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"Its easy to post from the anonymity of the site and your pc, but how shy or easily embarrassed are you really? Just curious me..." Not a bit shy...why are you?  | |||
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"Depends who I'm talking to. With my colleagues Im never embarrassed, they'd probably tell you I'm filthy but around new people I'm quite shy!" I can totally understand that - with new people you just dont know how they will respond to you? | |||
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"Its easy to post from the anonymity of the site and your pc, but how shy or easily embarrassed are you really? Just curious me..." I can be really shy/reserved at times especially with people I don't know. But have got better the years as I used to be painfully shy. | |||
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"Given that I put on frocks and wander round bars I'd say I'm not very shy or easily embarrassed. "I admire that in people - not sure I would have the balls - pardon the pun xx  | |||
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"Depends who I'm talking to. With my colleagues Im never embarrassed, they'd probably tell you I'm filthy but around new people I'm quite shy!" same | |||
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"Was very shy but with the kind year's I can cope but sometime people say your not shy are you and then I say NO " I think most people have situations in which they feel less confident and a bit shy - it is normal I think | |||
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"nah im quite quiet and reserved normally out in the real world lol, can be sometimes shy, but never with meets, had too many and always have a good enough feel of the person so know we get on good etc and stuff going to happen so nowt to be nervous about, and going to partys and having group fun has give me alot of confidence when it comes to getting my kit off lol" I was curious about that - whether the scene has made some people more confident? | |||
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"Its easy to post from the anonymity of the site and your pc, but how shy or easily embarrassed are you really? Just curious me... I can be really shy/reserved at times especially with people I don't know. But have got better the years as I used to be painfully shy. "Interesting how many people find that they got better over the years - kind of age brings confidence? | |||
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"Depends who I'm talking to. With my colleagues Im never embarrassed, they'd probably tell you I'm filthy but around new people I'm quite shy! same" Makes note to self about how to help him  | |||
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"I'm not shy. That said, I don't really blossom or come into my own until I am comfortable with people. Sometimes that is instant, sometimes it needs some work. I am also better in small groups than crowds. In a crowd situation, I will tend to blend as opposed as to wanting to stand out. That has led to people saying I am quiet or reserved and some have even said standoffish or snobby. I say I just like to suss the situation and the people concerned out before I know how to act appropriately towards both. " Again,this is so interesting. I never thought you were shy but what I find fascinating is that you say people think of you as standoffish - I d never have thought that. | |||
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"Depends who I'm talking to. With my colleagues Im never embarrassed, they'd probably tell you I'm filthy but around new people I'm quite shy! sameMakes note to self about how to help him "nah I am beyond help lol | |||
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"Depends who I'm talking to. With my colleagues Im never embarrassed, they'd probably tell you I'm filthy but around new people I'm quite shy! sameMakes note to self about how to help him
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"I'm not shy. That said, I don't really blossom or come into my own until I am comfortable with people. Sometimes that is instant, sometimes it needs some work. I am also better in small groups than crowds. In a crowd situation, I will tend to blend as opposed as to wanting to stand out. That has led to people saying I am quiet or reserved and some have even said standoffish or snobby. I say I just like to suss the situation and the people concerned out before I know how to act appropriately towards both. Again,this is so interesting. I never thought you were shy but what I find fascinating is that you say people think of you as standoffish - I d never have thought that. " I'm not, but some people read 'reserved' as stand offish and I like to suss things out first, I can be quiet in group situations til I get the dynamics of the group. | |||
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"I'm not shy. That said, I don't really blossom or come into my own until I am comfortable with people. Sometimes that is instant, sometimes it needs some work. I am also better in small groups than crowds. In a crowd situation, I will tend to blend as opposed as to wanting to stand out. That has led to people saying I am quiet or reserved and some have even said standoffish or snobby. I say I just like to suss the situation and the people concerned out before I know how to act appropriately towards both. Again,this is so interesting. I never thought you were shy but what I find fascinating is that you say people think of you as standoffish - I d never have thought that. I'm not, but some people read 'reserved' as stand offish and I like to suss things out first, I can be quiet in group situations til I get the dynamics of the group." I thought that would a wise thing to do - there is no point in being gobby, trying to dominate a conversation. I am naturally quite bubbly and extrovert and I hold back a bit when I am new to a group, for one to give others a chance and also not to show up like an attention craving idiot.  | |||
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"I am really really shy  "Why oh why dont I believe you?;-) | |||
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"I'm not shy. That said, I don't really blossom or come into my own until I am comfortable with people. Sometimes that is instant, sometimes it needs some work. I am also better in small groups than crowds. In a crowd situation, I will tend to blend as opposed as to wanting to stand out. That has led to people saying I am quiet or reserved and some have even said standoffish or snobby. I say I just like to suss the situation and the people concerned out before I know how to act appropriately towards both. Again,this is so interesting. I never thought you were shy but what I find fascinating is that you say people think of you as standoffish - I d never have thought that. I'm not, but some people read 'reserved' as stand offish and I like to suss things out first, I can be quiet in group situations til I get the dynamics of the group." I get that as well. People have said that they thought I didn't like them | |||
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" I can be quiet in group situations til I get the dynamics of the group." I can be quiet in group situations till I get a sniff of a schooner of Harvey's Bristol Cream (even better if Harvey doesn't realise I've pinched his drink)
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"Depends who I'm talking to. With my colleagues Im never embarrassed, they'd probably tell you I'm filthy but around new people I'm quite shy! sameMakes note to self about how to help him
nah I am beyond help lolBet you re not"ok send me your plan for re_iew | |||
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"shy till I get to know people. Can be very stand offish if I am uncomfortable, at parties I prefer to be in a smaller group in a kitchen rather than a larger group elsewhere" (have you and Bussy been coordinating your posts lol) I think there is safety in the smaller number group? | |||
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"I am really really shy Why oh why dont I believe you?;-)"I haven't got a clue  I'm a good boy really | |||
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" I can be quiet in group situations til I get the dynamics of the group. I can be quiet in group situations till I get a sniff of a schooner of Harvey's Bristol Cream (even better if Harvey doesn't realise I've pinched his drink)
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"I am really really shy Why oh why dont I believe you?;-)I haven't got a clue I'm a good boy really "I bet you are!!! | |||
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"Im shy in company but not on the internet .. could never get involved in the convo 's i have on internet in real life. .. I still blush furiously and really quiet . Just watch what is going on at parties and in company. "Lots of people have said this on here and in pms... seems like being a bit shy in some areas is rather a normal thing for most? | |||
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"shy till I get to know people. Can be very stand offish if I am uncomfortable, at parties I prefer to be in a smaller group in a kitchen rather than a larger group elsewhere (have you and Bussy been coordinating your posts lol) I think there is safety in the smaller number group? " mines come from being badly bullied because of my sexuality in my early teens so I can blank people as a defence, I just used to focus on something ahead and not have eye contact, as more often than not that would attract 'who the fuck are you looking at '... | |||
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"I am really really shy Why oh why dont I believe you?;-)I haven't got a clue I'm a good boy really I bet you are!!!"Yes I am You got me all wrong lol | |||
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"shy till I get to know people. Can be very stand offish if I am uncomfortable, at parties I prefer to be in a smaller group in a kitchen rather than a larger group elsewhere (have you and Bussy been coordinating your posts lol) I think there is safety in the smaller number group? mines come from being badly bullied because of my sexuality in my early teens so I can blank people as a defence, I just used to focus on something ahead and not have eye contact, as more often than not that would attract 'who the fuck are you looking at '... " I wonder just how many people on here and in life in general have experienced bullying at school and developed a shyness relating to that. You are sure not alone. | |||
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"I am really really shy Why oh why dont I believe you?;-)I haven't got a clue I'm a good boy really I bet you are!!!Yes I am You got me all wrong lol "I kinda think your profile name is errr not terribly shy lol | |||
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" I can be quiet in group situations til I get the dynamics of the group. I can be quiet in group situations till I get a sniff of a schooner of Harvey's Bristol Cream (even better if Harvey doesn't realise I've pinched his drink)
Actually I'm usually a gobshite whatever the situation There was I putting up a thread cos I thought it was quiet and you were sleeping... wrong again"Just when you thought it was safe and I'd overdone my meds eh???? Been lurking a bit today while I've been trying to sort a hol out for me and my bessie.....looks like we could be off to Kyrenia in October  | |||
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" I can be quiet in group situations til I get the dynamics of the group. I can be quiet in group situations till I get a sniff of a schooner of Harvey's Bristol Cream (even better if Harvey doesn't realise I've pinched his drink)
Actually I'm usually a gobshite whatever the situation There was I putting up a thread cos I thought it was quiet and you were sleeping... wrong again
Just when you thought it was safe and I'd overdone my meds eh???? Been lurking a bit today while I've been trying to sort a hol out for me and my bessie.....looks like we could be off to Kyrenia in October "Does that mean there ll be a rest bite for us in October? | |||
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" I can be quiet in group situations til I get the dynamics of the group. I can be quiet in group situations till I get a sniff of a schooner of Harvey's Bristol Cream (even better if Harvey doesn't realise I've pinched his drink)
Actually I'm usually a gobshite whatever the situation There was I putting up a thread cos I thought it was quiet and you were sleeping... wrong again
Just when you thought it was safe and I'd overdone my meds eh???? Been lurking a bit today while I've been trying to sort a hol out for me and my bessie.....looks like we could be off to Kyrenia in October Does that mean there ll be a rest bite for us in October?"Could be, could be.......you'll miss me though and be gagging for me to get back and get bantering, I just know it | |||
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"I am really really shy Why oh why dont I believe you?;-)I haven't got a clue I'm a good boy really I bet you are!!!Yes I am You got me all wrong lol "I am now officially convinced that you are shy - its just that the meaning of the word has changed since I last checked | |||
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"Im shy until im brought out of my shell "Stick with us on this thread and you ll be brought out alright | |||
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" I can be quiet in group situations til I get the dynamics of the group. I can be quiet in group situations till I get a sniff of a schooner of Harvey's Bristol Cream (even better if Harvey doesn't realise I've pinched his drink)
Actually I'm usually a gobshite whatever the situation There was I putting up a thread cos I thought it was quiet and you were sleeping... wrong again
Just when you thought it was safe and I'd overdone my meds eh???? Been lurking a bit today while I've been trying to sort a hol out for me and my bessie.....looks like we could be off to Kyrenia in October Does that mean there ll be a rest bite for us in October?
Could be, could be.......you'll miss me though and be gagging for me to get back and get bantering, I just know it "Actually, I ll confess to that - yes I would miss you xx (Dont be shy accepting public kisses from a straight woman!) Oh heck that will be another thread about how straight one can be as a bi woman or how bi one can be being straight... you know what I mean ...;-) | |||
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"I am really really shy Why oh why dont I believe you?;-)I haven't got a clue I'm a good boy really I bet you are!!!Yes I am You got me all wrong lol I am now officially convinced that you are shy - its just that the meaning of the word has changed since I last checked "See I told you I'm shy lol | |||
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"I am really really shy Why oh why dont I believe you?;-)I haven't got a clue I'm a good boy really I bet you are!!!Yes I am You got me all wrong lol I am now officially convinced that you are shy - its just that the meaning of the word has changed since I last checked See I told you I'm shy lol "I am still staring at the pictures cant drag myself away | |||
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"nah im quite quiet and reserved normally out in the real world lol, can be sometimes shy, but never with meets, had too many and always have a good enough feel of the person so know we get on good etc and stuff going to happen so nowt to be nervous about, and going to partys and having group fun has give me alot of confidence when it comes to getting my kit off lolI was curious about that - whether the scene has made some people more confident? " yeah definetally, but ive had quite a few things over the last few years change my life, i used to weight over 25 stone till i was 30, lost 11 stones of it in 18 months through diet and excersize and before i was in my 30s i think i must of slept with about 5 people all in all, and a few of them were before i was 20 too lol, spent most of my 20s on my own after i split with my ex fiance as didnt really have confidence to ask anyone out and didnt have no dating sites to use either to find me someone as big as me, but once i dropped alot of my weight and found people reacted completeley differently towards me, helped me get a bit more confidence and started dating again through dating sites, then joined dogging couk and met a lass on there which we had a really hot long meet and decided to go out and swing together and i found this site via an advert for a club someone messaged us about on the other site, and since then i done about every single fantasy i ever had while i had no one and was just a big guy on my own lol. love to tell my mates about what ive done but they probs not believe us, but quite funny to think for someone just shy and no confidence who just kept himself to himself and even went lots of years in a row without even a date (lost count lol) that ive done more in probs last two years and tried everything i ever dreamed of than all me mates have probs done together lol really helped me get more confident when meeting new people, coming accross a bit more as well with people i date as well when that happens but gone from being 30 and only sleeping with 5 lasses, to being 32 and sleeping with 5 lasses in the same night haha but this site i bet does give alot of us more confidence, probs mainly the ladies though as alot probs never expected the reposnse they get on here compared to what they get in normal life, but ive gotten the same boost from meeting lots of people too, and just being confident enough and used to things where its not a worry, if things happen they happen if they dont always another meet happen soon enough, and people always saying when its their first time as well and they nervous that i totally calm their nerves and my confidence helps them as well maybe im just a bit differnt from being so fat before, but even when i lost it i decided i wouldnt change who i am and how i act and still treat people as well i used to when i never used hardly have anyone, and think it does me well | |||
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"shy till I get to know people. Can be very stand offish if I am uncomfortable, at parties I prefer to be in a smaller group in a kitchen rather than a larger group elsewhere (have you and Bussy been coordinating your posts lol) I think there is safety in the smaller number group? mines come from being badly bullied because of my sexuality in my early teens so I can blank people as a defence, I just used to focus on something ahead and not have eye contact, as more often than not that would attract 'who the fuck are you looking at '... " Its a crazy world _iew ...  | |||
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"...having group fun has give me alot of confidence when it comes to getting my kit off lolI was curious about that - whether the scene has made some people more confident? " Usually happy naked (-: I'm outgoing with friends, but have always been reserved around strangers, however the presence of an attractive lady has historically rendered me speechless )-: Chatting and meeting has certainly helped me be a lot more comfortable and confident with new folks. (-: Thanks all!! | |||
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" I can be quiet in group situations til I get the dynamics of the group. I can be quiet in group situations till I get a sniff of a schooner of Harvey's Bristol Cream (even better if Harvey doesn't realise I've pinched his drink)
Actually I'm usually a gobshite whatever the situation There was I putting up a thread cos I thought it was quiet and you were sleeping... wrong again
Just when you thought it was safe and I'd overdone my meds eh???? Been lurking a bit today while I've been trying to sort a hol out for me and my bessie.....looks like we could be off to Kyrenia in October Does that mean there ll be a rest bite for us in October?
Could be, could be.......you'll miss me though and be gagging for me to get back and get bantering, I just know it Actually, I ll confess to that - yes I would miss you xx (Dont be shy accepting public kisses from a straight woman!) Oh heck that will be another thread about how straight one can be as a bi woman or how bi one can be being straight... you know what I mean ...;-)"Blushing now, maybe I do have a shy gene buried deep inside me or even chance of a shy Gene | |||
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"nah im quite quiet and reserved normally out in the real world lol, can be sometimes shy, but never with meets, had too many and always have a good enough feel of the person so know we get on good etc and stuff going to happen so nowt to be nervous about, and going to partys and having group fun has give me alot of confidence when it comes to getting my kit off lolI was curious about that - whether the scene has made some people more confident? yeah definetally, but ive had quite a few things over the last few years change my life, i used to weight over 25 stone till i was 30, lost 11 stones of it in 18 months through diet and excersize and before i was in my 30s i think i must of slept with about 5 people all in all, and a few of them were before i was 20 too lol, spent most of my 20s on my own after i split with my ex fiance as didnt really have confidence to ask anyone out and didnt have no dating sites to use either to find me someone as big as me, but once i dropped alot of my weight and found people reacted completeley differently towards me, helped me get a bit more confidence and started dating again through dating sites, then joined dogging couk and met a lass on there which we had a really hot long meet and decided to go out and swing together and i found this site via an advert for a club someone messaged us about on the other site, and since then i done about every single fantasy i ever had while i had no one and was just a big guy on my own lol. love to tell my mates about what ive done but they probs not believe us, but quite funny to think for someone just shy and no confidence who just kept himself to himself and even went lots of years in a row without even a date (lost count lol) that ive done more in probs last two years and tried everything i ever dreamed of than all me mates have probs done together lol really helped me get more confident when meeting new people, coming accross a bit more as well with people i date as well when that happens but gone from being 30 and only sleeping with 5 lasses, to being 32 and sleeping with 5 lasses in the same night haha but this site i bet does give alot of us more confidence, probs mainly the ladies though as alot probs never expected the reposnse they get on here compared to what they get in normal life, but ive gotten the same boost from meeting lots of people too, and just being confident enough and used to things where its not a worry, if things happen they happen if they dont always another meet happen soon enough, and people always saying when its their first time as well and they nervous that i totally calm their nerves and my confidence helps them as well maybe im just a bit differnt from being so fat before, but even when i lost it i decided i wouldnt change who i am and how i act and still treat people as well i used to when i never used hardly have anyone, and think it does me well "Wow, you are awesome achieving that weight loss! I like your attitude towards other people. Sounds very down to earth and genuine xx | |||
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"...having group fun has give me alot of confidence when it comes to getting my kit off lolI was curious about that - whether the scene has made some people more confident? Usually happy naked (-: I'm outgoing with friends, but have always been reserved around strangers, however the presence of an attractive lady has historically rendered me speechless )-: Chatting and meeting has certainly helped me be a lot more comfortable and confident with new folks. (-: Thanks all!! "You look quite sexy and confident in your avatar;-) Now where the hell is Shrewsbury | |||
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" Blushing now, maybe I do have a shy gene buried deep inside me or even chance of a shy Gene "genius more like | |||
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"its always been a big part of me. was a very shy kid and it still rears its head
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"after being fucked up the arse by a woman with a strap-on on cam i dont think you can be nervous or shy about anything." I take your point, if not your strap-on | |||
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"The other thing I would say is the work related 'shyness' I have to speak to people from across the spectrum as part of work and as such, I'm not afraid to strike up conversations or hold my own with anyone I meet. I am used to 'taking shit' on a daily basis and it doesn't phase me. I am used to talking people round / negotiating / bargaining etc I am the life and soul on the occasions we hold management meetings etc and have excellent 1 on 1 relationships with the majority of my clients. But then again, I know these people and have formed and retained relationships with them over a number of years. However, put me up in front of a projector or on a podium in a room full of people I don't know and I will just nervously bumble my way through things. Not an eloquent or confident public speaker in the slightest. Even though I am always prepared and more than confident in what I have to say and portray at the time, I just go to pieces in that scenario." I can understand that - now strangely, talking publicly does not bother me because I would only talk about things that I understand well and can present and I assume that I know a bit more than my audience, perhaps wrongly so. The time I get "shy" in want of a better word is when I come across a guy I really fancy and I am trying not to give that away lol | |||
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"Im not as shy as i used to be although not got a great deal of confidence so a bit shy i guess "I cannot believe that lol xx | |||
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"Fairly shy, stuck in a waiting room with people all round and posting on the forum lol "great way of posting and spending an afternoon. Hope it is not the dentist | |||
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"Im not as shy as i used to be although not got a great deal of confidence so a bit shy i guess I cannot believe that lol xx"No honest its true | |||
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"Im a very shy person so affraid to speak out and i never ever been rude or naughty nor have i seen a womens thingy wotsit ---- but there again i could be a out right sex mad lier lol hehehehehe Shynesss is not something i suffered from but i can appreciate that others find it hard - i think my freinds off here might say im a good ice breaker sort of guy "I want to witness the breaking of the ice, Yorkie xx | |||
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" However, put me up in front of a projector or on a podium in a room full of people I don't know and I will just nervously bumble my way through things. Not an eloquent or confident public speaker in the slightest. Even though I am always prepared and more than confident in what I have to say and portray at the time, I just go to pieces in that scenario." Horses for courses. I am fine doing that and the more you do it the easier it gets. But i wouldnt actively strike up conversations with people i don't know. I would also never dream of going somewhere like a club on my own | |||
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"Im not as shy as i used to be although not got a great deal of confidence so a bit shy i guess I cannot believe that lol xx
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"Should we see shyness as a bad thing though ? I think it can be quite endearing "You ahve a good point there, it does not have to be a negative trait at all. | |||
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" Horses for courses. I am fine doing that and the more you do it the easier it gets. But i wouldnt actively strike up conversations with people i don't know. I would also never dream of going somewhere like a club on my own" | |||
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"Im not as shy as i used to be although not got a great deal of confidence so a bit shy i guess I cannot believe that lol xx
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"Im not as shy as i used to be although not got a great deal of confidence so a bit shy i guess I cannot believe that lol xx
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" Horses for courses. I am fine doing that and the more you do it the easier it gets. But i wouldnt actively strike up conversations with people i don't know. I would also never dream of going somewhere like a club on my own" yeah but that's cos ur just too tight to pay urself in | |||
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"Im not as shy as i used to be although not got a great deal of confidence so a bit shy i guess I cannot believe that lol xx
No honest its true I ll believe you... for now
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"Reserved and have been accused of aloofness as a result in the past, exacerbated by the fact I don't drink alcohol, some people find that difficult. "My partner does not really drink so that is quite "normal" to me and your not drinking should not bother others. Its your choice | |||
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"I'm usually shy with new people but with people I know not very shy... Meeting people on sites such as this has certainly given me a whole new confidence, but I don't think that's a bad thing. I do watch what I say with people in case they take it the wrong way. Similar to what View said about being bullied. When people have criticised everything you say and put you down for a long time, you kind of get immune to it. Building a wall for defence." I can understand that totally - it is hard to pick up confidence when it has been lost for one reason or another. | |||
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"Im not as shy as i used to be although not got a great deal of confidence so a bit shy i guess I cannot believe that lol xx
No honest its true I ll believe you... for now
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No honest its true I ll believe you... for now
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"Im a very shy person so affraid to speak out and i never ever been rude or naughty nor have i seen a womens thingy wotsit ---- but there again i could be a out right sex mad lier lol hehehehehe Shynesss is not something i suffered from but i can appreciate that others find it hard - i think my freinds off here might say im a good ice breaker sort of guy I want to witness the breaking of the ice, Yorkie xx" for you anyday ok consider it done | |||
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"Im a very shy person so affraid to speak out and i never ever been rude or naughty nor have i seen a womens thingy wotsit ---- but there again i could be a out right sex mad lier lol hehehehehe Shynesss is not something i suffered from but i can appreciate that others find it hard - i think my freinds off here might say im a good ice breaker sort of guy I want to witness the breaking of the ice, Yorkie xx
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"I am in certain circles, and depending on my mood. If there are people who are overly loud, I'll sit back watch rather than compete for air time. " I believe you get noticed more that way. Remember that famous inter_iew with Princess Diana where her stillness said a lot more than any words she uttered. | |||
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"I think with friends im far from shy and certainly a character and lively. If i'm in company im not so familiar with i would be more reserved until i feel comfortable enough to open up. Im certainly not shy though. When i attended a social recently i was shocked at how forward others behaved and how sexual it all was especially since it was held in a public venue where there were non swingers. In that circumstance i abstained from the banter and gladly turned into a wall flower for that night" I did not think you were shy either and being with people who are quite "loud" can mean that some people withdraw a bit or decide to observe rather than participate. I am naturally somebody who likes to include everybody, comes from being from a big and extended family I suppose. So I would try and include others rather than dominate the conversation. | |||
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"I know I'm gonna get sarcastic comments, but until I know people I can be quite shy. People tend to think of me as being this confident woman, when actually in certain situations I am dying inside. But heaven help people once I get to know them" coughs.... splutters... coughs more... splutters more... and faints | |||
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"I know I'm gonna get sarcastic comments, but until I know people I can be quite shy. People tend to think of me as being this confident woman, when actually in certain situations I am dying inside. But heaven help people once I get to know themcoughs.... splutters... coughs more... splutters more... and faints "See I knew that would happen | |||
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"I know I'm gonna get sarcastic comments, but until I know people I can be quite shy. People tend to think of me as being this confident woman, when actually in certain situations I am dying inside. But heaven help people once I get to know themcoughs.... splutters... coughs more... splutters more... and faints
See I knew that would happen "I have recovered quickly and you know I dont mean it...;-) It is just I have only ever seen the not so shy version of one Petillante | |||
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"I know I'm gonna get sarcastic comments, but until I know people I can be quite shy. People tend to think of me as being this confident woman, when actually in certain situations I am dying inside. But heaven help people once I get to know themcoughs.... splutters... coughs more... splutters more... and faints
See I knew that would happen
I have recovered quickly and you know I dont mean it...;-) It is just I have only ever seen the not so shy version of one Petillante "Perhaps shy is the wrong word, I can lack confidence which can make me appear shy | |||
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"I know I'm gonna get sarcastic comments, but until I know people I can be quite shy. People tend to think of me as being this confident woman, when actually in certain situations I am dying inside. But heaven help people once I get to know themcoughs.... splutters... coughs more... splutters more... and faints
See I knew that would happen
I have recovered quickly and you know I dont mean it...;-) It is just I have only ever seen the not so shy version of one Petillante
Perhaps shy is the wrong word, I can lack confidence which can make me appear shy"Well, Madam - you should not be. You are one of the most down to earth, genuine, funny, sociable and sexy people on this site and you deserve to wear that badge with pride! Now make the most of that - I am in complimentary mode right now and .... I have not had a drink either | |||
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"I'm just thinking of the time honoured phrase for shyness... Don't be shy, your Mother wasn't!
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"I know I'm gonna get sarcastic comments, but until I know people I can be quite shy. People tend to think of me as being this confident woman, when actually in certain situations I am dying inside. But heaven help people once I get to know themcoughs.... splutters... coughs more... splutters more... and faints
See I knew that would happen
I have recovered quickly and you know I dont mean it...;-) It is just I have only ever seen the not so shy version of one Petillante
Perhaps shy is the wrong word, I can lack confidence which can make me appear shyWell, Madam - you should not be. You are one of the most down to earth, genuine, funny, sociable and sexy people on this site and you deserve to wear that badge with pride! Now make the most of that - I am in complimentary mode right now and .... I have not had a drink either "Trust me won't be being shy in about 3 hours | |||
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"I know I'm gonna get sarcastic comments, but until I know people I can be quite shy. People tend to think of me as being this confident woman, when actually in certain situations I am dying inside. But heaven help people once I get to know themcoughs.... splutters... coughs more... splutters more... and faints
See I knew that would happen
I have recovered quickly and you know I dont mean it...;-) It is just I have only ever seen the not so shy version of one Petillante
Perhaps shy is the wrong word, I can lack confidence which can make me appear shyWell, Madam - you should not be. You are one of the most down to earth, genuine, funny, sociable and sexy people on this site and you deserve to wear that badge with pride! Now make the most of that - I am in complimentary mode right now and .... I have not had a drink either
Trust me won't be being shy in about 3 hours "I expect a full and detailled report for evaluation - nothing quite like living off somebody else's fun Have a lovely evening xx | |||
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karaoke is totally my thing... fancy a duet?
You, me and a couple of microphones...? Yer on...!!!
Musical pornography... Mmmmmmmm..."Thread is getting out of hand...;-) | |||
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" Horses for courses. I am fine doing that and the more you do it the easier it gets. But i wouldnt actively strike up conversations with people i don't know. I would also never dream of going somewhere like a club on my own yeah but that's cos ur just too tight to pay urself in "Fair point | |||
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"I'm less shy in messages and txt but am shy in person until I know someone well. Yes my shyness begins to disappear after a short while. " I ofetn wondered why that is - is it because in face to face contact they can see you and you feel a bit embarrassed perhaps? I dont mean just you, I mean most people? | |||
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" Horses for courses. I am fine doing that and the more you do it the easier it gets. But i wouldnt actively strike up conversations with people i don't know. I would also never dream of going somewhere like a club on my own yeah but that's cos ur just too tight to pay urself in
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"I know I'm gonna get sarcastic comments, but until I know people I can be quite shy. People tend to think of me as being this confident woman, when actually in certain situations I am dying inside. But heaven help people once I get to know themcoughs.... splutters... coughs more... splutters more... and faints
See I knew that would happen
I have recovered quickly and you know I dont mean it...;-) It is just I have only ever seen the not so shy version of one Petillante
Perhaps shy is the wrong word, I can lack confidence which can make me appear shyWell, Madam - you should not be. You are one of the most down to earth, genuine, funny, sociable and sexy people on this site and you deserve to wear that badge with pride! Now make the most of that - I am in complimentary mode right now and .... I have not had a drink either
Trust me won't be being shy in about 3 hours I expect a full and detailled report for evaluation - nothing quite like living off somebody else's fun Have a lovely evening xx"You know I don't kiss and tell | |||
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karaoke is totally my thing... fancy a duet?
You, me and a couple of microphones...? Yer on...!!!
Musical pornography... Mmmmmmmm...Thread is getting out of hand...;-)"Three way harmony...? Phwoarrr...!! | |||
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karaoke is totally my thing... fancy a duet?
You, me and a couple of microphones...? Yer on...!!!
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I tell everyone that's why I bury my face because of the shyness, it never my fault that the thing that is closes to me is someone's chest or lap You are hysterical!! "It amazes me how many women slap my face when I ask if I can read the Braille around their nipples. | |||
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I tell everyone that's why I bury my face because of the shyness, it never my fault that the thing that is closes to me is someone's chest or lap You are hysterical!!
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I tell everyone that's why I bury my face because of the shyness, it never my fault that the thing that is closes to me is someone's chest or lap You are hysterical!!
It amazes me how many women slap my face when I ask if I can read the Braille around their nipples. Any more tricks up your errrr sleeve? "It not like I use my guide dog to get people to talk to me honest they just being polite | |||
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I tell everyone that's why I bury my face because of the shyness, it never my fault that the thing that is closes to me is someone's chest or lap You are hysterical!!
It amazes me how many women slap my face when I ask if I can read the Braille around their nipples. Any more tricks up your errrr sleeve?
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I tell everyone that's why I bury my face because of the shyness, it never my fault that the thing that is closes to me is someone's chest or lap You are hysterical!!
It amazes me how many women slap my face when I ask if I can read the Braille around their nipples. Any more tricks up your errrr sleeve?
It not like I use my guide dog to get people to talk to me honest they just being polite
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I tell everyone that's why I bury my face because of the shyness, it never my fault that the thing that is closes to me is someone's chest or lap You are hysterical!!
It amazes me how many women slap my face when I ask if I can read the Braille around their nipples. Any more tricks up your errrr sleeve?
It not like I use my guide dog to get people to talk to me honest they just being polite
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I tell everyone that's why I bury my face because of the shyness, it never my fault that the thing that is closes to me is someone's chest or lap You are hysterical!!
It amazes me how many women slap my face when I ask if I can read the Braille around their nipples. Any more tricks up your errrr sleeve?
It not like I use my guide dog to get people to talk to me honest they just being polite
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I tell everyone that's why I bury my face because of the shyness, it never my fault that the thing that is closes to me is someone's chest or lap You are hysterical!!
It amazes me how many women slap my face when I ask if I can read the Braille around their nipples. Any more tricks up your errrr sleeve?
It not like I use my guide dog to get people to talk to me honest they just being polite
To be fair to my dog everyone says she is really cute You are a riot!! Do you carry a government health warning?
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I tell everyone that's why I bury my face because of the shyness, it never my fault that the thing that is closes to me is someone's chest or lap You are hysterical!!
It amazes me how many women slap my face when I ask if I can read the Braille around their nipples. Any more tricks up your errrr sleeve?
It not like I use my guide dog to get people to talk to me honest they just being polite
To be fair to my dog everyone says she is really cute You are a riot!! Do you carry a government health warning?
No but I do have a card saying I'm blind Hell, do you stop at anything? "I do have boundaries, I never take my daughter and tell them she was one of my best works
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" I do have boundaries, I never take my daughter and tell them she was one of my best works
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" I do have boundaries, I never take my daughter and tell them she was one of my best works
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"... Chatting and meeting has certainly helped me be a lot more comfortable and confident with new folks. (-: Thanks all!! You look quite sexy and confident in your avatar;-) Now where the hell is Shrewsbury "I can confidently say: "close enough to be worth it!" X | |||
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"... Chatting and meeting has certainly helped me be a lot more comfortable and confident with new folks. (-: Thanks all!! You look quite sexy and confident in your avatar;-) Now where the hell is Shrewsbury
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But to be fair to me she polite, cute and very smart I d be curious about those boundaries lol
People need to know me before they find them MAkes note to self - find out more!!!
And make sure you put it in your calendar too Ahem... which bit of yours am I meant to put there?
How about the must find out what makes _ucspark tick for now "That makes it worth while coming back home for | |||
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And make sure you put it in your calendar too Ahem... which bit of yours am I meant to put there?
How about the must find out what makes _ucspark tick for now
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But to be fair to me she polite, cute and very smart I d be curious about those boundaries lol
People need to know me before they find them MAkes note to self - find out more!!!
And make sure you put it in your calendar too Ahem... which bit of yours am I meant to put there?
How about the must find out what makes _ucspark tick for now
That makes it worth while coming back home forWell, joke aside you will be missed on here xx"You are such a sweetie | |||
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" I do have boundaries, I never take my daughter and tell them she was one of my best works
But to be fair to me she polite, cute and very smart I d be curious about those boundaries lol
People need to know me before they find them MAkes note to self - find out more!!!
And make sure you put it in your calendar too Ahem... which bit of yours am I meant to put there?
How about the must find out what makes _ucspark tick for now
That makes it worth while coming back home forWell, joke aside you will be missed on here xx
You are such a sweetie " | |||
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" I do have boundaries, I never take my daughter and tell them she was one of my best works
But to be fair to me she polite, cute and very smart I d be curious about those boundaries lol
People need to know me before they find them MAkes note to self - find out more!!!
And make sure you put it in your calendar too Ahem... which bit of yours am I meant to put there?
How about the must find out what makes _ucspark tick for now
That makes it worth while coming back home forWell, joke aside you will be missed on here xx
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" I do have boundaries, I never take my daughter and tell them she was one of my best works
But to be fair to me she polite, cute and very smart I d be curious about those boundaries lol
People need to know me before they find them MAkes note to self - find out more!!!
And make sure you put it in your calendar too Ahem... which bit of yours am I meant to put there?
How about the must find out what makes _ucspark tick for now
That makes it worth while coming back home forWell, joke aside you will be missed on here xx
You are such a sweetie
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" I do have boundaries, I never take my daughter and tell them she was one of my best works
But to be fair to me she polite, cute and very smart I d be curious about those boundaries lol
People need to know me before they find them MAkes note to self - find out more!!!
And make sure you put it in your calendar too Ahem... which bit of yours am I meant to put there?
How about the must find out what makes _ucspark tick for now
That makes it worth while coming back home forWell, joke aside you will be missed on here xx
You are such a sweetie
And now you go all shyI have to retire shyfully "Now you making me smile again, thinking of you going all shy and me trying to find you | |||
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"Its easy to post from the anonymity of the site and your pc, but how shy or easily embarrassed are you really? Just curious me..." My profile name says it all really lol xx I am a very shy person and have very little confidence with women as they usually hurt me But in saying that once i get to know someone i open up and am ok lol xx | |||
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"Its easy to post from the anonymity of the site and your pc, but how shy or easily embarrassed are you really? Just curious me..." Used to be until I realised how to overcome it. Now confident but generally bide my time and see how the land lies first. Generally speaking you are not learning much if you lips are moving, or your fingers are typing. | |||
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"I am very shy in person, unless I know someone well. However, I used to be a trainer and would have to give lots of presentations and attend meetngs with the big wigs and I was always fine doing that. So in a professional situation, I am fine, even returning to education, if I know enough about something I am comfortable Meeting new people, and lots in one go is hard, and I can become near enough invisable. "I find meeting lots of new people a real energy sapper. | |||
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"I can be shy with new playmates at the beginning. I wouldn't be the one to rip their clothes off etc, I'm always quite reserved. I'm not shy in a group situation as such, I don't mind standing out, but I'm not a shouting out bawdy comments and drinking type, I do always talk in smaller groups. At work I like to size up all parties but I will always talk up and make my point known "And you do come across as genuinely confident, not cocky, not arrogant - just ok with yourself and the surroundings kind of confidence. | |||
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"Online,i'm not shy in the least. Face to face is a different story. I can hold a conversation, but hold back until I can guage the other person/people. I'm not easily embarrassed in any situation lol. .. .... I have no shame ."I love that last part ...;-) | |||
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"..but with everything else, im quite outspoken and im not shy. I like to say things straight, i dont like bullshit. No beating round the bush. But, thats just me " Thumbs up for a no nonsense, no BS kind of guy ! | |||
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"I am very shy in person, unless I know someone well. However, I used to be a trainer and would have to give lots of presentations and attend meetngs with the big wigs and I was always fine doing that. So in a professional situation, I am fine, even returning to education, if I know enough about something I am comfortable Meeting new people, and lots in one go is hard, and I can become near enough invisable. "Great to see that there are other people who dont mind speaking publicly but will confess to a little shyness when meeting new people. | |||
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"Its easy to post from the anonymity of the site and your pc, but how shy or easily embarrassed are you really? Just curious me... My profile name says it all really lol xx I am a very shy person and have very little confidence with women as they usually hurt me But in saying that once i get to know someone i open up and am ok lol xx"Thats a a real shame that you feel hurt - not all people are like that; its about trying to find those that are genuine xx | |||
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" Generally speaking you are not learning much if you lips are moving, or your fingers are typing." What a great saying! | |||
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"I have always been shy but have got better as I have aged, but by most peoples standards I would still have to say I am shy, :-$ so surprising really that I can go on a site like this and meet a total stranger with the intension off going to bed with them, being so horny must over come my shyness pmsl last meet I had went very well we were at it all night he he "It takes some practice - dont worry, you are a nice guy and wont have problems - of that I am sure | |||
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"I was shy last night, honest "I believe you! | |||
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"see I'm so shy I don't even like typing in public "That was brilliant | |||
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"There are very few people that would describe me as shy but I do feel it in many situations. Those that have seen my psychometric test responses see that I come out almost exactly borderline introvert and extrovert. I know that is not the same as shy but it is as close as 'testing' can get to show the shyness I feel." How interesting! I come out as a 99% extrovert in a psychometric test and even I can at times be shy. | |||
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"There are very few people that would describe me as shy but I do feel it in many situations. Those that have seen my psychometric test responses see that I come out almost exactly borderline introvert and extrovert. I know that is not the same as shy but it is as close as 'testing' can get to show the shyness I feel.How interesting! I come out as a 99% extrovert in a psychometric test and even I can at times be shy. "Most would expect me to be at 75-80% extrovert, at least. Including the people that have tested me. I'm also really short and a bit deaf so social situations are often above my head so it is easy enough to find reasons not to do them. Except when I have to and then I am usually leading the event in some way. | |||
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"There are very few people that would describe me as shy but I do feel it in many situations. Those that have seen my psychometric test responses see that I come out almost exactly borderline introvert and extrovert. I know that is not the same as shy but it is as close as 'testing' can get to show the shyness I feel.How interesting! I come out as a 99% extrovert in a psychometric test and even I can at times be shy.
Most would expect me to be at 75-80% extrovert, at least. Including the people that have tested me.
I'm also really short and a bit deaf so social situations are often above my head so it is easy enough to find reasons not to do them. Except when I have to and then I am usually leading the event in some way."So you are giving extrovert vibes by the sound of it and your profile would suggest that, too | |||
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