FabSwingers.com forum: Do females "wank"?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

After chatting to some friends this evening, it was suggested that the word "wank" came across as quite manly and not a ladylike way to explain what you've been up too.

I've personally always just used the word "play" and never thought much about it until now.

Some of the suggestions given tonight were:

Ladywanking

Doing a Meg Ryan

Paddling the Pink Canoe

Buttering your muffin

How would you refer to it yourself, or do you use the word "wank" as well?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women soften the expression by saying ‘lady wank’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lady friend of mine calls it wanking....I think it is fine as a term and shows sexual freedom 4 all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I have long feminine locks I have lady wanks. When my hair is short and I grow a moustache I just wank.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

* Watching with interest *

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I just call it wanking. Unless I'm feeling coy then it's "having a play"

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Flick the bean

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London

Men are wankers, women frig or jill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men are wankers, women frig or jill "

Your profile picture is really fantastic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm attending to myself;-)

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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City

"I'm attending to myself;-)"

Wanker ^

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

Flicking the bean

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

"Flick the bean

Haha you beat me to it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I definitely wank.... Alot!

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London

"Men are wankers, women frig or jill

Your profile picture is really fantastic

Cheers!

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"I definitely wank.... Alot!

TMI

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

I don't wank, I "play"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly?

I couldn't give a flying fuck of its lady like or not...

If I wanna have a wank, I'll have a fucking wank!

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I've been known to indulge in self tlc

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By *isces WomanWoman
over a year ago

West London

I play and wank depends on mymood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I definitely wank.... Alot!

TMI

Not for this thread! So ner!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wank or having good play

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By *itty Kat ABWoman
over a year ago

North Somerset

Pleasuring oneself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Playing or DIY.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm attending to myself;-)

Wanker ^

Shush. Or I'll sit on your face.

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By *ecrets4everCouple
over a year ago

I have ‘me time’

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

I think it's just personal preference as I've heard all sorts of terms from both men and women.

I've personally had a wank, had a play, jerked off, jacked off and had some me time (I'm knackered after all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to say play or sorting myself out.

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By *icola2202Couple
over a year ago

Chatham

I usually say play but I think we should move onto ones we heard lol

I’ve heard clapping the clit, tickle the kipper, slap the ham, bang the baloney, feed the horse, pleasure the puss and flicking felix

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think it's just personal preference as I've heard all sorts of terms from both men and women.

I've personally had a wank, had a play, jerked off, jacked off and had some me time (I'm knackered after all that

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Good effort though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tend to say play or sorting myself out.

I sort myself out too. This would primarily refer to a no effort quick release type of wank. To wank all the nonsense out.

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By *osmocoupleMan
over a year ago

East Sussex

I very rarely play with myself, whatever you want to call it. Probably no more than once every 6 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I have long feminine locks I have lady wanks. When my hair is short and I grow a moustache I just wank."

Love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plunge the clunge

Stuff the muff

The human hand puppet

Whatever you call it, it's all good.

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London

"Plunge the clunge

Stuff the muff

The human hand puppet

Whatever you call it, it's all good.

They sound delightful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just play.

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By *elloWoman
over a year ago

alpha centauri

I'm definitely a wanker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Plunge the clunge

Stuff the muff

The human hand puppet

Whatever you call it, it's all good.

They sound delightful "

Personally I think they're rather vulgar but each to their own.

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London

"Plunge the clunge

Stuff the muff

The human hand puppet

Whatever you call it, it's all good.

They sound delightful

Personally I think they're rather vulgar but each to their own."

I was being sarcastic, agree they sound vulgar and more along the lines of terms for fisting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buttering my bagel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I happily refer to it as a ladywank

... or more recently a lelo-wank - the best birthday gift I EVER received! Holy fuck

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By *pice-meWoman
over a year ago

Home

Happy to wank or play depending on my need and company.

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By *underbycouple13Couple
over a year ago

derby

Oh yes, love to 'wank'. Like to be watched too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had an answer but the message above distracted me

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

Stop it you all will go blind and your right hand will get RSI unless of course you're left handed.

You will lose your minds and become disfunctional and get zits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stop it you all will go blind and your right hand will get RSI unless of course you're left handed.

You will lose your minds and become disfunctional and get zits.

I seen this on discovery channel absolutely true

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

"Stop it you all will go blind and your right hand will get RSI unless of course you're left handed.

You will lose your minds and become disfunctional and get zits.

I seen this on discovery channel absolutely true

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me it is known as "strumming"

Like playing the banjo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a little play, me time or self love every day, is that too much self love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a little play, me time or self love every day, is that too much self love

Not enough to be honest !

Haha Na I’m kidding there’s no right or wrong answer there just do your thing when the moods takes ye !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a little play, me time or self love every day, is that too much self love

Not enough to be honest !

Haha Na I’m kidding there’s no right or wrong answer there just do your thing when the moods takes ye !!!!

Ok I’m off for some self love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a little play, me time or self love every day, is that too much self love

Not enough to be honest !

Haha Na I’m kidding there’s no right or wrong answer there just do your thing when the moods takes ye !!!!

Ok I’m off for some self love

Sure wat else would you be doing at this time

sure I’m a good hour ahead !

Jokes !

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By *unover40Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

My mrs doesnt call it wanking she refers to it as playing with herself or having a play, something she does fairly regularly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men are wankers, women frig or jill

Your profile picture is really fantastic

Cheers!

I think they're all great, I love well staged and crafted photos. Nicely done!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I call it a lady wank

Or I say I'm 'playing'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pizza for one

Everyone loves pizza!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men are wankers, women frig or jill

Your profile picture is really fantastic

Cheers!

I think they're all great, I love well staged and crafted photos. Nicely done!"

Yep you can tell !!!!!!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Wanking isn't a manly term is it? Fuck I missed that memo. Darn it. Handing in my feminine card.

That aside, it depends on company and my level of coy. If I'm being sickeningly coy I'd say touched myself. Or had some alone time. Sometimes I'll say wank. Masturbate is a word I like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the wanking word and yes I wank a lot too lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strumming the harp?

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I just say having a play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i say wank.

and i do.. frequently

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Hell yeah we do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i say wank.

and i do.. frequently

Px "

Legend !!!! All that “play” lark is far to polite in my opinion!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I please myself

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

Can’t bear the word “play” in this context. If anyone asks me to “play” ..... Instant switch off.

I am a wanker.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can’t bear the word “play” in this context. If anyone asks me to “play” ..... Instant switch off.

I am a wanker.

V x "

Exactly!!!!

Never heard this chat out of women before !

Sounds sexier for sure !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think Shakespeare said something like “A wank by any other name would feel as good”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody worse than us lot !!!

Maybe we are rubbing off on you ( pardon the pun )

Bunch of wankers the lot of you

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By *lint-EverhardMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

Flicking the balloon knot?

Playing with the little man in the boat?

What about a good ol'fashioned fingerbang?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Play or self service

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By *ustyshowoffCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

Occasionally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Flicking the balloon knot?

Playing with the little man in the boat?

What about a good ol'fashioned fingerbang?"

I’m far to lazy to read them all !

But flicking the balloon knot !!!!!

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South

I rub the bean. It’s not really a bean but clitoris doesn’t quite cut the mustard in terms of words to conjure sexy imagery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use lady wank or play

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London

"Men are wankers, women frig or jill

Your profile picture is really fantastic

Cheers!

I think they're all great, I love well staged and crafted photos. Nicely done!"

Thank you!

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Unisex I like

Number 3 (Robert de Niro. Dirty Grandpa)

Just doing some personal admin.

Alone time.

All very harmless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a play ...x

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Most use the term ‘a good fingerblasting’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quick question ...

Is it still a wank/lady-wank if there’s a toy involved?

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Quick question ...

Is it still a wank/lady-wank if there’s a toy involved?

I'd say absofuckinlutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quick question ...

Is it still a wank/lady-wank if there’s a toy involved?

I'd say absofuckinlutely

Thankyou for quick response

*switches it back on

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Yes have had a few from females

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rub?

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By *aynLexiCouple
over a year ago

Bridgwater, Somerset

Very informative thread. I used to say masturbating but totally changing it to buttering my bagel now

"Excuse me dear, I just have to nip upstairs and butter my bagel"

it works

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By *ostonJoeMan
over a year ago

Boston

My other half says she prefers the word play, but says wank to me because I am crude.

Whichever word used, it describes the same thing, she is aroused and rubs her clit to release an orgasm and sleep.

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

"Men are wankers, women frig or jill "

Ohhhh your photos are amazing!

Playing for me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Masturbation is meditation ' rupi kaur

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I usually use play.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Do you mean ‘lady time’?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Flick the bean

Or chasing the bean

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

I say wank.

Works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jenny calls it having a play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont care what she calls it as long as i can watch her

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

Strumming the Hill Billy Banjo?

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

OR..

Duelling bajos?

Yankee doodle lick?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hAVlKQA9AEA

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

I mean Duelling banjos?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This made me laugh - paddling the pink canoe.

Yeah we totally do it. We have needs!!

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"This made me laugh - paddling the pink canoe.

Yeah we totally do it. We have needs!! "

No more halo for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say play

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pDlZLsJJkVA

Check out the grinning toothless hill billy at 0.58 (Deliverance - Dueling Banjos - Arthur Smith),for the Pherrrwaaaa factor!

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

We are all wankers at the end of the day...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tend to say play or sorting myself out.

"Sorting myself out" - agreed, same

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

Definitely "a play" x

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

"Most use the term ‘a good fingerblasting’

Nooo that’s something else entirely

V xx

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

Sometimes I wank. Sometimes I play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I call it playing with myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I normally just say I’m going for a play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This made me laugh - paddling the pink canoe.

Yeah we totally do it. We have needs!!

No more halo for you

Ooopsy

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