FabSwingers.com forum: How many of you

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Meet people in the flesh?

Obviously not in this past year but usually- when there isn't a nasty cough going around?

Are the majority of foramites just voyeurs and using Fab like Facebook with boobs and willys

And before anyone says it - yes I know the answer is 42

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

Has been known, but seems a distant memory.

I just like meeting new people, even if it’s just to waffle inanely at them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meet people in the flesh?

Obviously not in this past year but usually- when there isn't a nasty cough going around?

Are the majority of foramites just voyeurs and using Fab like Facebook with boobs and willys

And before anyone says it - yes I know the answer is 42

Fort.....sorry.

Hopefully things will change but of course it’s only forum chat at the moment. Meeting up with people only becomes an option if you get on with people doesn’t it? ... and that takes time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only joined the site a few months before the pandemic started sadly, but in that time I met up with a few guys. So yes, once things are safe I imagine I will do so again.

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By *alty surpriseMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

Yes before lickdown struck... I would always, never let anyone down

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By *astesLikeMagicWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

It's the only way to go

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

It takes me ages to agree to a social meet usually. Because I seek regular, I have to feel we have enough in common through mail to consider spending regular time together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to meet... although not always for fun.... there are several on the site I have met just for a coffee and a chat, nothing more x

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Hmmm... judging by forum posts, and maybe I'm wrong, I'd say a fair few have met and then met in a biblical sense.

I meet people but not very often at all. I think I'll be seeing friends soon.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Yeah I met people before lockdown and will do again once restrictions are lifted.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"It takes me ages to agree to a social meet usually. Because I seek regular, I have to feel we have enough in common through mail to consider spending regular time together."

We'll have to base it round Cottage Pie then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We meet, we are here for the real deal not just the fb chat with our genitals hanging out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meet people in the flesh?

Obviously not in this past year but usually- when there isn't a nasty cough going around?

Are the majority of foramites just voyeurs and using Fab like Facebook with boobs and willys

And before anyone says it - yes I know the answer is 42

Outside of the last year then yes absolutely meet people socially! For me it would be the only way to find out if I actually like a person or not ... good communication and flirting only happens in the flesh, I'm not an online person to be honest!

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I’ve met several people from here over my time on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i work in public

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By *.R.MMan
over a year ago

Norfolk

Of course, I thought that was the point

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

Fab is great for me, someone with limited initial social skills (I get better the more you know me), I’m never going to be the guy who walks over to someone at a bar.

I’ve met people for socials on here

I’ve met people for more on here

And I hope to meet more in the future.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I do, I did and maybe will again.

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yes, in normal times I did, I’ve met lots of the lovely forum females. Fingers crossed for more meets in the future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

meeeee

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Yes i do meet. Except when it's snowing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet and will gladly again if people are willing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hmmm... judging by forum posts, and maybe I'm wrong, I'd say a fair few have met and then met in a biblical sense.

Yes.. filthy behaviour

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By *P994Man
over a year ago

Travelling

Yes definitely, here to meet people in person and make proper connections. For me just online chatting doesn’t online do anything other than seeing if I’m compatible with people or just having a bit of a natter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have in the past and hope to again. I'm very discerning and won't just meet anyone though. Life is too short for meeting nutters!

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By *rightonfranceMan
over a year ago

brighton - chalais france

Yes I meet, even when it is snowing. Had a fantastic experience in a car park with 4 inches of snow on the ground..

Will meet again too as the song goes!!!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Yes, I've met a few people. Mostly soaps, but i do prefer Face to face before any fun.

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By *wistedbambi69Woman
over a year ago

Somerset

Yes, I met people and went to clubs before lockdown, I've been on here over 3 years now and have met some lovely people. As soon as we are allowed, I will get back to meeting

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

We can get our voyeur kick from events if we so wanted.

We prefer meeting people in person whether for play or socialising, as thats just who we are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had 2 social meets before lockdown. Still hopeful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have

Yes .... just a couple though, as I’m not that sociable

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I have

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"It takes me ages to agree to a social meet usually. Because I seek regular, I have to feel we have enough in common through mail to consider spending regular time together.

We'll have to base it round Cottage Pie then

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Yes I meet someone every weekend, lockdown has been restricted to bubble sex, but in normal times I like to go on a weekend road trip at least once a month

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Judging by some of the pictures that people post a number of people are still meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Judging by some of the pictures that people post a number of people are still meeting. "

Hats of to you Sherlock

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Yes, pre covid I did. Mostly clubs, some socials and every now and then I'd find someone I was willing to meet one on one.

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

I’m a fab heretic. Although I don’t use Facebook so I must be just a boobs and willies guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We loved socials and meet and greets.

It was expensive for us tho. We live a billion miles away from civilisation

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

Wanting to try a club for the first time when things allow

Socials are always good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to but I won't in the future. The 'swinging community' will be riddled with std's and covid for a long time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m a fab heretic. Although I don’t use Facebook so I must be just a boobs and willies guy.

I wasn't judging - we're all here for our own reasons.

Maybe I should have worded it differently-

Who used to meet but is disenchanted with it all?

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Years ago I used to be fairly active , meets, parties and clubs then I sort of lost interest. Partly due to a change in working hours pattern , meeting guys the organic way and dating vanilla .

The lockdown has definitely renewed my enthusiasm and I expect that I will "dip my toes" once again

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We are here to meet people - select people that will enhance our FAB journey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do/did xx

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Occasionally

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We have definitely met Fabbers and intend to again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have and intend to meet more people when it's safe & legal to do so

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes meet afew regular socially, look forward to afew more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started using the forum during COVID but not very sociable so probably be an on/off forum user for now.

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

I have been here for a good few years and had plenty of meets over the years, so still looking for the skin on skin action rather than just the forums

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

In my previous incarnation on here, eyes, socially, at clubs and play meets, its how I met my ex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have in the past and hope to again. I'm very discerning and won't just meet anyone though. Life is too short for meeting nutters!"

Are you fever tree the tonic that was here a while ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I started using the forum during COVID but not very sociable so probably be an on/off forum user for now."

And I barely notice the boobs and willies. They're just part of the furniture of Fab.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I have but no longer interested in casual shiz so not looking to meet anyone.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

I've had the pleasure of meeting some lovely people in the past, both socially and in a more biblical sense...and I'm lucky enough to be able to call some of them friends.

Will I in the future? There are a couple of people that I hope to meet socially. And there's a possibility of me attending some club nights when they're open again. But one on one meets? There's currently nobody that tickles my pickle enough to tempt me away from my special someone, and I don't have any enthusiasm to find anyone if I'm honest

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I've had the pleasure of meeting some lovely people in the past, both socially and in a more biblical sense...and I'm lucky enough to be able to call some of them friends.

Every time you post something like this I want to post this emote in response.

I can't keep doing it because it will look weird but please remember that my face goes like this

when you post like this.

(Also we are meeting for a social! No cow will stop me now)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had the pleasure of meeting some lovely people in the past, both socially and in a more biblical sense...and I'm lucky enough to be able to call some of them friends.

Ahh

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

"I've had the pleasure of meeting some lovely people in the past, both socially and in a more biblical sense...and I'm lucky enough to be able to call some of them friends.

Every time you post something like this I want to post this emote in response.

I can't keep doing it because it will look weird but please remember that my face goes like this

when you post like this.

(Also we are meeting for a social! No cow will stop me now)"

you do make me chuckle Meli dear

And damn right no cow will stop you...you promised me I could have cake, and I'm bloody well going to eat cake in your company! But can we make it a sunny day please? I've just bought the loveliest summer dress and I want to look pretty while we eat cake

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

(Also we are meeting for a social! No cow will stop me now)

you do make me chuckle Meli dear

Yes we can! I'm excited about it already, you can have all the cake! And the dress? The dress will almost be as radiant as you on a summer's day...

That was overkill I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes x kinda not seeing the point of being here and not meeting ever lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I used to be very active on the swinging scene. Parties, clubs, socials for many many years but now thats all stopped and i just meet my regular friends

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Yes, always for socials initially & occasionally at clubs, but I'm very fussy about who I will meet and never do meets at short notice.

Still undecided about when/if I will go back to meeting from here.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Yes but not typically from the forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met two people from here

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’m not here to make virtual friends. I’m here to have real conversations with real people in the flesh (pardon the pun).

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

I would but not really occurred, pandemics or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socials are good fun. Sometimes they're REALLY good fun.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I’m a clubbing type of TV, it doesn’t really matter what type of place as long as it’s inclusive. So gay, fetish, parties or swingers as long as I meet likeminded people and have a good time it’s why I’m here.

The site is just a way to meet others and find out about events that are on. So for me the last year has been a nightmare as I don’t miss the sex I miss the social side

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

luton

Yes I will meet for social chats ,fun or know fun , it’s good to chat to like minded people ,a few have led to meet with wife , you can usual get to judge the genuine ones , wife will only meet at club and partys ,as she does not feel safe meeting alone for first time ,she will always let me know if she wants a liitle while alone when she finds those she likes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have in the past and hope to again. I'm very discerning and won't just meet anyone though. Life is too short for meeting nutters!

Are you fever tree the tonic that was here a while ago

Guilty as charged. Whether I'm a tonic is up for debate but I'm a good mixer

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I have met people at the MLS but rarely outside of that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back in the day I did actually have quite a few meets. Which I know will surprise many as much as it surprised me.

None for ages now .. I think my last meet was December 2018, mind you I’ve been mostly UNLOSed since and haven’t been looking to meet on those occasions I have been briefly back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I did. Looking for something different now

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I have met many in the flesh. I have however had many meets cancelled at short notice and been stood up twice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, have done in the past and hoping for more when its all safe again.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

We have! For coffee & cake, group socials & more...

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(Also we are meeting for a social! No cow will stop me now)

you do make me chuckle Meli dear

Yes we can! I'm excited about it already, you can have all the cake! And the dress? The dress will almost be as radiant as you on a summer's day...

That was overkill I know

And she said she can't flirt (insert smug, I told ya so emoji here)

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

On other sites I have, I joined literally as the pandemic hit so not met anyone from here yet

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

But I will when allowed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who have you met Op ?

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

"I’m a fab heretic. Although I don’t use Facebook so I must be just a boobs and willies guy.

I wasn't judging - we're all here for our own reasons.

Maybe I should have worded it differently-

Who used to meet but is disenchanted with it all?

Don’t worry there’s only One who can judge me in this world.........

That Judge John Deed, he’s marvellous isn’t he

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes before lickdown struck... I would always, never let anyone down "

Lickdown sounds much more enjoyable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish. I look at them and my stare turns them into ashes.

in a flesh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wish. I look at them and my stare turns them into ashes.

in a flesh! "

Flash even

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By *osco78Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

"I wish. I look at them and my stare turns them into ashes.

in a flesh!

Flash even

Pfft wheres my trainticket

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet for real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met several people

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By *rishman75Man
over a year ago

Chessington/epsom

I would meet up for drinks and chats until covid arrived

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By *xiled BikerMan
over a year ago

Beverley

Always turn up never do a no show, I know i have had 4 no shows, even when i have travelled substantial distance very bad form.

However the meets I have had have been fantastic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to meet weather in a social setting or more lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We meet. Been tending to skip the social last few times too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met loads of Forumites at large social gatherings, for coffee, picnics, glass of wlne, Xmas lunch and even rumpy pumpy. I have also met a fair few locals for sex, been to parties and clubs and I've even shagged in a field

So I'm definitely not just all chat and no action. But, as you know, my health has stopped all that

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

I'll meet again, don't know where, don't know when.

But I know I'll meet again, some sunny day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll meet again, don't know where, don't know when.

But I know I'll meet again, some sunny day."

And I will just say hello to the folks that you know

Tell them you won't be long

;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've met loads of Forumites at large social gatherings, for coffee, picnics, glass of wlne, Xmas lunch and even rumpy pumpy. I have also met a fair few locals for sex, been to parties and clubs and I've even shagged in a field

So I'm definitely not just all chat and no action. But, as you know, my health has stopped all that

Can you still go to socials? STP will be back.. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't met anyone yet but staying positive, lockdown will be over soon, right?

Think I joined the community in the worst possible time...

My social skills aren't the best but I have lots to offer for someone who will get to know me better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So I'm definitely not just all chat and no action. But, as you know, my health has stopped all that

Can you still go to socials? STP will be back.. x"

I doubt I'll do even socials this year as my treatment makes me too poorly and I'm waiting for the surgery to remove the evil thing growing inside me. But possibly next year. Never say never. Have done 4 STPs.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I used to really enjoy a weekend away meeting different people, then I made a few good connections and only meet those people, now I don’t meet any people, that may change but for now that’s how it is for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give me meeting people in the flesh over this mundane type text interweb attention brain drain game anyday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do but I have been around 10 years on and off site

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I find meeting new folk more and more stressful and uncomfortable and this past year hasn’t helped that. To me I don’t want to waste my time making casual acquaintances when I could make more meaningful acquaintances, but then I can’t really be arsed (at the moment) to get out of my comfort zone to meet and make either kind of acquaintance.

I’m sure when the Summer horn kicks in I’ll reconsider my life choices, until then, I’m fairly content as I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet in person, when the nasty cough is not about, I guess that is the primary purpose to fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So I'm definitely not just all chat and no action. But, as you know, my health has stopped all that

Can you still go to socials? STP will be back.. x

Hope it goes ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wish. I look at them and my stare turns them into ashes.

in a flesh! "

Extreme hotness will do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been to a few socials, and I’ve met actual people when I had my last account.

I’ve got plans to meet forumites socially, not sure about more yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been here a few years. I have met people in the past and hope to meet some more. I doubt it'll be anyone from the forum

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