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What makes a good first message?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey everyone, what do you all think makes a good first message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fancy a fuck always works for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"fancy a fuck always works for us "

Or your tits look great, fancy a fuck?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

No one liners is a favourite start... and ensure your profile is up to form, as many just read the sender's profile, before/instead of the message.

Be respectful, ensure you conform to recipients stated preferences and that something of you comes across.

Probably don't have a standard message that you send to everybody - it'll get stale, and not seem like it's really addressed to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"fancy a fuck always works for us

Or your tits look great, fancy a fuck? "
ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm..... at the other end of the spectrum.. the phrase 'Will bring my own washable condom' is unlikely to generate a response from us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"fancy a fuck always works for us

Or your tits look great, fancy a fuck? ok "

Wow that's the easiest I've managed to get a positive reply.

Step this way....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me a long description of what a man wants to do to me would be an instant turn off. Not a fan of 'Hi how are you' messages either.

I prefer something with a personal touch thats perhaps a little bit funny. I like to see a mans personality come through whilst showing he'd read my profile by perhaps making a comment or reference to something i've said.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I like ......

Bank Balance

Number of cars in fleet

Committment to bone idle female takers

Wine bringers

House cleaning during the cool down

Closing the door quietly while I sleep

Leaving a large gift in the drive

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I take all your points, but it's hard to get a personal touch with someone you dont know. i always try and get a reference to their profile, but some people don't help and then complain when your message is dry ha!

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By *lam rockerMan
over a year ago

Tain

this may be something pedantic, but a pet hate of mine is pictures you have to look at by turning 90 degrees to the screen. Attention to detail is everything and that shows a sloppiness normally associated with a greedy girl's pussy at the end of an exciting night!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'hi'

or if you are feeling particularly daring :

'hi, how are you ?'

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"this may be something pedantic, but a pet hate of mine is pictures you have to look at by turning 90 degrees to the screen. Attention to detail is everything and that shows a sloppiness normally associated with a greedy girl's pussy at the end of an exciting night! "

Thats how i got my 1st meet. Her laughing at my head turning to see her pic on the screen

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"fancy a fuck always works for us

Or your tits look great, fancy a fuck? ok "

I find its better to combine the two.

Do you fancy a tit fuck ?

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By *lam rockerMan
over a year ago

Tain

actually, my most successful one has been a rather simple and effective.

Boo!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"fancy a fuck always works for us

Or your tits look great, fancy a fuck? ok

I find its better to combine the two.

Do you fancy a tit fuck ?"

Does that work if i were to message you 'Ive a cracking pair, fancy a tit fuck?'

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Okay JK ..... a serious answer

There ISNT a good first message.

What one person likes the other doesn't.

Write what is a good message to YOU.

If no one answers so be it.

I can ignore something one day that would amuse me the next.

Stop looking for magic formulas....

Do you say to girlfreinds...... 'Well my LAT g.f. like it this way?

I doubt it.....

It's a holy grail thing.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

that's supposed to say last gf ....doh

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"fancy a fuck always works for us

Or your tits look great, fancy a fuck? ok

I find its better to combine the two.

Do you fancy a tit fuck ?

Does that work if i were to message you 'Ive a cracking pair, fancy a tit fuck?' "

Cute, to be honest it probably stands a pretty good chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like ......

Bank Balance

Number of cars in fleet

Committment to bone idle female takers

Wine bringers

House cleaning during the cool down

Closing the door quietly while I sleep

Leaving a large gift in the drive"

Bank balance-0.11p

Number of vehicles in fleet- 2

Commitment to female takers-I fuck you don't I

Wine bringers-you do enough whining for both of us.

House cleaning during the cool down-

Closin the door quietly while you sleep-I'll be asleep before you, you close it quietly.

Leaving a large gift on the drive-don't blame the dog

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"fancy a fuck always works for us

Or your tits look great, fancy a fuck? ok

I find its better to combine the two.

Do you fancy a tit fuck ?"

I can always count on Ryan to disclose how we really work here in the shire! Didn't realise the Saturday night chat up lines worked on here too.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"fancy a fuck always works for us

Or your tits look great, fancy a fuck? ok

I find its better to combine the two.

Do you fancy a tit fuck ?

I can always count on Ryan to disclose how we really work here in the shire! Didn't realise the Saturday night chat up lines worked on here too. "

a lot easier on here. I haven't had to offer a kebab once yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"fancy a fuck always works for us

Or your tits look great, fancy a fuck? ok

I find its better to combine the two.

Do you fancy a tit fuck ?

I can always count on Ryan to disclose how we really work here in the shire! Didn't realise the Saturday night chat up lines worked on here too.

a lot easier on here. I haven't had to offer a kebab once yet"

Obviously a classier bird visits this place rather than oxford

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is Oxford the place to go if im after a Kebab then?? Takes me a 20 odd min drive if i were to ever get the urge for one..

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"is Oxford the place to go if im after a Kebab then?? Takes me a 20 odd min drive if i were to ever get the urge for one.."

take you slightly longer if you wanted an Oxford one. Probably wouldnt have the same appeal by the time you got home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is Oxford the place to go if im after a Kebab then?? Takes me a 20 odd min drive if i were to ever get the urge for one..

take you slightly longer if you wanted an Oxford one. Probably wouldnt have the same appeal by the time you got home"

Unless its was from bodrums - the very best in the world.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

cock pics and they don't have to be of your own

any do...

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"is Oxford the place to go if im after a Kebab then?? Takes me a 20 odd min drive if i were to ever get the urge for one..

take you slightly longer if you wanted an Oxford one. Probably wouldnt have the same appeal by the time you got home

Unless its was from bodrums - the very best in the world. "

Not tried there. I only tend to go down the cowley road to stock up on asian supplies

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