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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey. Bit of a survey this one. If you didnt message a profile first, would you get any messages from couples or single woman ? Plus, do many couples or single females visit your page?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea if any visit my page but I have had lovely messages.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I’ve not sent a cold first message in a very very long time. I receive messages fairly frequently as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey. Bit of a survey this one. If you didnt message a profile first, would you get any messages from couples or single woman ? Plus, do many couples or single females visit your page?

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Atm I'm rarely messaging cause me and and fair few just don't want to connect while not being able to meet.

But when a woman or couple message me it's normally been from a forum post or a status update

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

I've had one message, and one wink which led to messaging and a social meet - then we went back into lockdown - so it does happen even if it's rare.

And I'm no one special, by any means

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I get a few show up on the looked at you, but very rare a first message, 99% are just having a perv, or having a look because of a forum post or game, it's the ninjas you have to look out for

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By *ay992020Man
over a year ago

Telford

Hahaha iv never had a message of a women or couple first always men message me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely receive messages, and also the same for replies to messages.

I get the odd one or two here and there. It’s just fab. You won’t be everyone’s cup of tea. But at the same time you will interest someone unexpected.

Just gotta roll with it!

Normally I’ll get 1-5 views a day, averaging the lower 2/3 mark.

But I also get days where my profile blows up, I’m at 30 views today. A lot from forum games and a lot from a good upload

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By *erDirtyRockstarMan
over a year ago

buckinghamshire

Very rarely I get messages cold. That said, I'm not on here very regular.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rarely, its quite a small pool of people over here, and also there seems to be a small elite group within that who are overly sketchy/wary of newcomers so as a single male you're actively ignored like a bad fart.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

I don't think I've ever received a message that isn't a reply to one of mine or a follow up from a forum post.

Which is tricky, as I think my first messages always come across as really awkward

Would definitely put a smile on my face to receive one though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it dont matter.

stay true to yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have both women and couples... don’t get me wrong not all the time but it happens.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You message echoes my thoughts on my page. I've just received a wink which is rare, however I looked at their profile and my gutt feeling was correct, a Bi male couples profile. Not my cup of tea at all.

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

Lots of people visit my profile usually after I’ve fabbed their pics but I wait for them to mail me first for a chat.

I also live within 1/2 mile of a lay-by on the A12 so I often get lorry drivers asking me to join them at night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get a few looks (at the moment can't see who) and I've had the odd cold message from a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and no. I always find it depends if you post up a recent (good!) picture or back in the day a verification was displayed. That usually dragged a few messages.

If a woman likes what she sees, normally you’ll at least get a wink if not a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No and not many.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No and no.

No one looks at me first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It absolutely happens. It’s just not prevalent compared to guys messaging other profiles.

When I had my full profile up I’d often get messages about the content. Now My inbox is as dry as a bone but I’ve already got who I want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single male profile here. (Not single though)

I get about 1 message out of the blue each week. Hope this helps with your research.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Yup ...got one this morning ...yay me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only get messages if its to do with something I've posted in the forums..but I dont ever recall getting that first message from a single female...which is strange considering im one of the better looking guys on here

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

What is a message? I never had one of those before?

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"it dont matter.

stay true to yourself"

If staying true to yourself isn’t reaping what you wanted, isn’t it a good idea to adapt and improve?

Banging your head against a wall repeatedly, because ‘it’s who you are’ is pointless

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By *acial giverMan
over a year ago

hull

No to many up there own arse

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