FabSwingers.com forum: IF you could have whatever you wanted

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

In terms of play partners, FWB, swinging partner, fuck buddy etc, singletons or couples, poly relationships, what would you go for?

Would you have one of each? And how many different genders?

Long term or not? Regular or occasional?

And would you pick specific kinks or tastes? Dominants or submissives or neither?

Or anything else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...it would be a very complicated life. I'm not great at juggling

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"...it would be a very complicated life. I'm not great at juggling "

Me neither and I think time would be a factor as well as the energy needed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats quite a list, do I have to type it all out?

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Just one with a nice wet hole would be nice

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just one with a nice wet hole would be nice

Such a charmer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In terms of play partners, FWB, swinging partner, fuck buddy etc, singletons or couples, poly relationships, what would you go for?

Would you have one of each? And how many different genders?

Long term or not? Regular or occasional?

And would you pick specific kinks or tastes? Dominants or submissives or neither?

Or anything else?

I would say I’m more one fwb have a real connection

Quite regular

I would prefer to explore all kinks and tastes ideally I’m more dominant so submissive would be great

Think my ads done haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just one with a nice wet hole would be nice

Not fussy about a pulse no?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thats quite a list, do I have to type it all out?

Yep you do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just one with a nice wet hole would be nice

I thought you wanted multiple holes?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just one with a nice wet hole would be nice

I thought you wanted multiple holes?

Maybe he didn't need the others to be wet ones?

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"Just one with a nice wet hole would be nice

Such a charmer. "

Thank you

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

A circle of friends I play with, some closer than others.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"Just one with a nice wet hole would be nice

Not fussy about a pulse no?

A pulse is a bonus

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"Just one with a nice wet hole would be nice

I thought you wanted multiple holes?

Maybe he didn't need the others to be wet ones? "

One wet and all the others dry would be perfect

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Tbh I'd stick with a stable of relationships which provide me with regular fun weekends away,

Lockdown has refined my wants to recreating more homely dating experiences, having a weekend relationship with various regular men.

The one off FaF is just not satisfying for me anymore

Kink wise I have things I want to try, but have tailored them around a club/party nights

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just one with a nice wet hole would be nice

I thought you wanted multiple holes?

Maybe he didn't need the others to be wet ones?

One wet and all the others dry would be perfect

Which one?

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"Just one with a nice wet hole would be nice

I thought you wanted multiple holes?

Maybe he didn't need the others to be wet ones?

One wet and all the others dry would be perfect

Which one?"

The middle one of course

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

I'd have exactly what I've currently got...one special person, with both of us free to meet others occasionally, and to play with others together if the opportunity arises

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, having my Dom, and us playing with others together would be perfect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thats quite a list, do I have to type it all out?

Yep you do! "

Cow!

I'm going to narrow it down and make it nice and simple, I already found it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want what i once had without all the obstacles of life

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

In an ideal world, if we could have 2 single males, 2 single females and 2 couples then that would suit us

We prefer regular playmates rather than one offs so if we had a pool to choose from whenever we desired then that would be lovely

And parties or dinner parties with all 10 of us could be fun...

All applications considered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In terms of play partners, FWB, swinging partner, fuck buddy etc, singletons or couples, poly relationships, what would you go for?

Would you have one of each? And how many different genders?

Long term or not? Regular or occasional?

And would you pick specific kinks or tastes? Dominants or submissives or neither?

Or anything else?

I'd say FWB and fuck buddy in one would be ideal for me.

Long term and regular.

No specific kinks, just exploring each other.

I'm quite dominant but could switch if that would be her desire.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

One emotionally loving relationship (not necessarily living together) but a constant connection. This relationship will be enduring, healthy and (of course) sexually active.

Then both of us free to meet others either just for sex or minor secondary relationships that wouldn’t last long and wouldn’t need or form emotional attachment beyond friendship.

Why is that sooooooooo difficult.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

"Just one with a nice wet hole would be nice

Not fussy about a pulse no?

A pulse is a bonus

If there was no pulse wouldn’t things be a bit ....... erm ........ shrivelled and crusty (excuse me while I vom a little)

So I think a pulse is essential no?

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines quite specific !

BBW in south east for a fwb !

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

A regular fwb, who can be my equal or a sub.

And gives excellent massages.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

A masochistic submissive play partner interested in a long term regular thing where we can explore mutual kinks between ourselves and others.

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Id continue with my regular male FWB but I’d also like..

A female FB who I could attend clubs with and a couple for fun occasionally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just one with a nice wet hole would be nice

Not fussy about a pulse no?

A pulse is a bonus

If there was no pulse wouldn’t things be a bit ....... erm ........ shrivelled and crusty (excuse me while I vom a little)

So I think a pulse is essential no?

V x

Oh god

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Id continue with my regular male FWB but I’d also like..

A female FB who I could attend clubs with and a couple for fun occasionally

Fairly close to what I want.

Want to continue with my male FWB and another male playmate.

Would like a female FWB

And a couple on a semi regular ish basis.

But I'd like the option to go to clubs with any of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just one with a nice wet hole would be nice

Not fussy about a pulse no?

A pulse is a bonus

If there was no pulse wouldn’t things be a bit ....... erm ........ shrivelled and crusty (excuse me while I vom a little)

So I think a pulse is essential no?

V x

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99 yr olds its the future

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

Oh to have that free hedonistic lifestyle

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

One, someone who likes to sexualy explore together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 regulars please

One male one female.

Drinks, laughs, fun - no dramas.

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

"2 regulars please

One male one female.

Drinks, laughs, fun - no dramas.

That sounds great, and on occasion the three of us altogether.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"2 regulars please

One male one female.

Drinks, laughs, fun - no dramas.

That sounds great, and on occasion the three of us altogether.

Yes please

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"In terms of play partners, FWB, swinging partner, fuck buddy etc, singletons or couples, poly relationships, what would you go for?"

All of these, please.

"Would you have one of each? And how many different genders?"

I’m only into women.

"Long term or not? Regular or occasional?"

All of these, please.

"And would you pick specific kinks or tastes? Dominants or submissives or neither?"

I would like:

- people I can submit to

- people I can dominate

- people I can switch with

- people who aren’t into kink at all.

"Or anything else?"

All of my relationships are taken on their own merits depending on the dynamic with the individual in question. What works between me and one person won’t work between me and another, and I would never expect otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That all sounds very complicated. Not sure my brain could handle it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd just want a domme woman into pegging and being fucked

who like to wear sexy lingerie

and was good looking

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We're happy with what we have. We love each other and have a very healthy sex life, and occasionally we get to involve others.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

A few great fwbs is my preference

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By *lenn FairlightMan
over a year ago

East Kent

"A few great fwbs is my preference"

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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