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Daydream believer ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are you a dreamer or a pragmatist ?

Head in the clouds or feet on the ground ?

Are fantasies and daydreams essential to get through the daily routine or is it better to be a realist in all things ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of both. If I find myself floating away too much I have to force myself back down.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

A little of both, though I work to try and make some dreams come true

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I would say that I am a positive realist...if that makes sense.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A bit of both. If I find myself floating away too much I have to force myself back down."

I think I'm similar, balance in all things?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A little of both, though I work to try and make some dreams come true"

Yes, some dreams and fantasies are achievable so going for them can also be realistic.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would say that I am a positive realist...if that makes sense."

It does. Realism or pragmatism is completely different from pessimism.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

No daydreams here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I’m more head in clouds at moment

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Think I’m more head in clouds at moment "

Walk on, walk on, with hope in your heart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a bit of both, tend to find ways to keep myself grounded when head is in clouds.

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

Daydream believer and a homecoming queen.

I wasn’t. But I was a carnival queen.

Daydream believer and a carnival queen.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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I'm mainly pragmatic...but who doesn't have the odd daydream about what they'd do if they won the lottery?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Daydream believer and a homecoming queen.

I wasn’t. But I was a carnival queen.

Daydream believer and a carnival queen. "

You little Monkee ! I never knew what the hell a homecoming queen was so carnival queen is certainly an improvement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Daydream believer and a homecoming queen.

I wasn’t. But I was a carnival queen.

Daydream believer and a carnival queen. "

How was Appleby this year?

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By *erDirtyRockstarMan
over a year ago

buckinghamshire

last nights dream was so weird. I will never get to the moon if I jump on a trampoline reeeeealy hard .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm mainly pragmatic...but who doesn't have the odd daydream about what they'd do if they won the lottery? "

I do have those. I guess I'd better start playing the lottery then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for the earworm

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks for the earworm "

I could hide, neath the wings

Of the bluebird as she sings...

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=xvqeSJlgaNk

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"last nights dream was so weird. I will never get to the moon if I jump on a trampoline reeeeealy hard . "

How far did you reach on your trampoline?!

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By *erDirtyRockstarMan
over a year ago

buckinghamshire

In reality ? The ol' familiar troposphere. So depressing .

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"In reality ? The ol' familiar troposphere. So depressing . "

Damn. Jump harder next time. Reach! for the stars. Climb every mountain higher

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In reality ? The ol' familiar troposphere. So depressing .

Damn. Jump harder next time. Reach! for the stars. Climb every mountain higher "

Dream big, why not ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes life is better with my head in the clouds, though experience has taught me to keep my feet firmer on the ground and keep it real!

A balance of both is perfect I say...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember April

When the sun was in the sky

And love was burning in your eyes

Nothing in the world could bother me

'Cause I was living in a world of ecstasy

But now you're gone I'm just a daydreamer

I'm walking in the rain

Chasing after rainbows I may never find again

Life is much too beautiful to live it all alone

Oh how much I need someone to call my very own

Now the summer's over

And I find myself alone

With only memories of you

I was so in love I couldn't see

'Cause I was living in a world of make believe

But now you're gone I'm just a daydreamer

I'm walking in the rain

Chasing after rainbows I may never find again

Life is much too beautiful to live it all alone

Oh how much I need someone to call my very own

I'm just a daydreamer

I'm walking in the rain

Chasing after rainbows I may never find again

Life is much too beautiful to live it all alone

Oh how much I need someone to call my very own

I'm just a....................

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Both. It's from dreaming that creativity can flourish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I started learning more towards pragmatist recently. I'd rather be pleasantly surprised with outcome of my efforts than spend time daydreaming too much these days. I'm sure it will fluctuate depending on life circumstances too.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Pragmatism to the point of bitterness at times.

A lot to do with my job and seeing the worst of humankind.

However, I am cheerful most of the time, if not positive. I am rarely disappointed by things as I always suspect a caveat, and usually things are better than anticipated.

Probably a built in protection against some major disaster as a child...who knows ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pragmatism to the point of bitterness at times.

A lot to do with my job and seeing the worst of humankind.

However, I am cheerful most of the time, if not positive. I am rarely disappointed by things as I always suspect a caveat, and usually things are better than anticipated.

Probably a built in protection against some major disaster as a child...who knows ?"

Pragmatism can be painful when, as you say, it means accepting some painful realities. But accepting the whole truth can also be a first step towards a positive future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I started learning more towards pragmatist recently. I'd rather be pleasantly surprised with outcome of my efforts than spend time daydreaming too much these days. I'm sure it will fluctuate depending on life circumstances too. "

*leaning

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think I started learning more towards pragmatist recently. I'd rather be pleasantly surprised with outcome of my efforts than spend time daydreaming too much these days. I'm sure it will fluctuate depending on life circumstances too. "

I guess we'd have to define 'daydreams' ? Positive, achievable goals may start out in the imagination but putting them into practice requires a more pragmatic approach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I started learning more towards pragmatist recently. I'd rather be pleasantly surprised with outcome of my efforts than spend time daydreaming too much these days. I'm sure it will fluctuate depending on life circumstances too.

I guess we'd have to define 'daydreams' ? Positive, achievable goals may start out in the imagination but putting them into practice requires a more pragmatic approach."

I might got swayed by your subject line!

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

Cheer up, Sleepy Jean

Oh, what can it mean

To a daydream believer......head in the clouds daydreaming most of the time....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think I started learning more towards pragmatist recently. I'd rather be pleasantly surprised with outcome of my efforts than spend time daydreaming too much these days. I'm sure it will fluctuate depending on life circumstances too.

I guess we'd have to define 'daydreams' ? Positive, achievable goals may start out in the imagination but putting them into practice requires a more pragmatic approach.

I might got swayed by your subject line!"

No, I liked your interpretation - daydreams as a distraction? I think mine are a mix, escapist fantasies which need to be kept in their place but also 'dreams' which could inspire positive plans with some pragmatic tweaking.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I wouldnt say i was a dreamer as such im a realist but i do live in my own bubble world

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