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What's so wrong with a wink

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Whats is wrong with intiating a chat with a wink that says I am interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nothing at all wrong with a wink...

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

why not send a message instead?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Nothing wrong with winks, but if I get one from someone 200 miles away from me I am likely to delete it. Much better to send a message letting people know why you want to meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Starts the chat off surely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Starts the chat off surely"

only if they respond.... some people dont look at them or they may check you out and not be interested

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

i like winks when there is something on the profile for me to wink back at

dont understand people with no winks winking at me...

to me a wink is like that look across the bar when you see someone you like, testing the water to see f they like you back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Starts the chat off surely"

it doesn't really tho,does it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhhh... I just thought you had something in your eye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wink unless they ask not to..its a good opening tool to express a like for a profile...I dont think the site makers are idiots when they provide features on the site to help ppl meet up/chat whatever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have something to say, say it. To us a wink says - I can't be bothered to write anything but why don't you write to me. Hence once a month we just bulk delete them.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Starts the chat off surely

it doesn't really tho,does it?

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yep, i've had loads of chats with people who have winked me and i have winked them back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have something to say, say it. To us a wink says - I can't be bothered to write anything but why don't you write to me. Hence once a month we just bulk delete them."

Oh crikey ... Ignore mine

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By *ecretquestCouple
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Starts the chat off surely

it doesn't really tho,does it?

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In our case, yes it does, chatted with some fantastic members through a wink, become friends with quite a few and hope to meet with some very soon )

We love the wink saves lots of time, haven't got time to write individually to every member who took our eye, we would never have time for anything else,..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So if I winked at you would u wink back or ignore me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

deleting winks is no problem, but to assume its lazy(then a reflection on what the person will be like on a meet), well thats just nonsense-its a light hearted introduction of a look at me manner.

some people take everything so seriously sitewise, although i bet they are fucking amazing in bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just ignored a wink from someone on this thread lol...but thanks anyway lolol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So if I winked at you would u wink back or ignore me?"

I would..ur a guy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"deleting winks is no problem, but to assume its lazy(then a reflection on what the person will be like on a meet), well thats just nonsense-its a light hearted introduction of a look at me manner.

some people take everything so seriously sitewise, although i bet they are fucking amazing in bed"

Agreed

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I've just ignored a wink from someone on this thread lol...but thanks anyway lolol"

You can ignore mine to if you like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just ignored a wink from someone on this thread lol...but thanks anyway lolol

You can ignore mine to if you like. "

no i winked back...it was a sympathy wink though xxxx

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I've just ignored a wink from someone on this thread lol...but thanks anyway lolol

You can ignore mine to if you like.

no i winked back...it was a sympathy wink though xxxx"

Oooh, you know how to wound a girl.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Wink away all you like at me lol but just to say, I never and I do mean never check out who has winked at me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a load of winkers Sorry I'm bored

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

We encourage the use of winks. If we feel compatible and gut instinct is there that things could work great. Always return a wink that stirs interest leaving the onus on the sender to begin the craic.

If we like the look of someone we'll do the same.

If no return of course by that we accept its a no go-er

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suspect a couple or single fem will generally ignore winks due to the volume and the fact they can pick and choose while a bloke getting a wink will be replying straight away. Was it ever this.

Personally l don't wink as l feel it's like saying 'I can't be arsed to do anything so you do the work and check me out and then send a message' Rather craft a nicely persuasive message even if it never gets read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just ignored a wink from someone on this thread lol...but thanks anyway lolol

You can ignore mine to if you like.

no i winked back...it was a sympathy wink though xxxx

Oooh, you know how to wound a girl. "

*puts spikey dildo away...

no I dont!

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West

We always respond to a wink with 'thanks for the wink' its only polite surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We always respond to a wink with 'thanks for the wink' its only polite surely?"

When bored we'll do that followed by a question asking them why?

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By *atureFem4FunWoman
over a year ago

Petts Wood


"We always respond to a wink with 'thanks for the wink' its only polite surely?"

You think?.....If that way works for you then all power to you....go with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we say we prefer messages to winks.... winks on their own without anything else are a bit feek and weeble.

In all fairness though, it does require a degree of psychicness beyond Derek Acorah to guess what the person you're messaging wants to hear... so that they don't behave like the Duchess from Alice in Wonderland...

Wolf

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West


"We always respond to a wink with 'thanks for the wink' its only polite surely?

You think?.....If that way works for you then all power to you....go with it.

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I wouldnt say 'it works for us' as such Jane..as they very rarely reply anyway..well apart from those who follow the wink up with a friends invite (which gets an instant unread delete if we dont know who they are)...

We just think that if someone has gone to the trouble of winking then its worthy of a brief reply..we dont really get many so its always nice to receive one. (unless of course theres an ulterior motive as in 'right now lets ya pics')

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By *af90Man
over a year ago

Anywhere in the South West


"Starts the chat off surely

it doesn't really tho,does it?

yep, i've had loads of chats with people who have winked me and i have winked them back "

+1

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By *af90Man
over a year ago

Anywhere in the South West


"If you have something to say, say it. To us a wink says - I can't be bothered to write anything but why don't you write to me. Hence once a month we just bulk delete them.

Oh crikey ... Ignore mine "

Don't I know it!

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By *onny BonesMan
over a year ago

a block away from heaven

I'm a winker and I'm proud!!!!

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By *onny BonesMan
over a year ago

a block away from heaven

In all honesty I am the worst type of man some would have you beleive.

I blow my horn on a rainy day when I see a lady in a short skirt and see through blouse. I will stare at your breast if you undo your blouse low enough for me to catch a glimpse... and I will send you a wink if you have a photo of yourself spread eagle showing all the bits I like.... sorry

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

If they live within striking distance and I like their profile, then I may initiate a message but not everytime. Had a wink off a guy from Texas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A nice message gets a nice reply.

A wink doesn't do it for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To us there is nothing wrong with a wink. They are easy to delete or ignore if we are not interested and it saves people wasting their time mailing us.

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By *lam rockerMan
over a year ago

Easter Ross

I like to get a wink and all winks get a reply, so go on, wink me!

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