FabSwingers.com forum: missed opportunity or ?

By *orksbiguy OP Man
over a year ago

Bradford

I was in the supermarket tonignt and i was perving a ladys very sexy arse in leggings in front of me and the guy with her saw me looking and smiled at me.

Should i have said anything ?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

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By *histlerMan
over a year ago

Guildford

Nope!

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Nope, you're lucky he smiled and didn't kick off

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

Definitely not!

Creepy!

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By *BootyfulDayWoman
over a year ago

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I agree with the other, nope. He may have just been smiling at something else and it could have come across creepy

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

No, that's creepy.

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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City

"No"

This

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By *BootyfulDayWoman
over a year ago

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"I agree with the other, nope. He may have just been smiling at something else and it could have come across creepy

*others

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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City

"Nope!"

And that

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

What would you say to her? ‘Hi I was checking you out and your boyfriend smiled at me’

I don’t think it’s a winning line so probably best you didn’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

‘Hi, has anyone ever told you’re stood right in front of the Dairylea Lunchables!’

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

"I was in the supermarket tonignt and i was perving a ladys very sexy arse in leggings in front of me and the guy with her saw me looking and smiled at me.

Should i have said anything ?"

What could you possibly of said??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he wasn't wearing a mask in a supermarket, I wouldn't want anything to do with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, the guy probably thought it was cool that were eyeing up his girlfriend, but I imagine his response would have quickly changed if you had approached!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Mr N quite often used to catch the eye of men who were staring at me. They mostly were embarrassed, we used to have a bit of a laugh later.

Say nothing, what would you say anyway?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was in the supermarket tonignt and i was perving a ladys very sexy arse in leggings in front of me and the guy with her saw me looking and smiled at me.

Should i have said anything ?"

Unless you potentially wanted a argument or a fight. You could have taken a smile for thanks for admiring...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So creepy.. I got kerb crawled earlier this week walking home from the gym in my leggings. It's made me think about carrying something i can use in self defence

My friend got followed through the woods whilst walking with her dogs.. It's not funny or sexy.. Even if they 'just want to say hello'

Seriously 99.9% of men have zero idea what it is like to be a woman in today's society

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By *histlerMan
over a year ago

Guildford

I was once complimented by a couple of guys when I was out with a girl. They stopped short of high fiving me!

We were all over each other (me and the girl lol) and when she went to the toilets they leaned over and said I was in for a good night and how hot she was.

I left with my chest puffed out

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By *en_Dover79Man
over a year ago

Oswaldtwistle

first rule of perving is dont get seen for a start

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

"So creepy.. I got kerb crawled earlier this week walking home from the gym in my leggings. It's made me think about carrying something i can use in self defence

My friend got followed through the woods whilst walking with her dogs.. It's not funny or sexy.. Even if they 'just want to say hello'

Seriously 99.9% of men have zero idea what it is like to be a woman in today's society "

This

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"I was in the supermarket tonignt and i was perving a ladys very sexy arse in leggings in front of me and the guy with her saw me looking and smiled at me.

Should i have said anything ?"

Sometimes words are not needed. A smile, wink or nod of the head is sufficient.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

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By *histlerMan
over a year ago

Guildford

Leave it as a fantasy... the ‘what if’ scenarios can keep you going a long time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So creepy.. I got kerb crawled earlier this week walking home from the gym in my leggings. It's made me think about carrying something i can use in self defence

My friend got followed through the woods whilst walking with her dogs.. It's not funny or sexy.. Even if they 'just want to say hello'

Seriously 99.9% of men have zero idea what it is like to be a woman in today's society "

Deep heat! Its legal and gives the same effect as Peper spray.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So creepy.. I got kerb crawled earlier this week walking home from the gym in my leggings. It's made me think about carrying something i can use in self defence

My friend got followed through the woods whilst walking with her dogs.. It's not funny or sexy.. Even if they 'just want to say hello'

Seriously 99.9% of men have zero idea what it is like to be a woman in today's society

Deep heat! Its legal and gives the same effect as Peper spray. "

ROFL, i can just picture it now.. Could you wait a moment whilst i find my tube, wait i need to unscrew the cap and squeeze a bit out

I have a heavy duty hair clip that i can either keep in my pocket/hand or easily take out of my hair.. Hopefully I'll never need it, but it makes me feel more secure/in control.

My mum told me to stop walking

clearly it's not men who are the issue lol

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I smile at people sometimes as a way of letting them know I've seen them peeping. It most certainly isn't an invitation. Merely an acknowledgement they've been caught without wanting to cause any issues.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"So creepy.. I got kerb crawled earlier this week walking home from the gym in my leggings. It's made me think about carrying something i can use in self defence

My friend got followed through the woods whilst walking with her dogs.. It's not funny or sexy.. Even if they 'just want to say hello'

Seriously 99.9% of men have zero idea what it is like to be a woman in today's society

Deep heat! Its legal and gives the same effect as Peper spray.

ROFL, i can just picture it now.. Could you wait a moment whilst i find my tube, wait i need to unscrew the cap and squeeze a bit out

I have a heavy duty hair clip that i can either keep in my pocket/hand or easily take out of my hair.. Hopefully I'll never need it, but it makes me feel more secure/in control.

My mum told me to stop walking

clearly it's not men who are the issue lol

They do a deep heat spray can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So creepy.. I got kerb crawled earlier this week walking home from the gym in my leggings. It's made me think about carrying something i can use in self defence

My friend got followed through the woods whilst walking with her dogs.. It's not funny or sexy.. Even if they 'just want to say hello'

Seriously 99.9% of men have zero idea what it is like to be a woman in today's society

Deep heat! Its legal and gives the same effect as Peper spray.

ROFL, i can just picture it now.. Could you wait a moment whilst i find my tube, wait i need to unscrew the cap and squeeze a bit out

I have a heavy duty hair clip that i can either keep in my pocket/hand or easily take out of my hair.. Hopefully I'll never need it, but it makes me feel more secure/in control.

My mum told me to stop walking

clearly it's not men who are the issue lol

They do a deep heat spray can

yes they do, also a smaller version that would fit in a bag.

I know two that's used it. One however sprayed herself in the face also, but it worked a treat lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OoooooHHHHHHHHHHOOOOOOOh vitalite

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

This is what being on FAB does to people - makes you think that everyone’s a swinger and you going up to approach them would result in them asking you to go home with them.

When in reality in would have probably resulted in a punch in the face!

Please don’t confuse FAB world with real world

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"So creepy.. I got kerb crawled earlier this week walking home from the gym in my leggings. It's made me think about carrying something i can use in self defence

My friend got followed through the woods whilst walking with her dogs.. It's not funny or sexy.. Even if they 'just want to say hello'

Seriously 99.9% of men have zero idea what it is like to be a woman in today's society

Deep heat! Its legal and gives the same effect as Peper spray.

ROFL, i can just picture it now.. Could you wait a moment whilst i find my tube, wait i need to unscrew the cap and squeeze a bit out

I have a heavy duty hair clip that i can either keep in my pocket/hand or easily take out of my hair.. Hopefully I'll never need it, but it makes me feel more secure/in control.

My mum told me to stop walking

clearly it's not men who are the issue lol

They do a deep heat spray can

yes they do, also a smaller version that would fit in a bag.

I know two that's used it. One however sprayed herself in the face also, but it worked a treat lol "

Adding that to my shopping list. Although I've been known to spray B.O buster away from my armpit and hairspray in my eyes. I'm sure I'll be fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So creepy.. I got kerb crawled earlier this week walking home from the gym in my leggings. It's made me think about carrying something i can use in self defence

My friend got followed through the woods whilst walking with her dogs.. It's not funny or sexy.. Even if they 'just want to say hello'

Seriously 99.9% of men have zero idea what it is like to be a woman in today's society

Deep heat! Its legal and gives the same effect as Peper spray.

ROFL, i can just picture it now.. Could you wait a moment whilst i find my tube, wait i need to unscrew the cap and squeeze a bit out

I have a heavy duty hair clip that i can either keep in my pocket/hand or easily take out of my hair.. Hopefully I'll never need it, but it makes me feel more secure/in control.

My mum told me to stop walking

clearly it's not men who are the issue lol

They do a deep heat spray can

yes they do, also a smaller version that would fit in a bag.

I know two that's used it. One however sprayed herself in the face also, but it worked a treat lol "

Omg! Haha i will look into it, thank you x

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By *histlerMan
over a year ago

Guildford

"This is what being on FAB does to people - makes you think that everyone’s a swinger and you going up to approach them would result in them asking you to go home with them.

When in reality in would have probably resulted in a punch in the face!

Please don’t confuse FAB world with real world

This!! (and porn)

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"This is what being on FAB does to people - makes you think that everyone’s a swinger and you going up to approach them would result in them asking you to go home with them.

When in reality in would have probably resulted in a punch in the face!

Please don’t confuse FAB world with real world

Exactly. I find it quite worrisome. There will be so many desensitised folk from here or other sexualised platforms that think it's acceptable to approach or whatever.

It becomes peoples standard behaviour like that thread a while ago where loads of workmen admitted to hunting out peoples dirty underwear to sniff while the homeowner wasn't around. It normalises behaviour that's not acceptable in "general population"

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So creepy.. I got kerb crawled earlier this week walking home from the gym in my leggings. It's made me think about carrying something i can use in self defence

My friend got followed through the woods whilst walking with her dogs.. It's not funny or sexy.. Even if they 'just want to say hello'

Seriously 99.9% of men have zero idea what it is like to be a woman in today's society

Deep heat! Its legal and gives the same effect as Peper spray.

ROFL, i can just picture it now.. Could you wait a moment whilst i find my tube, wait i need to unscrew the cap and squeeze a bit out

I have a heavy duty hair clip that i can either keep in my pocket/hand or easily take out of my hair.. Hopefully I'll never need it, but it makes me feel more secure/in control.

My mum told me to stop walking

clearly it's not men who are the issue lol

They do a deep heat spray can

yes they do, also a smaller version that would fit in a bag.

I know two that's used it. One however sprayed herself in the face also, but it worked a treat lol

Adding that to my shopping list. Although I've been known to spray B.O buster away from my armpit and hairspray in my eyes. I'm sure I'll be fine "

Makes note to put sunglasses on first if Midnight gets attacked

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"I was in the supermarket tonignt and i was perving a ladys very sexy arse in leggings in front of me and the guy with her saw me looking and smiled at me.

Should i have said anything ?"

Yes, you should have had a good word with yourself about the difference between porn films and the real world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is what being on FAB does to people - makes you think that everyone’s a swinger and you going up to approach them would result in them asking you to go home with them.

When in reality in would have probably resulted in a punch in the face!

Please don’t confuse FAB world with real world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was in the supermarket tonignt and i was perving a ladys very sexy arse in leggings in front of me and the guy with her saw me looking and smiled at me.

Should i have said anything ?"

This is just an example of swinger brain. Or porn brain.

Here you get chatting to a mice person and it's not unusual for you to see them naked. It's normal.

In the real world thats not how shit works.

You checked out his GF and he smiled because your attention made her more desirable to him. Just human nature.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Definitely not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I should have read to the bottom.

Others got there first. Oh well.

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

No. You were indirectly applauding him for his good taste!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think he should have said something. You never know, he could have been invited back to their place where a cheeky scouser with a perm and a 'tache was fixing their sink, a bus driver was hiding under the bed and a milkman was sliding down the drainpipe.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Ogling or staring at people can make others uncomfortable, even when you think they can't see. You may have, at best, deterred others from wanting to know you, or raised fears that people have, including from past experiences. Some men may think that they are innocently enjoying the view in front of them, whilst others will want you as good as castrated. Negative experiences are common and some men are very scary. Others may be embarrassed by you but best to enjoy some porn than develop habits of being a potential nuisance. Engage with people in the right situations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find this worrying

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

I can't say anything, over the years I've pulled in supermarkets. It's always been after eye contact, and a comment that has cut a dash, but it wouldn't have happened if her gorgeous body hadn't first caught my eye. If the lady who I got talking to in B&M today as we were both looking at garden ornaments to brighten up our places just happens to be reading this, you'll get my phone number next time we meet, if you are not already spoken for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So creepy.. I got kerb crawled earlier this week walking home from the gym in my leggings. It's made me think about carrying something i can use in self defence

My friend got followed through the woods whilst walking with her dogs.. It's not funny or sexy.. Even if they 'just want to say hello'

Seriously 99.9% of men have zero idea what it is like to be a woman in today's society "

I totally agree with This! I think it’s different when it happens in person and someone just wants to casually chat u up while u are trying to do your business and go on with ur day.

I’ve been stopped or approached a few times, some were so forward to ask me what I was doing and if I wanted to go to see their place

CREEPY!

It’s totally different compared to when you are mentally ready say maybe in a bar/club or a swinging place then you know u are there to be seen and are looking.

But if you are just walking to the shops or in a taxi minding ur own business. Please men keep ur shit together lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread seemed to quickly go off point

It’s natural behaviour to look at a person that you find attractive and even more so if there’s a flash of thigh, boobs thrown in for good measure

So occasionally you get caught if your glance turns into a stare

Surely it’s at that point which is the cusp

What you do next denotes how you are judged by that person

Most of us look away or smile

Personally I wouldn’t have said anything to the boyfriend

I’ve seen guys looking at my wife, not in a creepy way, it just happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This thread seemed to quickly go off point

It’s natural behaviour to look at a person that you find attractive and even more so if there’s a flash of thigh, boobs thrown in for good measure

So occasionally you get caught if your glance turns into a stare

Surely it’s at that point which is the cusp

What you do next denotes how you are judged by that person

Most of us look away or smile

Personally I wouldn’t have said anything to the boyfriend

I’ve seen guys looking at my wife, not in a creepy way, it just happens

I think obviously if u just look then there’s nothing wrong. But acting on it, especially as she had a bf there, and maybe asking if they wanted to do a cuckold/MFM.

That’d have been weird. Even if the situation were to be reversed, that’d have been weird and inappropriate in my opinion (as in, the woman approaching the guy and asking if he was up to fuck her while the bf watched)

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

"This thread seemed to quickly go off point

It’s natural behaviour to look at a person that you find attractive and even more so if there’s a flash of thigh, boobs thrown in for good measure

So occasionally you get caught if your glance turns into a stare

Surely it’s at that point which is the cusp

What you do next denotes how you are judged by that person

Most of us look away or smile

Personally I wouldn’t have said anything to the boyfriend

I’ve seen guys looking at my wife, not in a creepy way, it just happens

Difference being ... you’re a man.

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

"I find this worrying

It really is ... the men reading can actually choose to view the women’s opinions on this abs learn by it or tell us we are wrong. Some appear to already telling us we are wrong ... sigh.

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By *heDesiCandiTV/TS
over a year ago

Leicester

The fella fancied you

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

"I was in the supermarket tonignt and i was perving a ladys very sexy arse in leggings in front of me and the guy with her saw me looking and smiled at me.

Should i have said anything ?

Yes, you should have had a good word with yourself about the difference between porn films and the real world.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Oh dear

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By *lasphemouscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

This is so worrying... as most have said, no! Absolutely not, this is why women feel unsafe. It's completely inappropriate in certain settings,

If you're in a bar/club or online on a swingers website yes, you can say something but real world situations that seem harmless to a guy can be extremely intimidating to a woman, think how you'd feel being stared at by someone twice your size... a total stranger whilst simply trying to walk your dog or pick up some groceries. It's not flattering it's unnerving.

Guys please read what the ladies have written

Please take on board what they are saying.

Don't disregard it.

If needed, adjust your behaviour and grow as a person.

Mrs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely shouldn’t have but you never know op he could have been eyeing you up

You know like a kind off you do her I do you Sanrio lol

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"This thread seemed to quickly go off point

It’s natural behaviour to look at a person that you find attractive and even more so if there’s a flash of thigh, boobs thrown in for good measure

So occasionally you get caught if your glance turns into a stare

Surely it’s at that point which is the cusp

What you do next denotes how you are judged by that person

Most of us look away or smile

Personally I wouldn’t have said anything to the boyfriend

I’ve seen guys looking at my wife, not in a creepy way, it just happens

How did it go off point? The guy literally asked if he should have said anything to the guy after ogling the woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is so worrying... as most have said, no! Absolutely not, this is why women feel unsafe. It's completely inappropriate in certain settings,

Guys please read what the ladies have written

Please take on board what they are saying.

Don't disregard it.

If needed, adjust your behaviour and grow as a person.

Mrs."

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

"This thread seemed to quickly go off point

It’s natural behaviour to look at a person that you find attractive and even more so if there’s a flash of thigh, boobs thrown in for good measure

So occasionally you get caught if your glance turns into a stare

Surely it’s at that point which is the cusp

What you do next denotes how you are judged by that person

Most of us look away or smile

Personally I wouldn’t have said anything to the boyfriend

I’ve seen guys looking at my wife, not in a creepy way, it just happens

How did it go off point? The guy literally asked if he should have said anything to the guy after ogling the woman. "

I did wonder ..... maybe the poster was expecting a fantasy type sharing of stories of when they ogled women in inappropriate settings post rather than the sensible non predatory responses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Because he didn't say anything. Best to follow the cues.

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

Another daydreamer posting a thread then shuts up when he don’t get the response he after!!

Happy Sunday everyone!!

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