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By *ay992020 OP   Man
over a year ago

Telford

Hi need little help on this one how to ask your new girlfriend to fab with you without her taking in wrong way and leaving

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

To fab you?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Ignore me..... To fab with you. How new of a gf is she?

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By *ay992020 OP   Man
over a year ago

Telford

Been with a year now

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"To fab you? "

No Evie.....

He means........ how can he get his girlfriend onto FAB ....... without her going apeshit. How can he coax, cajole, awaken her and get her to go ........ woopity doo.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been with a year now "

And signed up here 6 months ago?

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"Been with a year now "

Probably would have been better to not have had a single profile looking for other women for half your relationship tbh

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Been with a year now "

Has she ever mentioned that she'd like to have sex with others ?

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Is this like how do I dig myself out of a hole?

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By *ay992020 OP   Man
over a year ago

Telford

Yes that's what I mean hahaha

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

Have an open and honest conversation with her. Communication is the key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sit down and talk to her if you can’t use feelers

Like when you see someone checking her out maybe say oooo think he was checking you out gade her reactions

Or just say I would love to see you get spit roasted by me and another guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He may have just met her, as he said she's his new gf.

Maybe just come off here for a while, have an open conversation about things you like and what you've done in the past, and if she freaks out when you explain what Fab is about and that you've been on this site, then you know maybe it's not her thing.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"He may have just met her, as he said she's his new gf.

Maybe just come off here for a while, have an open conversation about things you like and what you've done in the past, and if she freaks out when you explain what Fab is about and that you've been on this site, then you know maybe it's not her thing.

"

He's been with her a year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been with a year now "

Ohhhh didn't see this bit

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"He may have just met her, as he said she's his new gf.

Maybe just come off here for a while, have an open conversation about things you like and what you've done in the past, and if she freaks out when you explain what Fab is about and that you've been on this site, then you know maybe it's not her thing.

"

Well, new is a year apparently.

But yes, agree with what's been said here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He may have just met her, as he said she's his new gf.

Maybe just come off here for a while, have an open conversation about things you like and what you've done in the past, and if she freaks out when you explain what Fab is about and that you've been on this site, then you know maybe it's not her thing.

Well, new is a year apparently.

But yes, agree with what's been said here. "

Yeah I didn't read all the thread, my bad

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

How can she take it the wrong way ?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"How can she take it the wrong way ?"

I'd imagine finding out he's been on here the second half of their entire relationship would be a bit of a shit kicker.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la


"Been with a year now

Probably would have been better to not have had a single profile looking for other women for half your relationship tbh "

This. In my opinion open, honest, communication is absolutely vital in any relationship but even more so in a swinging one, as is trust. The fact that you have been on here 6 months as a single really isn't going to help convince her, unless of course she already knows you are on here and is OK with it, in which case that's your obvious opener to the conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just write he name on a piece of paper and tell her to hold it with both hands.

Take her picture and tell her congratulations she's now about to be on fab and a professional full time swinger from this day fourth.

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

U must know wot she likes sexually. So if its on the lines of swinging then mention fab .if not maybe not x

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By *ay992020 OP   Man
over a year ago

Telford

Thank you going sit down and talk wish me luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice for what it’s worth: You shouldn’t be on here. You should have spoken to her first.

First rule of a relationship is trust. You’re on here as a single guy, to me the trust is already broken.

Get off here and communicate with your partner before it’s too late.

Been there had that done to me. It hurts like hell.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

This is a bit like the "how do I get my wife to have a 3sum" thread.

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By *ay992020 OP   Man
over a year ago

Telford

Yes but not just with a women I want to spit roast her

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Yes but not just with a women I want to spit roast her "

And what if she wants to spit roast you? It's all about give and take.

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By *ay992020 OP   Man
over a year ago

Telford

I'm very open if she goes for it

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la


"Yes but not just with a women I want to spit roast her "

& does the get any say in this?

You are going about this is a very odd way

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By *ay992020 OP   Man
over a year ago

Telford

Of course she does this account will be gone if she goes for it and set up couple

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Of course she does this account will be gone if she goes for it and set up couple "

You're a keeper

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

Anyone else want to know what happened?

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By *ay992020 OP   Man
over a year ago

Telford

We sitting down tonight to talk about it I ask what she thought about another couple joining us said take slow just have fun in front each other so going talk about it probably tonight fingers crossed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We sitting down tonight to talk about it I ask what she thought about another couple joining us said take slow just have fun in front each other so going talk about it probably tonight fingers crossed "

That's great news. Get the Tia Maria out

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