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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do people delete their private messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To make room for new ones.

To keep things tidy.

To get rid of unwanted ones.

Sooo many reasons.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"To make room for new ones.

To keep things tidy.

To get rid of unwanted ones.

Sooo many reasons. "

Yup - this

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I delete mine every couple of days

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Why do you ask, OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do you ask, OP?"

I was just wondering the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why keep them, they just clutter up you're inbox. Plus if site supporter all old message are in the message trail if you scroll down, so You can refer back if want too.

Any message you want to keep - like stresses or numbers, then save them.

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

Because it’s a free country!

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I thought I thought this was going to be a thread about why the sender's side of conversations keep disappearing, which is very annoying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because my OCD tells me to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to message someone who used to get upset when I deleted read messages, gotta keep ya box clean haven’t ya

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ye I was just wondering cause I get a lot of deleted messages lol

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By *xhibitionisticvoyeurMan
over a year ago

wrexham

Every message you have stored needs space on a server somewhere which requires power, more users = more messages = more servers = more power. It adds up.

You could delete messages to reduce your carbon footprint.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've gotta have good fabmin skills

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Every message you have stored needs space on a server somewhere which requires power, more users = more messages = more servers = more power. It adds up.

You could delete messages to reduce your carbon footprint.

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Nice thought, but not actually true. In data centres, they still use magnetic disks for storage and for pure storage an empty disk will use just as much power as a full disk. It's actually reading & writing the data that uses the power. So deleting a message is actually using more power than just leaving it there... but so is reading it.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To make room for new ones.

To keep things tidy.

To get rid of unwanted ones.

Sooo many reasons. "

Yes that’s the case

It appears some folks get really upset if you have a tidy up and don’t keep them as a permanent reminder of their mithering lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ye I was just wondering cause I get a lot of deleted messages lol"

I think you’re probably referring to all the ones you send that are deleted cans not replied to.

Simple answer to that one is that folks may not be interested in the message and they get dozens of them and if they bothered to read or reply to them all they would have to take on staff lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people delete their private messages?"

Because the government are watching.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people delete their private messages?"

Further to the last

Had a look at your profile and it’s deletion material all round without a second thought, you really need to work on that and be constructive.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We don't. We've got a message that says 2 years ago, and will see how old it can become

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s personal, I don’t like talking about it.

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

The fact you joined during lockdown. Have a veri from a meet last week and are asking for a fuck today while we are still not legally allowed to meet is enough for me to delete without reading.

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By *herry OnatopWoman
over a year ago

Just over there

I delete as soon as I've replied or seen it's a one word message. I try not to mass delete but sometimes my ocd will go off the charts with the notifications and I either log out or mass delete!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us you asking to meet during a pandemic is enough. One pic and of your dick is off putting for us also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If mine are unanswered, which they usually are, I delete them after a week. I wait that long in recognition of how busy a lady's in box gets..

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