FabSwingers.com forum: Why do you post?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Attention?

What other reason?

Isn't fab turning into the ultimate social media site killing it as a hook up sex site?

*Runs & hides....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of banter look at different people I might not have noticed before and attention yes

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Because I am amazing and everyone needs to heed my words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need somewhere to let rip textually when I'm bouncing into a high.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Attention?

What other reason?

Isn't fab turning into the ultimate social media site killing it as a hook up sex site?

*Runs & hides....

Sometimes attention, sometimes passing the time of day, sometimes for genuine discussions.

Why can't it be both? Most people don't use the forums anyway so not sure how it makes a difference?

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Mainly boredom.

And I like to see personalities unravel alongside peoples pictures.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Why not if we didn't post there would be no forums

And I post for fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pass the time, attention, distraction, fun, and because I can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keeps me entertained, some good discussions and I’ve got to know people through using it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh we have noticed a real drop off in decent adult swingers threads. Forum seems to resemble sixth form common room these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tbh we have noticed a real drop off in decent adult swingers threads. Forum seems to resemble sixth form common room these days. "

I just farted.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Bit of banter but also interested in what other people have to say on certain things. Curious to hear other people's life experience, too.

If I did not like the forums, I would not have been here for 10 years, give or take.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tbh we have noticed a real drop off in decent adult swingers threads. Forum seems to resemble sixth form common room these days. "

Well it is called the lounge? There's a swingers forum too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

because i want to?

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Tbh we have noticed a real drop off in decent adult swingers threads. Forum seems to resemble sixth form common room these days. "

What do you want science

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because the majority is from the UK. It's nice to get a different perspective on certain things.

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By *eigh guyMan
over a year ago

wigan

To see how many mis understand, pull me up for grammor, take offence , change direction of post and occasionally a funny quip ,,,, o and as I finish the bottle of wine I feel the urge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mainly boredom.

And I like to see personalities unravel alongside peoples pictures. "

This

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By *aughtybutnice97Man
over a year ago

leicester

Doesn’t matter what the conversation is about for me, if it’s with a likeminded and open minded person like those you find on fab then I’m much happier speaking to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because no one hates me on here as much as they do in real life

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Because the village complains if I just shout this shit out the window and Mark Zuckerberg cancelled me for falsely advertising midget gems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forum is a very small part of Fab, only 0.02 % use the forums, the vast majority don’t even know it’s here, we are screaming into the void, it is a speck on a speck, floating in space. Cool your jets.

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
over a year ago

Epsom

To be honest I’ve had the best conversations with people I’ve found in the forums. It can get kinda boring with the usual wanna meet one liners

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"because i want to?

P. "

Yep. End of thread

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

Less and less atm.

The flirting has died down, as the intention behind it is fruitless for now.

I miss the forum flirting, getting to know potential meets, planning fantasy situations!

You got to know a person, their desires and quirks, sense of humour...

Now there much more pettiness and arguing.

I'm hoping it perks up again when meets are allowed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hang on. Other people can see my posts? I was just making notes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At this moment there is approximately 29500 people online on fab of which approximately less than 200 are posting in the forums!

But the negativity in here today is quite depressing ... I wonder at myself for posting really! But hoping my more realist/glass half full sensibilities will cheer someone up!

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

"because i want to?

Yep. End of thread

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or because it's there and I can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pass the time, attention, distraction, fun, and because I can

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because my brain needs to empty of shit and its a good place to put it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit off every thing

To make friends

To maybe meet someone nice

To build a report off who I am before even chatting to someone as they can read my posts and see what kind off person I am before ever have chat to me

To flirt with people

And sometimes the odd bit off attention

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Because I happen to know that it infuriates at least two people and that gives me a little warm glow inside

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By *superfuse663Man
over a year ago

manchester

Mainly just some sort of chat to pass boredom ect, will it carry on when social life returns, yeah probably.

It's led to a few chats away from the forums and possibly to chance to meet people at some point aswell

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

No where else would have me.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Under current restrictions chatting on here is all we can do.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Meant to add - the forums are, over time, a great way to get to know people. Obviously not in detail but you do get a sense of whether or not you are on the same wavelength as somebody else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I’m looking for bbw south east for a fwb colechester Ipswich or Chelmsford lady’s x

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"Tbh we have noticed a real drop off in decent adult swingers threads. Forum seems to resemble sixth form common room these days. "

The green arrow shows you post and engage in threads that are not always sex (swinging) threads.

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

Started a fun thread if anyone wants to fantasise about things to come.

Let's have some fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Started a fun thread if anyone wants to fantasise about things to come.

Let's have some fun

I can confirm it is a fun thread, lots to see and do and there are drinks and nibbles

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

"Started a fun thread if anyone wants to fantasise about things to come.

Let's have some fun

I can confirm it is a fun thread, lots to see and do and there are drinks and nibbles "

It's me... there's always refreshments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you get to know like minded people without being social

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"How do you get to know like minded people without being social

Go and grope in a dark room at a club

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

"Meant to add - the forums are, over time, a great way to get to know people. Obviously not in detail but you do get a sense of whether or not you are on the same wavelength as somebody else.

I couldn't agree with you more about forums! They are something that I actually discovered out of boredom, and further exploration of this site during lock down when even meeting up direct with established contacts would have been stupidity on the highest level, and it may have been a pointless exercise simply messaging people who you liked the look of at this moment in time. What I actually discovered that it's an outstanding way to get yourself noticed by people from different parts of the UK with whom you might just have a meeting of minds. Also judging from the private repsonses I get, it seems that there's a great deal of people who read the forums but don't actually post on them, which suggests to me that posting on forum's is a fantastic way to bring yourself to the attention of others, and this is obviously going to result in successful future meets after look down as we get to know more about the people who we are connecting with.

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Being single, it's a fun pass time posting and having people to interact with

bit of bants & a flirt.

I think cause of lockdown restrictions Fab was turning into basic social media. Hope it leans back bit more to a fun swingers site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like people here. Ladies particulary

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"Being single, it's a fun pass time posting and having people to interact with

bit of bants & a flirt.

I think cause of lockdown restrictions Fab was turning into basic social media. Hope it leans back bit more to a fun swingers site. "

It is a swinging site, the forum's are not just for talking about sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To pass time and I get to learn an awful lot about people. For a single,shy person it's invaluable.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I am a chatty person and like talking to the variety of different people in here

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Because there's not much else to do at the moment?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To piss people off so they block me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To piss people off so they block me "

Blocked lol.... Only joking you carry on pissing people off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To stay relevant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To piss people off so they block me

Blocked lol.... Only joking you carry on pissing people off

You did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To pass time and I get to learn an awful lot about people. For a single,shy person it's invaluable. "

Also learn who to stay away from without having to be rejected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forums can be fun st time, do there is that. Otherwise if I didn’t post, there’d be little point in me logging on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To piss people off so they block me

Blocked lol.... Only joking you carry on pissing people off

You did

Did I

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Sometimes I have things to say, sometimes I want to ask questions.

Usually, I am looking for banter and a laugh.

Mostly, people aren't listening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To piss people off so they block me

Blocked lol.... Only joking you carry on pissing people off

You did

Did I

OMG I did

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By *razzyhorseMan
over a year ago

cambridge

I post to have a laugh, a joke and feel a bit more involved. It gives me a tiny insight into some of the personalities here & vice versa. Attraction is more complicated than cold mails & picture trawling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I post threads on subjects that interest me, to hear different points of view, and thinking points.

If people don’t like my threads there are plenty of others. Easy come, easy go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a six pack (I have a keg)

I'm not hung like a sky remote. Not even the small ones.

I don't have a full head of hair anymore.

But I have opinions and I feel like I'm reasonable and rational so I can be a good forum poster.

(I'm also too serious and very dry)

So it's a bit of both. It's how I get to show off until I get to dance with people or kiss them. And I get to talk and feed that side of my ego

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"Attention?

What other reason?

Isn't fab turning into the ultimate social media site killing it as a hook up sex site?

*Runs & hides....

I thought the lounge was always a place for chatting and general banter.

There are plenty of other places on here to look for hookups.

The site caters for both chatting and hook ups, and IMHO is a better place for it.

Plus, I prefer the completely open conversions you get on here than on a social media site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Keeps me entertained, some good discussions and I’ve got to know people through using it

This

Her x

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

Because I can.. I certainly dont post as much as I used to. Was quite the forumite back in the day.. but guess time has made me feel less inclined to post as much. Plus I genuinely prefer to keep a lower profile these days

I tend to post to share knowledge mostly these days or to have a laugh with friends.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Bounce ideas around, because I can, because no one's stopped me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you get to know like minded people without being social

Go and grope in a dark room at a club

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lol how would you know if your in the right room and grab the wrong person

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

To educate and to have fun.

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

It's a combination of factors, lockdown boredom certainly being one.

However, I would also say that there are some stimulating debates with thoughtful, well-informed contributors who articulate viewpoints I haven't considered. I don't object to the general smut and silliness either

And of course, it's a way of interacting with other users and sidestepping the perennial single male curse of not getting any bloody messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just a verbal diarrhoea really. Can't help it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To knock the dust and cobwebs off my posting fingers, let a bit of air in through the shutters before it all gets put away again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I need somewhere to let rip textually when I'm bouncing into a high."

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

To amuse and be amused ...flirt and learn

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By *inky_CarpenterMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Meeting new people, having a laugh, venting, enjoying a good argument, raging at a stupid one.... sharing thoughts, memories, feelings, and at times even therapy

.....

Mostly its just being part of a community that whilst we're all so diverse and unique, all share a common bond

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Tbh we have noticed a real drop off in decent adult swingers threads. Forum seems to resemble sixth form common room these days. "

Swingers chat forum may be the better option instead of the lounge.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Why do I post?

Because the spider who's moved in doesn't respond.

Because I like to make people laugh, cry and vomit.

Because there are times I do have interesting things to say.

Because sometimes I don't want others feeling ignored.

Because I do attend forum socials and if I don't get involved on the forum I won't know who thinks I'm a cretin or who's drink to flob in.

Because actually, some people here are fucking awesome humans

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to post and comment in the forums x it helps you to make new friends and make people laugh etc x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forums make up a very small part of the site. Therfore they are unlikely to change the site.

Ultimately this site is whatever people want it to be. Do what works for you.

There's no right or wrong way to use it.

As for why I post, many reasons. Sometimes I say something interesting and it's good to start a discussion.

Sometimes I say something silly and it might make people smile or laugh.

Sometimes I'm bored and it passes some time.

Mostly though, because I can!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do I post?

Because the spider who's moved in doesn't respond.

Because I like to make people laugh, cry and vomit.

Because there are times I do have interesting things to say.

Because sometimes I don't want others feeling ignored.

Because I do attend forum socials and if I don't get involved on the forum I won't know who thinks I'm a cretin or who's drink to flob in.

Because actually, some people here are fucking awesome humans

This is perfection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lately I don't have the time or energy for actual conversation, but the forum is easy to just flit in and out of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more of a reader than a poster, some threads are really interesting. Some not so much!

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

"To piss people off so they block me

Blocked lol.... Only joking you carry on pissing people off

Having been around the block, no pun intended, for a few years now, with a wealth of experience behind me, I can never quite get why people block someone, especially when genuine 24 carat nut case's are fully aware that all they have to do is get a new email address, then upload a fresh profile, and get back to you, AGAIN! If that's their intent. I personally find that ignoring someone is far more effective, especially when there is the facility in place to look at a message, and mark it as unread. A couple of pals and I, each professional guys with a good standard of living, and reasonably experienced were debating this subject of being blocked by people we haven't even messaged, and we have all come to the conclusion that we are being blocked by rank amateurs who have read, and digested our profiles, and realise that they are out of their depths. That comment should piss a few off lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Less and less atm.

The flirting has died down, as the intention behind it is fruitless for now.

I miss the forum flirting, getting to know potential meets, planning fantasy situations!

You got to know a person, their desires and quirks, sense of humour...

Now there much more pettiness and arguing.

I'm hoping it perks up again when meets are allowed

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To keep the anger at bay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Athletic sport guy looking for a fb and couples. South Wales x

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