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Nice or naughty approach

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By *ing swinger OP   Man
over a year ago

Romford

Every lady on here is so different unless they give it away by saying talk dirty to me which not many do, so half the time I guess wrong and go for the oppersite approach.

What's the best do you think is the best approach is

A, nice and polite at first

B, straight up flirty filthy talk

I always read the profile first to find out what I can but I seem to go for the wrong approach nearly every time... God Damm it. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Nice and polite, some women like the direct approach but if someone spoke to me filth when they first message me they would/do get deleted. I like intelligent men that i find can hold a conversation and those guys wouldnt message like that in the first message so its easy to le them out

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By *riskygazMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Well i tend to think nice and polite is best, but i could be wrong lol

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By *icesweetgirlWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I love dirty talk while having sex but not as a first message. Normal chat is best for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice and polite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice and polite, some women like the direct approach but if someone spoke to me filth when they first message me they would/do get deleted. I like intelligent men that i find can hold a conversation and those guys wouldnt message like that in the first message so its easy to le them out"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i do go for the nice an polite approach and gets me nowhere x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

If you send a nice polite message(unless it says otherwise on someones profile) you can then take the lead by the ladies response

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By *ing swinger OP   Man
over a year ago

Romford


"A"

When I choose A I do get a bit bored cause we're ment to be flirting not being nice telling each other are life story's practically, I always thought this swingers thing was simple, if u both like the look of each other then get it on, simples!!!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"A

When I choose A I do get a bit bored cause we're ment to be flirting not being nice telling each other are life story's practically, I always thought this swingers thing was simple, if u both like the look of each other then get it on, simples!!!"

There is a lot of difference between flirting and talking filth for someone, i think you will find that swinging isnt that simple and if your going to get bored by passing a few messages to get to know someone you may struggle a little

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nice and polite.

i like to know if the man who is coming to see me is a gentleman and knows how to behave.

no rif raf thanks very much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A

There is a lot of difference between flirting and talking filth for someone, i think you will find that swinging isnt that simple and if your going to get bored by passing a few messages to get to know someone you may struggle a little"

Thanks Diamond, we couldn't have put it any better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A

There is a lot of difference between flirting and talking filth for someone, i think you will find that swinging isnt that simple and if your going to get bored by passing a few messages to get to know someone you may struggle a little

Thanks Diamond, we couldn't have put it any better"
Nice at first then a little more flirty j

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By *ing swinger OP   Man
over a year ago

Romford


"A

There is a lot of difference between flirting and talking filth for someone, i think you will find that swinging isnt that simple and if your going to get bored by passing a few messages to get to know someone you may struggle a little

Thanks Diamond, we couldn't have put it any betterNice at first then a little more flirty j"

I'm all for chatting and finding things out like work and hobbies out side this site so I have something I can work with I.e if you work as a nurse, which is easy to flirt with.

Thanks everyone so far for your replays so far x

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By *ing swinger OP   Man
over a year ago

Romford


"i do go for the nice an polite approach and gets me nowhere x "

Join the que, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This might sound 'snooty', it's not meant to be.

One of the 'problems' with a site like this is that you're mixing with all sorts, from all levels of society.

I've heard some real horror stories from ladies, guys who obviously are totally ignorant of the subtle nuances of social etiquette and social intercourse.

Just because this is a sex-based site, it doesn't mean that normal respect and decency fly out of the window!!

Just my opinions!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

something I can work with I.e if you work as a nurse, which is easy to flirt with.

meaning?

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By *ing swinger OP   Man
over a year ago

Romford


"This might sound 'snooty', it's not meant to be.

One of the 'problems' with a site like this is that you're mixing with all sorts, from all levels of society.

I've heard some real horror stories from ladies, guys who obviously are totally ignorant of the subtle nuances of social etiquette and social intercourse.

Just because this is a sex-based site, it doesn't mean that normal respect and decency fly out of the window!!

Just my opinions! "

So true, spoken like a true gent

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