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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I turned 46 the other day and now find that I am too old for majority of women on here!! Many have an upper limit of 45! Heartbreaking!!!

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Welcome to the world of fab lol

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

It's within our age limit and thousands of others!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I turned 46 the other day and now find that I am too old for majority of women on here!! Many have an upper limit of 45! Heartbreaking!!!"

Not necessarily so OP, many ladies have age limits which are older than 45. You just need to find them.

NBVN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age limits matter less at socials

I feel the socials are the place to go to really make connections

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just means they aren't for you, that's all.

there's a hell of a lot of us with higher age limits Px

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh I agree...loads with upper age limits. Just not locally! Still...the fun is in the searching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As one door closes, another opens.

You now fit into the age bracket of another group of people, those who appreciate gents over 45.

*sips his Earl Grey and contemplates which doors will open and close when he turns 50 later in the year*

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

There are situations where others will still chat you if you're outside their age range.

I'd suggest being patient with those that catch your eye and maybe they'll cone to like you - no matter your age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age limits are different for everyone. Some of us happen to like an older man OP

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I turned 46 the other day and now find that I am too old for majority of women on here!! Many have an upper limit of 45! Heartbreaking!!!"

My age is yours reversed

Imagine how many profiles age limits we're out of . I understand your frustration but

Look at profiles you do fit rather than concentrate on the ones you don't.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"I turned 46 the other day and now find that I am too old for majority of women on here!! Many have an upper limit of 45! Heartbreaking!!!

My age is yours reversed

Imagine how many profiles age limits we're out of . I understand your frustration but

Look at profiles you do fit rather than concentrate on the ones you don't. "
haha .. same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I turned 46 the other day and now find that I am too old for majority of women on here!! Many have an upper limit of 45! Heartbreaking!!!"

Happy Belated birthday Dude.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I turned 46 the other day and now find that I am too old for majority of women on here!! Many have an upper limit of 45! Heartbreaking!!!

My age is yours reversed

Imagine how many profiles age limits we're out of . I understand your frustration but

Look at profiles you do fit rather than concentrate on the ones you don't. haha .. same here "

Scary innit .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I turned 46 the other day and now find that I am too old for majority of women on here!! Many have an upper limit of 45! Heartbreaking!!!"

I see quite a few women in their 20s and 30s only wanting to meet people 45 and up.. hold out your hope dude.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing


"Age limits matter less at socials

I feel the socials are the place to go to really make connections "

This. I'd say 99% of women have "type" which will be irrelevant at a social.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"I turned 46 the other day and now find that I am too old for majority of women on here!! Many have an upper limit of 45! Heartbreaking!!!

My age is yours reversed

Imagine how many profiles age limits we're out of . I understand your frustration but

Look at profiles you do fit rather than concentrate on the ones you don't. haha .. same here

Scary innit .

"
very

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

And I thought the Silver Fox thing was in these days. Is that women on here in general or the type of women your specifically looking for?

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By *hantasmagoriaWoman
over a year ago

Newport

Prefer older to younger

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

Wait till you get to my age

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

For what it is worth I was still getting the occasional meet into my late 70s and prior to Covid and my own health issues.

Now into my 80s and with no sign of my health improving I have now confined myself to being a Forum junkie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting older is great as it extends the range of women of interest! When I was 18 a 55 year old women was a no, not now, they are super hot!

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By *iamond coupleCouple
over a year ago

leeds


"I turned 46 the other day and now find that I am too old for majority of women on here!! Many have an upper limit of 45! Heartbreaking!!!"

Read our limits

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

This is why I'm not massively keen on hard and fast age limits.

You're one age, you're potentially acceptable. Then you have a birthday, and now you're another age, and no longer potentially acceptable.

What changed when the clock ticked past midnight? Why is someone who was potentially acceptable yesterday no longer potentially acceptable today?

Imagine going out for your birthday drinks or something. You meet someone in a bar, hit it off, it's all going amazingly... and then they find out it's the *wrong* birthday. "Oh, I'm sorry. Twenty-four hours ago we'd have been fucking by now, but because the date changed you'd just going to have to piss off instead."

Obviously I respect the boundaries that people set, but I can't help but observe how abrupt and restrictive they seem in an online context.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i might be wrong but it suggests it says more about the age of profiles you are shopping for

i would expect people of a similar age as you to have filters open for people within their own age bracket

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sliding into 50 this year which I think makes me eligible to one person. And they live in the Scilly Isles.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Mine is 47

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Mines 49

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By *ack1970bMan
over a year ago

ipswich

I’m too young apparently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I turned 46 the other day and now find that I am too old for majority of women on here!! Many have an upper limit of 45! Heartbreaking!!!"

A mere child!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wouldn’t worry about age, there’s always some one looking for the more mature gent

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Ur age doesn't matter .ur profile will attract women and couples if it's available. Iv ad women contact me wen I'm clearly out of there age limit. But they like wot they see .u need a pic atleast on ur profile .how do u expect 2 get reply

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"This is why I'm not massively keen on hard and fast age limits.

You're one age, you're potentially acceptable. Then you have a birthday, and now you're another age, and no longer potentially acceptable.

What changed when the clock ticked past midnight? Why is someone who was potentially acceptable yesterday no longer potentially acceptable today?

Imagine going out for your birthday drinks or something. You meet someone in a bar, hit it off, it's all going amazingly... and then they find out it's the *wrong* birthday. "Oh, I'm sorry. Twenty-four hours ago we'd have been fucking by now, but because the date changed you'd just going to have to piss off instead."

Obviously I respect the boundaries that people set, but I can't help but observe how abrupt and restrictive they seem in an online context. "

I’d think most folk are already including a few years buffer in their age ranges “just in case”. So if it’s set at 49 (boo hoo turned 50 a few months back) their ideal upper is more like 45.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never worry.

You can't control it.

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By *ed velvet thornWoman
over a year ago

over the rainbow

I must admit my upper age limit is because I know my ex is on here and it stops him messaging me ...... however if im browsing and someone older catches my eye I will instigate a conversation 1st x

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I prefer men over 45 but my age limits are as they are now to limit my messages.

There are plenty on here who prefer mature fella’s, patience is your friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's traditional to lie on fab about your age. I'm 96 in real life and technically dead.

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

I was too you under 30 now I’m too old over 30. Can’t win.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Mine is just a guide, it totally depends on the person for me who I'll meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age might seem a hurdle for us older guys but if you do have a meet and make a good impression then from then onwards it doesn’t matter how old you are!! - just how good you are and how much fun you are to be with! - keep smiling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, wait until you get to my age !

In the meantime use the ‘ I'm age they're looking for’ box, saves all the ego battering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would gladly have a higher age limit if I didn’t get guys regularly looking like they are 20 years older than me pretending to be 40 something...

if you are going to lie at least choose a realistic age hahaha

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By *9089Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"I turned 46 the other day and now find that I am too old for majority of women on here!! Many have an upper limit of 45! Heartbreaking!!!"

Wait until you are north of 60.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I turned 46 the other day too.

There's still 20 somethings in my inbox

What does that tell you OP!

Any hole is clearly a goal

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I've just upped my lower age limit as i was disappointed in the guys i met who were below 40.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I’m old enough to be their mum it’s an absolute no go....

I’m just not into younger guys. Personally I’m very picky so 40-50 is ideal

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

40 is my absolute minimum but generally I am more drawn to men 50 and over.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for cheering me up! I did some research. Seems that most of the south west ladies have an upper limit of 45. Even some of the ladies that are over 45 themselves have an upper limit of 45!! But there are some who go over 45. That’s good.

Age is just a number. It’s what you can do that counts! Beside, older I get the more exciting the brew and conversations become!!

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By *erdy NancyWoman
over a year ago

East Devon

Most SW ladies definitely don't have an upper limit of 45, I've just checked hahahahahahahaha I think you might be feeling a little sorry for yourself!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Most SW ladies definitely don't have an upper limit of 45, I've just checked hahahahahahahaha I think you might be feeling a little sorry for yourself! "

Aye, older guys on here say everyone wants younger men and younger men on here say everyone says they're too young .

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By *erdy NancyWoman
over a year ago

East Devon


"Most SW ladies definitely don't have an upper limit of 45, I've just checked hahahahahahahaha I think you might be feeling a little sorry for yourself!

Aye, older guys on here say everyone wants younger men and younger men on here say everyone says they're too young . "

Hahaha everyone is equally hard done by then!

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"I turned 46 the other day and now find that I am too old for majority of women on here!! Many have an upper limit of 45! Heartbreaking!!!"

Start going to clubs us old guy do ok there...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I turned 46 the other day and now find that I am too old for majority of women on here!! Many have an upper limit of 45! Heartbreaking!!!"

Chin up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Think my research gone wrong!! Lol. Anyway...I’m not all that bothered. It was just a passing comment, something I notice. Long as we’re all safe, playing safe and treating each other with the respect we deserve, that all that matters to me! X

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