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"I noticed that it's something that you haven't even written within your bio this could be as part of your heading as a preference " Lol I feel stupid for not thinking of this initially | |||
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"Two cougar threads within two minutes (not same poster though) " They’re in high demand this year | |||
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"I noticed that it's something that you haven't even written within your bio this could be as part of your heading as a preference Lol I feel stupid for not thinking of this initially " Don't be live and let learn | |||
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"I came across two mountain lions when I was in the Rockies.... Scared the bejeezus out of me! " how cool is that though yoh lucky chap | |||
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"I came across two mountain lions when I was in the Rockies.... Scared the bejeezus out of me! how cool is that though yoh lucky chap " It wasn't cool, more warm and wet down my trouser leg ! | |||
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"Two cougar threads within two minutes (not same poster though) " Looks like Cougar season must have started. I'll get my rifle | |||
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"A massive tin of tuna " Tuna have season & place where to catch | |||
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"Any tips or advice, don’t seem to be having too much luck" Hello Op, Some people on here will have zero interest in meeting with you simply because of your age. There is nothing you can do about it, so don't fret. Concentrate on finding the people that would like to meet a young man like you. Refine your search by ticking the "I must match their age requirements too" box. Also refine your search by age, distance etc. There is no point contacting people hundreds of miles away if you cannot 100% commit to a meet. Once you have those search results READ their profiles. It's such basic advice but so few follow it. Don't bother messaging those whose profile you don't meet. If it says they are looking for a bi guy, or a chubby guy, that's not you so don't waste your time or theirs. Consider how you approach people, don't just write 'Hi', 'Fancy a chat' or any other generic one liner, It WILL get you ignored. If you followed the advice above and read the persons profile then there should be some common ground to write about. Remember, if you are approaching an older woman the chances are she is a different generation, don't assume that you are talking the same language, your generation and ours use technology in slightly different ways. Providing you have sent a message that has enticed them, they will 99% of the time look at your profile before responding. So now you have to sell yourself. We are a couple that do meet guys of your age, and one quick glance at your profile would put us off. If we were to contact with you on here, we would want to stay on this site. So why do you think the first thing people would want to know is your Twitter name? 12 of your 14 pictures show your cock; believe me, there really is no need, and to be honest there are only so many angles you can see the same thing from before it gets boring. Put on some different pics. Face pics are best, cock pics are generally not required in your public profile, and anything in between is great. Next time it's a lovely day, get out and take some clothed selfies somewhere nice. If we were to message you we wouldn't put sword in the subject line for a quicker response. We suspect that your inbox is not overflowing to the extent that you have to scan through it looking for people that have written sword and prioritise them. However your profile is not everything. Get involved with the forums, get involved in the chatroom too, both are great ways of getting to know people with no pressure and no first time nerves. Use this time to make connections for future meets. When it's safe to do so... get off the site and meet people socially or try a club. You could always sign up to an organised social, where you may meet many people from the area, and perhaps make a better impression face to face than via the Internet. It might be a little nerve wracking the first time, but what harm can having a coffee or a pint with a stranger really do? Good luck | |||
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"Any tips or advice, don’t seem to be having too much luck" What? You mean you don’t have them knocking on your door in your area?? | |||
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"You’re not wrong there and tbh I didn’t even realise that was a type of night I’ve really gotta broaden my horizons " Well done for sifting through and ignoring the rather obvious droll to get to the nuggets of helpful answers. | |||
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"You’re not wrong there and tbh I didn’t even realise that was a type of night I’ve really gotta broaden my horizons Well done for sifting through and ignoring the rather obvious droll to get to the nuggets of helpful answers." which always happens it harmless banter | |||
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"You’re not wrong there and tbh I didn’t even realise that was a type of night I’ve really gotta broaden my horizons Well done for sifting through and ignoring the rather obvious droll to get to the nuggets of helpful answers. which always happens it harmless banter " True but it’s just a little tiresome when it’s so dull and obvious as to barely qualify as such. I mean really, did no one else immediately have Attenborough, Living Planet, etc immediately flash into their mind when they looked at the title? I only stayed to see if anyone offered advice and there are some fantastic ones in amongst all that dullness. It’s a good thing the OP wasn’t discouraged from seeking them out. I’m sure I’ll be in a number of black books after this. | |||
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"You’re not wrong there and tbh I didn’t even realise that was a type of night I’ve really gotta broaden my horizons Well done for sifting through and ignoring the rather obvious droll to get to the nuggets of helpful answers. which always happens it harmless banter True but it’s just a little tiresome when it’s so dull and obvious as to barely qualify as such. I mean really, did no one else immediately have Attenborough, Living Planet, etc immediately flash into their mind when they looked at the title? I only stayed to see if anyone offered advice and there are some fantastic ones in amongst all that dullness. It’s a good thing the OP wasn’t discouraged from seeking them out. I’m sure I’ll be in a number of black books after this. " Not at all its your opinion look at most threads it happens its harmless hope Op finds a cougar or tigress or whatever he wants xxx | |||
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"You’re not wrong there and tbh I didn’t even realise that was a type of night I’ve really gotta broaden my horizons Well done for sifting through and ignoring the rather obvious droll to get to the nuggets of helpful answers. which always happens it harmless banter True but it’s just a little tiresome when it’s so dull and obvious as to barely qualify as such. I mean really, did no one else immediately have Attenborough, Living Planet, etc immediately flash into their mind when they looked at the title? I only stayed to see if anyone offered advice and there are some fantastic ones in amongst all that dullness. It’s a good thing the OP wasn’t discouraged from seeking them out. I’m sure I’ll be in a number of black books after this. Not at all its your opinion look at most threads it happens its harmless hope Op finds a cougar or tigress or whatever he wants xxx" You’re a gem. There is some really fantastic advice here. I wish I were young enough to find a cougar following their advice. | |||
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"You’re not wrong there and tbh I didn’t even realise that was a type of night I’ve really gotta broaden my horizons Well done for sifting through and ignoring the rather obvious droll to get to the nuggets of helpful answers. which always happens it harmless banter True but it’s just a little tiresome when it’s so dull and obvious as to barely qualify as such. I mean really, did no one else immediately have Attenborough, Living Planet, etc immediately flash into their mind when they looked at the title? I only stayed to see if anyone offered advice and there are some fantastic ones in amongst all that dullness. It’s a good thing the OP wasn’t discouraged from seeking them out. I’m sure I’ll be in a number of black books after this. Not at all its your opinion look at most threads it happens its harmless hope Op finds a cougar or tigress or whatever he wants xxx You’re a gem. There is some really fantastic advice here. I wish I were young enough to find a cougar following their advice. " Your very handsome xx | |||
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"Two cougar threads within two minutes (not same poster though) " They must hunt in packs | |||
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"You don’t find a cougar! Cougar finds you! " You win the internet today | |||
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"You don’t find a cougar! Cougar finds you! " Absolutely!! | |||
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"You don’t find a cougar! Cougar finds you! You win the internet today " Hhaha Oi oi what’s top prize? | |||
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"You don’t find a cougar! Cougar finds you! You win the internet today Hhaha Oi oi what’s top prize? " A speedboat leftover from Bullseye | |||
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"Any tips or advice, don’t seem to be having too much luck" Putting a post on this forum is a good start x | |||
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