FabSwingers.com forum: What puts you off a profile?

By *ewrocks OP Woman
over a year ago

button moon

Just seen the ugliest tattoo. I love ink, but this was like a prison scratch tattoo, of an animal, that looked completely deformed.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Wide open leaking vaginas.

No Thankyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dishonesty.

If you can’t be truthful on your profile why should we trust you!!

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Messy backgrounds. Even the not obvious ones, we're just too observant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wide open leaking vaginas.

No Thankyou "

Yep, as much as us men get slated for the dick pics but a close up of a gaping vagina is just as pleasant

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Market Harborough / Kettering

People, normally ladies who are asking to have their pictures fabbed, attention seaking or what unless I have it wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Moaners. People who moan a lot put me off.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Cum dribbling from flaccid cocks. Cum dribbling from gaping vaginas. Cum dribbling down chins. Cum tributes...spotted the theme yet?

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Woman that insist that women should be worshipped.

NEXXXXXT.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cum dribbling from flaccid cocks. Cum dribbling from gaping vaginas. Cum dribbling down chins. Cum tributes...spotted the theme yet?

Nothing cums to mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lists..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many things

SHOUTY RANTS put me off the most - and it's usually women and couples that are guilty of this.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Cum dribbling from flaccid cocks. Cum dribbling from gaping vaginas. Cum dribbling down chins. Cum tributes...spotted the theme yet?

Nothing cums to mind

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk

"Woman that insist that women should be worshipped.

NEXXXXXT.

I know you worship me gent

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

"Cum dribbling from flaccid cocks. Cum dribbling from gaping vaginas. Cum dribbling down chins. Cum tributes...spotted the theme yet?

You don't like things that dribble ?

Overly biological pic do me. No humour in the text.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Woman that insist that women should be worshipped.

NEXXXXXT.

I know you worship me gent

But you don't insist on it, there's a difference.

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london

Long angry profiles that mostly list what they are not looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything profiles are just self made propaganda

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Bum holes

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By *ir SupremacyMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Lists of pre conditions.....like their solicitor has helped draw their profile up.....no thanks x

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

Lots of things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clearly announcing they cheat on their partner in bio

Messy background and poorly taken photos

Gaping ass holes

Rude and moan a lot on their bio

Just some of the things we dislike.

Her x

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

No profile text, as much as I don’t like pictures of cocks with cum or women showing their vagina as previously stated. Why bother even coming on to the site if you can’t be bothered to post a picture and write something down.

I like long rambling text, it tells me the person is taking the site seriously and indicates they’d turn up to a meet due to that effort.

So be ranty or demanding at least I know where I stand with you.

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By *ueenieHWoman
over a year ago

leeds

Guys who ignore the profile.

People who say they are single but yet are married or in a relationship.

Guys who tell me in a first message they are hung.

When men get aggressive because I told them I'm not interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

messy backgrounds.

vile 'wide open' pictures so graphic i can physically see what yous had for dinner.

dirty fingernails.

cock over an open toilet.

'will fill in later' profiles.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Dirty finger nails

Cock pics

Arrogance

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

Toilet pics

Agressive profiles

Will fill in later older than a week.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Toilet pics

Agressive profiles

Will fill in later older than a week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lack of effort.

I'm a 547 year old bisexual female looking for women, couples

OK dave who's 24 from Leeds who thought that this profile would get him an inbox full of lady gardens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys who ignore the profile.

People who say they are single but yet are married or in a relationship.

Guys who tell me in a first message they are hung.

When men get aggressive because I told them I'm not interested.

Nice shirt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also people looking for 18-99 year olds.

Don't wanna be buying granny ginge a new hip

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By *.R.MMan
over a year ago

Norfolk

Arseholes or people with a list of demands

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Profile text:

1. Non existent, Ask me anything, Fill in later etc...

2. Shouty (Capitals)

3. Lack of punctuation - simply because it is so difficult to understand

Pictures:

1. Plethora of cock/ pussy shots

2. Anything crass - prefer subtle

3. More than around 20 pics in one profile

There is something so interesting and intriguing about a well written profile. which gets my imagination going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile text decides on if they peak your interest. No text or a list of 1000 requirements is a put off. Also, text in capital letters.. I feel like they are shouting at me

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Profile text:

1. Non existent, Ask me anything, Fill in later etc...

2. Shouty (Capitals)

3. Lack of punctuation - simply because it is so difficult to understand

Pictures:

1. Plethora of cock/ pussy shots

2. Anything crass - prefer subtle

3. More than around 20 pics in one profile

There is something so interesting and intriguing about a well written profile. which gets my imagination going

I was doing something well, until that last sentence.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

I only ever look at single male profiles, so:

1. Crass profile names

2. Cocks covered in cum

3. Various women being fucked, etc. Do they know they star in your porno shots?

4. No photos/all close up cock photos

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By *ewrocks OP Woman
over a year ago

button moon

Ohhh yes I forgot the open toilet pics.

Or those clearly taken in a public loo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only ever look at single male profiles, so:

1. Crass profile names

2. Cocks covered in cum

3. Various women being fucked, etc. Do they know they star in your porno shots?

4. No photos/all close up cock photos"

So fussy.

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By *ewrocks OP Woman
over a year ago

button moon

Sydney Uni/Facebook warning! Thats a filter in itself. Gullible sheep? Not for me thankyou!

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Profile text decides on if they peak your interest. No text or a list of 1000 requirements is a put off. Also, text in capital letters.. I feel like they are shouting at me

I put one word in capitals in my header because as you say it is like shouting and it stands out more for those that need to know

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Profile text:

1. Non existent, Ask me anything, Fill in later etc...

2. Shouty (Capitals)

3. Lack of punctuation - simply because it is so difficult to understand

Pictures:

1. Plethora of cock/ pussy shots

2. Anything crass - prefer subtle

3. More than around 20 pics in one profile

There is something so interesting and intriguing about a well written profile. which gets my imagination going

You have 21 photos by the way

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

When they've lied about their age.

When they're naked apart from their socks.

When they're just wearing a t-shirt with it hanging out.

When all it says is NSA.

Going on about older women.

That stupid disclaimer about a university.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything gaping...

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Profile text:

1. Non existent, Ask me anything, Fill in later etc...

2. Shouty (Capitals)

3. Lack of punctuation - simply because it is so difficult to understand

Pictures:

1. Plethora of cock/ pussy shots

2. Anything crass - prefer subtle

3. More than around 20 pics in one profile

There is something so interesting and intriguing about a well written profile. which gets my imagination going

You have 21 photos by the way

Well spotted - hence the modifier "around"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people who say attractive couple, or profesional

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Profile text:

1. Non existent, Ask me anything, Fill in later etc...

2. Shouty (Capitals)

3. Lack of punctuation - simply because it is so difficult to understand

Pictures:

1. Plethora of cock/ pussy shots

2. Anything crass - prefer subtle

3. More than around 20 pics in one profile

There is something so interesting and intriguing about a well written profile. which gets my imagination going

You have 21 photos by the way

Well spotted - hence the modifier "around"

Yes I did see that little room for a extra few

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I’m not a fan of shouty profiles with capitals and exclamation marks everywhere. I think you can present your point without doing that.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Profile text:

1. Non existent, Ask me anything, Fill in later etc...

2. Shouty (Capitals)

3. Lack of punctuation - simply because it is so difficult to understand

Pictures:

1. Plethora of cock/ pussy shots

2. Anything crass - prefer subtle

3. More than around 20 pics in one profile

There is something so interesting and intriguing about a well written profile. which gets my imagination going

You have 21 photos by the way

Well spotted - hence the modifier "around"

Yes I did see that little room for a extra few

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"I only ever look at single male profiles, so:

1. Crass profile names

2. Cocks covered in cum

3. Various women being fucked, etc. Do they know they star in your porno shots?

4. No photos/all close up cock photos

So fussy.

So naughty!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pages and pages

Sydney legal notices

Put 'chocolate biscuit' in your header

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By *ocksareoffMan
over a year ago

Out n About

I find the following off-putting. Anything along the lines of 420, snow, stoner and if there's messy backgrounds to pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As said above

Anyone with drug references

Arrogant people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad pictures

Drug references

Bad usernames

Stupid status

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Zero effort puts me off.

I've judged a few tattoos, but then had my mind changed with personality. We've all got a shit tattoos from our younger days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who states only slim and attractive - well that's me out then

Every picture is a cock pic of various angles and occasionally in various ladies orifices

Meet me now - like we all have the time to drop everything and rush for a quick disappointing shag

Can fuck/lick for hours -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a funny one. But a couple with the lady all glammed up or lesser.

But the male has all gym photos and looks like he will try and bench press me in the middle of pleasuring the female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been here before, know the score" and similar.

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By *AABMan
over a year ago

Not far

- The can’t be arsed profiles

- Profiles listing why they don’t like you

- Mediocrity wanting the moon on a stick

- Women my age who will only meet men half my age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profiles which have been created with zero effort - no pics, no text, no photo verification but they still message you requesting pics and expect you to reply

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Pile of dirty dishes in the background, clutter, or dirty washing lying around. It makes me think that if this is the state of your house, when did your pussy last see soap and water!

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Pile of dirty dishes in the background, clutter, or dirty washing lying around. It makes me think that if this is the state of your house, when did your pussy last see soap and water!"
dirty dishes has nothing to do with hygiene

Very harsh comments

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By *oubleswing2019Man
over a year ago

Colchester

Sparse profiles.

I feel a profile is a presentation of one's self, thoughts, feelings, motivations, likes, dislikes, and essentially a snapshot at that moment in time. It's a chance to really make an effort and come across as a real person(s) to be valued and hopefully appreciated.

Since the purpose of Fab is to provide a platform for consenting adults to meet other consenting adults, profiles that say little more than "Hi, we'd like to meet another couple for fun times" seem at the very least superfluous, and at the most unimaginative and uninspiring.

Profiles that have opinions (whether we agree with them or not) are alive and real. They denote passion and thought, and people who are not afraid to say what they want.

I had over 100 CV's to read the other day. Only 1 included a cover letter going in to great detail about the applicant and their specific fit to the company.

The other CV's all looked identical, just the names, DOB's, addresses and qualifications/prior experience varied.

But the cover letter applicant ? I felt I knew them before even wanting to meet them. They made the cut.

That's why profiles are important. IMHO

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By *peak and SpellCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich, SE LONDON

Like above, profiles that give nothing away... No hint of personality.

Spelling mistakes

Non subtle/crude user names.

Crude photography... We are not prudes but prefer photos with a hint of tease and style.

Messy backgrounds (or kids stuff in view).

Couples profile with only female photos (that is just annoying).

100s of verifications (there is definitely a sweet spot when the number becomes too many)

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"Dishonesty.

If you can’t be truthful on your profile why should we trust you!!

Yeah. I know what you mean. The OP reckons she's from Button Moon, the liar.

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By *lint-EverhardMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

I look at the plain text and go by that. No single men and I'm outta there faster than you can say antidisestablishmentarianism.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dishonesty.

If you can’t be truthful on your profile why should we trust you!!

Yeah. I know what you mean. The OP reckons she's from Button Moon, the liar. "

I deserve that one!!!!!!

I mean more like in the profile text itself.

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By *eigh guyMan
over a year ago

wigan

Pics in a toilet , why??

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By *isspurplechesterWoman
over a year ago

Chester

Profiles that say if you can’t spell or use punctuation then don’t message me! Well that just told my dyslexic ass where to go

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

65674678567 million dick pics.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"Wide open leaking vaginas.

No Thankyou "

Oh yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures of a man with another woman in various poses on a male profile

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By *allgirthyMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

An untidy house.

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By *ocksareoffMan
over a year ago

Out n About

"Profiles that say if you can’t spell or use punctuation then don’t message me! Well that just told my dyslexic ass where to go

I've fallen foul of my phone's auto correct on more than one occasion. Txt talk is another of my pet hates

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By *ear in the chairMan
over a year ago

yeah there

SHOUTY demands!

If the reader isn't going to read normal text, they are going to take no more notice of block caps!

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By *edGrayCouple
over a year ago

Swindon

[Removed by poster at 10/04/21 08:25:16]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Moaning profiles, im mean cmon lighten up people

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By *edGrayCouple
over a year ago

Swindon

People who live in made up places....

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By *arte_Blanche_NECouple
over a year ago

Northern

"Just seen the ugliest tattoo. I love ink, but this was like a prison scratch tattoo, of an animal, that looked completely deformed.

Names like pussy stretcher, hung, girthy, cum slut etc,

Graphic pics do nothing for us either,

No green flag or been on years and no meet verifications,

Couples that message us when their profile states they are only looking for single females,

Scruffy houses, scruffy finger nails or just anything scruffy lol,

Lists of demands and fucket lists,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gape,

Huge boobs,

multiple meet pics,

mess,

Caravans.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They arnt exactly what i want

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Very harsh comments "

You wanna bet, you should see some of the flee pits I've turned up at, which I could elaborate on, and made my excuses to exit. There is a particular couple round here that when they go to a meet, the first thing that she does is ask to use their bathroom. If the bathroom isn't clean enough, they leave. Fortunately my toilets passed the test, but after that experience, I made sure that my house was immaculate before hosting a meet.

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Shouty text and demands to put words in message subjects

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Signs of murderous intent ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women who aren't attractive in any way that think they can be picky wanting the stereotype version of men.

This is literally every women on here from what I've seen.XD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women who aren't attractive in any way that think they can be picky wanting the stereotype version of men.

This is literally every women on here from what I've seen.XD"

You want to fuck the really ugly ones that no-one else would touch with a manky spatula?

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By *arte_Blanche_NECouple
over a year ago

Northern

"Women who aren't attractive in any way that think they can be picky wanting the stereotype version of men.

This is literally every women on here from what I've seen.XD"

Wow, someone’s had a few unanswered messages by the sounds of things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women who aren't attractive in any way that think they can be picky wanting the stereotype version of men.

This is literally every women on here from what I've seen.XD

Wow, someone’s had a few unanswered messages by the sounds of things. "

A few unanswered? More like no interest back, can't think why can you?

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Explicit close up of sex, cream pies, stretched pussy with speculum, weird objects in penis and too may pics of sexual encounters with fellow Fabbers in one bed are a right put off for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think negative comments..... and nothing wrote on the profile, like fill in later..... and all cock picks from different angles and if it’s wrote like a list and not in paragraphs..... I think I’m cool with anything else xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women who aren't attractive in any way that think they can be picky wanting the stereotype version of men.

This is literally every women on here from what I've seen.XD"

Can see that you have happy memories of fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Negativity puts me off!

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By *ewrocks OP Woman
over a year ago

button moon

"Women who aren't attractive in any way that think they can be picky wanting the stereotype version of men.

This is literally every women on here from what I've seen.XD"

Nope. But we like what we like, and don't need to differentiate from that to suit others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Negativity puts me off! "

Yeah and not liking maccies fries

Her x

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Angry or moany profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dishonesty.

If you can’t be truthful on your profile why should we trust you!!

Out of interest, how would you know a profile is dishonest?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dishonesty.

If you can’t be truthful on your profile why should we trust you!!

Out of interest, how would you know a profile is dishonest?"

Well one would be proudly writing on their profile they cheat on their partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Negativity puts me off!

Yeah and not liking maccies fries

Her x"

Oooft the comedian has woke up

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By *ewrocks OP Woman
over a year ago

button moon

"Dishonesty.

If you can’t be truthful on your profile why should we trust you!!

Out of interest, how would you know a profile is dishonest?

Well one would be proudly writing on their profile they cheat on their partner"

I prefer those to the ones who don't state they're attached.

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

"I only ever look at single male profiles, so:

1. Crass profile names

2. Cocks covered in cum

3. Various women being fucked, etc. Do they know they star in your porno shots?

4. No photos/all close up cock photos"

Exactly this .........

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

A name like “Queefgulper27”

((Don’t worry admin I checked, no naming and shaming))

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dishonesty.

If you can’t be truthful on your profile why should we trust you!!

Out of interest, how would you know a profile is dishonest?

Well one would be proudly writing on their profile they cheat on their partner

I prefer those to the ones who don't state they're attached. "

It's still wrong and they are still being dishonest to their partner so what else could they be lying about?

Owning up to cheating doesn't make them a better person

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By *ewrocks OP Woman
over a year ago

button moon

"Dishonesty.

If you can’t be truthful on your profile why should we trust you!!

Out of interest, how would you know a profile is dishonest?

Well one would be proudly writing on their profile they cheat on their partner

I prefer those to the ones who don't state they're attached.

It's still wrong and they are still being dishonest to their partner so what else could they be lying about?

Owning up to cheating doesn't make them a better person"
aye, still wrong, but at least when they put it on their profile its easier to avoid meeting them, for those of us who don't want to meet married.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dishonesty.

If you can’t be truthful on your profile why should we trust you!!

Out of interest, how would you know a profile is dishonest?

Well one would be proudly writing on their profile they cheat on their partner

I prefer those to the ones who don't state they're attached.

It's still wrong and they are still being dishonest to their partner so what else could they be lying about?

Owning up to cheating doesn't make them a better person aye, still wrong, but at least when they put it on their profile its easier to avoid meeting them, for those of us who don't want to meet married. "

Yeah that's true I suppose, they get blocked straight away!

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Still looking for meets during covid

Couple profiles with no pics of male, who look for couples and message our couple profile.

Not here to chat

Not pushy, when often they really are.

Been here before

Regular ranty status updates about how women never meet or its crap in here.

Shaming another profile on headline or on status

789 cock pics or pics of different women, with not much of them in shot.

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By *ewrocks OP Woman
over a year ago

button moon

"Still looking for meets during covid

Couple profiles with no pics of male, who look for couples and message our couple profile.

Not here to chat

Not pushy, when often they really are.

Been here before

Regular ranty status updates about how women never meet or its crap in here.

Shaming another profile on headline or on status

789 cock pics or pics of different women, with not much of them in shot.

"
ahhh the dismembered cock shots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dishonesty.

If you can’t be truthful on your profile why should we trust you!!

Out of interest, how would you know a profile is dishonest?

Well one would be proudly writing on their profile they cheat on their partner"

That is being truthful though - they aren’t hiding it

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Not being what they are looking for,puts me right off

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

When your window shopping and its a couples profile with photos we kind of want to see the guy too. Or if the profile text is all about the woman.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

No pictures and masses of text...I don't have all day!

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

No pics yet asking for pics

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"Dishonesty.

If you can’t be truthful on your profile why should we trust you!!

Out of interest, how would you know a profile is dishonest?

Well one would be proudly writing on their profile they cheat on their partner

That is being truthful though - they aren’t hiding it "

They are being dishonest to their partner

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Dishonesty.

If you can’t be truthful on your profile why should we trust you!!

Out of interest, how would you know a profile is dishonest?

Well one would be proudly writing on their profile they cheat on their partner

That is being truthful though - they aren’t hiding it

They are being dishonest to their partner

Yes if your married state that on your profile instead of playing guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples profiles with 2367 pics of her in various poses one of which contains a half buried cock and a bit of hairy tummy posted in 2015 that may (or may not) be the male half of the couple.

Her ladyship enjoys a perv as much as I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As crazy as it may seem, when I see women with photos of a multitude a different guys.

I know its a swinger site but for some reason it makes me want to scroll by

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As crazy as it may seem, when I see women with photos of a multitude a different guys.

I know its a swinger site but for some reason it makes me want to scroll by"

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dishonesty.

If you can’t be truthful on your profile why should we trust you!!

Out of interest, how would you know a profile is dishonest?

Well one would be proudly writing on their profile they cheat on their partner

That is being truthful though - they aren’t hiding it

They are being dishonest to their partner

Yes but the poster said ‘if you can’t be truthful on your profile’ and they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 10/04/21 17:35:58]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dishonesty.

If you can’t be truthful on your profile why should we trust you!!

Out of interest, how would you know a profile is dishonest?

Well one would be proudly writing on their profile they cheat on their partner

That is being truthful though - they aren’t hiding it "

Yeah but they are being dishonest being on here in the first place.

I was originally replying to "how would you know a profile was dishonest".

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Couples profiles with 2367 pics of her in various poses one of which contains a half buried cock and a bit of hairy tummy posted in 2015 that may (or may not) be the male half of the couple.

Her ladyship enjoys a perv as much as I do.

Mr"

Yeah this too!

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By *nnie2009Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Posing like a body builder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A hidden verification summary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's some right jobs worths on here.

We're all different and that's what makes Fabs great.

Profile text and photos do have a bearing on meeting but sometimes it can be pleasantly surprising to chat with someone you may have dismissed out of hand because they may not be the worlds best at grammar or might not be David Bailey or God forbid they like and show off things you find distasteful.

It's a swingers site, what happened to live and let live? ffs

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By *rooperRedMan
over a year ago

Littlehampton

To be honest, verifications in the triple digits...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“I’ll fill this in later” with no pictures or any hint of who the profile belongs to gggrrrrrrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dishonesty.

If you can’t be truthful on your profile why should we trust you!!

Out of interest, how would you know a profile is dishonest?

Well one would be proudly writing on their profile they cheat on their partner

That is being truthful though - they aren’t hiding it

Yeah but they are being dishonest being on here in the first place.

I was originally replying to "how would you know a profile was dishonest"."

The person, yes

The profile, no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots..

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Nice body, ugly personality.

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

"A hidden verification summary"

The site has hidden some of ours, anyway, depending on when they were last Updated before lockdown , I believe.

I'm not particularly bothered but it would be nice to have this lifted soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dishonesty.

If you can’t be truthful on your profile why should we trust you!!

Out of interest, how would you know a profile is dishonest?

Well one would be proudly writing on their profile they cheat on their partner

That is being truthful though - they aren’t hiding it

Yeah but they are being dishonest being on here in the first place.

I was originally replying to "how would you know a profile was dishonest".

The person, yes

The profile, no"

Fair point.

Still dishonesty as per the poster saying "Dishonesty" but yeah

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By *ewrocks OP Woman
over a year ago

button moon

"There's some right jobs worths on here.

We're all different and that's what makes Fabs great.

It's a swingers site, what happened to live and let live? ffs

My post asks what puts folk off, they've answered the question as to what 8s personally not for them.

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Gaping ass pics

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

When every photo has face, cat ears and whiskers, rabbit earsm teeth things like that added. I can understand 1 or 2 but, I don't want to have sex witha charcater from 'The Island of Doctor Moreau'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A hidden verification summary

The site has hidden some of ours, anyway, depending on when they were last Updated before lockdown , I believe.

I'm not particularly bothered but it would be nice to have this lifted soon."

It's not the actual verifications that put me off.Some people like to keep those private because they don't like the details plastered all over fab.I get put off by the lack of summary.The part that shows how many people has verified you,and when the last verification was received.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wide open leaking vaginas.

No Thankyou "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gaping pussy and arsehole pics. Rather sensual and erotic ones.

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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago

Heaven in the Midlands

"Cum dribbling from flaccid cocks. Cum dribbling from gaping vaginas. Cum dribbling down chins. Cum tributes...spotted the theme yet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate vulgar photos... .Could be the most beautiful woman but the pure filth is not for me... I love class and style

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Photos that are that blurry they look like they must be photo copied under water

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Messy backgrounds. Even the not obvious ones, we're just too observant. "

Yeah .. I'm like that and see some right things in the background. It puts me off if it's messy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When "anal" hasn't been ticked off as one of their interests

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By *ornyharry39Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Couples pretending to be single women usual case hubby hiding then wanting to join in half way through wtf

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"When "anal" hasn't been ticked off as one of their interests"

so that’s why you like me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When "anal" hasn't been ticked off as one of their interests

so that’s why you like me

Brilliant comment x

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Photos that leave me no clearer knowing how someone looks. Very dark, out of focus, uncertainty what the photo is of, etc.

A lot of negativity.

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By *mTheMrJMan
over a year ago

Barry

Will fill in later

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

"Cum dribbling from flaccid cocks. Cum dribbling from gaping vaginas. Cum dribbling down chins. Cum tributes...spotted the theme yet?

"
something about cum lol

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By *rs ThumperCouple
over a year ago

Great Cornard

People who can't spell, punctuate or have to abbreviate everything!!

Profile says your 52 but your bio says your 45.....

People who simply don't read the profile!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing annoys me all people are different choices made and preferences are there for a reason

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By *onkeyandBonesCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"messy backgrounds.

vile 'wide open' pictures so graphic i can physically see what yous had for dinner.

dirty fingernails.

cock over an open toilet.

'will fill in later' profiles.

Px "

Spot on, we would add pictures of cocks against a beer can or remote control

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can anyone check mine?

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By *essie.Woman
over a year ago

Serendipity

Endless cock photos with no other type of pic.

And pics with clutter in the background.

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By *reatformeatWoman
over a year ago

my own bubble

Cock pic after cock pic especially ones taken over a toilet , also blank profiles or stuff like “ will fill in later “ on them

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Each to a their own but 420? I’ve images of a smokey crack den. Not pleasant.

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

"People who can't spell, punctuate or have to abbreviate everything!!

Profile says your 52 but your bio says your 45.....

People who simply don't read the profile!!"

The odd spelling mistakes, and punctuation errors can come in handy, especially on straight dating sites, if your profile is being viewed by a member of the teaching profession who mark it like some kiddies essay, and all too eager to correct, but it starts a conversation. I can honestly say that I am possibly the only guy in the history of internet dating, and throughout the depths of cyberspace courtship who has managed to get his end away with teachers for getting a mere 18 out of 20 for his English homework on a dating site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Angry / entitled / aggressive profiles

There's just no need

I don't think they're effective either

People go word blind if the pics are hot

Just be nice

You can say what you like without being unpleasant

Use your filters

Block where necessary

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By *ewrocks OP Woman
over a year ago

button moon

"Can anyone check mine? "
you can do it.

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