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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do I feel so old

Is 39 as a man to old

I was out shopping today I felt like I get treated differently

Do we we become over confident as we get older

Looking for people to chat please be around London

Hardly any London people on. This website

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

42.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

39 your still a pup

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

It’s not old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm sure you know many people older than you ... so why do you think 39 is too old?

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By *ocksareoffMan
over a year ago

Out n About

I hope not!

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Well it’s older than a 38 year old man

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley


"Why do I feel so old

Is 39 as a man to old

I was out shopping today I felt like I get treated differently

Do we we become over confident as we get older

Looking for people to chat please be around London

Hardly any London people on. This website

"

Wait until you're 40, 50, 60, 70....

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

To go on an 18 - 30's holiday then yes.

On here, for us, it's too young.

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By *he Vital SparkMan
over a year ago

Preston

I'm 47, but I feel 37. I look better now than I did 10 years ago. Don't get to downbeat, it takes 100 knockbacks to get 1 meet on here.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

As for "Hardly any London people on. This website"

Thats a reflection on their lack of social skills.

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By *9alMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

turning 40 can be a difficult time but you will get past it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To go on an 18 - 30's holiday then yes.

On here, for us, it's too young.

"

This year is my last to attend such holidays.. I missed the boat..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope not

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Jesus I must have one foot in the grave at nearly 64! X

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I don't believe it!

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

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"Why do I feel so old

Is 39 as a man to old

I was out shopping today I felt like I get treated differently

Do we we become over confident as we get older

Looking for people to chat please be around London

Hardly any London people on. This website

"

Overconfident?

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton


"Why do I feel so old

Is 39 as a man to old

I was out shopping today I felt like I get treated differently

Do we we become over confident as we get older

Looking for people to chat please be around London

Hardly any London people on. This website

"
. I am 53 and in North London.The last year due to lockdown like a lot of people I have had time to think and reflect and at 53 I have felt old.However all been well and we come out of lockdown in June I intend to be how I was before Covid19.I will attend London socials , OP4F and Rios and I even organised a FWB who is half hour drive away so lots to look forward too and even though I will still be 53 I wouldn’t feel old.

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

I'm 39. In my head I'm 19, my knees are 86 and my back went to school with a Stegosaurus.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Out shopping you felt like you got treated differently from who? From when?

Could it be that in shops people ARE treating all people differently due to the pandemic and how we now interact so it wasn't personal in the slightest, just a change of the world we now live in.

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By *lueeyedblonde78Woman
over a year ago

Huddersfield

39 isn't old at all I just think people's behaviour has changed due to the pandemic and are a lot more cautious of who they interact with xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too old for an 18-30's holiday, too young for a Saga cruise.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Jesus, makes me feel ancient

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

You should be in your prime at 39!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I went to the shopping center

Even older lady behind counter was looking at me as if I am worthless shit that London for you

Unless your black or have white eyes your dead to the world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do I feel so old

Is 39 as a man to old

I was out shopping today I felt like I get treated differently

Do we we become over confident as we get older

Looking for people to chat please be around London

Hardly any London people on. This website

"

Hardly any Londoners? you’re joking right?

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By *erDirtyRockstarMan
over a year ago

buckinghamshire

42 here. Btw it's not wuss to love Nivea as a dude. Keep moisturised and you will be forever fresh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ever heard the saying: I was the future once...

Unfortunately, it’s simply the nature of life. Focus on the good stuff rather than anything negative is my advice. At 39 you have both experience and plenty of good times ahead if you seize opportunities.

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london


"I went to the shopping center

Even older lady behind counter was looking at me as if I am worthless shit that London for you

Unless your black or have white eyes your dead to the world "

How did you deduced it was an age issue if you thought she was older and racist?

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"Why do I feel so old

Is 39 as a man to old

I was out shopping today I felt like I get treated differently

Do we we become over confident as we get older

Looking for people to chat please be around London

Hardly any London people on. This website

"

Sounds like persecution mania to me.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I went to the shopping center

Even older lady behind counter was looking at me as if I am worthless shit that London for you

Unless your black or have white eyes your dead to the world "

Quite a bold statement.

Also, what the fuck are white eyes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh gods I hope not, as I’m a only a year behind you!

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

Old?????? What the fuck!?

V x

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I don't think we get overconfident as we get older.

I think some people are just naturally aresholes who don't know how to behave appropriately and considerately.

I also think some people will be having a bad day. That person you just complained about for having a bad attitude (not you personally, you as in the collective) may have had the news broken to them whilst on a toilet break that they've just lost a loved one and are desperately trying to make it through their shift without losing control as they won't afford their rent if they leave early.

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands


"Why do I feel so old

Is 39 as a man to old

I was out shopping today I felt like I get treated differently

Do we we become over confident as we get older

Looking for people to chat please be around London

Hardly any London people on. This website

Wait until you're 40, 50, 60, 70...."

Or in my case 80.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if your starting a career in f1 it is.

dont worry, plenty of fitter 50s+ women on here and out there.

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By *he RingmasterMan
over a year ago

Canford Cliffs


"I went to the shopping center

Even older lady behind counter was looking at me as if I am worthless shit that London for you

Unless your black or have white eyes your dead to the world "

This is the second time you have bad mouthed London.

If you don't like it or the people then maybe you should consider moving somewhere where you think you'll be better received.

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By *nvisible_manMan
over a year ago

TWICKENHAM


"I went to the shopping center

Even older lady behind counter was looking at me as if I am worthless shit that London for you

Unless your black or have white eyes your dead to the world "

See this in tbe palm of my hand?

No?

Look closer

Now can you see it?

That's right - its a tiny violin and I'm playing it for you.

You've come her for sympathy and you've then gone to make a racist statement

Maybe where you're originally from - Iran is it? - you refer to the white eyes but here that doesn't sit well.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

If it’s for an 18-30’s holiday, then yes. For anything else; no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we always feel too old once we become adults.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I went to the shopping center

Even older lady behind counter was looking at me as if I am worthless shit that London for you

Unless your black or have white eyes your dead to the world "

White eyes?

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

It's not too old to get told off by your mum but it is too old to sit in the seat in the trolley.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not too old to get told off by your mum but it is too old to sit in the seat in the trolley. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

49 is going to be a real hoot for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do I feel so old

Is 39 as a man to old

I was out shopping today I felt like I get treated differently

Do we we become over confident as we get older

Looking for people to chat please be around London

Hardly any London people on. This website

"

Yeah sorry ya too old!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m 21........in my head until I bend over and my back reminds me that is the case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not too old to get told off by your mum but it is too old to sit in the seat in the trolley. "

Lol if he’s to old I should give up now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you still have your own hair and teeth fella crack on just be yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not too old to get told off by your mum but it is too old to sit in the seat in the trolley. "

Bugger I love the trolley seat

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By *-man24Man
over a year ago

northwest

Hell no 39 isn’t old I’m 43 and think I’m not old maybe I’m wrong isn’t it 60 is the new 50 and so on so if that’s the case your 29 and I’m 33 sounds good that lol

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By *ot-AshMan
over a year ago

London

I'm 50 now and still think I could play for West Ham if they needed a new striker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol... hardly anyone in London?? Ffs.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"It's not too old to get told off by your mum but it is too old to sit in the seat in the trolley.

Bugger I love the trolley seat "

Knock yourself out but I've prewarned the fire brigade. They've got their cutters on standby

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you everyone for your positive energy

My aplogis I had no intention to be racist

Mabyni should of said London is more challenging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's hope 39 is not too old

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am bubly 80s kid

I find this whole attitude of distening yourself a bit sily and cold people Should check themselfs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am bubly 80s kid

I find this whole attitude of distening yourself a bit sily and cold people Should check themselfs"

I’m an 80’s kid and don’t understand what you are talking about

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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City

You’re only as old as the woman you feel...but make sure she’s over 18

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By *ebedy_XMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"Why do I feel so old

Is 39 as a man to old

I was out shopping today I felt like I get treated differently

Do we we become over confident as we get older

Looking for people to chat please be around London

Hardly any London people on. This website

"

I'm 41 and I'm certainly not getting more confident with age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait until you hit your 50’s , I will hand you a rope !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wait until you hit your 50’s , I will hand you a rope ! "

You look amazing for that age

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Why do I feel so old

Is 39 as a man to old

I was out shopping today I felt like I get treated differently

Do we we become over confident as we get older

Looking for people to chat please be around London

Hardly any London people on. This website

"
sweet jezzus. Get a grip and less

of the look at me.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

You do get treated differently as you get older people become more respectful in some cases but often they begin to patronise you. I've found that some people great me as if I'm incapable. We test drove a fairly high powered car recently, when we got it back to the showroom the salesman was surprised to discover I'd driven it and said "well done!" as if he was talking to a child who'd just learned to ride a bike

I think 39 is young in the grand scheme of things though op.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

*treat me

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London

I dreaded turning 40, but have loved being in my 50s (so far)

As they say youth is wasted on the young

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dreaded turning 40, but have loved being in my 50s (so far)

As they say youth is wasted on the young "

I love that saying it makes lot sence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am bubly 80s kid

I find this whole attitude of distening yourself a bit sily and cold people Should check themselfs"

I think you are the one who needs to check yourself

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By *othboyMan
over a year ago

huntingdon

If its old I need my pention

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By *andSCouple
over a year ago

PDI for now

If 39 is too old, I must be a dinosaur.

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