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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Discover your sexual worth and how did that come about ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Discover your sexual worth and how did that come about ? "

My sexual worth?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Discover your sexual worth and how did that come about ?

My sexual worth?"

Yes sexual worth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What the fuck is sexual worth?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when i left my husband.

realising i am infact phenomenal, and deserve so much more than the beatings and abuse and worthlessness that was given to me.

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk

I haven't found it yet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"when i left my husband.

realising i am infact phenomenal, and deserve so much more than the beatings and abuse and worthlessness that was given to me.

If I could place a heart on this I would sister

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What the fuck is sexual worth?"

Im trying to work that out too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What the fuck is sexual worth?"

I think as individuals only we can truly answer these questions to ourselves

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"What the fuck is sexual worth?

I think as individuals only we can truly answer these questions to ourselves "

I have no idea what sexual worth is either? Do you mean sexual confidence?

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

How my sexual worth different from my self worth.

I know my self worth and always have, if you mean comfertable with sex, again I always was as I was brought to understand that sex is not shameful but is a path to experience some great things.

Other peoples response to me is a reflection of their self worth, if they are negative or posative. That is their issue not mine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What the fuck is sexual worth?

I think as individuals only we can truly answer these questions to ourselves

I have no idea what sexual worth is either? Do you mean sexual confidence? "

No I mean worth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"when i left my husband.

realising i am infact phenomenal, and deserve so much more than the beatings and abuse and worthlessness that was given to me.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"What the fuck is sexual worth?

I think as individuals only we can truly answer these questions to ourselves

I have no idea what sexual worth is either? Do you mean sexual confidence?

No I mean worth

Like it’s some sort of commodity?

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

When I first entered my poly lifestyle at 18, it took a serious nose dive after a mono relationship break up and took 4 years of celibacy for me to regain it again 3 years ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What the fuck is sexual worth?

I think as individuals only we can truly answer these questions to ourselves

I have no idea what sexual worth is either? Do you mean sexual confidence?

No I mean worth

Like it’s some sort of commodity? "

Is it ok if I ask you to answer that ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't even know what it is

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

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"I don't even know what it is"

Nor does the OP which is why he is avoiding answering the many questions asking the same.

Even if he gave his interpretation that would be something.

All these other posts don’t scream “sexual worth” to me.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"I don't even know what it is

Nor does the OP which is why he is avoiding answering the many questions asking the same.

Even if he gave his interpretation that would be something.

All these other posts don’t scream “sexual worth” to me."

That isn’t to say the posts are pointless, but they scream self worth not sexual worth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"when i left my husband.

realising i am infact phenomenal, and deserve so much more than the beatings and abuse and worthlessness that was given to me.

Cuddles xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't even know what it is

Nor does the OP which is why he is avoiding answering the many questions asking the same.

Even if he gave his interpretation that would be something.

All these other posts don’t scream “sexual worth” to me."

Not everyone gets it as responses have shown

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"I don't even know what it is

Nor does the OP which is why he is avoiding answering the many questions asking the same.

Even if he gave his interpretation that would be something.

All these other posts don’t scream “sexual worth” to me.

That isn’t to say the posts are pointless, but they scream self worth not sexual worth. "

Exactly what I was thinking, more self worth, self affirmation not just sexual worth.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If a person don't feel it in themselves there's a strong chance they ain't discovered it yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't even know what it is

Nor does the OP which is why he is avoiding answering the many questions asking the same.

Even if he gave his interpretation that would be something.

All these other posts don’t scream “sexual worth” to me.

That isn’t to say the posts are pointless, but they scream self worth not sexual worth. "

That's what I thought. Self worth. Knowing who we are as a person.

Then comes sexual confidence once discoriveing are own self worth?

I'm probably wrong still tho.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"I don't even know what it is

Nor does the OP which is why he is avoiding answering the many questions asking the same.

Even if he gave his interpretation that would be something.

All these other posts don’t scream “sexual worth” to me.

That isn’t to say the posts are pointless, but they scream self worth not sexual worth.

That's what I thought. Self worth. Knowing who we are as a person.

Then comes sexual confidence once discoriveing are own self worth?

I'm probably wrong still tho."

I don’t think you are wrong, feeling good about ourselves runs through all factors of life including sex

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

When I was 43. I was chatting to a 22 year old on a Facebook app for a while, then on MSN.

After a few months he asked to meet me and I said yes.

He was 23 by then and his age never entered my head.

Anyway, we met up and had amazing sex, and he said "You're everything I imagined you to be".

We had a sexual relationship for 2 years which made me realise that I actually was attractive to other men (even though I was now fat-husband's words) and had something they wanted.

He kick started my online sexual adventures, and here I am now, still attracting men with the promise of sexual heaven.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When I was 43. I was chatting to a 22 year old on a Facebook app for a while, then on MSN.

After a few months he asked to meet me and I said yes.

He was 23 by then and his age never entered my head.

Anyway, we met up and had amazing sex, and he said "You're everything I imagined you to be".

We had a sexual relationship for 2 years which made me realise that I actually was attractive to other men (even though I was now fat-husband's words) and had something they wanted.

He kick started my online sexual adventures, and here I am now, still attracting men with the promise of sexual heaven."

Lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

23, and it's £5.87

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

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"23, and it's £5.87

Change from a tenner then

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

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I've never heard of "sexual worth", the OP seems to suggest that is because I havent found it yet, Google also doesn't seem familiar with the term but does talk at length about self worth & the relationship between that & sexual/romantic relationships.

K (fem)

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"I've never heard of "sexual worth", the OP seems to suggest that is because I havent found it yet, Google also doesn't seem familiar with the term but does talk at length about self worth & the relationship between that & sexual/romantic relationships.

K (fem) "

Beat me to it!

Mrs kf x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was offered £1400 once.

I think I’m worth way more

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I was offered £1400 once.

I think I’m worth way more

As you are

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I was offered £1400 once.

I think I’m worth way more

As you are

As I am also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I got divorced and realised everything I thought about my sexuality, my needs and how it's meant to be was wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When I got divorced and realised everything I thought about my sexuality, my needs and how it's meant to be was wrong. "

Amazing

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

I have just discovered an interesting article about Sexual Market Value, perhaps that's what the OP means?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have just discovered an interesting article about Sexual Market Value, perhaps that's what the OP means? "

Not entirely as personally I view myself as in fact priceless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"when i left my husband.

realising i am infact phenomenal, and deserve so much more than the beatings and abuse and worthlessness that was given to me.

You are phenomenal

Thanks for sharing

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Only recently, in the last maybe 6 years?

I always thought it was something I had to do to please or keep a man.

Now I realise that it's the woman that really has the power.

It's my body and I can set the boundaries, whereas I was always scared to say no before.

Now if there's anything I don't like I will happily get up and walk away.

And have no qualms about telling people my wants and needs in the bedroom.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Only recently, in the last maybe 6 years?

I always thought it was something I had to do to please or keep a man.

Now I realise that it's the woman that really has the power.

It's my body and I can set the boundaries, whereas I was always scared to say no before.

Now if there's anything I don't like I will happily get up and walk away.

And have no qualms about telling people my wants and needs in the bedroom."

I feel you

Not literally but I do feel you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexual worth.

That's not a thing.

Are you asking when did I realise I was good at sex? The answer to that was when I was 30. I'm not good at the cock in pussy for 40 min type of sex but I'm really good at the tease a woman for days, keeping her on edge and not letting her cum type of sex.

Or when I realised that I wasn't going to fuck just anyone because I didn't need to and that it didn't make any differencetome as a person? I realised that as soon as puberty ended.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

I have a strong sense of self worth & self respect, that applies to all aspects of my life including sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"23, and it's £5.87

Change from a tenner then

I'm a cheap date

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I know that if I wasn't sexually worthy I wouldn't still be fucking my long term partners after 11 and 6 years.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I know that if I wasn't sexually worthy I wouldn't still be fucking my long term partners after 11 and 6 years.

20+ years lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With a rubber crocodile in the bath a long, long time ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a wet hole that hundreds of men would fuck if I let them.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"when i left my husband.

realising i am infact phenomenal, and deserve so much more than the beatings and abuse and worthlessness that was given to me.

Well done to you.x

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By *elpful and caringMan
over a year ago

Scarborough

Is it half a sixpence ?

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By *ood time Chris BMan
over a year ago

TAUNTON AREA

"when i left my husband.

realising i am infact phenomenal, and deserve so much more than the beatings and abuse and worthlessness that was given to me.

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