FabSwingers.com forum: If you had to choose

By *hrista Bellend OP Woman
over a year ago

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In real and/or fab life do you find it easy to make decisions or do you prefer for people to decide for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer making decision

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do but I'm stubborn as hell once I set my mind on something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'd like someone to make decisions for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I make my own decisions, then I'm accountable if it goes wrong, and if it goes right, I can give myself a lollypop and medal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I’m very decisive.

Or maybe not.

Hmm, what do you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always make my decisions...mostly wrong, but I can't blame anyone except me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm quite assertive so like to make my own decisions. I'm happy to go with the flow like a sheep sometimes, just for ease

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I make decisions in my professional life and real life, so sometimes in my fab life I like them to be made for me.... not always though.

Her x

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"In real and/or fab life do you find it easy to make decisions or do you prefer for people to decide for you"

I find it easy to make decisions.

I try and help people with low confidence or decision making abilities.

I don’t mind others making decisions as long as they are grown up enough to deal with any negative consequences and not try and shift responsibility.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

I don't dither, once I make a decision, it's done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easyish I will wight the pros and cons out and what ever one trumps I will go with that or my gut instinct

So if the pros out wight the cons I will go with it

If the cons out wight the pros I will go that way

If my gut instinct is telling me to run as fast as possible from it that’s what I will do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gosh no!

I make decisions for me, it’s my life and I’m not letting anyone else steer where my life is going!!

Couldn’t think of anything worse tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to make my own life decisions, I'm a bit of a control freak that way. Fab life however, Im happy to give the control in the bedroom to someone else

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Depends on the decision and how important the outcome is to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d love for someone to take away all the decision making from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After two long term relationships where I was the decision maker. I'd quite like to pass the buck to someone else.

There's plenty of decisions I like made for me...

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

I’d love to lose the responsibility sometimes, even for just a short while, but I have a fear of giving up the control.

Although I really don’t know what to do for dinner this evening if anyone has a suggestion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to make the decision

but I suppose it depends on what it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Real life my own decisions, fab life joint effort

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Depends on what the decision is

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

In the real world, I will make the decisions, in the fab world I am at the mercy of all you wonderful ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would LOVE to not have to be the decision maker in my life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In real and/or fab life do you find it easy to make decisions or do you prefer for people to decide for you"

I live alone and work alone, would be good occasionally to have someone to take a decision for me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I make decisions in my professional life and real life, so sometimes in my fab life I like them to be made for me.... not always though.

Her x"

I'm with you on this. X sam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would LOVE to not have to be the decision maker in my life "

Your wish is my command: send nudes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv always been impulsive just done things good or bad with no thought needed until 1 thing that has made me so indecisive and nervous

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By *hrista Bellend OP Woman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

"I would LOVE to not have to be the decision maker in my life "

I make my friends do some for me occasionally just so I can have a break

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it quite easy to take decisions and have learned not to be so impulsive, but I'd love to have someone with expertise take decisions for me in some areas such as money matters.

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

For the most part I'll make my own decisions, but if someone else else could pick whats for dinner, that would be great.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I always make my own decisions and own up to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I make my own decisions

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"I would LOVE to not have to be the decision maker in my life

Your wish is my command: send nudes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it easy to make decisions, sometimes I may ask for an opinion or two, but that depends on the decision in question.

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

If i don't make the decision, I can't make the wrong one...

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

In my marriage I liked decisions to be made jointly but on occasion, to be lazy and just go with whatever she wanted.

But since living on my own for so long I have realised I don’t need anyone else to make decisions with and happier keeping myself happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After two long term relationships where I was the decision maker. I'd quite like to pass the buck to someone else.

There's plenty of decisions I like made for me...

Like which colour rope?

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

It's all contextual. I won't do anything I don't want to, quite headstrong in some areas of life, and yet very much enjoy a male to make the decisions in others

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