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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It feels like a new chapter is just around the corner. The door to normality is only slightly ajar, but soon we might have more freedom if all goes well. To put this time to a good use.. have you decided to make any changes in your life?

I'm joining the gym. Looks like the PT I chose is ex military. They told me after.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Join the gym, tone up and shift some inches.

Learn to ignore dickheads and not let them get to you.

Get out more and meet new people and make new friends

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

To enjoy each day as it happens - not to worry about the future but be there in the moment. xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Join the gym, tone up and shift some inches.

Learn to ignore dickheads and not let them get to you.

Get out more and meet new people and make new friends "

Solid plan !

and I have all my fingers crossed for all those!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To enjoy each day as it happens - not to worry about the future but be there in the moment. xx"

That too. More time for meditation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To try and socialise more by joining activities or something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Carry on normal and finally my delayed new life phase will emerge like a butterfly, spread it's colourful wings and fly ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To try and socialise more by joining activities or something."

I like "or something"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Carry on normal and finally my delayed new life phase will emerge like a butterfly, spread it's colourful wings and fly ... "

Your chrysalis looks fine to me just now

Happy flights!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I'm currently trying to find a gym to join and I need a scary PT as well, that will keep me motivated.

I'm going to stop overthinking everything and start spending time doing things for me, that I enjoy. I sort of lost my confidence and self belief these past few months and now it's a time for rediscovering that and enjoying life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

absolutely nothing

go see my family and friends more maybe? Px

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
over a year ago

Cheam

"To try and socialise more by joining activities or something.

I like "or something"

On the list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It feels like a new chapter is just around the corner. The door to normality is only slightly ajar, but soon we might have more freedom if all goes well. To put this time to a good use.. have you decided to make any changes in your life?

I'm joining the gym. Looks like the PT I chose is ex military. They told me after.

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thats good news it means 60% of the workout will be at the pub

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By *agertha73Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Get our squats, bench and deadlifts back to normal. Then breathe.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm currently trying to find a gym to join and I need a scary PT as well, that will keep me motivated.

It was a strange time and very challenging. Gym might just set a good course for changes in self belief too. I just walked into one once out and about!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"absolutely nothing

go see my family and friends more maybe? Px "

Many of us will appreciate that quality time more with the loved ones I am sure. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To try and socialise more by joining activities or something.

I like "or something"

On the list

Bx"

What list??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm joining the gym. Looks like the PT I chose is ex military. They told me after.

thats good news it means 60% of the workout will be at the pub

Haha better not. Just want him to crack the whip.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm joining the gym. Looks like the PT I chose is ex military. They told me after.

thats good news it means 60% of the workout will be at the pub

Haha better not. Just want him to crack the whip.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Get our squats, bench and deadlifts back to normal. Then breathe."

Best of luck. And yes. Inhale and exhale. And try golden thread breath technique

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By *agertha73Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Get our squats, bench and deadlifts back to normal. Then breathe.

Best of luck. And yes. Inhale and exhale. And try golden thread breath technique

Diolch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Carry on normal and finally my delayed new life phase will emerge like a butterfly, spread it's colourful wings and fly ...

Your chrysalis looks fine to me just now

Happy flights!"

Why thank you very much!

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

No I don't think I will be doing any radical changes.....

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

See the people I love more, and to see more of the British countryside. My new book on standing stones arrived today, how sexy am I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have more fun and especially more threesomes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't be joining a gym

I'd like to join some sort of organised sport - I fancy netball

I would like to do yoga - but the yummy mummy crew intimidate me.

They're all so posh and young and bendy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I'm good as I am.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Finally move!!! Hopefully soon! Fingers crossed anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No I don't think I will be doing any radical changes..... "

If you are happy in your space..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"See the people I love more, and to see more of the British countryside. My new book on standing stones arrived today, how sexy am I

I hope the countryside trips bring up some beautiful photographs too..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have more fun and especially more threesomes

Nature is awakening and desires too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"See the people I love more, and to see more of the British countryside. My new book on standing stones arrived today, how sexy am I

I have just fallen in love with you

I was boring a friend with pictures of neolithic rock art just last week

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"See the people I love more, and to see more of the British countryside. My new book on standing stones arrived today, how sexy am I

I have just fallen in love with you

I was boring a friend with pictures of neolithic rock art just last week

Must love these little discoveries of fellow niche interest followers on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Left the gym, not rejoining. More weekends away. Don't worry about work.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Left the gym, not rejoining. More weekends away. Don't worry about work."

Liberating eh?

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By *nergeticlemurMan
over a year ago

wiltshire

I'm looking to be more social! I've not maintained many connections over the years and realised through lockdown how much I actually needed them so post lockdowns going to be all about meeting people, maybe joining a few clubs etc

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street

I've been unlucky enough to lose my Dad in this weird time.. however, Mum and I have been a bubble since Jan... so I see her at least twice a week..

Next step is seeing my bestie and my godson... next sat!

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"See the people I love more, and to see more of the British countryside. My new book on standing stones arrived today, how sexy am I

I have just fallen in love with you

I was boring a friend with pictures of neolithic rock art just last week

I'm one of those boring people too. Currently planning a walking trip in Pembrokeshire to see some monoliths and cairns

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get into a new routine. Travel more. Road trip to Sardinia in a fast car beckons ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No knew resolutions, but just keep doing what I've been doing to keep.life on track

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go back to the gym and get back into a routine. Also more travel, more gigs and more time with friends and family.

You don't appreciate what you have till it's taken away from you.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

My main post-lockdown resolution is to be braver about establishing whether people I like like me back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Already back to the gym, so reset my targets

Thinking about doing guidedog puppy training

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get my toned body back, sooooo much chocolate over lockdown! Bad kitty!

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By *ememberTheNameMan
over a year ago

barnsley

I'm joining the gym. Looks like the PT I chose is ex military. They told me after.

Mine is to masturbate less and lick more pussy

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By *evil-AngelWoman
over a year ago

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I've tried diets and gyms a lot over the years and always fall off the wagon so my thought now is to be healthier and learn to love my body as it is.

I'm trying to be easier and more compassionate with myself as well

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I've tried diets and gyms a lot over the years and always fall off the wagon so my thought now is to be healthier and learn to love my body as it is.

I'm trying to be easier and more compassionate with myself as well

I hope you're able to get there D-A. It's difficult being compassionate but so easy to be so to others.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Yes I have .

It sounds slightly selfish but for the first time in 15 years I'm putting myself first, as in I'm going to enjoy things I like doing , not what others say I should do

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My main post-lockdown resolution is to be braver about establishing whether people I like like me back. "

Get them tiger

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By *evil-AngelWoman
over a year ago

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"I've tried diets and gyms a lot over the years and always fall off the wagon so my thought now is to be healthier and learn to love my body as it is.

I'm trying to be easier and more compassionate with myself as well

I hope you're able to get there D-A. It's difficult being compassionate but so easy to be so to others."

Thanks Meli. It's so easy to treat others how you want to be treated but not so easy to do it the other way round and show yourself the same compassion you afford to others.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"My main post-lockdown resolution is to be braver about establishing whether people I like like me back.

Get them tiger

Thank you. Fingers crossed I can do it without making anyone uncomfortable.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've been unlucky enough to lose my Dad in this weird time.. however, Mum and I have been a bubble since Jan... so I see her at least twice a week..

Next step is seeing my bestie and my godson... next sat!

I am very sorry about your loss

It's great you are there for your Mum and definitely need that closeness in bereavement time. May the days fly till next Saturday

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Get into a new routine. Travel more. Road trip to Sardinia in a fast car beckons ..."

Open roof?

I'm sneaking in a boot anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See family and friends

Go to festivals (never been)

Take up a new hobby - I fancy learning burlesque

Travel round Britain

And make the most of the freedom I took for granted before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lockdown has made me want to make more effort with my family

I'd like to learn to Tango

Go horse riding again - maybe once a month

Have another go a surfing - could even stand up on the board last time I tried it

Get a new job where I feel like Im making a difference

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By *ondon-guy68Man
over a year ago

London

I'm going to help the hospitality industry get back on its feet and by the way i am feeling this morning, i'm right on track....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've started a bit early but doing some form of exercise every day. I'm becoming quite addicted to the buzz you get after.

I'm going to stop procrastinating as much.

Oh, I quit my job and launched my own business recently.

I guess this period in time has changed everything for me in life. Maybe by losing a close friend to covid, it's taught me life is short and to just go for what makes you happiest x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few specific ones but more generally to try and fully appreciate all the small things we've missed for as long as possible, and not take them for granted again. There can be so much joy and curiosity in everyday human interactions; we don't always need to travel the world to discover new adventures.

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By *exyEggsCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"See the people I love more, and to see more of the British countryside. My new book on standing stones arrived today, how sexy am I

Ooh, love a good standing stone! Get yourself to Orkney. You'll be tripping over history

Mrs kf x

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By *exyEggsCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Yes I have .

It sounds slightly selfish but for the first time in 15 years I'm putting myself first, as in I'm going to enjoy things I like doing , not what others say I should do

Not selfish, it's necessary

I like the saying "you can't pour from an empty cup"

Mrs kf x

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Get rid of my lockdown lard, half a stone gone a shed loads more to shift!

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By *exyEggsCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

I'm going to keep reading more. I used to read all the time but busy life got in the way. Hadn't realised how relaxing I find it, a real switch off from the world

Mrs kf x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go out more.

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Absolutely none. I have lived my lockdown life just as i wanted (by the rules) and will continue to do so.

Just like new year resolutions, Post lockdown resolutions are waffle for me personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've started a bit early but doing some form of exercise every day. I'm becoming quite addicted to the buzz you get after.

I'm going to stop procrastinating as much.

Oh, I quit my job and launched my own business recently.

I guess this period in time has changed everything for me in life. Maybe by losing a close friend to covid, it's taught me life is short and to just go for what makes you happiest x "

Wow, go you!! Good luck with the new biz (and sorry about your friend)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Absolutely none. I have lived my lockdown life just as i wanted (by the rules) and will continue to do so.

Just like new year resolutions, Post lockdown resolutions are waffle for me personally

I always thought that. I'm challenging myself to change my views. Experiment really;-)

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Yes I have .

It sounds slightly selfish but for the first time in 15 years I'm putting myself first, as in I'm going to enjoy things I like doing , not what others say I should do

Not selfish, it's necessary

I like the saying "you can't pour from an empty cup"

Mrs kf x"

How true those words are

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Finally move!!! Hopefully soon! Fingers crossed anyway

Yay. And then roll on December

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

New job, new start, protect myself and not give my heart

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Get rid of my lockdown lard, half a stone gone a shed loads more to shift! "

That's a great start. Small steps

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've started a bit early but doing some form of exercise every day. I'm becoming quite addicted to the buzz you get after.

I'm going to stop procrastinating as much.

Oh, I quit my job and launched my own business recently.

I guess this period in time has changed everything for me in life. Maybe by losing a close friend to covid, it's taught me life is short and to just go for what makes you happiest x "

I'm sorry about your lost and I'm also glad you have so much to look forward to ! All the best with the business project

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am going to buy a guitar.

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Absolutely none. I have lived my lockdown life just as i wanted (by the rules) and will continue to do so.

Just like new year resolutions, Post lockdown resolutions are waffle for me personally

I always thought that. I'm challenging myself to change my views. Experiment really;-)"

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

Lose weight & regain my confidence.

J x

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

No new resolutions. Don’t shout at me anyone but I have actually enjoyed lockdown. I think I’m a very fortunate person so I’m not looking to change anything

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am going to buy a guitar.

Yay. A video playing would make a good addition here to stand out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope everyone is different after all this, that we appreciate the most normal things. I can't wait to be in a full bar struggling to get served!!!

I will try to be more patient and keep in touch with friends and family better, travel, eat well, take more chances and opportunities and generally love life xx

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