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"Maybe she meant, her hand? " Lol unfortunatly she was clearly meaning left wing luvvie. I dont anyones views but i wouldnt meet someone who was open about it as you just know they be on the soapbox lol | |||
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"Maybe she meant, her hand? " I was just going to say that maybe she means she's left handed. I do think that some people are very vociferous about their views and it's probably best that you know if you're likely to be at odds with each other. We'd struggle with someone who leaned a long way to the right for instance and made their views clear. | |||
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"Sometimes a person's political views are obvious just by casual remarks they make." Agreed. My profile makes my politics reasonably clear. It's totally deliberate. If it bothers you (general you), I'm filtering you out. Job done | |||
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"Yea I've seen a profile state no tories. Like someone is going to say they are after seeing that. It's fine for me I don't follow politics passionately." Many years ago there was a profile named Toryboy. And he looked nothing like Harry Enfield. | |||
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"Yea I've seen a profile state no tories. Like someone is going to say they are after seeing that. It's fine for me I don't follow politics passionately." Might be a giveaway though when the chauffer turns up in the silver rolls royce with champagne on ice. Then when they get to the meet it is announced that 'my man' shall fuck you for my delectation. (no stereotypes were harmed in this post). | |||
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"Yea I've seen a profile state no tories. Like someone is going to say they are after seeing that. It's fine for me I don't follow politics passionately." I think this is a great point. I deliberately have little information on my profile because people just say 'ooh yeah I like watching Bake Off while sat in a bath of baked beans too!!' | |||
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"I can't imagine having a deep political discussion with my mouth full " | |||
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"If someones political views were far right then I would want to know and stay very much far away from them. In some aspects I think it is important." Yeah it tends to come up a surprising amount. And for all the moaning about mouthy lefties, I've had any number of occasions where I've sat there biting my damn tongue over "you said what " | |||
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" Depends really we are both so called snow flakes/remoaners or as we say " Based in reality" and get accused a lot of being Labour supporters ?? especially mr4 which is deffo 100% not ??( he just uses fact) but we class ourselves as happily left of centre but met a fair few right wing homophobic racist over the years and they are far worse and as soon as the classic line "I'm not a racist but " we are putting our coats on ...plus how in the hell can you do a m/m/f being a homophobic or even want to see fem on fem as that act is a homosexual act ?? plus way to many daily fail/the scum readers on here and they are the ones we avoid ! " This my feelings exactly. | |||
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"Maybe she meant, her hand? Lol unfortunatly she was clearly meaning left wing luvvie. I dont anyones views but i wouldnt meet someone who was open about it as you just know they be on the soapbox lol" But ironically, by speaking about her and her views in such a disparaging way, you’re making your own views very clear - which is what you’re saying people shouldn’t do. | |||
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"If someones political views were far right then I would want to know and stay very much far away from them. In some aspects I think it is important." The same goes for anyone who was very much far left as they are just as loony as very far right. | |||
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"Maybe she meant, her hand? Lol unfortunatly she was clearly meaning left wing luvvie. I dont anyones views but i wouldnt meet someone who was open about it as you just know they be on the soapbox lol But ironically, by speaking about her and her views in such a disparaging way, you’re making your own views very clear - which is what you’re saying people shouldn’t do." Oh the irony! | |||
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"If someones political views were far right then I would want to know and stay very much far away from them. In some aspects I think it is important. The same goes for anyone who was very much far left as they are just as loony as very far right." You've made your view abundantly clear. | |||
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"We all have different opinions when it comes to politics but do you thing you should be open about them when arranging NSA? I saw a girl the other day here profile states "i'm a lefty " for me that would put me off as i think someone who has to state it on a profile would be more likely to spout off and shut down those whos views are not the same. What are your thoughts fabbers? " You say about someone who shouts out about there views yet you seem quick to throw the term 'loony leftie' in a lot of your forum comments. Are you not doing what you would fear she would do to you. | |||
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"We all have different opinions when it comes to politics but do you thing you should be open about them when arranging NSA? I saw a girl the other day here profile states "i'm a lefty " for me that would put me off as i think someone who has to state it on a profile would be more likely to spout off and shut down those whos views are not the same. What are your thoughts fabbers? You say about someone who shouts out about there views yet you seem quick to throw the term 'loony leftie' in a lot of your forum comments. Are you not doing what you would fear she would do to you. " Asking for consistency is oppression, y u so mean | |||
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"We all have different opinions when it comes to politics but do you thing you should be open about them when arranging NSA? I saw a girl the other day here profile states "i'm a lefty " for me that would put me off as i think someone who has to state it on a profile would be more likely to spout off and shut down those whos views are not the same. What are your thoughts fabbers? You say about someone who shouts out about there views yet you seem quick to throw the term 'loony leftie' in a lot of your forum comments. Are you not doing what you would fear she would do to you. Asking for consistency is oppression, y u so mean " I must be looney | |||
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"We all have different opinions when it comes to politics but do you thing you should be open about them when arranging NSA? I saw a girl the other day here profile states "i'm a lefty " for me that would put me off as i think someone who has to state it on a profile would be more likely to spout off and shut down those whos views are not the same. What are your thoughts fabbers? You say about someone who shouts out about there views yet you seem quick to throw the term 'loony leftie' in a lot of your forum comments. Are you not doing what you would fear she would do to you. Asking for consistency is oppression, y u so mean I must be looney " | |||
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"If someones political views were far right then I would want to know and stay very much far away from them. In some aspects I think it is important. The same goes for anyone who was very much far left as they are just as loony as very far right." Tbh i believe saying you are a Communist/Marxist or whatever flavour of Far Left should have the same stigma as a National Socialism Both are Authoritarian, Racist and Disgusting Ideolgies that have caused suffering and death of millions | |||
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"If they feel strongly but something they should put it on their profile. Like attracts like. And saves the Unlikes from meeting. " cojkdng agree more | |||
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"If someones political views were far right then I would want to know and stay very much far away from them. In some aspects I think it is important. The same goes for anyone who was very much far left as they are just as loony as very far right. Tbh i believe saying you are a Communist/Marxist or whatever flavour of Far Left should have the same stigma as a National Socialism Both are Authoritarian, Racist and Disgusting Ideolgies that have caused suffering and death of millions" I wasn't making a point of one against the other, I was making a point to what I have experienced in life. I had a woman tell me she wouldn't date because my daughter is bi-racial. The same as if someone told me that they believe if violent revolution, I wouldn't want to date them. I can only make a comment from my own experience. | |||
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"We all have different opinions when it comes to politics but do you thing you should be open about them when arranging NSA? I saw a girl the other day here profile states "i'm a lefty " for me that would put me off as i think someone who has to state it on a profile would be more likely to spout off and shut down those whos views are not the same. What are your thoughts fabbers? You say about someone who shouts out about there views yet you seem quick to throw the term 'loony leftie' in a lot of your forum comments. Are you not doing what you would fear she would do to you. " But you use the term Bi-racial when everyone knows thats just PC jargon for H-C or mixed race | |||
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"Maybe she meant, her hand? " Love it | |||
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"Maybe she meant, her hand? I was just going to say that maybe she means she's left handed. I do think that some people are very vociferous about their views and it's probably best that you know if you're likely to be at odds with each other. We'd struggle with someone who leaned a long way to the right for instance and made their views clear." | |||
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"We all have different opinions when it comes to politics but do you thing you should be open about them when arranging NSA? I saw a girl the other day here profile states "i'm a lefty " for me that would put me off as i think someone who has to state it on a profile would be more likely to spout off and shut down those whos views are not the same. What are your thoughts fabbers? You say about someone who shouts out about there views yet you seem quick to throw the term 'loony leftie' in a lot of your forum comments. Are you not doing what you would fear she would do to you. But you use the term Bi-racial when everyone knows thats just PC jargon for H-C or mixed race " Are you trying to say that someone should not use a particular term? Why can't people speak using the terms that suit them? | |||
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"Maybe she meant, her hand? " Or she has a favourite boob. Maybe she had breast cancer surgery and is not letting that stop her. Lust-for-life. Now that's body positive. | |||
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"We all have different opinions when it comes to politics but do you thing you should be open about them when arranging NSA? I saw a girl the other day here profile states "i'm a lefty " for me that would put me off as i think someone who has to state it on a profile would be more likely to spout off and shut down those whos views are not the same. What are your thoughts fabbers? You say about someone who shouts out about there views yet you seem quick to throw the term 'loony leftie' in a lot of your forum comments. Are you not doing what you would fear she would do to you. But you use the term Bi-racial when everyone knows thats just PC jargon for H-C or mixed race " My daughter is bi-racial thank you. | |||
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"I agree with OP I don’t personally like to see profiles that clearly push their political views. It gives me the impression that they aren’t tolerant of others whose views may differ It’s like when I read people on other sites put “no tories” - sounds to me like you are closed off and unwilling to give everyone a chance. Yes lots of Tory #####, but Labour, SNP ##### too " This is correct. I'm not willing to give everyone a chance | |||
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"I agree with OP I don’t personally like to see profiles that clearly push their political views. It gives me the impression that they aren’t tolerant of others whose views may differ It’s like when I read people on other sites put “no tories” - sounds to me like you are closed off and unwilling to give everyone a chance. Yes lots of Tory #####, but Labour, SNP ##### too This is correct. I'm not willing to give everyone a chance " Exactly We do have choices here lol | |||
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"I agree with OP I don’t personally like to see profiles that clearly push their political views. It gives me the impression that they aren’t tolerant of others whose views may differ It’s like when I read people on other sites put “no tories” - sounds to me like you are closed off and unwilling to give everyone a chance. Yes lots of Tory #####, but Labour, SNP ##### too This is correct. I'm not willing to give everyone a chance Exactly We do have choices here lol " I've sat through too many political tirades, I'm not interested in doing it here. | |||
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"I agree with OP I don’t personally like to see profiles that clearly push their political views. It gives me the impression that they aren’t tolerant of others whose views may differ It’s like when I read people on other sites put “no tories” - sounds to me like you are closed off and unwilling to give everyone a chance. Yes lots of Tory #####, but Labour, SNP ##### too This is correct. I'm not willing to give everyone a chance Exactly We do have choices here lol I've sat through too many political tirades, I'm not interested in doing it here." Agreed. | |||
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"We all have different opinions when it comes to politics but do you thing you should be open about them when arranging NSA? I saw a girl the other day here profile states "i'm a lefty " for me that would put me off as i think someone who has to state it on a profile would be more likely to spout off and shut down those whos views are not the same. What are your thoughts fabbers? You say about someone who shouts out about there views yet you seem quick to throw the term 'loony leftie' in a lot of your forum comments. Are you not doing what you would fear she would do to you. But you use the term Bi-racial when everyone knows thats just PC jargon for H-C or mixed race " People don't use "H-C" because it's offensive. It has offensive roots. Educate yourself. | |||
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"Obviously she wouldn't sleep with someone who was a Tory, I don't blame her! It's just another preference and her choice. Nothing wrong with it." Completely agree OP - arnt you doing much the same thing as the person you're commenting on? They put a preference in their profile and you're ouvertly putting your preference in a thread. Pwrhaps they are looking for more of a connection rather than a shag and go? Nothing wrong with either but different people want different things from here. | |||
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"It's funny you say this but I've had enough socials ruined by having to awkwardly smile as someone makes comments about "benefit scroungers", Romanian people, political correctness gone mad, etc. I'd rather put these types off early than waste both our time. I also enjoy the company of those I can have a deep discussion with. I have a particular fab friend who has very different politics to me and its never been a barrier to our friendship as we respect each others views and enjoy the debate. Anyone who is going to say "eww, loony leftie snowflake" is precisely the type I am looking to put off by putting it on my profile so it's doing its job. " Has someone genuinely said “eww, loony leftie snowflake” to you or that just an example? I’m amazed if someone has, such a rude narrow minded comment | |||
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"It's funny you say this but I've had enough socials ruined by having to awkwardly smile as someone makes comments about "benefit scroungers", Romanian people, political correctness gone mad, etc. I'd rather put these types off early than waste both our time. I also enjoy the company of those I can have a deep discussion with. I have a particular fab friend who has very different politics to me and its never been a barrier to our friendship as we respect each others views and enjoy the debate. Anyone who is going to say "eww, loony leftie snowflake" is precisely the type I am looking to put off by putting it on my profile so it's doing its job. " Yup. Or the ones who want to "educate" me and help me see the light. If I wanted an education I'd ask | |||
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"I can honestly say in all the years ive been on here ive never once had someone want to discuss politics" I like discussing politics and current affairs | |||
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"I can honestly say in all the years ive been on here ive never once had someone want to discuss politics I like discussing politics and current affairs " Nothing wrong in that just means we wouldnt be compatable | |||
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"I can honestly say in all the years ive been on here ive never once had someone want to discuss politics I like discussing politics and current affairs Nothing wrong in that just means we wouldnt be compatable" Lol - I dont need to do it all the time. I have met people for a coffee without the subject coming up | |||
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