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"She already knows and that I'm never giving up." That sounds a wee bit stalkerish | |||
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"Oh I definitely have my eyes firmly set on a beauty  "And she knows | |||
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"They know. What’s the point if people don’t know that you fancy them?! " some people are shy, and maybe don't have the confidence to just come out and say it | |||
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"They know. What’s the point if people don’t know that you fancy them?! " Too goddam shy to that's why   | |||
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"Who is yours OP?" how to put someone on the spot, I would hope they already know though there was a little poem on a thread earlier dedicated to that person | |||
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"Believe me I tell anyone I like they know thst "You're a floozy that's why McNugget | |||
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"Who is yours OP? how to put someone on the spot, I would hope they already know though there was a little poem on a thread earlier dedicated to that person " Ahhh now I know | |||
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"They know. What’s the point if people don’t know that you fancy them?! Too goddam shy to that's why "What’s the worst thing that can happen? If they say no, then you know and can move on. If they say yes, then great! Either way is better than never knowing | |||
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"Who is yours OP? how to put someone on the spot, I would hope they already know though there was a little poem on a thread earlier dedicated to that person Ahhh now I know " | |||
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"They know. What’s the point if people don’t know that you fancy them?! Too goddam shy to that's why
What’s the worst thing that can happen?
If they say no, then you know and can move on. If they say yes, then great!
Either way is better than never knowing" This | |||
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"They know. What’s the point if people don’t know that you fancy them?! Too goddam shy to that's why "Ditto | |||
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You're a floozy that's why McNugget "Basically yes | |||
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"They know. What’s the point if people don’t know that you fancy them?! Too goddam shy to that's why "Don't be  | |||
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"They know. What’s the point if people don’t know that you fancy them?! Too goddam shy to that's why
What’s the worst thing that can happen?
If they say no, then you know and can move on. If they say yes, then great!
Either way is better than never knowing"I guess lol, it's an out of my league thing lol | |||
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"They know. What’s the point if people don’t know that you fancy them?! Too goddam shy to that's why
What’s the worst thing that can happen?
If they say no, then you know and can move on. If they say yes, then great!
Either way is better than never knowing
I guess lol, it's an out of my league thing lol"There are no such thing as leagues, just differing forms of attraction. ‘Leagues’ are just another way of saying you don’t think you’re good enough, which is never the case. People find all sorts of faces and bodies attractive, often at the same time, you never know until you say! | |||
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"They know. What’s the point if people don’t know that you fancy them?! Too goddam shy to that's why
What’s the worst thing that can happen?
If they say no, then you know and can move on. If they say yes, then great!
Either way is better than never knowing
I guess lol, it's an out of my league thing lol"I think that too x | |||
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You're a floozy that's why McNugget
Basically yes "I stand no chance with you then McNugget | |||
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"They know. What’s the point if people don’t know that you fancy them?! Too goddam shy to that's why
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If they say no, then you know and can move on. If they say yes, then great!
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I guess lol, it's an out of my league thing lol
I think that too x"I definitely think that I am out of a lot people's league with having a bit of a Dad bod and low self esteem.. | |||
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"They know. What’s the point if people don’t know that you fancy them?! Too goddam shy to that's why
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If they say no, then you know and can move on. If they say yes, then great!
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I guess lol, it's an out of my league thing lol
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I definitely think that I am out of a lot people's league with having a bit of a Dad bod and low self esteem.. "You don't have a dad bod!! x | |||
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You're a floozy that's why McNugget
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I stand no chance with you then McNugget "Hmmm .. Let me think on that one | |||
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"I'm 2 shy lol 2 tell them lol x " You and shy are words that should never appear in a sentence together. | |||
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"They know. What’s the point if people don’t know that you fancy them?! Too goddam shy to that's why
What’s the worst thing that can happen?
If they say no, then you know and can move on. If they say yes, then great!
Either way is better than never knowing
I guess lol, it's an out of my league thing lol
I think that too x
I definitely think that I am out of a lot people's league with having a bit of a Dad bod and low self esteem..
You don't have a dad bod!! x"Aww thank you for saying that Sparkle it has cheered me up no end xx | |||
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"I'm chatting to other men to hopefully meet in the future but my heart's desire has departed from this place "sadly our hearts desire is some time out of reach | |||
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"They know. What’s the point if people don’t know that you fancy them?! Too goddam shy to that's why
What’s the worst thing that can happen?
If they say no, then you know and can move on. If they say yes, then great!
Either way is better than never knowing"I've moved on so many times,I've bought a caravan | |||
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"Are you brave enough to fes up, who you really have the hots for, do they already know, or are you hiding in the shadows. Step into the light and confess " TubeRose | |||
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"I'm 2 shy lol 2 tell them lol x You and shy are words that should never appear in a sentence together." Lol wot u trying 2 say x | |||
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"I'm 2 shy lol 2 tell them lol x You and shy are words that should never appear in a sentence together. Lol wot u trying 2 say x " You know exactly what I'm saying! x | |||
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"I have tentatively sent messages to the ones I have found attractive but just general chatting about stuff. Don't think I'd ever be brave enough to tell them unless it was clear they felt the same. I'm in the same boat as a lot on here, not wanting to make a dick out of myself unnecessarily "Exactly this! Plus I'm miles away from some as well | |||
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"I have tentatively sent messages to the ones I have found attractive but just general chatting about stuff. Don't think I'd ever be brave enough to tell them unless it was clear they felt the same. I'm in the same boat as a lot on here, not wanting to make a dick out of myself unnecessarily
Exactly this! Plus I'm miles away from some as well "Great isn't it
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"I’m honest and open so do tell them there’s one he knows definitely my favourite love to get him back and then still a few just chatting to, takes time and can be a slow grower with me plus I’m shy too "I think that a lot or at least quiet a few people on here are very shy in person and have to slowly build up confidence to be as brave as we can sometimes appear to be on here.. | |||
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"I have tentatively sent messages to the ones I have found attractive but just general chatting about stuff. Don't think I'd ever be brave enough to tell them unless it was clear they felt the same. I'm in the same boat as a lot on here, not wanting to make a dick out of myself unnecessarily
Exactly this! Plus I'm miles away from some as well
Great isn't it
Waiting for that message that never arrives "Hence I just go ahead and message first , when they don't reply I know where I stand ... | |||
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"I am shy!" I don't believe you xx | |||
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"It makes me a little sad to see how many folks feel that they’re either not worthy or it’s pointless making contact based on ‘leagues’ or distance. I’ve been on here for 6/7 years, I’ve a funny face, I bumble through life, I’m definitely average in most things but I’ve met some fantastic people, at other ends of the country, had two partners from here and met many that others might say that I was ‘punching’. If anything, I’m evidence that there are no leagues, that a touch of confidence in yourself carries you through and that attraction is a strange beast which you can’t second guess. All people are equal, preferences and attraction are individual things and the only certainty is that the only failure is to not try! Let the person know! " Well said that man , absolutely agree | |||
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Love is fleeting when you love till hurts !
When you lose them hurts even more !
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"It makes me a little sad to see how many folks feel that they’re either not worthy or it’s pointless making contact based on ‘leagues’ or distance. I’ve been on here for 6/7 years, I’ve a funny face, I bumble through life, I’m definitely average in most things but I’ve met some fantastic people, at other ends of the country, had two partners from here and met many that others might say that I was ‘punching’. If anything, I’m evidence that there are no leagues, that a touch of confidence in yourself carries you through and that attraction is a strange beast which you can’t second guess. All people are equal, preferences and attraction are individual things and the only certainty is that the only failure is to not try! Let the person know! " Yes sir! | |||
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"It makes me a little sad to see how many folks feel that they’re either not worthy or it’s pointless making contact based on ‘leagues’ or distance. I’ve been on here for 6/7 years, I’ve a funny face, I bumble through life, I’m definitely average in most things but I’ve met some fantastic people, at other ends of the country, had two partners from here and met many that others might say that I was ‘punching’. If anything, I’m evidence that there are no leagues, that a touch of confidence in yourself carries you through and that attraction is a strange beast which you can’t second guess. All people are equal, preferences and attraction are individual things and the only certainty is that the only failure is to not try! Let the person know! " Well said. I've experienced that too although I still struggle initially. It only takes one encouraging word though and I'm fine | |||
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"It makes me a little sad to see how many folks feel that they’re either not worthy or it’s pointless making contact based on ‘leagues’ or distance. I’ve been on here for 6/7 years, I’ve a funny face, I bumble through life, I’m definitely average in most things but I’ve met some fantastic people, at other ends of the country, had two partners from here and met many that others might say that I was ‘punching’. If anything, I’m evidence that there are no leagues, that a touch of confidence in yourself carries you through and that attraction is a strange beast which you can’t second guess. All people are equal, preferences and attraction are individual things and the only certainty is that the only failure is to not try! Let the person know! " No, its not up to other peoole to try and push people out of their comfort zones. | |||
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"It makes me a little sad to see how many folks feel that they’re either not worthy or it’s pointless making contact based on ‘leagues’ or distance. I’ve been on here for 6/7 years, I’ve a funny face, I bumble through life, I’m definitely average in most things but I’ve met some fantastic people, at other ends of the country, had two partners from here and met many that others might say that I was ‘punching’. If anything, I’m evidence that there are no leagues, that a touch of confidence in yourself carries you through and that attraction is a strange beast which you can’t second guess. All people are equal, preferences and attraction are individual things and the only certainty is that the only failure is to not try! Let the person know! " Easier said than done sometimes when you sit back and browse the forum posts and responses. 90% of the time the people getting the most attention on fab are the ones that are classed as the "popular" people on here and rarely very rarely does anyone else get noticed even if you do join in and comment. Popular will always be at the top because people won't let them ever go down a couple of places. Shy people or less known are not going to be able to change those followers way of thinking hence why this " out of my league" stuff never goes away. | |||
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"It makes me a little sad to see how many folks feel that they’re either not worthy or it’s pointless making contact based on ‘leagues’ or distance. I’ve been on here for 6/7 years, I’ve a funny face, I bumble through life, I’m definitely average in most things but I’ve met some fantastic people, at other ends of the country, had two partners from here and met many that others might say that I was ‘punching’. If anything, I’m evidence that there are no leagues, that a touch of confidence in yourself carries you through and that attraction is a strange beast which you can’t second guess. All people are equal, preferences and attraction are individual things and the only certainty is that the only failure is to not try! Let the person know! No, its not up to other peoole to try and push people out of their comfort zones." That’s entirely up to others whether to act or not but if you always do what you’ve always done, then you’ll always get what you’ve always got. | |||
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"What does anyone have with the person they fancy that they would lose if they told them?" Self pride after potential rejection I am guessing? | |||
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"I'm not sure mine does" mine does, but I don't know if it is reciprocated | |||
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"I'm not sure mine does mine does, but I don't know if it is reciprocated " Maybe some people need more time. Or they dont wear their heart on a sleeve  | |||
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"What does anyone have with the person they fancy that they would lose if they told them?" For me, it's feeling awkward if you were posting in a thread. I'd like to stay here for a while yet and I'd probably avoid them if I got knocked back. I'd be embarrassed | |||
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"What does anyone have with the person they fancy that they would lose if they told them? Self pride after potential rejection I am guessing? " more so the embarrassment, rejection is a part of life, but opening up to someone that you fancy the fuck out of them, then feeling embarrassed that you did it | |||
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"What does anyone have with the person they fancy that they would lose if they told them?" I'd be embarrassed if I told them and it wasn't reciprocated. Though to be fair someone might catch my eye but until I meet them face to face then I wouldn't know. Some people aren't what they seem away from the site. | |||
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"It makes me a little sad to see how many folks feel that they’re either not worthy or it’s pointless making contact based on ‘leagues’ or distance. I’ve been on here for 6/7 years, I’ve a funny face, I bumble through life, I’m definitely average in most things but I’ve met some fantastic people, at other ends of the country, had two partners from here and met many that others might say that I was ‘punching’. If anything, I’m evidence that there are no leagues, that a touch of confidence in yourself carries you through and that attraction is a strange beast which you can’t second guess. All people are equal, preferences and attraction are individual things and the only certainty is that the only failure is to not try! Let the person know! Easier said than done sometimes when you sit back and browse the forum posts and responses. 90% of the time the people getting the most attention on fab are the ones that are classed as the "popular" people on here and rarely very rarely does anyone else get noticed even if you do join in and comment. Popular will always be at the top because people won't let them ever go down a couple of places. Shy people or less known are not going to be able to change those followers way of thinking hence why this " out of my league" stuff never goes away. " Frequency of posting doesn’t make someone better than anyone else. There are no leagues. We’re all just people. I will say that many don’t consider forum postings as ‘real’, it’s only when done via PM that people take notice. I’m terrible for not spotting things in relation to myself. My partner spent weeks following me around the forums before I twigged! | |||
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"oh they already know.. im not exactly shy Px " I do view your page everyday always dream ay xx | |||
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"I’m a funny one in that I don’t fancy anyone until I’ve met them. I can appreciate a nice photo but that’s as far as it goes for me. Some may call me prickly.. and they’re probably right. " No you’re not. You’re a teddy bear in hedgehog PJs; all soft and squidgy, trying to look fierce | |||
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"It makes me a little sad to see how many folks feel that they’re either not worthy or it’s pointless making contact based on ‘leagues’ or distance. I’ve been on here for 6/7 years, I’ve a funny face, I bumble through life, I’m definitely average in most things but I’ve met some fantastic people, at other ends of the country, had two partners from here and met many that others might say that I was ‘punching’. If anything, I’m evidence that there are no leagues, that a touch of confidence in yourself carries you through and that attraction is a strange beast which you can’t second guess. All people are equal, preferences and attraction are individual things and the only certainty is that the only failure is to not try! Let the person know! No, its not up to other peoole to try and push people out of their comfort zones. That’s entirely up to others whether to act or not but if you always do what you’ve always done, then you’ll always get what you’ve always got. " Not necessarily. | |||
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"I’m a funny one in that I don’t fancy anyone until I’ve met them. I can appreciate a nice photo but that’s as far as it goes for me. Some may call me prickly.. and they’re probably right. No you’re not. You’re a teddy bear in hedgehog PJs; all soft and squidgy, trying to look fierce " friendship I’m totally different!! I love my friends fiercely!! But that’s totally different to letting anyone closer on a sexual level. | |||
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"It makes me a little sad to see how many folks feel that they’re either not worthy or it’s pointless making contact based on ‘leagues’ or distance. I’ve been on here for 6/7 years, I’ve a funny face, I bumble through life, I’m definitely average in most things but I’ve met some fantastic people, at other ends of the country, had two partners from here and met many that others might say that I was ‘punching’. If anything, I’m evidence that there are no leagues, that a touch of confidence in yourself carries you through and that attraction is a strange beast which you can’t second guess. All people are equal, preferences and attraction are individual things and the only certainty is that the only failure is to not try! Let the person know! No, its not up to other peoole to try and push people out of their comfort zones. That’s entirely up to others whether to act or not but if you always do what you’ve always done, then you’ll always get what you’ve always got. Not necessarily." Ok. You do you. My experience is still valid and I stand by my advice to others second guessing themselves. No harm ever came from letting someone know that you’re into them, if they don’t reciprocate, it doesn’t change who you are, it just means that you aren’t suited | |||
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"It makes me a little sad to see how many folks feel that they’re either not worthy or it’s pointless making contact based on ‘leagues’ or distance. I’ve been on here for 6/7 years, I’ve a funny face, I bumble through life, I’m definitely average in most things but I’ve met some fantastic people, at other ends of the country, had two partners from here and met many that others might say that I was ‘punching’. If anything, I’m evidence that there are no leagues, that a touch of confidence in yourself carries you through and that attraction is a strange beast which you can’t second guess. All people are equal, preferences and attraction are individual things and the only certainty is that the only failure is to not try! Let the person know! Easier said than done sometimes when you sit back and browse the forum posts and responses. 90% of the time the people getting the most attention on fab are the ones that are classed as the "popular" people on here and rarely very rarely does anyone else get noticed even if you do join in and comment. Popular will always be at the top because people won't let them ever go down a couple of places. Shy people or less known are not going to be able to change those followers way of thinking hence why this " out of my league" stuff never goes away. Frequency of posting doesn’t make someone better than anyone else. There are no leagues. We’re all just people. I will say that many don’t consider forum postings as ‘real’, it’s only when done via PM that people take notice. I’m terrible for not spotting things in relation to myself. My partner spent weeks following me around the forums before I twigged! " I mean popular as in the ones constantly being chased around because of what they say,post,look like in revealing photos or videos type things. Not as in the ones that do the forum posts if that makes sense. | |||
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"It makes me a little sad to see how many folks feel that they’re either not worthy or it’s pointless making contact based on ‘leagues’ or distance. I’ve been on here for 6/7 years, I’ve a funny face, I bumble through life, I’m definitely average in most things but I’ve met some fantastic people, at other ends of the country, had two partners from here and met many that others might say that I was ‘punching’. If anything, I’m evidence that there are no leagues, that a touch of confidence in yourself carries you through and that attraction is a strange beast which you can’t second guess. All people are equal, preferences and attraction are individual things and the only certainty is that the only failure is to not try! Let the person know! Easier said than done sometimes when you sit back and browse the forum posts and responses. 90% of the time the people getting the most attention on fab are the ones that are classed as the "popular" people on here and rarely very rarely does anyone else get noticed even if you do join in and comment. Popular will always be at the top because people won't let them ever go down a couple of places. Shy people or less known are not going to be able to change those followers way of thinking hence why this " out of my league" stuff never goes away. " Some are just not cool enough for school, totally agree with you that perception of cool is a barrier | |||
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"I’m a funny one in that I don’t fancy anyone until I’ve met them. I can appreciate a nice photo but that’s as far as it goes for me. Some may call me prickly.. and they’re probably right. No you’re not. You’re a teddy bear in hedgehog PJs; all soft and squidgy, trying to look fierce friendship I’m totally different!! I love my friends fiercely!! But that’s totally different to letting anyone closer on a sexual level. "I’m going to start calling you buildabear | |||
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"What does anyone have with the person they fancy that they would lose if they told them? Self pride after potential rejection I am guessing? " That plus revealing you've really got the hots for someone can erode that sense of mystery and the desire to have the unreachable. For example if I said you look stunningly hot and I find your pics breathtaking, I'd be doing that  | |||
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"I'm not getting blocked by them so keeping it to myself " Who would be daft enough to block someone like you my dear? xx | |||
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"I’m a funny one in that I don’t fancy anyone until I’ve met them. I can appreciate a nice photo but that’s as far as it goes for me. Some may call me prickly.. and they’re probably right. No you’re not. You’re a teddy bear in hedgehog PJs; all soft and squidgy, trying to look fierce friendship I’m totally different!! I love my friends fiercely!! But that’s totally different to letting anyone closer on a sexual level.
I’m going to start calling you buildabear "Bugger off jolly green giant | |||
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"It makes me a little sad to see how many folks feel that they’re either not worthy or it’s pointless making contact based on ‘leagues’ or distance. I’ve been on here for 6/7 years, I’ve a funny face, I bumble through life, I’m definitely average in most things but I’ve met some fantastic people, at other ends of the country, had two partners from here and met many that others might say that I was ‘punching’. If anything, I’m evidence that there are no leagues, that a touch of confidence in yourself carries you through and that attraction is a strange beast which you can’t second guess. All people are equal, preferences and attraction are individual things and the only certainty is that the only failure is to not try! Let the person know! Easier said than done sometimes when you sit back and browse the forum posts and responses. 90% of the time the people getting the most attention on fab are the ones that are classed as the "popular" people on here and rarely very rarely does anyone else get noticed even if you do join in and comment. Popular will always be at the top because people won't let them ever go down a couple of places. Shy people or less known are not going to be able to change those followers way of thinking hence why this " out of my league" stuff never goes away. Frequency of posting doesn’t make someone better than anyone else. There are no leagues. We’re all just people. I will say that many don’t consider forum postings as ‘real’, it’s only when done via PM that people take notice. I’m terrible for not spotting things in relation to myself. My partner spent weeks following me around the forums before I twigged! I mean popular as in the ones constantly being chased around because of what they say,post,look like in revealing photos or videos type things. Not as in the ones that do the forum posts if that makes sense. " It’s all smoke, mirrors and perception. “Pay no attention to the man behind the curtain...” | |||
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"I'm not getting blocked by them so keeping it to myself " Means you can keep perving their pics | |||
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"I’m a funny one in that I don’t fancy anyone until I’ve met them. I can appreciate a nice photo but that’s as far as it goes for me. Some may call me prickly.. and they’re probably right. No you’re not. You’re a teddy bear in hedgehog PJs; all soft and squidgy, trying to look fierce friendship I’m totally different!! I love my friends fiercely!! But that’s totally different to letting anyone closer on a sexual level.
I’m going to start calling you buildabear
Bugger off jolly green giant "I’m definitely not jolly. This cold is making everything green though... | |||
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"It makes me a little sad to see how many folks feel that they’re either not worthy or it’s pointless making contact based on ‘leagues’ or distance. I’ve been on here for 6/7 years, I’ve a funny face, I bumble through life, I’m definitely average in most things but I’ve met some fantastic people, at other ends of the country, had two partners from here and met many that others might say that I was ‘punching’. If anything, I’m evidence that there are no leagues, that a touch of confidence in yourself carries you through and that attraction is a strange beast which you can’t second guess. All people are equal, preferences and attraction are individual things and the only certainty is that the only failure is to not try! Let the person know! Easier said than done sometimes when you sit back and browse the forum posts and responses. 90% of the time the people getting the most attention on fab are the ones that are classed as the "popular" people on here and rarely very rarely does anyone else get noticed even if you do join in and comment. Popular will always be at the top because people won't let them ever go down a couple of places. Shy people or less known are not going to be able to change those followers way of thinking hence why this " out of my league" stuff never goes away. Some are just not cool enough for school, totally agree with you that perception of cool is a barrier " It is very true unfortunately | |||
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"Are you brave enough to fes up, who you really have the hots for, do they already know, or are you hiding in the shadows. Step into the light and confess " Really have the hots for? Yes there is one VERY particular person.. Do they already know? They know I fancy them; they’re 100% girlfriend material. | |||
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"I must admit that if I like someone and they say in a thread that they like someone,without naming them,I never think that it might be me." Haha snap | |||
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"I must admit that if I like someone and they say in a thread that they like someone,without naming them,I never think that it might be me." I always wonder , oooooh is it me ? nah probably not ... | |||
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"I must admit that if I like someone and they say in a thread that they like someone,without naming them,I never think that it might be me. I always wonder , oooooh is it me ? nah probably not ... "Think we all have that | |||
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"I’m a funny one in that I don’t fancy anyone until I’ve met them. I can appreciate a nice photo but that’s as far as it goes for me. Some may call me prickly.. and they’re probably right. No you’re not. You’re a teddy bear in hedgehog PJs; all soft and squidgy, trying to look fierce friendship I’m totally different!! I love my friends fiercely!! But that’s totally different to letting anyone closer on a sexual level.
I’m going to start calling you buildabear
Bugger off jolly green giant
I’m definitely not jolly. This cold is making everything green though..."Hes already on here, I met him! | |||
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would I say who,,, not brave enough, maybe a wink down the line x | |||
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"Someone let me know dammit "Innit, shall we start a rumble? | |||
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"oh they already know.. im not exactly shy Px "You’ve never told me!!! | |||
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Innit, shall we start a rumble? "Let's get ready to rumble | |||
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