FabSwingers.com forum: Blocked people come back and pester you ?

By *harlotteBigBoobs OP Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I've blocked a guy 3 times now , he just makes another account and messages me again. He's not abusive or nasty just messages about 20 times a day saying it's worth a try I may change my mind one day ??

I just don't understand it ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my defence, you're just really hot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

aye OP.. It happens a lot. Although unlike you, mine are usually abuse.

i just keep reporting and blocking.

Pxx

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"In my defence, you're just really hot."

Not helping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not right but at least there not at your door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've blocked a guy 3 times now , he just makes another account and messages me again. He's not abusive or nasty just messages about 20 times a day saying it's worth a try I may change my mind one day ??

I just don't understand it ??"

Site has more than its fair share of the weird and bizarre, folks with any degree of normality will never understand them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens both ways, I’ve had abuse from profile, blocked, only for a new one to pop up and start all over again.

Sad little existence really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *harlotteBigBoobs OP Woman
over a year ago

Hull

No I'd hate to see what would happen if he knew where I was x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happens both ways, I’ve had abuse from profile, blocked, only for a new one to pop up and start all over again.

Sad little existence really "

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I had this with a profile a few years ago

Block newbies op, then at least they can't message for a few days and by then you might have identified the next profile and you can block that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be old and ugly, then noone bothers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had this happen before years ago in time they got bord after 3-4 months and just stopped maybe I was lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No I'd hate to see what would happen if he knew where I was x"
worry not luv internet is full of weirdos but most are only brave at home

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"No I'd hate to see what would happen if he knew where I was x"

Report to admin and tell them you're being harassed. That's what it is essentially.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all seriousness, not much you can do beyond blocking the weirdo right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately it does happen...just report and then block again

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"No I'd hate to see what would happen if he knew where I was x

Report to admin and tell them you're being harassed. That's what it is essentially. "

And just keep blocking and never reply

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

I just don't understand it ??"

Occasionally I stop all incoming mails, just for a while. I had a similar years ago and after about 6 months of no incoming messages allowed it stopped. You can block new profiles too. Use your filters. They’ll help you.

V x

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

I just don't understand it ??

V x "

. You can block new members OP and you can of course manage who messages you. Should you have too? In a perfect world no, but unfortunately this world is far from that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No should mean no

Guy message woman he likes look of if woman says no then leave it some just can't accept it

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

We changed our filters so that only site supporters can message, has cut down on a lot of clutter. He will be less inclined to make a new profile and message if he has to pay £5 each time.

Lily

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I just don't understand it ??

You can block after the first message. You can use your filters to block single men mailing you from here.

https://www.fabswingers.com/my/filters

You can also block newbies from mailing you from the same link

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In my defence, you're just really hot."

I do have to agree, in his defence you are really hot

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Just be old and ugly, then noone bothers!

Works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can never understand why some men give abuse. Do you really think if you give a woman abuse shes going to change her mind and say come on over. Be polite be curtious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can never understand why some men give abuse. Do you really think if you give a woman abuse shes going to change her mind and say come on over. Be polite be curtious. "

They simply have nothing better to do. Sad

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"We changed our filters so that only site supporters can message, has cut down on a lot of clutter. He will be less inclined to make a new profile and message if he has to pay £5 each time.

Lily "

There’s a lot of logic in this answer. I had never thought of that as a solution but after spending £30 they should give up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No I'd hate to see what would happen if he knew where I was x"

He wouldn't say anything without his keyboard

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