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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If someone winked at you on here would you take it that they wouldn’t mind you messaging them?

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"If someone winked at you on here would you take it that they wouldn’t mind you messaging them?"

We believe that is the general principle, although sometimes they wink by accident.

Cal

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

I take a wink as someone showing interest

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I suppose it could be an accident, I never thought of that. I just replied and it was a nice respectful reply thanking them....next thing I know they blocked me....so confused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It never occurs to me to look at winks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I get that but when they look then block you....don’t think I’m that ugly

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By *razzyhorseMan
over a year ago

cambridge

What else is a wink for if its not to show interest?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe if they flashed their mingita

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By *icola2202Couple
over a year ago

Chatham

Some people just use the wink way to much but I think it’s them showing interested but possibly not wanting to start a conversation but I been there before when they just block.

IMO the wink is a useless feature it’s confusing as you have found out and barely anyone checks them

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"If someone winked at you on here would you take it that they wouldn’t mind you messaging them?"

Yes we would take it to mean that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some people just use the wink way to much but I think it’s them showing interested but possibly not wanting to start a conversation but I been there before when they just block.

IMO the wink is a useless feature it’s confusing as you have found out and barely anyone checks them "

I know, maybe I’ll give up winking

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"It never occurs to me to look at winks

Testing, testing 1, 2, 3.

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By *histlerMan
over a year ago

Guildford

it’s a bit lazy but I use winks to show initial interest.

Also it can be a bit frustrating always taking the time to craft a message based on a profile, shared interests, what they’re looking for to just get it deleted lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone winked at you on here would you take it that they wouldn’t mind you messaging them?

We believe that is the general principle, although sometimes they wink by accident.

Cal"

You need to press two buttons to wink “are you sure you want to send a wink?” So I call bullshit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It never occurs to me to look at winks

Testing, testing 1, 2, 3.

there are hundreds! I deleted them all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I wink on here it's probably because I've got cum in my eye.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"It never occurs to me to look at winks

Testing, testing 1, 2, 3.

there are hundreds! I deleted them all

Story of my Fab life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The experience of Fab for women and couples is vastly different from a single mans, that said I don't mind being winked at, maybe your winker was overcome with a bout of shyness?

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I never look at winks

but If I wink ya I definitely want ya

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"I never look at winks

but If I wink ya I definitely want ya

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By *edantic SheilaWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"If I wink on here it's probably because I've got cum in my eye."
Don't ' cum ' in your eye then

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I never look at winks

but If I wink ya I definitely want ya

Is there any expiration date for that wink?

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"I never look at winks

but If I wink ya I definitely want ya

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"I never look at winks

but If I wink ya I definitely want ya

Is there any expiration date for that wink?

I don’t think so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

.com

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"I never look at winks

but If I wink ya I definitely want ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I wink on here it's probably because I've got cum in my eye. Don't ' cum ' in your eye then

I'm over 40, these days my cum just dribbles out with an air of apologetic embarrassment. I'm long past the days of getting a hand job in the back of a Fiesta and it hitting the roof.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I never look at winks

but If I wink ya I definitely want ya

Is there any expiration date for that wink?

I don’t think so

Woohoo.

Taxi to South Derry please.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I never look at winks

but If I wink ya I definitely want ya

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By *yway60Man
over a year ago

Gamlingay

"I get that but when they look then block you....don’t think I’m that ugly

Far from it!! I see you aren't interested in guys, but damn you are hot...

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

I don’t tend too wink I prefer to send a message. I do receive winks and if it’s someone I like the look of then I message back thanking them for the wink and take it from there.If it’s someone I am not interested in I just delete the wink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I much prefer winks and,when on show, says on my profile don't understand the ladies that moan about quantity/quality of messages but won't entertain winks and the men that moan about writing messages and messages being ignored when the wink system is so much easier and quicker! Plus not sure how people send winks by accident as you have to "ok" the action?

If someone winks at me and after checking out their profile I wouldn't mind a chat, I wink back indicating that yes I'd like to chat ... if I check out their profile and really like it I'll happily message thanking them for the wink.

Likewise, if I've seen a profile I like I send a wink indicating either wink or message back for a chat!

It's simple quick and works really well - especially as I get the choice of whom I talk to as opposed of being bombarded with messages!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The wink thing baffles me. Tend not to use it if I like a profile I'll just send a message. If they don't reply then thats fine we all like different things.

What I don't understand is when people wink (which I'd take as being interested) but don't reply if you message rhem?

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By *mooth tongue 4uMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

I tend to use the wink option to indicate a like ,,, usually when some one looks at my profile , I agree with you about getting a reply after a wink or message

,,, it’s not all who will reply

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

"If someone winked at you on here would you take it that they wouldn’t mind you messaging them?"

Probably a bloke though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless it's through a forum game I tend to see it as a sign of interest and a opportunity to message them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I take a wink as someone showing interest "

This ^

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I take a wink as someone showing interest

This ^"

Ha ha I’d be winking away right now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It never occurs to me to look at winks

Lies you always wink me

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By *evonshireboyMan
over a year ago

North Devon

Never winked or been winked, as didn't really know what it meant. So I just tried sending a few to see what happens.

I'm going to guess nothing, but I live in hope ??

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By *evonshireboyMan
over a year ago

North Devon

"Never winked or been winked, as didn't really know what it meant. So I just tried sending a few to see what happens.

I'm going to guess nothing, but I live in hope ??"

Well, I was wrong, that worked spectacularly well!

I'm a wink convert

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I personally like the winking system. What i hate is people i haven't even spoken to sending me friend requests. I do look at winks and respond with a wink back if i like the profile. If i don't think that the winker is for me i take no action but i look at profiles not in incognito mode.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"Never winked or been winked, as didn't really know what it meant. So I just tried sending a few to see what happens.

I'm going to guess nothing, but I live in hope ??

Well, I was wrong, that worked spectacularly well!

I'm a wink convert"

Yay! Make your first message really good using their profile to make a connection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never look at winks

but If I wink ya I definitely want ya

Wink me weirdo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use the winking system to show interest so I would welcome anyone I've winked at to message

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By *erry bull1Man
over a year ago

doncaster

When someone winks st me , I always respond with a thank you for the wink message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I suppose it could be an accident, I never thought of that. I just replied and it was a nice respectful reply thanking them....next thing I know they blocked me....so confused "

Either they didn't like the message or if a couple, the other half didn't like your profile.

Plenty more fish in the sea!

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By *entGent75Man
over a year ago

Dartford

"If I wink on here it's probably because I've got cum in my eye. Don't ' cum ' in your eye then

I'm over 40, these days my cum just dribbles out with an air of apologetic embarrassment. I'm long past the days of getting a hand job in the back of a Fiesta and it hitting the roof."

I would recommend taking a zinc suppliment daily to change that dribble into a ranging torrent (maybe a little exaggeration there ! ). You could then change your description to replicate the image of an Icelandic oozing eruption of man lava (just made that word up btw, patent pending).However, get yourself down to Boots or Holland & Barret to boost you Manma chamber (patent pending too...on Manma). This first consultation is free then it is £30 per hour or this months deal is 3 sessions for £75 and a flash of your partners boobs ! Offer end April 30th. Every little helps

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By *hesexpistolsCouple
over a year ago

Kent

Often people send a wink after getting enthused by a couple of pics, only when you message or wink back do they bother making the effort of reading the full profile (and possibly spotting something they don’t like)... but winks are difficult to read - they can mean anything from “I’m bored” to “I want to meet you NOW” so hardly anything constructive comes out of them...

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"I never look at winks

but If I wink ya I definitely want ya

Wink me weirdo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone has looked at my profile then I will send a wink instead of a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would prefer a message as most profiles say they ignore winks

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