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By *lik and Paul OP   Couple
over a year ago

Flagrante

What's the very first thing you do when you log in to Fab and why?

Is it answering or sending messages, straight to the forums, checking out the latest pics or something else

We like to answer messages first as we like a tidy box.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go straight to my sent messages to see who is ignoring me and then I vent my anger on the forum.

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By *ocksareoffMan
over a year ago

Out n About

I can skip past the inbox as it's 99% of the time it's empty.

I'll check the hot list and local updates then onto the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

forums

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Check what my sexy and delicious friends have been up to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

forums Px

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By *lik and Paul OP   Couple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"I go straight to my sent messages to see who is ignoring me and then I vent my anger on the forum. "

Avoid the first bit and be less angry

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By *lik and Paul OP   Couple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"I can skip past the inbox as it's 99% of the time it's empty.

I'll check the hot list and local updates then onto the forums"

Hot list...Good plan

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By *lik and Paul OP   Couple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"forums"

Any particular one?

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton


"I go straight to my sent messages to see who is ignoring me and then I vent my anger on the forum. "

Haha that’s what I do!!!! Although I don’t vent my anger, I bottle it all up inside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I go straight to my sent messages to see who is ignoring me and then I vent my anger on the forum.

Avoid the first bit and be less angry "

I'm a single man on a swinging website. It's my default setting.

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By *lik and Paul OP   Couple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"Check what my sexy and delicious friends have been up to. "

Thats always fun

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By *lik and Paul OP   Couple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"forums Px "

Lounge first or straight to politics

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
over a year ago

Cheam

We also enjoy a nice tidy box then pop into the forums for a giggle

Bx

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By *lik and Paul OP   Couple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"I go straight to my sent messages to see who is ignoring me and then I vent my anger on the forum.

Avoid the first bit and be less angry

I'm a single man on a swinging website. It's my default setting. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Updates then forums.

Inbox,who needs em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I check to see if my life is fixed and then its not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"forums Px

Lounge first or straight to politics "

Lounge!

Have to steer clear of politics/the covid ones or I'll flip my fucking lid before I've even had my coffees Px

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By *lik and Paul OP   Couple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"I go straight to my sent messages to see who is ignoring me and then I vent my anger on the forum.

Haha that’s what I do!!!! Although I don’t vent my anger, I bottle it all up inside "

Probably not healthy but avoids arguments

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By *lik and Paul OP   Couple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"forums Px

Lounge first or straight to politics

Lounge!

Have to steer clear of politics/the covid ones or I'll flip my fucking lid before I've even had my coffees Px "

Know exactly what you mean

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By *lik and Paul OP   Couple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"I check to see if my life is fixed and then its not "

Probably need to look somewhere else for that

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

[Removed by poster at 22/04/21 15:13:42]

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I check my home page and then the lounge forum.

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By *lik and Paul OP   Couple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"We also enjoy a nice tidy box then pop into the forums for a giggle

Bx"

Nothing like a tidy box

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By *lik and Paul OP   Couple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"Updates then forums.

Inbox,who needs em "

I guess forums would always feature....on a forum

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Mail, and forums

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By *lik and Paul OP   Couple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"I check my home page and then the lounge forum.

"

...any other forums?

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By *lik and Paul OP   Couple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"Mail, and forums"

Gotta sort mail first right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look for a decent thread to comment on .. sad I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go to messages, if there are any and then to have a gander through the Forum. I haven’t bothered checking the other functions very much. I tapped a few when I joined but I don’t remember what they are any more.

In lockdown, I don’t think there are many more functions I’d need to check.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I check to see if my life is fixed and then its not

Probably need to look somewhere else for that"

nope i got a cure out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forums,always guaranteed a laugh on here

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By *lik and Paul OP   Couple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"I go to messages, if there are any and then to have a gander through the Forum. I haven’t bothered checking the other functions very much. I tapped a few when I joined but I don’t remember what they are any more.

In lockdown, I don’t think there are many more functions I’d need to check."

No one's mentioned the chat rooms I notice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Check messages, reply to them then look on the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I go straight to my sent messages to see who is ignoring me and then I vent my anger on the forum. "

Lol snap lol

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Just refresh the page I last left it on and see what's the crack there. If I've got any additional messages I'll have a quick glance to see if any catch my eye, then maybe pop on to see if snyone has dabbed me, then see if any of my hotlist have posted anything nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on what I doing some times it’s message sometimes it’s the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I go straight to my sent messages to see who is ignoring me and then I vent my anger on the forum.

Haha that’s what I do!!!! Although I don’t vent my anger, I bottle it all up inside "

That’s why you can show your face around here and he hadn’t.

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Kettering

Always go straight to my inbox and start responding to all the messages. If I don't start first thing in the morning I run out of time to get through them all. Sometimes I call in Elvis to help especially when I have to pop out and feed Shergar. Hang on, I think I'm reenacting a dream I had the other night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I go to messages, if there are any and then to have a gander through the Forum. I haven’t bothered checking the other functions very much. I tapped a few when I joined but I don’t remember what they are any more.

In lockdown, I don’t think there are many more functions I’d need to check.

No one's mentioned the chat rooms I notice."

I tried the chat room on one of the evenings when there was a Forum to Cam sessions. I had no clue what was going on and the chat was going at a rate of knots. I didn’t understand it. I gave up.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I check my messages.

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By *lik and Paul OP   Couple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"Always go straight to my inbox and start responding to all the messages. If I don't start first thing in the morning I run out of time to get through them all. Sometimes I call in Elvis to help especially when I have to pop out and feed Shergar. Hang on, I think I'm reenacting a dream I had the other night "

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By *lik and Paul OP   Couple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"Just refresh the page I last left it on and see what's the crack there. If I've got any additional messages I'll have a quick glance to see if any catch my eye, then maybe pop on to see if snyone has dabbed me, then see if any of my hotlist have posted anything nice. "

A balanced set of activities I think

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

Check how many more fabs her pics have got than mine...which is fair enough!

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By *lik and Paul OP   Couple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"I go to messages, if there are any and then to have a gander through the Forum. I haven’t bothered checking the other functions very much. I tapped a few when I joined but I don’t remember what they are any more.

In lockdown, I don’t think there are many more functions I’d need to check.

No one's mentioned the chat rooms I notice.

I tried the chat room on one of the evenings when there was a Forum to Cam sessions. I had no clue what was going on and the chat was going at a rate of knots. I didn’t understand it. I gave up."

Can often be the way

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By *lik and Paul OP   Couple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"Check how many more fabs her pics have got than mine...which is fair enough!"

May the odds be ever in her favour

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

Friend/Local/Hotlist updates first, then onto messages, then forums maybe, and the rest depends on my mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually check the updates first cos I'm nosey.

Then forums cos I'm an addict

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Check out which friends are online, stalk the block list, delete all winks and friend requests, check local updates.

I joke. I head straight to the forums. I ignore all of the list above and my inbox.

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village


"Check how many more fabs her pics have got than mine...which is fair enough!

May the odds be ever in her favour"

They are haha

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By *lik and Paul OP   Couple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"Check out which friends are online, stalk the block list, delete all winks and friend requests, check local updates.

I joke. I head straight to the forums. I ignore all of the list above and my inbox. "

So the forums are your happy place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight to the Lounge.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Always answering messages.

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By *lik and Paul OP   Couple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"Always answering messages."

A full time job eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Updates, quick look at messages then forums ..... I like to see who’s posted new pics to peeve on xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perve not peeve xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always read and reply to all messages

Even if they are not our type.

Just think that it is a polite thing to do.

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By *lik and Paul OP   Couple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"I always read and reply to all messages

Even if they are not our type.

Just think that it is a polite thing to do. "

We do the same

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By *lik and Paul OP   Couple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"Perve not peeve xxx"

Perving is good

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Forums , I'll look at the threads I have posted on and see if anything fun has been posted since

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By *lik and Paul OP   Couple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"Forums , I'll look at the threads I have posted on and see if anything fun has been posted since "

Great status

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flik I am sure your box is very tidy!

I check messages, then forums, occasionally updates or fabbed pictures, if I think to x

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By *lik and Paul OP   Couple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"Flik I am sure your box is very tidy!

I check messages, then forums, occasionally updates or fabbed pictures, if I think to x"

Well you've seen me naked enough times

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Forums , I'll look at the threads I have posted on and see if anything fun has been posted since

Great status "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Flik I am sure your box is very tidy!

I check messages, then forums, occasionally updates or fabbed pictures, if I think to x

Well you've seen me naked enough times "

Indeed, but I would say I am mesmerised by your perfect boobs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I check my winks and friends request from blank profiles....

I then check the 5 emails I get per week from gay/bi/straight guys complimenting on my beautiful cock and offering to suck me off....

Then it’s off to the forums to play forum bingo....

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Happiness is indeed a tidy box.

I read the odd message usually from friends on here.

Then hit the updates and then have a look at the forum posts that I have commented on.

Then a cheeky check of hot pics.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

I chat to people first

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By *lik and Paul OP   Couple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"Flik I am sure your box is very tidy!

I check messages, then forums, occasionally updates or fabbed pictures, if I think to x

Well you've seen me naked enough times

Indeed, but I would say I am mesmerised by your perfect boobs! "

Oh mmmwahhhh you are so lovely xx

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By *andyMinx_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds

Who's Looked @ Me

Sad I know but I'm always interested to see who has been interested in taking a peek

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

I check the status updates of my friends, make sure everyone is OK

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By *histlerMan
over a year ago

Guildford

Sent

Looked at me

Forums

... all of which involve very little action for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Answer messages.

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"What's the very first thing you do when you log in to Fab and why?

Is it answering or sending messages, straight to the forums, checking out the latest pics or something else

We like to answer messages first as we like a tidy box."

Friends and hotlist update then forums .... I just don’t have the energy for my inbox ... it’s almost 500 unread since the weekend and it’s draining. I must must must aim for a tidy inbox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Check my updates, hotlist and friends, then quick peek at hot pics to see who's posted what lately, then forums and there I stay. Occasionally I'll head to the inbox, scroll through for friends' messages, answer a few reasons and then give up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Check my updates, hotlist and friends, then quick peek at hot pics to see who's posted what lately, then forums and there I stay. Occasionally I'll head to the inbox, scroll through for friends' messages, answer a few reasons and then give up."

*Randoms, not reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I immediately go and check how many reply and quotes I’ve got from my hilarious anecdotes, usually it’s none, so then I send out copy and pasted messages in bulk asking people whether they think my material is wearing thin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I immediately go and check how many reply and quotes I’ve got from my hilarious anecdotes, usually it’s none, so then I send out copy and pasted messages in bulk asking people whether they think my material is wearing thin. "

You're still funny. Relax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll check the messages fab my friends and hotlist updates then reply, look who’s viewed and winked and then check the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I immediately go and check how many reply and quotes I’ve got from my hilarious anecdotes, usually it’s none, so then I send out copy and pasted messages in bulk asking people whether they think my material is wearing thin.

You're still funny. Relax "

Thanks for the prompt reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friends updates first

Reply to messages

Check winks

Then to the forums

Her x

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Friends updates then forums. Hardly ever look at my messages as I'm not looking for new meets. Friends I chat to normally have my kik or whatsapp

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Updates and a good browse of the new pictures that just been put up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I follow my heart.

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

Generally updates then the forums. I don’t always check inbox because it’s overwhelming at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Check messages xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Updates then forum, unless on the rare occasion I’ve got a message I’ll check it out.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Forums

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