FabSwingers.com forum: Blocked for not being online for 8 hours

By *ritishguy OP Man
over a year ago

chatburn

Odd one but I'm sure others have had the same thing happen. So I was briefly chatting to someone and things seemed ok. I go to work and when I check back I've been blocked by them with a message saying I've not been online for 8 hours and I should have been. I guess some people think fab is all that in life.

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By *andJ500Couple
over a year ago

tamworth

We had somebody message us and because we read message / looked at profile and didn't answer immediately we got a real horrid message from them.

So blocked and moved on - life's too short

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

Some people expect to be the centre of your attention, and throw a hissy fit when they aren't. Don't let it bother you and move on to better, less demanding people.

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By *ritishguy OP Man
over a year ago

chatburn

I'm not so bothered just thought it was strange, but I guess you're right xx

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

How very dare you not be online 24/7 waiting for the Queen to message you, hope you've learned your lesson young man or its off with your head next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people expect to be the centre of your attention, and throw a hissy fit when they aren't. Don't let it bother you and move on to better, less demanding people."

What she said

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Lucky escape - who needs that drama?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Odd one but I'm sure others have had the same thing happen. So I was briefly chatting to someone and things seemed ok. I go to work and when I check back I've been blocked by them with a message saying I've not been online for 8 hours and I should have been. I guess some people think fab is all that in life. "

Ah well. Swerved that one then lol

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By *hantasmagoriaWoman
over a year ago

Newport

Shame on you op for having a life

I get similar messages from guys if I politely reply to one message but not others

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By *ritishguy OP Man
over a year ago

chatburn

Absolutely, my bad, lesson learnt it's time to give up work lol x

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By *exytwonewCouple
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

We got blocked once but obviously a jealous couple

They sent us a message saying something like

‘You’ve been on here for over a year and still don’t have a verification , this site is for players not dreamers!’

I went to sent a nice message back to explain we signed up a year ago but never did anything on here and I’d been blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't you know the rules, you have to check your account every 15 minutes and respond to messages immediately. You better up ya game

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Some people expect to be the centre of your attention, and throw a hissy fit when they aren't. Don't let it bother you and move on to better, less demanding people."

If they're that entitled and demanding before you've met them can you imagine?!!

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I always welcome messages, as I don't get that many, and try to respond within a good time. Sometimes I'm on my motorbike, driving, or operating machinery, so some people need to learn patience!!

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By *aynLexiCouple
over a year ago

Bridgwater, Somerset

We had one at the weekend. Couple messaged us telling us to cam with them, in their words "no talk just filth". I replied politely with no thank you and got blocked

no loss to us as we weren't interested anyway.

Lexi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once had a Kik contact who would constantly demand attention. If I was away from my phone for more than a few minutes I'd return to a long string of messages saying stuff like

"Where u"

"Talk"

"Talk now"

"Where u now"

He got blocked pretty swiftly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I once had a Kik contact who would constantly demand attention. If I was away from my phone for more than a few minutes I'd return to a long string of messages saying stuff like

"Where u"

"Talk"

"Talk now"

"Where u now"

He got blocked pretty swiftly. "

I've just experienced this very same thing. Outcome was also the same x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't believe you have a life away from here, you should get your priorities in order lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nowt as strange as the internet.

Oh well - drama avoided - next

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I often get "told off" for taking too long to reply...

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

And rightly so to OP.

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By *eoeclipseWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

Oh i've had that too, or pissy messages. Really they can go do one if twats their attitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8 hours.... Wow you got a lot longer than some would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make sure that you block them op the forget them and move on as it’s only fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You mean they weren't the most important person in your world Op, terrible just terrible

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I've read a message in the past, read it and because I've not replied in mins, I got an abusive message.

People think it's acceptable to be rude on the Internet sadly.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

Make sure you block them back so that if they unblock you they are blocked..... You don't want them back now do you ?

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

Yep I message done women and don't get reply back do I go do something or my break is over.

I get back see a message, reply explaining why I was away and then get blocked.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

DON'T FORGET FOLKS ...... EVERYONE ELSE ON HERE IS MAD........ just not you

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

" DON'T FORGET FOLKS ...... EVERYONE ELSE ON HERE IS MAD........ just not you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" DON'T FORGET FOLKS ...... EVERYONE ELSE ON HERE IS MAD........ just not you

I knew it Granny!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is on you op.!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not mad, I always look this way...

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

There's all sorts here so don't let it bother you. Just move on and think yourself lucky you found out the type of person they are before you'd wasted too much time on them.

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

What, you think you're entitled to time away from your keyboard? Jeez, have you got a lot to learn....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" DON'T FORGET FOLKS ...... EVERYONE ELSE ON HERE IS MAD........ just not you

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Good job you don’t have a rabbit OP.

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By *-man24Man
over a year ago

northwest

"How very dare you not be online 24/7 waiting for the Queen to message you, hope you've learned your lesson young man or its off with your head next time

Hahaha hope it’s not his head off his bell end lol

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By *aynLexiCouple
over a year ago

Bridgwater, Somerset

" DON'T FORGET FOLKS ...... EVERYONE ELSE ON HERE IS MAD........ just not you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time.

I hate the entitled attitude that people have around messages and not just on here. I will get back when I have time, that's it. So fed up with passive aggressive and out right aggressive messages. because they feel, just because they messaged me, I should drop everything and reply.

But tbf, on the flip side even with close friends , I can take a few days to reply. If its urgent they'd now to call. I just hate the expectation, you HAVE to read and reply in a certain amount of time. My life doesn't revolve around my phone. So I'll get to it as and when. (Though there are few exception)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oop, sorry that quickly turned ranty. I'm in a mood and it seems to have spilled into my response

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