FabSwingers.com forum: Please someone help me out !!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hello fab forum!

I am curious to know how people genuinely meet up? I seem to get ignored left right and centre! Is my profile crap? Am I just dog rough? Advice and constructive criticism will be appreciated! Thanks

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Your profile is not appealing. One cock photo, and the only words on it are about covid.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I've found that joining in the forums is a great way to get yourself noticed.

Get some more 'normal' pics.

You'll find that just a xock pic isnt going to do you any favours.

Good luck.

Be yourself and stand out from the crowd.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Oh - and be patient, very patient.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some more pictures would be good and not just your cock.

Give us some info about yourself and why we should answer your message.

As a man, you are greatly outnumbered on this site, you need to make your profile stand out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to put of effort into it. Bio, photos of you (face pic optional) and a profile picture of sorts

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Hello fab forum!

I am curious to know how people genuinely meet up? I seem to get ignored left right and centre! Is my profile crap? Am I just dog rough? Advice and constructive criticism will be appreciated! Thanks"

Not sure how you could think your profile is good in any way TBH. it barely even exists.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with our profiles concon

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thankyou so much for the advice gonna get to it right now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is the window into your sexual soul and to be fair yours is not really showing anything apart from strange comments about COVID.

Best of luck op.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

"Hello fab forum!

I am curious to know how people genuinely meet up? I seem to get ignored left right and centre! Is my profile crap? Am I just dog rough? Advice and constructive criticism will be appreciated! Thanks

Not sure how you could think your profile is good in any way TBH. it barely even exists."

This

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

How can anyone make a decision whether you're dog rough when you have one photo? And that's of your cock. Nearly had me eye out.

Your profile may as well be non existent it has so little info on it.

You will need to make much more effort I'm afraid.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Thankyou so much for the advice gonna get to it right now "

There's no right way - you're not going to please everyone.

Basically - don't be a twat and you should be OK.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Okay great so could you help me out by making a profile cause I really have no idea ?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Okay great so could you help me out by making a profile cause I really have no idea ?"

No.

Do it yourself that way it expresses you.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Pandemic...

No one is meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe a profile pic and more info about you would help a little.

Also the mindset it's not instafuck so you need to put the work in and make yourself appealing to others.

And finally don't take things personally as fab is a pond full of millions of males trying there luck with the elusive exclusive few genuine females and couples.

oh and just be different by being yourself and have fun.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

"Hello fab forum!

I am curious to know how people genuinely meet up? I seem to get ignored left right and centre! Is my profile crap? Am I just dog rough? Advice and constructive criticism will be appreciated! Thanks"

Work harder on your profile content would be my suggestion.

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

"Hello fab forum!

I am curious to know how people genuinely meet up? I seem to get ignored left right and centre! Is my profile crap? Am I just dog rough? Advice and constructive criticism will be appreciated! Thanks"

Remember the saying “you get out of something you put in”? What have you put into fab? 6 words on your profile and a cock pick.

How does that stand out from 99% of the other single males on here?

Yes I’ve had meets, and I still get offered meets now. It’s all about effort.

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By *iss_KateTV/TS
over a year ago

Windsor

I totally ignore profiles like yours when I'm messaged by one.

Reason why is you have one photo which is of your cock and not enough information either.

Another thing, many people are tending to ignore meet requests when there is a pandemic and lockdown going on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Okay great so could you help me out by making a profile cause I really have no idea ?

No.

Do it yourself that way it expresses you."
what she says i could write you a brill one to get you all the fannys and bumholes but it would be me getting you all the fannys and lady bum holes and i dont like to share you should do it if you just believe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get ignored all the time lol

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

It is a pretty crap profile, yes. Sorry...

Would be an instant delete from me....

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

What has being covid negative got to do with anything? You're still not allowed to meet others indoors or within 2m. Asking for meets during lockdown won't make you appealing to (I hope) most people.

You have no profile text whatsoever to let people know what you are in to, what you are looking for. I didn't get as far as looking at your picture. I'm not adverse to a cock pic on a profile though so it wouldn't bother me but your will find that those more successful have a variety of body parts on show.

Simply asking for anyone who is covid negative is pretty desperate looking in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sell yourself. Be yourself.

You could write the greatest and best profile in the world, but it would be a tribute to someone you aspire to be if it doesn't reflect you.

People often make the mistake of writing what they think people want, then when they meet you, they wonder where the real you is.

Not every woman wants six packs, 8 inch cocks and the ability to breathe through your ears. You can be their Knight in shining armour providing you don't wrap yourself up in tin foil and glitter.

Be yourself, unless you can be Batman (thats a no brainer).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a profile pic and be patient and undemanding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your username sounds like the policeman from 'Allo' Allo saying Can Can so this can only work in your favour.

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

U need pics and not just ur dick .women or couples won't look at blank profile .put some effort in join in forums get noticed .

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Okay great so could you help me out by making a profile cause I really have no idea ?"

Do you want us to fuck the ladies for you too?

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

One of the most unappealing profiles, I'm afraid.

One (not very good) dick pic, absolutely no personality in the bio..nothing to make me want to know more.

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

Where do I even start?

Thats probably what you though when you Made your profile

There's not a cat in hells chance I would reply to your profile. As everyone has said.. Zero efforts = zero results.

School marks would be an F and a must try harder....

You're old enough to know better...

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

How can you tell if you are covid negative unless you have been sealed in and isolation unit away from anyone for the past two weeks?

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

"U need pics and not just ur dick .women or couples won't look at blank profile .put some effort in join in forums get noticed ."

Exactly what he said x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Add more photos and text.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello fab forum!

I am curious to know how people genuinely meet up? I seem to get ignored left right and centre! Is my profile crap? Am I just dog rough? Advice and constructive criticism will be appreciated! Thanks"

Look at some of the male users of the forums for an idea, as to what makes a good profile...but also remember its fab, n expectations on here, get lead down faster than balloons at my 5 yr old nephews bday party

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By *odgerNbadgerCouple
over a year ago

Chepstow

We don't respond when there's not even a profile pic. Even if it's only your left knee, put the effort in and have something on there

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I like a profile to introduce someone to me, give me a flavour of their personality and their sexual tastes. If a single man sells himself well, above the average level, my interest is raised. If his pictures give me a very clear picture of how he looks, so I can form a mental image of him, as if we'd met in the flesh, I can then take a good decision on whether he is attractive to me or not.

If his pictures show little bits of him, like jigsaw puzzle pieces - 3 or 4 pieces out of a 500 piece jigsaw puzzle, then I'm left dissatisfied, as he's not taken my needs into consideration, so it doesn't bode well for sexually either. I skip him him, to find the guy who does this.

It's still pandemic time, so people have a year long queue of people to meet as well as their old friends too. A new man thus needs to be incredibly good at gaining attention to start with here. No effort = no goodies.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Remove your willy pic

Tell us something about yourself I your profile and keep it fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blank Avatar ~ Instant delete

One dick pick ~ Instant delete

No bio ~ Instant delete

Talking about Covid ~ Instant delete.

You get the picture? And yes, your profile is crap.

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

"U need pics and not just ur dick .women or couples won't look at blank profile .put some effort in join in forums get noticed .

Exactly what he said x"

I couldn't not notice u x

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

I find it helps to focus your intentions on a profile OP. My top tips:

Photos; have a range of them, yes you can have your manhood there , but have some full length body pictures, a face pic can help (or in my case hinder).

Text; breaking this down into stages, 3 is good:

About you, physically (not just about your”fella”

About you, interests (not just sexual)

About your preferred partner, the kind of person you are looking for (physically AND emotional outlook).

Imagining yourself as scar helps(weird, I know) how would you describe it to someone you wanted to sell it too, and explain what kind of potential new owner it would suit

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"I find it helps to focus your intentions on a profile OP. My top tips:

Photos; have a range of them, yes you can have your manhood there , but have some full length body pictures, a face pic can help (or in my case hinder).

Text; breaking this down into stages, 3 is good:

About you, physically (not just about your”fella”

About you, interests (not just sexual)

About your preferred partner, the kind of person you are looking for (physically AND emotional outlook).

Imagining yourself as scar helps(weird, I know) how would you describe it to someone you wanted to sell it too, and explain what kind of potential new owner it would suit"

This... but car not scar

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"I find it helps to focus your intentions on a profile OP. My top tips:

Photos; have a range of them, yes you can have your manhood there , but have some full length body pictures, a face pic can help (or in my case hinder).

Text; breaking this down into stages, 3 is good:

About you, physically (not just about your”fella”

About you, interests (not just sexual)

About your preferred partner, the kind of person you are looking for (physically AND emotional outlook).

Imagining yourself as scar helps(weird, I know) how would you describe it to someone you wanted to sell it too, and explain what kind of potential new owner it would suit

This... but car not scar

I kept it in when I cut and paste myself from another thread; I am a bugger for consistency

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 weeks later and never taken any of the advice

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"3 weeks later and never taken any of the advice

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

One photo which is of your cock, one line of text that says virtually nothing, no avatar.

What exactly makes you think anybody would be attracted to you? Your profile is your shop window. How well do you think you present yourself?

Also, having received a message from you recently, I can also say your banter leaves a lot to be desired too.

You just don't come across as somebody who puts any effort in.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"Thankyou so much for the advice gonna get to it right now "

That was three weeks ago.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"Thankyou so much for the advice gonna get to it right now

That was three weeks ago."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dredging up an old thread combined with the savagery occuring on OPs other post smacks of bullying.

Be kind, folks.

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