FabSwingers.com forum: You, yes you! Does it ever work?

By *evaquit OP Couple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Sending random friends requests?

Do you ever get accepted by those you've never spoken with, had no correspondence with whatsoever? Those that have it on their profile but you don't read it or don't care whether you have but send anyway. Anyone ever had their request accepted?

Just interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, she said random friend request welcome, I took my chances and what do you know I got accepted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't send regular requests let alone random ones.

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By *ocksareoffMan
over a year ago

Out n About

I've never sent a friend's request at all

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By *oxy lady40Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater

No never and I don’t accept unless I have meet them

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By *superfuse663Man
over a year ago

manchester

Never sent any. Random ones.

Happy to receive and will decide if I accept, send a message and chat first, or just decline

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Never sent a random friend request, certainly not without asking first.

I get several a day from random guys and just delete without looking.

If they can't be arsed to talk first then I won't have any interest anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sending random friends requests?

Just interested."

I prefer the random dick pic if I’m honest seems to work a treat have never received anything but thanks

obviously joking I don’t even like to look of dicks would put that on others haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, don't send or accept, wouldn't want some I didn't know in my private pics

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I've never sent a random friend request.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have never sent one, only send if I've bern chatting a while, after asking if its cool to, so I don't know if it works, have been sent plenty tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never sent a random friend request. "

Don’t I know it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never sent one, but anyonr can send me one as I’m pretty sure their friends only gallery will be a lot more interesting than mine is.

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Never send them unless I’ve been chatting to someone for a bit and would ask before doing so x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I first ask, then send if I'm allowed to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never done it myself, I can't see it being a positive first step. But then again I've never even sent an unsolicited message to anyone, much to shy

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I never send requests at all. I wait until someone feels comfortable enough with me to want to. Hopefully ticks boxes in terms of being a decent guy. Maybe I miss out but I can only be who I am.

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By *nterprizeABCMan
over a year ago

Aberystwyth

I did until I realised it was creepy and immoral.

Now I just use the forums. I'll probably never get a friend request (probably don't deserve any), but for the moment the people here are nice to talk to, so I'm staying on fab for the convo and company.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

We get several a day, and we don't accept them. If we've met you or chatted and got on, we'll accept!

Mr KC

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I did until I realised it was creepy and immoral.

Don't be so negative. Keep chatting and give it time

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

I'm very selective who I have as friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never done it and I rarely look at my friend requests

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

I've sent you all a random friend request just to see who realy does block me.

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By *nterprizeABCMan
over a year ago

Aberystwyth

Thankyou, that is kind of you.

That said, I stand by my assertion that even if I went completely celibate, I'd still use this site for conversation. I have lost count of more "normal" chat sites that are full of angry rude people.

That fab is one of the few places I can have a civilised conversation during lockdown perhaps says more about the internet than me!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Thankyou, that is kind of you.

That said, I stand by my assertion that even if I went completely celibate, I'd still use this site for conversation. I have lost count of more "normal" chat sites that are full of angry rude people.

That fab is one of the few places I can have a civilised conversation during lockdown perhaps says more about the internet than me!"

I think this is to me?

The fact you've reflected on how you use the site and made positive changes based on how it affected others puts you above a lot of people. It can take time to get to know people but stick around enough and keep being friendly and you will make friends and I'm sure you'll get a friend request

Haha that's funny! There can be plenty of angry people here too but also lots of great people and I'm glad you've found good conversations!

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I'm pretty sure with friends only pictures in the bank, that most women could send 10 friend requests and get easily half accepted. Anyone care to trial it...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm pretty sure with friends only pictures in the bank, that most women could send 10 friend requests and get easily half accepted. Anyone care to trial it...? "

Same goes for men.

Only if they send them to men though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sent a couple by mistake he text is ridiculously small on ipad when ive been trying to wink

Strangely i think theyve all accepted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never sent a random friend request.

Don’t I know it."

Just in case anyone was wondering....

that didn’t work either

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I only accept friend requests of people I’ve met or have chatted to for a while.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I've never sent a random friend request.

Don’t I know it.

Just in case anyone was wondering....

that didn’t work either

I missed this

. I'm guessing this means you want one Sam?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never sent a random friend request.

Don’t I know it.

Just in case anyone was wondering....

that didn’t work either

I missed this

. I'm guessing this means you want one Sam?

Hang on, I’m struggling to type.

Still caressing my wounded pride!

Even worse....

I resorted to using an emoji for the sympathy too.

The shame.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

If the profile's interesting I sometimes accept these friend requests, have a quick peek in private pics and then usually unfriend them again. Something to do on a rainy day x

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I've never sent a random friend request.

Don’t I know it.

Just in case anyone was wondering....

that didn’t work either

I missed this

. I'm guessing this means you want one Sam?

Hang on, I’m struggling to type.

Still caressing my wounded pride!

Even worse....

I resorted to using an emoji for the sympathy too.

The shame."

I shall fetch a wet flannel!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If the profile's interesting I sometimes accept these friend requests, have a quick peek in private pics and then usually unfriend them again. Something to do on a rainy day x"

I do this

It states not to send them in my profile.

So if they send them, I wait till they are offline, have a nosey and unfriend.

Only when bored though, most the time I bulk delete.

It can also be fun to fab a friends only pic so they know I have been there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just leave random requests sitting there. They can't send then twice.

Maybe I'm weird but I'm less interested in seeing everyone's bits these days.

Ultimately what difference does it make? If I get to see some beautiful woman's fanny on a screen will my day become better? Its certainly not going to change my life.

Idk. Maybe I am weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No point , unless you've met already or 99.9% chance you intend to lol

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

My friends list is for people I actually know & consider friends. Get several random friend invites most days, I just ignore them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never tried a random friend request, why would I?

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By *ausageNmashCouple
over a year ago

Andover

"Sending random friends requests?

Just interested."

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If the profile's interesting I sometimes accept these friend requests, have a quick peek in private pics and then usually unfriend them again. Something to do on a rainy day x"

That’s a good idea. Perhaps that’s the point of the requests; like distributing pamphlets through the letterbox.

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