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By *hrista Bellend OP   Woman
over a year ago

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Do you own up or slide the blame over...

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Taking the blame for things is what submissives were created for surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on if I can blame the dog

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm that depends on what it is....

But I usually can’t live with the guilt so I own up pretty much straight away.

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

I own my mistakes so I can lern from them. If you don't that show me you are dishonest and distrustful.

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By *hrista Bellend OP   Woman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"Taking the blame for things is what submissives were created for surely?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Younger always tried to shift the blame but I'm a rubbish liar and the guilt would crack me eventually ...

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By *hrista Bellend OP   Woman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"Depends on if I can blame the dog "

What are you blaming it for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always own up except for the following situations..

Being caught on the counter

Caught banging on the sofa

That also applies to the shower

If I'm caught on camera

Someone sees the marks on my shoulder

Or if they hear the screams getting louder

Otherwise I'm honest

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By *hrista Bellend OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"Hmmm that depends on what it is....

But I usually can’t live with the guilt so I own up pretty much straight away. "

I get the layers of potential blame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always face up to it and take the consequences. As a kid I cut a doll's hair and denied doing it so my little sister got the blame. She got such a telling off! The guilt was horrendous

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By *hrista Bellend OP   Woman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"I own my mistakes so I can lern from them. If you don't that show me you are dishonest and distrustful."

I was thinking more of like snaffling kids chocs tbh...

But I get where you are coming from

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Yes....If I’m at fault, and quickly, like to keep short accounts , learn and move on

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By *hrista Bellend OP   Woman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"Younger always tried to shift the blame but I'm a rubbish liar and the guilt would crack me eventually ..."

Did you have a tell

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By *hrista Bellend OP   Woman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"I always own up except for the following situations..

Being caught on the counter

Caught banging on the sofa

That also applies to the shower

If I'm caught on camera

Someone sees the marks on my shoulder

Or if they hear the screams getting louder

Otherwise I'm honest

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Younger always tried to shift the blame but I'm a rubbish liar and the guilt would crack me eventually ...

Did you have a tell"

Still do. I start smiling when I'm lying. Can't keep a poker face at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the evidence

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By *hrista Bellend OP   Woman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"Always face up to it and take the consequences. As a kid I cut a doll's hair and denied doing it so my little sister got the blame. She got such a telling off! The guilt was horrendous "

did you ever get found out

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By *hrista Bellend OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"Yes....If I’m at fault, and quickly, like to keep short accounts , learn and move on"

Its a good outlook, what about the silly little things are they as important

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By *hrista Bellend OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"Depends on the evidence "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I own my mistakes, except farts, the dog did it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on if I can blame the dog

What are you blaming it for"

D*unken late night Amazon purchases

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I own my mistakes, except farts, the dog did it. "

Always lol

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

Yup.

No point lying. Own up, deal with it and move on.

Makes life so much easier in the end.

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By *eoeclipseWoman
over a year ago

glasgow


"I own my mistakes so I can lern from them. If you don't that show me you are dishonest and distrustful."

this, however, with social situations, often I need them pointed out me me first, I often don't realise I've done something nor that it was wrong or why...usually its a blunt truthful reply with no filter, it's not meant in malice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I own up.

Guilt consumes me and I am a terrible lier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Taking the blame for things is what submissives were created for surely?"

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Own up x

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By *hrista Bellend OP   Woman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"I own my mistakes, except farts, the dog did it. "

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By *hrista Bellend OP   Woman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"Yup.

No point lying. Own up, deal with it and move on.

Makes life so much easier in the end. "

I agree with the big things, but the little things are fun to tease over

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"I always own up except for the following situations..

Being caught on the counter

Caught banging on the sofa

That also applies to the shower

If I'm caught on camera

Someone sees the marks on my shoulder

Or if they hear the screams getting louder

Otherwise I'm honest

"

What about the bathroom floor ??

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By *hrista Bellend OP   Woman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"I own up.

Guilt consumes me and I am a terrible lier"

Do you have a tell

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I've gotten wise to the lady tactics of it's the blokes fault even if I did it

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By *hrista Bellend OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"Own up x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if there's indisputable evidence that it was me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Own up each n every time

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By *hrista Bellend OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"I've gotten wise to the lady tactics of it's the blokes fault even if I did it "

Its more of a testing my boundaries than an all out blame personally, I like to see what his reactions are to me

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By *hrista Bellend OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"Depends if there's indisputable evidence that it was me... "

No escaping that one

I do like it when you try to talk your way out of this then bamn they show you it

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By *hrista Bellend OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"Own up each n every time "

Oh really

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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It depends really. I'm quite good at owning up if something is my fault but of course I'd like to think that.

I get frustrated when things clearly aren't/I'm told I've done something and there's evidence to show otherwise. But then again maybe that's my bias coming into play.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick


"Yup.

No point lying. Own up, deal with it and move on.

Makes life so much easier in the end.

I agree with the big things, but the little things are fun to tease over"

Oh, well if we are on about silly things, then yes I will sometimes deny them for a bit to have a little fun or wind a mate up. Often with a cheeky grin on my face

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By *hrista Bellend OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"It depends really. I'm quite good at owning up if something is my fault but of course I'd like to think that.

I get frustrated when things clearly aren't/I'm told I've done something and there's evidence to show otherwise. But then again maybe that's my bias coming into play."

I have that fustration and will argue my point home over and over, sometimes too far and I will have to walk away

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By *hrista Bellend OP   Woman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"Yup.

No point lying. Own up, deal with it and move on.

Makes life so much easier in the end.

I agree with the big things, but the little things are fun to tease over

Oh, well if we are on about silly things, then yes I will sometimes deny them for a bit to have a little fun or wind a mate up. Often with a cheeky grin on my face "

Yes thats fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always face up to it and take the consequences. As a kid I cut a doll's hair and denied doing it so my little sister got the blame. She got such a telling off! The guilt was horrendous

did you ever get found out"

I confessed many years later...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I own up.

Guilt consumes me and I am a terrible lier

Do you have a tell"

My whole face

My emotions are often very visible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will always own up, unless its getting me into trouble

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