FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

Negative fabbing

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do people feel the need to respond negatively to posts. For example if its a kiss, lick, fuck post, always somebody with an avoid comment! Why do it?Why take time out your day to respond to a post with an answer that wasn't asked for?Are you just a cunt?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it is a power thing

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve gave this some thought once.

It always makes me think that the poster is just generally a cunt.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *areasRockinghorsepooWoman
over a year ago

my happy place


"Why do people feel the need to respond negatively to posts. For example if its a kiss, lick, fuck post, always somebody with an avoid comment! Why do it?Why take time out your day to respond to a post with an answer that wasn't asked for?Are you just a cunt?"

Just the c word i think.

Some people are just very negative. I see the same people always making the negative comments or trying to pull others down and think they must just need a hug.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

Its ok. I know I'm beautiful and thats all that matters

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people feel the need to respond negatively to posts. For example if its a kiss, lick, fuck post, always somebody with an avoid comment! Why do it?Why take time out your day to respond to a post with an answer that wasn't asked for?Are you just a cunt?"

Lick

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably so desperate for attention they don’t even care if it’s good or bad

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.


"Probably so desperate for attention they don’t even care if it’s good or bad"

Yep. It's similar to deliberately trying to derail a thread. As long as they get some attention from it they don't particularly care how.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts


"Probably so desperate for attention they don’t even care if it’s good or bad

Yep. It's similar to deliberately trying to derail a thread. As long as they get some attention from it they don't particularly care how."

You're fit. Would definitely do the naughty things and make lunch

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine


"Why do people feel the need to respond negatively to posts. For example if its a kiss, lick, fuck post, always somebody with an avoid comment! Why do it?Why take time out your day to respond to a post with an answer that wasn't asked for?Are you just a cunt?"
Do you think implying that people are cunts is better then saying avoid.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Snog

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for replies folks! Started to think it was my imagination that people were being nasty just for the sake of it but thats the way it seems for some anyway mate!Have followed a few threads and its a lot of the same people,sad bastards.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask a silly question get a silly answer but honesty is best when banging complete strangers in there bum hole

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"Why do people feel the need to respond negatively to posts. For example if its a kiss, lick, fuck post, always somebody with an avoid comment! Why do it?Why take time out your day to respond to a post with an answer that wasn't asked for?Are you just a cunt?"

I would say that its more a case of people wanting to join in, but the available answers don’t suit. There is a chance that people take the forum games too seriously and should someone say they want to do something with you, you may take it as an open invitation on their inbox.

After all if someone said “no” to you, instead of taking it in the manner it was meant (a forum game) you appear to have taken it personally and are calling them cunts?!?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people feel the need to respond negatively to posts. For example if its a kiss, lick, fuck post, always somebody with an avoid comment! Why do it?Why take time out your day to respond to a post with an answer that wasn't asked for?Are you just a cunt?

Just the c word i think.

Some people are just very negative. I see the same people always making the negative comments or trying to pull others down and think they must just need a hug. "

Yes please a hug would b nice

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Maybe they want a kiss from the poster below?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine


"Snog"
snog back but no tongues

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine


"Snogsnog back but no tongues"
Avoid

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Find it's best to say nothing at all if u might hurt someones feelings x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people feel the need to respond negatively to posts. For example if its a kiss, lick, fuck post, always somebody with an avoid comment! Why do it?Why take time out your day to respond to a post with an answer that wasn't asked for?Are you just a cunt?"

Some people just invest way too much time into the forums, it gives them a higher sense of self I think, especially when their in their pack

Take no notice of it, just be you in the forums

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Kiss

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think of it as honesty. I prefer someone to tell me no thanks rather than me wondering if I have a chance. It hurts but I prefer honesty

That said I just avoid the threads unless I see someone I like because I know not everyone feels the way I do

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Some like to be a rebel, court controversy, stand out from the crowd.

Why be a yes person etc etc.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I’ve noticed that it’s increased recently.

I think that some enjoy trying to appear smart, like the kid at the back of the class making sarcastic comments.

I’ve also noticed a growing trend of people doing it in the secret service threads or other games, in effect derailing them and excluding others.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im sorry

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Some are just having a bad day and need to let it out, I've seen nice people occasionally loose their minds on here because something triggered them.

We don't know what's happened to make them react that way, so I just avoid and scroll past

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

I’m sure that for some people it is just their humour. Sometimes it’s not that at all

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is certainly a double standard on here. Some forum users will defend an OP ‘they're allowed to ask, people should respect others kinks etc’ but another OP will make a thread asking for something and those same forum users will tear the OP to shreds ‘they’re attention seeking, entitled etc’. Its very weird.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I’ve noticed that it’s increased recently.

I think that some enjoy trying to appear smart, like the kid at the back of the class making sarcastic comments.

I’ve also noticed a growing trend of people doing it in the secret service threads or other games, in effect derailing them and excluding others.

"

It's one reason I no longer participate.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because ppl can reply with avoid

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people feel the need to respond negatively to posts. For example if its a kiss, lick, fuck post, always somebody with an avoid comment! Why do it?Why take time out your day to respond to a post with an answer that wasn't asked for?Are you just a cunt?

I would say that its more a case of people wanting to join in, but the available answers don’t suit. There is a chance that people take the forum games too seriously and should someone say they want to do something with you, you may take it as an open invitation on their inbox.

After all if someone said “no” to you, instead of taking it in the manner it was meant (a forum game) you appear to have taken it personally and are calling them cunts?!?"

Exactly this. Do you expect everyone to reply they would fuck or snog you even if they dont find you their type. Calling people cunts for replying to a game type post saying they dont fancy you is just as bad and seems like a rejection reaction also. We cant be everyones type so just suck it up and move on. All of us get rejected on here and do not take it personal.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is the reason we will not be taking part in these post anymore. If you answer no you are a cunt. If yes you get pestered by messages. Cant win either way can you!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people feel the need to respond negatively to posts. For example if its a kiss, lick, fuck post, always somebody with an avoid comment! Why do it?Why take time out your day to respond to a post with an answer that wasn't asked for?Are you just a cunt?"

I am a cunt yes.

Avoid

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..


"There is certainly a double standard on here. Some forum users will defend an OP ‘they're allowed to ask, people should respect others kinks etc’ but another OP will make a thread asking for something and those same forum users will tear the OP to shreds ‘they’re attention seeking, entitled etc’. Its very weird. "

This happens quite a lot

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't even see the point in the kiss fuck marry avoid

We ain't in the fucking playground

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..


"I don't even see the point in the kiss fuck marry avoid

We ain't in the fucking playground

"

Lighthearted fun. It’s not for everyone of course

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

At the end of the road, you can't judge whay other people say or do based on who you are.

They might have had a bad day and just need to vent.

They may have been led on my someone and feel humiliated.

They may use the forum to just vent that part of them and they may be completely different on messages and in person.

They may be sick of the current restriction and just, that is how it is.

Or a million other reasons

To one person 'avoid' may mean stop messaging me for the 50th time today.

For other is may mean something else.

I would hope if I missread a comment, or someone was offended my me that they would message me and explain it, next time I would be able to be more sensative to how they may react to my words and could take that into account in the future.

But refering to people as cunt's or something else because you have been offended by a comment is idirectly doing that which you are complaining about.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't even see the point in the kiss fuck marry avoid

We ain't in the fucking playground

Lighthearted fun. It’s not for everyone of course "

It's very repetative like every night

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..


"I don't even see the point in the kiss fuck marry avoid

We ain't in the fucking playground

Lighthearted fun. It’s not for everyone of course

It's very repetative like every night "

The forums topics are repetitive, that’s their USP isn’t it? The people and opinions change though.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't even see the point in the kiss fuck marry avoid

We ain't in the fucking playground

Lighthearted fun. It’s not for everyone of course

It's very repetative like every night

The forums topics are repetitive, that’s their USP isn’t it? The people and opinions change though. "

Like the wind

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..


"I don't even see the point in the kiss fuck marry avoid

We ain't in the fucking playground

Lighthearted fun. It’s not for everyone of course

It's very repetative like every night

The forums topics are repetitive, that’s their USP isn’t it? The people and opinions change though.

Like the wind "

You could have a point there

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't even see the point in the kiss fuck marry avoid

We ain't in the fucking playground

"

Very true

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines


"I don't even see the point in the kiss fuck marry avoid

We ain't in the fucking playground

"
it can leave you feeling very negative about yourself and feeling worthless

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is just a game, dont take it so hard.

I put avoid if i dont wish to do naughty thing to the above poster but wish to play the game.

If you cant take not everyone wanting to lick, snog or fuck you, then avoid those threads lol.

Doesnt bother me if someone says avoid to me

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't even see the point in the kiss fuck marry avoid

We ain't in the fucking playground

it can leave you feeling very negative about yourself and feeling worthless "

Then dont play lol

Honestly, just avoid them. People dont have to like and comment on all threads

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't even see the point in the kiss fuck marry avoid

We ain't in the fucking playground

"

Agree with this

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has the choice to read and/or respond to a thread, and everyone has different choices on what they enjoy. If the thread isn’t for you, scroll on by.

Variety and diversity is what makes fab so great.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't even see the point in the kiss fuck marry avoid

We ain't in the fucking playground

it can leave you feeling very negative about yourself and feeling worthless "

We all have worth pal

Never allow anyone to tell or make you feel those ways , I know it's difficult at times but trust me it can be done

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone has the choice to read and/or respond to a thread, and everyone has different choices on what they enjoy. If the thread isn’t for you, scroll on by.

Variety and diversity is what makes fab so great. "

Variety I like

So many women on fab I'd enjoy fucking

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

The only time I ever left an “avoid” comment was cause the person above have no photos and I made a joke out of it lol

Otherwise, as the OP said, I just don’t respond.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't even see the point in the kiss fuck marry avoid

We ain't in the fucking playground

it can leave you feeling very negative about yourself and feeling worthless "

It certainly can, and not nice when you see the same group people postingt to blow smoke up each others bijaxxy's and excluding others.

I got a PM once off a forumite asking me to send a message to someone in a secret service thread, um ask the person who concocted the thread not me; an obvious dig and unnecessary

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine


"I don't even see the point in the kiss fuck marry avoid

We ain't in the fucking playground

it can leave you feeling very negative about yourself and feeling worthless

It certainly can, and not nice when you see the same group people postingt to blow smoke up each others bijaxxy's and excluding others.

I got a PM once off a forumite asking me to send a message to someone in a secret service thread, um ask the person who concocted the thread not me; an obvious dig and unnecessary"

Perhaps it was a mistake on their part but if you are agreeing that some threads are unfair because they make people feel negative about themselve yet you have a dig at someone which could make that person feel negative about themselve if they read it.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In short, the forum is just a reflection of society.

There are all kinds of personalities and insecurities here just like in normal day to day life.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't even see the point in the kiss fuck marry avoid

We ain't in the fucking playground

it can leave you feeling very negative about yourself and feeling worthless

It certainly can, and not nice when you see the same group people postingt to blow smoke up each others bijaxxy's and excluding others.

I got a PM once off a forumite asking me to send a message to someone in a secret service thread, um ask the person who concocted the thread not me; an obvious dig and unnecessary

Perhaps it was a mistake on their part but if you are agreeing that some threads are unfair because they make people feel negative about themselve yet you have a dig at someone which could make that person feel negative about themselve if they read it. "

Apologies, but that shouldn't have to be pointed out and I did tell the sender at the time how it made me feel but that was ignored. So yes, I think everyone needs to be a bit more mindful of the feelings of others

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"I don't even see the point in the kiss fuck marry avoid

We ain't in the fucking playground

it can leave you feeling very negative about yourself and feeling worthless

It certainly can, and not nice when you see the same group people postingt to blow smoke up each others bijaxxy's and excluding others.

I got a PM once off a forumite asking me to send a message to someone in a secret service thread, um ask the person who concocted the thread not me; an obvious dig and unnecessary"

Those type of SS messages used to be filtered out and not posted or at least, the recipient asked if they mind if it was posted before putting offensive comments up in lights.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine


"I don't even see the point in the kiss fuck marry avoid

We ain't in the fucking playground

it can leave you feeling very negative about yourself and feeling worthless

It certainly can, and not nice when you see the same group people postingt to blow smoke up each others bijaxxy's and excluding others.

I got a PM once off a forumite asking me to send a message to someone in a secret service thread, um ask the person who concocted the thread not me; an obvious dig and unnecessary

Perhaps it was a mistake on their part but if you are agreeing that some threads are unfair because they make people feel negative about themselve yet you have a dig at someone which could make that person feel negative about themselve if they read it.

Apologies, but that shouldn't have to be pointed out and I did tell the sender at the time how it made me feel but that was ignored. So yes, I think everyone needs to be a bit more mindful of the feelings of others"
I'm not trying to insult you, not at all and I do appoligise if that is how it read, my wording can be a miss at times but, and I refer to the threat itself, regardless of how people feel about the forum games and if you take part and how someone can be offended by regection, (that is what it amounts to), writing a thread about it and using an abussive term in which people might take it personaly and become negative themselves, is double standards.

Please don't take it as a personal insult to you, that wasn't the actual intention.

I would rather look at someone say avoid to me then look at a frum post in which I think, is that person calling me a cunt for something I mught have said in a forum game.

If I do not engage my brain, which I don't at times, then I would hope someone sent a stayting that, I would learn from it.

Again, I didn't mean to insult you, that was not my intention.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Why do people feel the need to respond negatively to posts. For example if its a kiss, lick, fuck post, always somebody with an avoid comment! Why do it?Why take time out your day to respond to a post with an answer that wasn't asked for?Are you just a cunt?"

I think it's just a way to get on the thread hoping you'll get a positive comment from the person below you.

It seems that a lot of the avoids are from straight men posting when a guy above them so avoid is kind of fair enough.

If you wait for a woman you can wait ages and 5 men jump on it so you don't end up able to have a comment left for you as you're not last if that makes sense.

I just put 'pint' if it's a guy above me

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do people feel the need to respond negatively to posts. For example if its a kiss, lick, fuck post, always somebody with an avoid comment! Why do it?Why take time out your day to respond to a post with an answer that wasn't asked for?Are you just a cunt?

I would say that its more a case of people wanting to join in, but the available answers don’t suit. There is a chance that people take the forum games too seriously and should someone say they want to do something with you, you may take it as an open invitation on their inbox.

After all if someone said “no” to you, instead of taking it in the manner it was meant (a forum game) you appear to have taken it personally and are calling them cunts?!?"
let's call them not so nice people then point i was tring to make was if you have nothing positive to say ,respond by all means,but don't be nasty and unnecessary.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do people feel the need to respond negatively to posts. For example if its a kiss, lick, fuck post, always somebody with an avoid comment! Why do it?Why take time out your day to respond to a post with an answer that wasn't asked for?Are you just a cunt?

I think it's just a way to get on the thread hoping you'll get a positive comment from the person below you.

It seems that a lot of the avoids are from straight men posting when a guy above them so avoid is kind of fair enough.

If you wait for a woman you can wait ages and 5 men jump on it so you don't end up able to have a comment left for you as you're not last if that makes sense.

I just put 'pint' if it's a guy above me "
exactly mate ,that's the kind of response that's

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In short, the forum is just a reflection of society.

There are all kinds of personalities and insecurities here just like in normal day to day life.

"
fair point

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't even see the point in the kiss fuck marry avoid

We ain't in the fucking playground

"

Well possibly, but if people want to play it, let them play it!

However if ‘avoid’ is an option then it’s a valid response isn’t it? Otherwise why is it there, and if you’re likely to be hurt or scarred by the possibility of an ‘avoid’ then I would suggest that the game probably isn’t for you!

The *real* negative stuff in my humble opinion is the pack hounding of posters (usually newbie males) that might word something awkwardly or the “one-upmanship” type remarks used to undermine or ridicule someone else.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people feel the need to respond negatively to posts. For example if its a kiss, lick, fuck post, always somebody with an avoid comment! Why do it?Why take time out your day to respond to a post with an answer that wasn't asked for?Are you just a cunt?"

all part and parcel of forums

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't even see the point in the kiss fuck marry avoid

We ain't in the fucking playground

Well possibly, but if people want to play it, let them play it!

However if ‘avoid’ is an option then it’s a valid response isn’t it? Otherwise why is it there, and if you’re likely to be hurt or scarred by the possibility of an ‘avoid’ then I would suggest that the game probably isn’t for you!

The *real* negative stuff in my humble opinion is the pack hounding of posters (usually newbie males) that might word something awkwardly or the “one-upmanship” type remarks used to undermine or ridicule someone else.

"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Why would you even join in those threads if your going to take an avoid personally.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would you even join in those threads if your going to take an avoid personally. "

Now that’s a very good point.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

Snog

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Snog "

I don’t recognise you.

Have you done something different with your hair?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for replies folks! Started to think it was my imagination that people were being nasty just for the sake of it but thats the way it seems for some anyway mate!Have followed a few threads and its a lot of the same people,sad bastards. "
your use of words is a sad fact

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

I wouldn't partake in those that I consider 'playground or childish', I also never personally attack someone, either in a thread or DM but if I have an opposite point of view then I don't have a problem with making it known. It is after all a discussion.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Why do people feel the need to respond negatively to posts. For example if its a kiss, lick, fuck post, always somebody with an avoid comment! Why do it?Why take time out your day to respond to a post with an answer that wasn't asked for?Are you just a cunt?"

Do you think people would feel better being the thread killer coz nobody wanted to post for fear of offending, or give another person false hope by fibbing kiss? We hear all the time people saying they'd rather a no thank you than being ignored.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh you always get people that just want stir the pot for no reason... Like the ones for no reason at all suddenly de-friend you, delete a fab of your photos or suddenly block you.... Its most likely just attention seeking and better off ignored

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the Wales section, pint is always an option. And judging by the amount it's used we're a bunch of friendly alcoholics

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"In the Wales section, pint is always an option. And judging by the amount it's used we're a bunch of friendly alcoholics "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people feel the need to respond negatively to posts. For example if its a kiss, lick, fuck post, always somebody with an avoid comment! Why do it?Why take time out your day to respond to a post with an answer that wasn't asked for?Are you just a cunt?"

Its just a forum game, if ppl are going to be offended, by what is a legitimate response then not the place for them.....also its very male oriented, just by the nature if the site, your going to get avoid just based on statistics alone, doesny make then c@@ts as described ....also final point if validation is gleaned from a forum game, then the person needs to look at why, its being searched for on such a game

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

All this over a daft forum game

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why would you even join in those threads if your going to take an avoid personally. "
it wasn't the fact that they chose avoid and it wasn't aimed at me. It was just some people go out their way to be negative and nasty when avoid wasn't even an option. Just think a bit of positivity and being a bit nicer to people,especially at the moment,is no bad thing.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Why do people feel the need to respond negatively to posts. For example if its a kiss, lick, fuck post, always somebody with an avoid comment! Why do it?Why take time out your day to respond to a post with an answer that wasn't asked for?Are you just a cunt?"

Maybe the genuinely dont want fun with that person

Mine are usually hug x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would you even join in those threads if your going to take an avoid personally. it wasn't the fact that they chose avoid and it wasn't aimed at me. It was just some people go out their way to be negative and nasty when avoid wasn't even an option. Just think a bit of positivity and being a bit nicer to people,especially at the moment,is no bad thing. "

It's not really nasty to say avoid now is it.

These games have all sorts of answers normally. Avoid being one of them used.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

[Removed by poster at 11/04/21 20:57:40]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

[Removed by poster at 11/04/21 20:58:03]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Why do people feel the need to respond negatively to posts. For example if its a kiss, lick, fuck post, always somebody with an avoid comment! Why do it?Why take time out your day to respond to a post with an answer that wasn't asked for?Are you just a cunt?

Maybe the genuinely dont want fun with that person

Mine are usually hug x

"

Xxx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

[Removed by poster at 11/04/21 20:57:55]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *imatureMan
over a year ago

sligo

It’s nice to be nice I think!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

So would it be better to say you would kiss/fuck/suck someone who you wouldn’t? Therefore blowing smoke or false hope up someone’s arse so not to offend them, then they message you off the back of said false hope and instead of saying a simple ‘avoid’ you now feel the need to either delete the message/respond with a ‘sorry your not my type’ or block...

Personally if there’s an avoid option on a thread and I don’t feel a physical attraction to the person I would use it...not because I’m a c**t because I’m honest

X

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think in the example you mentioned, there are people who just want to take part or post "Avoid" to get a thread going again. It's only a bit of fun but I usually wait until it is someone I fancy before posting.

I do agree though that generally if you don't have anything nice to say in a thread, then to just ignore it. There are loads of other threads to post on and there's something for everyone

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

calling people cunts is more negative than an avoid

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"calling people cunts is more negative than an avoid"
The post that urged me to post the thread was more than an avoid and was aggressive and derogatory, I apologise if the c word caused offense.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"calling people cunts is more negative than an avoidThe post that urged me to post the thread was more than an avoid and was aggressive and derogatory, I apologise if the c word caused offense. "
so why use the avoid as an example.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

All I was trying to convey was that some people go out their way to be negative and nasty by responding with an answer that wasn't in the original options. I just used a thread that has been used in the past to make that point.ive had a few messages from people saying they've had responses similar to above and have stopped posting .

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just try to put yourselves on the other side of the comments before you post .Nice to be nice thats all im saying. Hopefully thats the end of the thread, my brain hurts

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So would it be better to say you would kiss/fuck/suck someone who you wouldn’t? Therefore blowing smoke or false hope up someone’s arse so not to offend them, then they message you off the back of said false hope and instead of saying a simple ‘avoid’ you now feel the need to either delete the message/respond with a ‘sorry your not my type’ or block...

Personally if there’s an avoid option on a thread and I don’t feel a physical attraction to the person I would use it...not because I’m a c**t because I’m honest

X

"

This!

And also the hypocrisy of this whole thread ‘it’s nice to be nice’ yet referring to people as ‘cunts, stuck up, entitled, attention seeking’ for not wanting to give false hope to a fab member that’s not their actual type

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

In my opinion somebody that goes out their way to be derogatory is a bit of a nasty character, ok I shouldn't have said c...t I used Avoid as an example ,but that's not what was said. I've no problem if its a snog nasty avoid and somebody puts avoid. Glad I started this ! Not! It didn't happen to me but saw a thread that was having a go and just thought no need for it. I apologise if I've come over as a c...!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just try to put yourselves on the other side of the comments before you post .Nice to be nice thats all im saying. Hopefully thats the end of the thread, my brain hurts "

Nice to be called cunts too

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *imis3Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

Always going to be those haters who need to hurt others in order to feel a little less hurt themselves. Its great they out themselves tho

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Always going to be those haters who need to hurt others in order to feel a little less hurt themselves. Its great they out themselves tho"
cheers thanks for your response

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Always going to be those haters who need to hurt others in order to feel a little less hurt themselves. Its great they out themselves tho"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always going to be those haters who need to hurt others in order to feel a little less hurt themselves. Its great they out themselves tho"

I think that is a bit of a dramatisation for a kiss, fuck, avoid game

It really is as simple as, it is a game. Dont like it? Dont play

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Fuck

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck "

Social

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let’s be positive and just spread the love starting with me xxx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres a lot of playground bullies on here unfortunately, and once every so often they find a new person to pick on!

Ignore and they go away eventually

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Theres a lot of playground bullies on here unfortunately, and once every so often they find a new person to pick on!

Ignore and they go away eventually "

I am curious how people getting to these answers?

Purely because I play the game occasionally and see no issue in putting avoid on a game thread.

So i dont know why people are thinking it is hurtful/hateful or bullying?

Genuinly want to understand.

I really do see it as a game, and wont put kiss or fuck of I actually wouldnt

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I really don't think about it enough ... doesn't the game usually have avoid or pass in the title? Aren't you meant to answer for the post above you? Does it really matter? Aren't fake platitudes actually worse?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people like to play to the gallery, some people are in the gallery.

You often see lurkers wait until a hottie turns up, then there is a flurry of

Man 1 - Avoid

Man 2 - Avoid

Man 3 - Avoid

Lady - Kiss

Man 4 - Fuck

Man 5 - Fuck

Man 2 - Fuck

Man 2 - [delete]

Man 2 - Fuck the Lady I meant

Man 5 - [delete]

etc

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top