have every right to speak there mind | |||
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"Without hurting your feelings Op, your popular, not in the shadows or wings as you claim, so the point of you starting thread is exactly what... gets my little over active mind ticking I'm quite happy taking a back seat, I started this because of the comments coming out on the other thread and I just thought there was no need for them x How often do you take a back seat?? Ermmmm depends who's on it with me " Touche I'll give you that one | |||
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"Without hurting your feelings Op, your popular, not in the shadows or wings as you claim, so the point of you starting thread is exactly what... gets my little over active mind ticking I'm quite happy taking a back seat, I started this because of the comments coming out on the other thread and I just thought there was no need for them x" What other thread? | |||
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"Without hurting your feelings Op, your popular, not in the shadows or wings as you claim, so the point of you starting thread is exactly what... gets my little over active mind ticking I'm quite happy taking a back seat, I started this because of the comments coming out on the other thread and I just thought there was no need for them x Its a public forum anybody can post what they like on any thread they like, if that's how they felt ,then they have every right to speak there mind " I know but to complain they are being overlooked is a bit dramatic... | |||
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"Without hurting your feelings Op, your popular, not in the shadows or wings as you claim, so the point of you starting thread is exactly what... gets my little over active mind ticking I'm quite happy taking a back seat, I started this because of the comments coming out on the other thread and I just thought there was no need for them x Its a public forum anybody can post what they like on any thread they like, if that's how they felt ,then they have every right to speak there mind I know but to complain they are being overlooked is a bit dramatic..." Dramatic or not Sparkle it's how they felt, your taking that away from them, minimising their feelings | |||
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"Without hurting your feelings Op, your popular, not in the shadows or wings as you claim, so the point of you starting thread is exactly what... gets my little over active mind ticking I'm quite happy taking a back seat, I started this because of the comments coming out on the other thread and I just thought there was no need for them x Its a public forum anybody can post what they like on any thread they like, if that's how they felt ,then they have every right to speak there mind I know but to complain they are being overlooked is a bit dramatic..." It's just how they felt at the time I guess! I don't think pointing it out in a separate thread was entirely needed or will help the way they feel. But that's just my opinion, don't come for me | |||
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"The forums are becoming more of a popularity thing for certain posters apparently with others being ignored...... Come on ladies and gents, we are all supposed to be adults...play nicely " If I don't get acknowledged then that's fine. I've done plenty of the threads where I get nothing back and then I have a good night where ill get a few replies. It's nice when you do but if you don't, it isn't going to ruin my evening. The forums are just that, forums. They don't know me, I don't know them and I try not to take it personally. The only ones who really know me are my friends and family. If they ignored me, I'd be mortified. Forums, not so much xxx | |||
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"The forums are becoming more of a popularity thing for certain posters apparently with others being ignored...... Come on ladies and gents, we are all supposed to be adults...play nicely " Sit on my face and I'll think about it! | |||
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"I've just noticed it's becoming a much more regular occurrence." From people who try to join in, but are really left in the wings, as let's have it right people are, ignored and passed over, that cannot be denied | |||
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"The forums have always been this way. It's natural. Why would people who are used to talking to each other ignore each other? It doesn't make sense. I say that as an outsider. If I stick around for a few months people might actually notice my contributions. It's hard to flirt with strangers. " | |||
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"I've just noticed it's becoming a much more regular occurrence. From people who try to join in, but are really left in the wings, as let's have it right people are, ignored and passed over, that cannot be denied " I'm not denying the fact that it happens because I know it does. | |||
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"The forums are becoming more of a popularity thing for certain posters apparently with others being ignored...... Come on ladies and gents, we are all supposed to be adults...play nicely Sit on my face and I'll think about it! " Be right there x | |||
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"Without hurting your feelings Op, your popular, not in the shadows or wings as you claim, so the point of you starting thread is exactly what... gets my little over active mind ticking I'm quite happy taking a back seat, I started this because of the comments coming out on the other thread and I just thought there was no need for them x Its a public forum anybody can post what they like on any thread they like, if that's how they felt ,then they have every right to speak there mind I know but to complain they are being overlooked is a bit dramatic..." Face it. Sometimes people do get over looked or drowned out. It happens. No one does it on purpose. I wouldn't say there are clicks here I think it's more a case of some people are louder and on a thread there can be so many conversations going on at once it can just be harder to be heard. Also tjere a few k know always reply to every person who comments, but I'm never bothered if they don't. Probably the 1thing that puts me off starting my own thread, having to reply to everyone lol But the great thing with threads is you could start your own...about anything you want to..so there is that | |||
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"I've just noticed it's becoming a much more regular occurrence." There are more comments about it, definitely. I’m a bit torn about whether I feel bad for them or whether they’re a bit butt hurt. To be honest, it’s easy to feel overlooked. I post a fair amount but of my comments, I’ll get reposted maybe a couple of times a day. Is that overlooked? Even in my flirting ooft threads I tend not to get messages. Ultimately it’s no ones job to talk and reply to every poster, some will endeavour to respond to most but no one is owed a reply just because they post their opinion or an ooft because they have pictures. People generally reply based on the merit of your input, if it has no merit, they don’t reply. Is that others fault? | |||
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"What’s occurring Oi oi " Oi oi apple pie | |||
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"Without hurting your feelings Op, your popular, not in the shadows or wings as you claim, so the point of you starting thread is exactly what... gets my little over active mind ticking I'm quite happy taking a back seat, I started this because of the comments coming out on the other thread and I just thought there was no need for them x Its a public forum anybody can post what they like on any thread they like, if that's how they felt ,then they have every right to speak there mind I know but to complain they are being overlooked is a bit dramatic... Face it. Sometimes people do get over looked or drowned out. It happens. No one does it on purpose. I wouldn't say there are clicks here I think it's more a case of some people are louder and on a thread there can be so many conversations going on at once it can just be harder to be heard. Also tjere a few k know always reply to every person who comments, but I'm never bothered if they don't. Probably the 1thing that puts me off starting my own thread, having to reply to everyone lol But the great thing with threads is you could start your own...about anything you want to..so there is that " I did this today, started a thread, and bowed straight out and let everyone one else just bash away at it | |||
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"Without hurting your feelings Op, your popular, not in the shadows or wings as you claim, so the point of you starting thread is exactly what... gets my little over active mind ticking I'm quite happy taking a back seat, I started this because of the comments coming out on the other thread and I just thought there was no need for them x Its a public forum anybody can post what they like on any thread they like, if that's how they felt ,then they have every right to speak there mind I know but to complain they are being overlooked is a bit dramatic... Face it. Sometimes people do get over looked or drowned out. It happens. No one does it on purpose. I wouldn't say there are clicks here I think it's more a case of some people are louder and on a thread there can be so many conversations going on at once it can just be harder to be heard. Also tjere a few k know always reply to every person who comments, but I'm never bothered if they don't. Probably the 1thing that puts me off starting my own thread, having to reply to everyone lol But the great thing with threads is you could start your own...about anything you want to..so there is that I did this today, started a thread, and bowed straight out and let everyone one else just bash away at it" Sometimes I feel like the OP can take over the whole thread....I like different opinions so will just let it flow | |||
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"Without hurting your feelings Op, your popular, not in the shadows or wings as you claim, so the point of you starting thread is exactly what... gets my little over active mind ticking I'm quite happy taking a back seat, I started this because of the comments coming out on the other thread and I just thought there was no need for them x Its a public forum anybody can post what they like on any thread they like, if that's how they felt ,then they have every right to speak there mind I know but to complain they are being overlooked is a bit dramatic..." Not when it is a recurrent theme from age old. It has been said hot years yet nothing changes. Maybe we all need to reflect a little on what we can do to make people's contribution to the fora values and validated. Kindness costs nothing after all | |||
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"The forums are becoming more of a popularity thing for certain posters apparently with others being ignored...... Come on ladies and gents, we are all supposed to be adults...play nicely " The sulking in that thread was off the hook. | |||
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"The forums are becoming more of a popularity thing for certain posters apparently with others being ignored...... Come on ladies and gents, we are all supposed to be adults...play nicely The sulking in that thread was off the hook. " It was, wasn't it | |||
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"The forums are becoming more of a popularity thing for certain posters apparently with others being ignored...... Come on ladies and gents, we are all supposed to be adults...play nicely The sulking in that thread was off the hook. It was, wasn't it" Said by 2 popular forum users, who are included in many many threads | |||
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"Without hurting your feelings Op, your popular, not in the shadows or wings as you claim, so the point of you starting thread is exactly what... gets my little over active mind ticking I'm quite happy taking a back seat, I started this because of the comments coming out on the other thread and I just thought there was no need for them x Its a public forum anybody can post what they like on any thread they like, if that's how they felt ,then they have every right to speak there mind I know but to complain they are being overlooked is a bit dramatic... Face it. Sometimes people do get over looked or drowned out. It happens. No one does it on purpose. I wouldn't say there are clicks here I think it's more a case of some people are louder and on a thread there can be so many conversations going on at once it can just be harder to be heard. Also tjere a few k know always reply to every person who comments, but I'm never bothered if they don't. Probably the 1thing that puts me off starting my own thread, having to reply to everyone lol But the great thing with threads is you could start your own...about anything you want to..so there is that I did this today, started a thread, and bowed straight out and let everyone one else just bash away at it Sometimes I feel like the OP can take over the whole thread....I like different opinions so will just let it flow " Thats it. Get a conversation going, not just a Q&A session with the op. | |||
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"The forums are becoming more of a popularity thing for certain posters apparently with others being ignored...... Come on ladies and gents, we are all supposed to be adults...play nicely The sulking in that thread was off the hook. It was, wasn't it" Perhaps whomever you are refering to that was upset could look at this post a now feel bullied. Perhaps they had a bad day or someother issue and now they could feel even worse. My eyes have been opened tonight. | |||
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"The forums are becoming more of a popularity thing for certain posters apparently with others being ignored...... Come on ladies and gents, we are all supposed to be adults...play nicely The sulking in that thread was off the hook. It was, wasn't it Said by 2 popular forum users, who are included in many many threads" I include myself in threads. I'll have a laugh with anyone but if I'm overlooked then so be it, it's not the be all and end all of things. | |||
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"The forums are becoming more of a popularity thing for certain posters apparently with others being ignored...... Come on ladies and gents, we are all supposed to be adults...play nicely The sulking in that thread was off the hook. It was, wasn't it Perhaps whomever you are refering to that was upset could look at this post a now feel bullied. Perhaps they had a bad day or someother issue and now they could feel even worse. My eyes have been opened tonight." To the levels of some ppls thought for others and their ability to show a fellow human being a modicum of love and compassion | |||
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