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By *hris 62 OP   Man
over a year ago

HEREFORD

When do you and like best ,st8 to bedroom, chat ouer drink plays games and if play games what games

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

A social

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

At least one social.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When do you and like best ,st8 to bedroom, chat ouer drink plays games and if play games what games"

Scrabble looking good right now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social first for sure, you never know you may even get lucky on that first social. But always offer to go for a drink or some food first

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"A social "

Yes. A chat in a quiet bar.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"Social first for sure, you never know you may even get lucky on that first social. But always offer to go for a drink or some food first "

So you don't really want a social first ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A social normally a nice meal and if Carol is comfortable straight into playing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When do you and like best ,st8 to bedroom, chat ouer drink plays games and if play games what games"

It depends on the person and all discussion beforehand - social, or straight to room. Never thought about playing any sort of game, first but that’s worth a try - who fancies a game of badminton, followed by sex?

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford


"A social

Yes. A chat in a quiet bar."

I like coffee shops. Less ‘pressure’, I genuinely drive there so have to have a soft drink anyway and cake is on the menu

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By *histlerMan
over a year ago

Guildford

I’ve had a mix of social first and playing on the first meet (sometimes we couldn’t help ourselves).

I’m happy with either, but there is always an element of getting to know someone a bit more before anything happens. Love the tension building up as we both have the same thoughts racing through our minds.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Social first either having coffee or drinks...a good flirt and lots of laughs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Social first for sure, you never know you may even get lucky on that first social. But always offer to go for a drink or some food first

So you don't really want a social first ?"

Spontaneity can be great too. I once insisted on meeting for a coffee and chat, social meet. But it was mutual lust at first sight (ok, we had chatted a lot online beforehand) and she suggested in the queue that we just get a takeaway coffee instead - and head straight to the hotel room. I don’t think we ever got round to drinking the coffees....

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By *-man24Man
over a year ago

northwest

Coffee a talk and a walk and a little kiss and see how it flows from them slowly slowly gets the anticipation going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Social first for sure, you never know you may even get lucky on that first social. But always offer to go for a drink or some food first

So you don't really want a social first ?"

As I said, social first, but if you get along an it ends up more than a social, I’m not going to complain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Social first for sure, you never know you may even get lucky on that first social. But always offer to go for a drink or some food first

So you don't really want a social first ?

Spontaneity can be great too. I once insisted on meeting for a coffee and chat, social meet. But it was mutual lust at first sight (ok, we had chatted a lot online beforehand) and she suggested in the queue that we just get a takeaway coffee instead - and head straight to the hotel room. I don’t think we ever got round to drinking the coffees.... "

Exactly, sounds like was a brilliant day an experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely a social first

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Social first.

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Always social lots of texts 2 get the feel of some 1 .then coffee and flirts and maybe just a little kiss lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a chat and maybe something to eat and drink for an hour or two, then up to the bedroom xx

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Allways a social first! Makes things easier as to if u would go further or not x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Games make me cringe. I'm an adult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to be a social and a drink or some food then see how it goes

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Always a social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always a social plenty of laughs, flirting and hopefully a plan to meet up for a coffee again. Nice and easy does it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A social always.

I never take condoms on a first meet, as I feel to carry them implies I'm expecting something more than a social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cards against humanity please!

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By *azpiz1Man
over a year ago

Camberley

Definitely a social.

Always happy to play if the situation allows.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Social first to see if we both have a mental connection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social, my last meet was 6 socials before a night together.

For me its all about the build up, that sexual charge needs to be there

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

Urgh I’m rubbish at socials ... always plan a coffee but if we click then why waste time? I don’t get much play time so endless coffee meets don’t work for me.

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Social first normally ...sometimes play that night if feeling naughty ....but usually plan for another evening when we have chatted about the new people we have met with ...

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I prefer a social first, but if that leads to a little teasing and touchy-feely play then even better.

A few passionate kisses doesn't hurt either.

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By *ich_ChesterMan
over a year ago

Chester

Social first, drinks, flirt and see where it leads

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By *hris 62 OP   Man
over a year ago

HEREFORD


"Social first for sure, you never know you may even get lucky on that first social. But always offer to go for a drink or some food first

So you don't really want a social first ?"

Yes ask how some started there now adays as been out for a bit come back in full lockdown see how people are thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always insist on a social.... if someone can’t take the time to meet me socially then that’s where it stops.

Not just for my own safety but it allows both parties to meet unreservedly with no pressure. If no spark... then nothing lost apart from maybe an hour of time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always a social plenty of laughs, flirting and hopefully a plan to meet up for a coffee again. Nice and easy does it. "

And somewhere very public and at least halfway between each other, then it makes it a bit easier for both parties.

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