FabSwingers.com forum: When does FWB become a relationship?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it when you manage to cum together?

When you keep a toothbrush at each others?

Keep theirs toys and whips etc at yours?

Watch the sunset together?

When you take trips to Costco together?

When you stop sleeping with other people?

When the guy does DIY jobs?

Or is it when he takes the bins out?

Wittiest answer wins! Prize is a hat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After you have a conversation about it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is it really dull to just say when you discuss it and decide you want to be committed to each other?

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

When they're my +1 at the Christmas party

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

"After you have a conversation about it? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is already a relationship.

It might not be romantic but it's still a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when you have *the* conversation.

or when it's accidentally years later and yous are still as obsessed with eachother as you were on the first meet.

Orrrr when you're both stupidly in love with eachother.

Who knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When bloody find fwb in south east probably be about sixty by then

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

For me? Never

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

When you go toilet with the door open

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they spend more time wearing your clothes that they have “borrowed” than the do wearing their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it when you manage to cum together?

When you keep a toothbrush at each others?

Keep theirs toys and whips etc at yours?

Watch the sunset together?

When you take trips to Costco together?

When you stop sleeping with other people?

When the guy does DIY jobs?

Or is it when he takes the bins out?

Wittiest answer wins! Prize is a hat. "

All the above or any combination of the above or one of the above or none whichever she decides. Plus you missed fart together out.

You can keep the hat unless it's a dick hat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friendship is a relationship already, so I guess we're talking about it becoming romantic. I think it's easy for a fwb set up to blur into a romantic relationship without you realising, usually it becomes crushingly clear when one of you develops feelings and the other doesn't x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is already a relationship.

It might not be romantic but it's still a relationship "

I agree with this and have said it often. People go on about not wanting a relationship but as soon as you communicate with someone you're entering into one. It's the type of relationship that matters.. I think so anyhow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you go toilet with the door open

That is game over for being a FWB you have just broken the ultimate privacy rule.. :

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you spend every Tuesday and Thursday evening at theirs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you'd both rather eat a takeaway and watch Netflix than have sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is already a relationship.

It might not be romantic but it's still a relationship

Yeah, I have a relationship with my bank manager, but I don't think it's THAT kind of relationship

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When you'd both rather eat a takeaway and watch Netflix than have sex."

Nope from what I've heard that's the M word.... MARRIAGE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you go toilet with the door open

Think that’s called love lol a lady having a poo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you go toilet with the door open

That is game over for being a FWB you have just broken the ultimate privacy rule.. :

I do this with my fwb, I just means I comfortable around him and we are usually mind conversation

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

When you fart in front of each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s just not right lol lady’s fart blame us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is already a relationship.

It might not be romantic but it's still a relationship "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When you go toilet with the door open

I'm never going there!

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I had a FWBs for two and a half years. In that time I’d met all her family including her son and mother. It was still only a FWBs relationship. We trusted each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you fart in front of each other

I thought that was just being good friends.. bugger..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it when you manage to cum together?

When you keep a toothbrush at each others?

Keep theirs toys and whips etc at yours?

Watch the sunset together?

When you take trips to Costco together?

When you stop sleeping with other people?

When the guy does DIY jobs?

Or is it when he takes the bins out?

Wittiest answer wins! Prize is a hat. "

When you're friends tease you about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you go toilet with the door open

That made me laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had a fwb so can't answer, but I'd guess when feelings get involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when she admits to farting.

you got a keeper then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you fart in front of each other

....or on each other

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

When she asks you for your half of the rent

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

This is a conundrum that has confounded science for decades. Quarks, dark matter, string theory... all are as naught compared to the complexity of identifying the point when the FWB becomes a significant other. We all know when the rubicon has been crossed but few can isolate the point when it actually occurred.

Some say it is a pure ontological nicety whilst others claim it is encoded in the music of the galaxies. Whatever the truth, I believe that the Fab forum can yield the answer!

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By *ear in the chairMan
over a year ago

Godstone

"when she admits to farting.

you got a keeper then

Oh bugger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you fart in front of each other

I was thinking about that

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

When you tell them where you REALLY live

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Hopefully never!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

When you share shower gel

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

When he has a pee while you’re in the bath or vice versa!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never here for fun and already with the love of my life .. they still try tho but they never get anywhere

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By *estman for the jobMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

When she borrows your best shirt for a nighty or borrows your car and dings it

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By *ear in the chairMan
over a year ago

Godstone

"When he has a pee while you’re in the bath or vice versa!!

If she pees in my bath it's a step too far!

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

"When he has a pee while you’re in the bath or vice versa!!

If she pees in my bath it's a step too far!"

No sorry a mean on the loo at the same time as your in bath..

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By *estman for the jobMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"When he has a pee while you’re in the bath or vice versa!!

If she pees in my bath it's a step too far!

No sorry a mean on the loo at the same time as your in bath..

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o don't mind that as long as she's not shitting the smelly bitch lol

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"After you have a conversation about it? "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When you share shower gel

Dam it, I'm fucked then.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When she borrows your best shirt for a nighty or borrows your car and dings it"

I have a feeling borrowing the car and dinging it would have me put 6 feet under!

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"After you have a conversation about it? "

This?

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

When he tells you how he likes his gravy.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South

When you have have too many rums and are being sick and they hold your hair, rub your back and tell you not to cry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you have have too many rums and are being sick and they hold your hair, rub your back and tell you not to cry

have you seen the holidate?

they definitely crossed the line when she got d*unk , shit her pants and he showered her off lol , was true love at that point

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South

"When you have have too many rums and are being sick and they hold your hair, rub your back and tell you not to cry

have you seen the holidate?

they definitely crossed the line when she got d*unk , shit her pants and he showered her off lol , was true love at that point "

Not yet, but it sounds like my kind of film!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you have have too many rums and are being sick and they hold your hair, rub your back and tell you not to cry

have you seen the holidate?

they definitely crossed the line when she got d*unk , shit her pants and he showered her off lol , was true love at that point

Not yet, but it sounds like my kind of film!

oh sorry! spoiler alert , but its still a good watch- easy viewing and funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a big difference between fuck buddy and fwb

I wouldnt do most of what people have said infront of a fuck buddy but would a fwb, because they are a friend and I am comfortable around my friends. Sex is just an added bonus.

A relationship is when you both decide you want it to be more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck buddy - I’d say this relationship is exclusively about sexual gratification with light touch emotional access sometimes ..

FWB - I’d say this relationship accommodates shared non-sexual experiences in addition to deeper emotional access, with the added bonus of sexual gratification

‘Proper relationship’ - I’d say this relationship is about practically co-investing into a future with no horizon, deepest possible emotional access, and sexual gratification

I won’t write it 50 times on the blackboard though

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

"When you tell them where you REALLY live "

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By *inkyfilthymindMan
over a year ago

Berks / Heathrow

"Is it when you manage to cum together?

When you keep a toothbrush at each others?

Keep theirs toys and whips etc at yours?

Watch the sunset together?

When you take trips to Costco together?

When you stop sleeping with other people?

When the guy does DIY jobs?

Or is it when he takes the bins out?

Wittiest answer wins! Prize is a hat. "

I take Costco trips seriously, that is reserved for only after the wedding date is set

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Fuck buddy - I’d say this relationship is exclusively about sexual gratification with light touch emotional access sometimes ..

FWB - I’d say this relationship accommodates shared non-sexual experiences in addition to deeper emotional access, with the added bonus of sexual gratification

‘Proper relationship’ - I’d say this relationship is about practically co-investing into a future with no horizon, deepest possible emotional access, and sexual gratification

I won’t write it 50 times on the blackboard though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you have a pizza movie night rather than go to a club

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

When you part company with a load of home baking in the car to see you through the week, and a hand knitted cardigan that she's made for my mum.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Is when you both make sure they will have the same days off from work

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