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"Why are people so IGNORANT If someone messages you wouldn't it be easier,polite,and more time affective to just block them ,than to Ignore them???If your not interested....." Want to come admin my inbox? Seriously .... it would Take all day and when you reply no thanks invariably that leads to another message so it’s pointless. | |||
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"Here we go again...." On my phone Using data as I roam Getting blocked by every profile I’ve ever known | |||
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"Why are people so IGNORANT If someone messages you wouldn't it be easier,polite,and more time affective to just block them ,than to Ignore them???If your not interested..... Want to come admin my inbox? Seriously .... it would Take all day and when you reply no thanks invariably that leads to another message so it’s pointless. " I’d love to use your inbox......oh wait, you mean your ACTUAL inbox? | |||
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"Why are people so IGNORANT If someone messages you wouldn't it be easier,polite,and more time affective to just block them ,than to Ignore them???If your not interested....." If they don't reply why don't you block them? | |||
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"Why are people so IGNORANT If someone messages you wouldn't it be easier,polite,and more time affective to just block them ,than to Ignore them???If your not interested..... Want to come admin my inbox? Seriously .... it would Take all day and when you reply no thanks invariably that leads to another message so it’s pointless. " I tried being nice. It just leads to me being misconstrued for showing interest! I can't keep explaining and rephrasing myself to someone to get them to process gentle no thanks and best of luck. Hence ignoring. Mostly. | |||
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"Here we go again.... On my phone Using data as I roam Getting blocked by every profile I’ve ever known " He only wants to give ladies his bone. Suns out and away everyone goes. Ignoring until the poem slows | |||
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"Why are people so IGNORANT If someone messages you wouldn't it be easier,polite,and more time affective to just block them ,than to Ignore them???If your not interested..... Want to come admin my inbox? Seriously .... it would Take all day and when you reply no thanks invariably that leads to another message so it’s pointless. I tried being nice. It just leads to me being misconstrued for showing interest! I can't keep explaining and rephrasing myself to someone to get them to process gentle no thanks and best of luck. Hence ignoring. Mostly. " Exactly Sorry you’re too you g...... age is just a number No thanks ...... why? I’m not looking to make new contacts just now ... oh but I’m worth it can I change your mind. And the best one Thanks but no thanks ...... as if I’d fuck you anyway you’re old/ugly/fat | |||
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"Here we go again.... On my phone Using data as I roam Getting blocked by every profile I’ve ever known " I sang that in my head | |||
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"Why are people so IGNORANT If someone messages you wouldn't it be easier,polite,and more time affective to just block them ,than to Ignore them???If your not interested....." OP - for many women on here it's like being stood in a room with too many men all wanting to talk to her & what's worse is that some of them are not nice about what they say. They're may be the occasional 'nice guys', but it's overwhelming. | |||
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"Why are people so IGNORANT If someone messages you wouldn't it be easier,polite,and more time affective to just block them ,than to Ignore them???If your not interested..... Want to come admin my inbox? Seriously .... it would Take all day and when you reply no thanks invariably that leads to another message so it’s pointless. I’d love to use your inbox......oh wait, you mean your ACTUAL inbox? " Haha | |||
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"I have suggested a feasible option for this before but, surprise surprise, it got shot down " What’s a feasible option for this? | |||
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"What’s ignorant is people not reading your profile and sending a message when the answer is on the profile!! " Yes yes yes!!!!! This! | |||
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"Ha. We just play hard to get you know.. what's harder than a block. Make a new profile again and message me few times the same thing. I might change my mind." oh go on, you know you want to | |||
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"The site could do with an option to send a quick pre-written no thank you message, and then auto-block to prevent further conversation or abuse. Quick and simple. " Or people could learn to take no answer as a no. You don't respond to every item of junk mail that gets pushed through your letterbox or every Nigerian Prince offering you funds via email? | |||
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"I have suggested a feasible option for this before but, surprise surprise, it got shot down What’s a feasible option for this? " A match button before you’re able to send/receive with someone xx | |||
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"Why are people so IGNORANT If someone messages you wouldn't it be easier,polite,and more time affective to just block them ,than to Ignore them???If your not interested....." Hi guy but what bullshit it's in the rules and I think there a prompt to not seen to may message to one person but no answer is no thanks end of. | |||
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"Why are people so IGNORANT If someone messages you wouldn't it be easier,polite,and more time affective to just block them ,than to Ignore them???If your not interested....." No where here does he ask for a reply. Getting blocked certainly sends a message as does deleting. Leaving it unread is a grey area especially as some women post status updates such as 'too many messages, try again' I mean this to help the poor profiles inundated with repeat messages. | |||
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"I cant possibly get through the volume of messages I get from all the horny ladies on here, I have to be selective and can only reply to those that offer to shag me till I pass out" That is so IGNORANT. | |||
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"I used to think like this. Used to bother me if they opened a message and didn’t reply but kept the message.. so I used to delete them. Then once someone replied asking why I deleted it. So I told them they never replied so I gather they weren’t interested, they replied that the receive lots of messages and can’t reply to all but keep the ones they intend to. That changed my outlook... don’t get me wrong that is only one example but has happened a few times. Not to mention that at the end of the day no one is obligated to have to respond. Jus keep it moving." | |||
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"I have suggested a feasible option for this before but, surprise surprise, it got shot down What’s a feasible option for this? A match button before you’re able to send/receive with someone xx" Do you really think that would work? Men would click match to everyone. Women would be too scared to click match for the inevitable "Ooh, we're a match, fancy a fuck?" Might work on other sites but fab has finesse. | |||
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" It’s like people sending you junk mail then arriving at your door angry because you didn’t write back" The image of that! | |||
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"Why are people so IGNORANT If someone messages you wouldn't it be easier,polite,and more time affective to just block them ,than to Ignore them???If your not interested....." I'm feeling empathetic and reasonable today so here goes: When you read your post back, how does it read? Does it feel petty and entitled, or does it feel like a genuine query borne of curiosity? Bear in mind that there are a HUGE number of profiles that take a response as encouragement and continue winking and messaging after a polite refusal. Our policy is: If we receive a wink or message from someone who is blatantly not suitable, we block and delete. If the message is thoughtful and well written, from a verified profile, we'll respond and decline. If that prompts persistent responses ignoring our refusal or trying to change our minds, I start responding the messages, which will be traumatic for the idiot sending the messages to us. Be careful what you wish for, a response isn't always a good idea! If someone ignores you, block and move on. There are 1000s of profiles on fab, and some of them will want to talk to you. | |||
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"Is that ignorant? Or is it more ignorant to send a random message from a stranger and expect interaction simply because you sent an unsolicited message? It’s like people sending you junk mail then arriving at your door angry because you didn’t write back" A great way of explaining the process and uncomfortably accurate! | |||
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"I have suggested a feasible option for this before but, surprise surprise, it got shot down What’s a feasible option for this? A match button before you’re able to send/receive with someone xx Do you really think that would work? Men would click match to everyone. Women would be too scared to click match for the inevitable "Ooh, we're a match, fancy a fuck?" Might work on other sites but fab has finesse." Men, if men are such a problem, would be kept in check by having to be matched first. So the control is in the woman’s hands and it’s in line with other dating sites. Yes I do believe it would work | |||
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"Why are people so IGNORANT If someone messages you wouldn't it be easier,polite,and more time affective to just block them ,than to Ignore them???If your not interested..... If they don't reply why don't you block them? " There’s no need to be coming up with practical solutions, far too sensible an approach if you ask me | |||
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"Is that ignorant? Or is it more ignorant to send a random message from a stranger and expect interaction simply because you sent an unsolicited message? It’s like people sending you junk mail then arriving at your door angry because you didn’t write back A great way of explaining the process and uncomfortably accurate!" Nail on the head By the way my cousin who is a Nigerian Prince has been in terrible accident and needs some funds to tide him over until his inheritance comes in. | |||
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"What’s ignorant is people not reading your profile and sending a message when the answer is on the profile!! " Totally this!! Well said Might steal this and add to my profile | |||
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"Why are people so IGNORANT If someone messages you wouldn't it be easier,polite,and more time affective to just block them ,than to Ignore them???If your not interested..... If they don't reply why don't you block them? There’s no need to be coming up with practical solutions, far too sensible an approach if you ask me " I knew it was a ridiculous idea as soon as I posted it. | |||
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"Feels like we've been here before I'm having de ja vu, anybody else feel the same. Op nobody owes you anything on this site, drop the ENTITLEMENT....otherwise you'll be sorely disappointed " No, what do you mean. I’m new here. | |||
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"Feels like we've been here before I'm having de ja vu, anybody else feel the same. Op nobody owes you anything on this site, drop the ENTITLEMENT....otherwise you'll be sorely disappointed No, what do you mean. I’m new here. " Youll learn then young padowan | |||
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"Feels like we've been here before I'm having de ja vu, anybody else feel the same. Op nobody owes you anything on this site, drop the ENTITLEMENT....otherwise you'll be sorely disappointed No, what do you mean. I’m new here. Youll learn then young padowan " I feel the force building in me, Master Jedi. | |||
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"Why are people so IGNORANT If someone messages you wouldn't it be easier,polite,and more time affective to just block them ,than to Ignore them???If your not interested....." Ahhh but if we block the people's messages, then there will be 50 whiney forum threads a day about getting blocked all the time. You really can't win on here. If you don't block you are ignorant, if you do block you are ignorant, if you don't reply you are ignorant, are you getting my point | |||
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"Why not do what hundreds of other lazy males do.. Send message which clearly demonstrates you couldnt be bothered to read our profile and ask us a boring generic question. We will be happy to simply not respond and move on... Yr welcome.." Hello, how is your day? Thanks for your lovely post. I loved reading it. | |||
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"The site could do with an option to send a quick pre-written no thank you message, and then auto-block to prevent further conversation or abuse. Quick and simple. " It’a a nice idea in many ways, but even doing that 20, 50, 100 times a day would be way too tedious and time-consuming. | |||
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"Why are people so IGNORANT If someone messages you wouldn't it be easier,polite,and more time affective to just block them ,than to Ignore them???If your not interested..... Ahhh but if we block the people's messages, then there will be 50 whiney forum threads a day about getting blocked all the time. You really can't win on here. If you don't block you are ignorant, if you do block you are ignorant, if you don't reply you are ignorant, are you getting my point " Is your point ignorant | |||
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"I have suggested a feasible option for this before but, surprise surprise, it got shot down What’s a feasible option for this? A match button before you’re able to send/receive with someone xx Do you really think that would work? Men would click match to everyone. Women would be too scared to click match for the inevitable "Ooh, we're a match, fancy a fuck?" Might work on other sites but fab has finesse. Men, if men are such a problem, would be kept in check by having to be matched first. So the control is in the woman’s hands and it’s in line with other dating sites. Yes I do believe it would work" Except it doesn't does it. Bumble has this process but just because you like the look of someone based on a cursory glance at a profile doesn't mean you definitely want to meet them and doesn't mean that any messages sent/received are of any better quality and deserving of a reply. All getting matches would do would increase people's sense of entitlement. | |||
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"As a single guy a polite no thanks goes a long way especially when you feel you meet all the criteria " When You feel..... Seriously, why is an inbox full of no thank you any good for anyone? | |||
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"As a single guy a polite no thanks goes a long way especially when you feel you meet all the criteria When You feel..... Seriously, why is an inbox full of no thank you any good for anyone? " Full ! I sound be so lucky...Not like I’m messaging everyone... | |||
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"Why are people so IGNORANT If someone messages you wouldn't it be easier,polite,and more time affective to just block them ,than to Ignore them???If your not interested..... Ahhh but if we block the people's messages, then there will be 50 whiney forum threads a day about getting blocked all the time. You really can't win on here. If you don't block you are ignorant, if you do block you are ignorant, if you don't reply you are ignorant, are you getting my point Is your point ignorant " Don't know Hun, you tell me? | |||
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"As a single guy a polite no thanks goes a long way especially when you feel you meet all the criteria " Too many single guys mis-interpret the words "no thanks" for "send us another 20 messages and we will stop what we are doing and fuck you right now" Easy mistake to make .. | |||
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