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"He's got a friend. ^" why thanks for your kind words and support ! | |||
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"How does one actualy go about meeting folk on here theres lots of proper sassy folk , and amazing couple profiles on here ,but i feal im missing something all i want is a confident experienced person -or couple (with preferably assertive lady) to guide a newbie along the way. very keen and eager to learn! Any one up for giving lessons ?? Or demoststions maybe! Asking for a friend " Most people on here are not wanting to teach anybody. | |||
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"People are often here for there own fantasies and sexual journey so not many are really looking to offer lessons." There be a fair few i guess maybe ( dont want to sound rude but attactive folk who love the attention but thats about it) anyway its kind of nice in a way intaracting with the its never going to happen crew but goodness me frustrating! Dont suppose you do lessons per chance (maybe a step to far appoligies) x | |||
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"How does one actualy go about meeting folk on here theres lots of proper sassy folk , and amazing couple profiles on here ,but i feal im missing something all i want is a confident experienced person -or couple (with preferably assertive lady) to guide a newbie along the way. very keen and eager to learn! Any one up for giving lessons ?? Or demoststions maybe! Asking for a friend " You don't.. We are still not allowed to.. Perhaps after the rules change things may improve for you.. And lots of others too | |||
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"OP I’m not sure the please teach me Avenue will get you very far here and it’s not really how things work. It’s more about building friendships and connections but that’s incredibly difficult for all single men as there are simply so many of you. All you can do is ensure your photos and profile are a really good reflection of who you are and send messages to people who’s profile you’ve also read. Many use the forums to break the ice and get to know others but it’s not easy for anyone new as this is a huge collection of diverse individuals. When clubs and socials start maybe that’s an Avenue to consider, but for now it’s simply treading water until life resumes. " Couldn’t have said it better myself. It’s not often I say this but I 100% agree with Saffy  | |||
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"OP I’m not sure the please teach me Avenue will get you very far here and it’s not really how things work. It’s more about building friendships and connections but that’s incredibly difficult for all single men as there are simply so many of you. All you can do is ensure your photos and profile are a really good reflection of who you are and send messages to people who’s profile you’ve also read. Many use the forums to break the ice and get to know others but it’s not easy for anyone new as this is a huge collection of diverse individuals. When clubs and socials start maybe that’s an Avenue to consider, but for now it’s simply treading water until life resumes. " Thank you for your wise words makes sence but im being honest , got no confidence in the bed room department would be worse if i pretended i was casinover but couldnt deliver as such ! Thank you and your eyes are amazing by the way | |||
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"How does one actualy go about meeting folk on here theres lots of proper sassy folk , and amazing couple profiles on here ,but i feal im missing something all i want is a confident experienced person -or couple (with preferably assertive lady) to guide a newbie along the way. very keen and eager to learn! Any one up for giving lessons ?? Or demoststions maybe! Asking for a friend You don't.. We are still not allowed to.. Perhaps after the rules change things may improve for you.. And lots of others too "Yep just planning ahead , nar been on here pre covid its just i see groups of people storys and pics and get a bit hot under the coller as such ! Yes i do respect the rules for good reason n what not , hopefully we be back to normality soon. | |||
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"Teach you? You're married and do the baby making thing (unless you lied on another thread where you said you didn't get much action at home coz your wife doesn't put out much and views sex as a baby making activity) Curious "  | |||
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"Teach you? You're married and do the baby making thing (unless you lied on another thread where you said you didn't get much action at home coz your wife doesn't put out much and views sex as a baby making activity) Curious " Great spot Princess. Over to you OP..... | |||
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"Teach you? You're married and do the baby making thing (unless you lied on another thread where you said you didn't get much action at home coz your wife doesn't put out much and views sex as a baby making activity) Curious Great spot Princess. Over to you OP....." I haven’t seen the thread referred to but in his defence, may I suggest the fact that he is submissive, by his own admission in his profile, could have led to his domestic situation with a more forthright wife. Is that possible? | |||
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"Teach you? You're married and do the baby making thing (unless you lied on another thread where you said you didn't get much action at home coz your wife doesn't put out much and views sex as a baby making activity) Curious Great spot Princess. Over to you OP..... I haven’t seen the thread referred to but in his defence, may I suggest the fact that he is submissive, by his own admission in his profile, could have led to his domestic situation with a more forthright wife. Is that possible?" Sexual role preferences has zero relation to every day life. Wake up | |||
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"Teach you? You're married and do the baby making thing (unless you lied on another thread where you said you didn't get much action at home coz your wife doesn't put out much and views sex as a baby making activity) Curious Great spot Princess. Over to you OP..... I haven’t seen the thread referred to but in his defence, may I suggest the fact that he is submissive, by his own admission in his profile, could have led to his domestic situation with a more forthright wife. Is that possible? Sexual role preferences has zero relation to every day life. Wake up" No, nope, not at all what I was referring to. Not about role preferences at all. I was talking about how his submissive nature may have led to a slow deteriorating of his sexual relationship with his wife. I wonder if the ladies above understand what I’m trying to articulate. I don’t quite understand it but I know it can happen. | |||
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"Teach you? You're married and do the baby making thing (unless you lied on another thread where you said you didn't get much action at home coz your wife doesn't put out much and views sex as a baby making activity) Curious Great spot Princess. Over to you OP..... I haven’t seen the thread referred to but in his defence, may I suggest the fact that he is submissive, by his own admission in his profile, could have led to his domestic situation with a more forthright wife. Is that possible?" Doesn't he say that he is practically a virgin and has hardly any experience with ladies? | |||
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"Teach you? You're married and do the baby making thing (unless you lied on another thread where you said you didn't get much action at home coz your wife doesn't put out much and views sex as a baby making activity) Curious Great spot Princess. Over to you OP..... I haven’t seen the thread referred to but in his defence, may I suggest the fact that he is submissive, by his own admission in his profile, could have led to his domestic situation with a more forthright wife. Is that possible? Doesn't he say that he is practically a virgin and has hardly any experience with ladies?" Ah yes all true , I do have a wife and kids and no I dont get ant bedroom activity , My wife just simply like it as a activity more of a means for children and we arnt having anymore ! I love her and obviously the kids and im not going to give up my family as i dont get sex ! I know its a terrible thing im not planning on having a relationship with anyone else or running away with anybody , we are only here once trying a few kinks out before im in dead would be nice ! Im pretty sure theres many of folk on here Married n whatnot . I havent been with anyone else havent done the bad thing apart from been on here . Im guesing it will just be a fantasy but its mind blowingly frustrating ! Cant wait for the wrath im going to get for this but im been honest! | |||
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"Teach you? You're married and do the baby making thing (unless you lied on another thread where you said you didn't get much action at home coz your wife doesn't put out much and views sex as a baby making activity) Curious Great spot Princess. Over to you OP..... I haven’t seen the thread referred to but in his defence, may I suggest the fact that he is submissive, by his own admission in his profile, could have led to his domestic situation with a more forthright wife. Is that possible? Doesn't he say that he is practically a virgin and has hardly any experience with ladies? Ah yes all true , I do have a wife and kids and no I dont get ant bedroom activity , My wife just simply like it as a activity more of a means for children and we arnt having anymore ! I love her and obviously the kids and im not going to give up my family as i dont get sex ! I know its a terrible thing im not planning on having a relationship with anyone else or running away with anybody , we are only here once trying a few kinks out before im in dead would be nice ! Im pretty sure theres many of folk on here Married n whatnot . I havent been with anyone else havent done the bad thing apart from been on here . Im guesing it will just be a fantasy but its mind blowingly frustrating ! Cant wait for the wrath im going to get for this but im been honest!" I appreciate it must be frustrating. How did you get on at couples counselling? I'm assuming you've been coz that's the sensible thing to do. You can tell me til you're blue in the face that you love her, but I'm telling you now, sure as shit, finding you on here behind her back has the capacity to crush her. Take a read of my profile and it'll tell you all you need to know about the impact of being lied to/cheated on. Virtual or physical, it doesn't matter, not really. Also, your kids won't see it as daddy wanted more sex than mummy would give him, of course they wouldn't. They'd see it as why did daddy love someone else more than us? Not every relationship works out long term, but don't bullshit, if you loved her as much as you say you do, you wouldn't risk it surely? | |||
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"Teach you? You're married and do the baby making thing (unless you lied on another thread where you said you didn't get much action at home coz your wife doesn't put out much and views sex as a baby making activity) Curious Great spot Princess. Over to you OP..... I haven’t seen the thread referred to but in his defence, may I suggest the fact that he is submissive, by his own admission in his profile, could have led to his domestic situation with a more forthright wife. Is that possible? Doesn't he say that he is practically a virgin and has hardly any experience with ladies? Ah yes all true , I do have a wife and kids and no I dont get ant bedroom activity , My wife just simply like it as a activity more of a means for children and we arnt having anymore ! I love her and obviously the kids and im not going to give up my family as i dont get sex ! I know its a terrible thing im not planning on having a relationship with anyone else or running away with anybody , we are only here once trying a few kinks out before im in dead would be nice ! Im pretty sure theres many of folk on here Married n whatnot . I havent been with anyone else havent done the bad thing apart from been on here . Im guesing it will just be a fantasy but its mind blowingly frustrating ! Cant wait for the wrath im going to get for this but im been honest! I appreciate it must be frustrating. How did you get on at couples counselling? I'm assuming you've been coz that's the sensible thing to do. You can tell me til you're blue in the face that you love her, but I'm telling you now, sure as shit, finding you on here behind her back has the capacity to crush her. Take a read of my profile and it'll tell you all you need to know about the impact of being lied to/cheated on. Virtual or physical, it doesn't matter, not really. Also, your kids won't see it as daddy wanted more sex than mummy would give him, of course they wouldn't. They'd see it as why did daddy love someone else more than us? Not every relationship works out long term, but don't bullshit, if you loved her as much as you say you do, you wouldn't risk it surely? " I will bet that there hasn't been any visits to a counsellor. | |||
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