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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

All like to share? Interested in the difference, after reading the women thread...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. From experience.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Not my chips, no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Some do, some don’t.

Mine doesn’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Often less than they let on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know any outside of this scene that do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never shared but I think I have the ability to without a problem arising

No it's not because I don't care etc etc

Experiences

I thrive on experiences and learning

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By *iking SoftiesCouple
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Sharing is caring

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Mr does, most definitely. He says he loves knowing how much I am enjoying myself, and others are enjoying themselves with me, but always with the knowledge that I will come back home to him.

Mrs kf x

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By *ocksareoffMan
over a year ago

Out n About

All depends on what we are sharing?

Chocolate Hob Nobs? Nope

Hash browns? Yes

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

Depends ..choc hob knobs...no ..last bit of whisky ..no ..last beer ..deffo no...seeing mrs4 being enjoyed and enjoying others ..a big yes as both enjoy it ..but sadly most men on here seem to object to it ..as mrs4 says ..they walk the walk ..talk the talk but ..can't just sit there and enjoy the show ???

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"All depends on what we are sharing?

Chocolate Hob Nobs? Nope

Hash browns? Yes"

Wait, I can’t have one of your hob nobs

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Not really. I admire the men who allow their loved ones to enjoy others...jealous of them really.

Even play friends on here sometimes gave me a twinge.

More security and openness seems to help but yet to have felt that.

Its obv a personal thing.

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By *ocksareoffMan
over a year ago

Out n About

"All depends on what we are sharing?

Chocolate Hob Nobs? Nope

Hash browns? Yes

Wait, I can’t have one of your hob nobs

Well there's always exception's

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I like an assistant occasionally, but it’s not really sharing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest I think most men like to share their women.

But most women don't like to share their men.

Male posting BTW.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love sharing my gf, and she loves being shared!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to think off my self as inbween

Single but yes if I had a partner then yes I love to share love to hear what nighty stuff they got up to

Would hope they were the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if the rules are agreed in advance

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Interesting. More of a divide than I expected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When my ex cheated on me i told her she only had to ask and I'd of given her that pass.

I'm all about sharing

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

Depends, not in a romantic sense but yes in a sexual sense.

I have and will again enjoy watching a partner enjoy sex with me and other people.

Even coming home after having sex with someone else.

It is about the energy that you create together and maintaining the energy for claim back sex together.

So yes, I do enjoy to sexualy share.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Depends if the rules are agreed in advance"

Yep this. Exactly

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

"All like to share? Interested in the difference, after reading the women thread..."

Sharing as in moresums ? Sharing as he has a pass ?

In a relationship or swinging "friends"

So many variants , I didn't get the other thread either ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be honest I think most men like to share their women.

But most women don't like to share their men.

Male posting BTW."

I’d be surprised if that was the case tbh... I think mostly guys are possessive... but I certainly appreciate the guys that share.. hot as fuck...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"All like to share? Interested in the difference, after reading the women thread...

Sharing as in moresums ? Sharing as he has a pass ?

In a relationship or swinging "friends"

So many variants , I didn't get the other thread either ... "

In whichever sense you like

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

It's none of my business what "friends" do ...and I like moresums ...

In a relationship , I like to play together and apart, so if agreeable ...pass for both works for me.

So yes sharing is caring for me

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Happy to share cake and chocolate.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"It's none of my business what "friends" do ...and I like moresums ...

In a relationship , I like to play together and apart, so if agreeable ...pass for both works for me.

So yes sharing is caring for me

Taxi to Hampshire please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first "outside the norm" experience was when I was 19 and my partner said I could sleep with her but she had 4 other men on the go. She was 38.

I agreed and the relationship commenced. We lived together quite quickly and we both had lovers. In the 10 years we were together there were 14. It went wrong when she started doing secretive things and purely by chance, making the bed, I found out. Her reaction was poor and the relationship ended in Divorce.

We would never come from one bed to our own bed and have sex. We always showered.

My most memorable lover was a lady who was bisexual and lived with her girlfriend. We never had a 3 sum or watched each other. We respected the preference of the time.

Amazingly I went from that relationship to one which is now sexless, hence being on here

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Not I.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's a swinging or fwb relationship then it's none of my business what the other person does, doesn't bother me at all beyond the sexual health aspect but equally I'm not turned on by knowing about it.

In a serious and committed relationship, no. I think there's only a few people who can keep the green eyed monster at bay in that situation and I'm not one of them.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

The same response as for women; some do, some don’t, some say that they do but actually get pissy if they’re expected to.

With guys I’ve found that swinging is great if they’re getting MFF’s or attention but if their partner gets more or are expected to fulfil her fantasies, that’s when their egos get bruised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was willing to

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Mine loves to share me 100%, and I love to be shared.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Mr KC seems happy to share...

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

If you wanted to try whats on my plate you should have ordered your own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you’re talking food, then no, I’m like Joey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In general no im ultra competitive sharing goes against who i am but i am generous but whats mine is mine whats yours is minethis is my world your all just in my head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think my first experience was more like an 'owned hot wife' (or is it stag /vixen? So many expressions!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My current DD i would say does not like to share

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think some are more open than we are

some will, some won't.

mine doesn't

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

"Some do, some don’t.

Mine doesn’t."

Mine? Haha which one?

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"My current DD i would say does not like to share"

Damn.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South

Not in my experience, they like the idea of it but when it comes down to it they get moody.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All like to share? Interested in the difference, after reading the women thread..."

Well you're not using my toothbrush if that's what you mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it's a swinging or fwb relationship then it's none of my business what the other person does, doesn't bother me at all beyond the sexual health aspect but equally I'm not turned on by knowing about it.

In a serious and committed relationship, no. I think there's only a few people who can keep the green eyed monster at bay in that situation and I'm not one of them."

Learning how to harness the green eyed monster is key. That little niggle of jealousy I've found to be a total turn on... discomfort is balanced by intense horniess and over time that balance just shifts more to horn. Takes time.

Tabitha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id also add it very much depends who or what im sharing and how much it matters random fuck have at it deep feeling it could be messy

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By *edhotlovers2027Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

I (Rick) do not have a problem sharing Cazz and we have had some great meets with single guys,however Cazz is not sure how she would feel about me having full sex with with another women, hence why we are a soft swing couple with other couples.

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By *aughtyTwoCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Ted does and will do with or without being present...aslong as he knows!

I like it too but always when we are together xx

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By *herry OnatopWoman
over a year ago

Just over there

It always amazes me on a swinging site how many people don't 'share'! Is it insecurities in themselves or the relationship that put them off sharing?

Genuinely interested as I find it relatively easy to separate emotions and sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who I’m sharing I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It always amazes me on a swinging site how many people don't 'share'! Is it insecurities in themselves or the relationship that put them off sharing?

Genuinely interested as I find it relatively easy to separate emotions and sex

For me, it’s certainly insecurities, and struggling to separate the emotions and the sex.

I love seeing him with someone else, I find it really erotic, but that’s if I’m there too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Share what exactly

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

This experience for both of us is to indulge in our fantasies that we can’t do with just the two of us.

We both have fantasies involving guys and girls so it’s all about sharing.

But the sharing is whilst we are together.

We’d not get anything from it at all for a hot wife/husband situation. We want to see us both get pleasure.

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By *eigh guyMan
over a year ago

wigan

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It always amazes me on a swinging site how many people don't 'share'! Is it insecurities in themselves or the relationship that put them off sharing?

Genuinely interested as I find it relatively easy to separate emotions and sex

For me, it’s certainly insecurities, and struggling to separate the emotions and the sex.

I love seeing him with someone else, I find it really erotic, but that’s if I’m there too. "

And to expand on that, with having read midnights answer on the other thread, the dynamic you are in can greatly affect the way you are, if I was in a settled committed relationship, I might find it a lot easier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It always amazes me on a swinging site how many people don't 'share'! Is it insecurities in themselves or the relationship that put them off sharing?

Genuinely interested as I find it relatively easy to separate emotions and sex

I don't understand how you jump to any of those conclusions.

A swing site is used in many different ways by its members. Even the term swinging is understood differently by its members too. Maybe it's more for those who enjoy clubs, group one off meets and the social side etc.

As for me, it's about focusing on the other with no other distractions, no exhibitionism, no feeling of competing of feeling to compete. It's about one on one, a place to immerse myself and give myself to the other and enjoy the other fully, even 3some (mfm) experiences no longer appeal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience no

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"It always amazes me on a swinging site how many people don't 'share'! Is it insecurities in themselves or the relationship that put them off sharing?

Genuinely interested as I find it relatively easy to separate emotions and sex

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I can separate emotions from sex these days! Comes with age! But whilst in my 20s my first hubby wanted me to take lovers as did he ! Then for me to relate what went on! But in end backfired on him as I fell in love with my lover and left him for him! X

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

I was thinking about midnights response and my own experiences.

In the past It didn't bother me to share.

It depends on the relationship, fwb,then what they do is completely up to them but looking at it from a relationship, which I'm not in anyway, at my age:

"In a club setting - 100% confidence + happiness. They came with me, played with me, played with others, played together with others, we left together" (quoted taken from midnight)

I like watching and being involved in play with a partner and othersnas this does excite me and turn me on.

Separately, although it didn't bother me in the past, I think in a reltionship I would like just to play together.

I'm not delving into being seperated by distance.

Although i'm fickle so I might change my mind again in 30 seconds.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

In a heterosexual relationship I’m monogamous, will still go out dressed but just for socials no sex at all. So for a long term relationship I prefer to be quite vanilla with my partner.

However if she decided that she wanted to experiment with her sexuality or other kinky scenarios, well we only live once, so why deny new experiences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was thinking about midnights response and my own experiences.

In the past It didn't bother me to share.

It depends on the relationship, fwb,then what they do is completely up to them but looking at it from a relationship, which I'm not in anyway, at my age:

"In a club setting - 100% confidence + happiness. They came with me, played with me, played with others, played together with others, we left together" (quoted taken from midnight)

I like watching and being involved in play with a partner and othersnas this does excite me and turn me on.

Separately, although it didn't bother me in the past, I think in a reltionship I would like just to play together.

I'm not delving into being seperated by distance.

Although i'm fickle so I might change my mind again in 30 seconds.

I guess as well, what is a relationship? Where is it's boundaries... Ooo i might start another thread!

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

I have always loved to share my partner.

Mike

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

"I was thinking about midnights response and my own experiences.

In the past It didn't bother me to share.

It depends on the relationship, fwb,then what they do is completely up to them but looking at it from a relationship, which I'm not in anyway, at my age:

"In a club setting - 100% confidence + happiness. They came with me, played with me, played with others, played together with others, we left together" (quoted taken from midnight)

I like watching and being involved in play with a partner and othersnas this does excite me and turn me on.

Separately, although it didn't bother me in the past, I think in a reltionship I would like just to play together.

I'm not delving into being seperated by distance.

Although i'm fickle so I might change my mind again in 30 seconds.

I guess as well, what is a relationship? Where is it's boundaries... Ooo i might start another thread! "
That's another good question, define a relationship. You have my brain working today midnight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mr does, most definitely. He says he loves knowing how much I am enjoying myself, and others are enjoying themselves with me, but always with the knowledge that I will come back home to him.

Mrs kf x"

This except that I would be much less bothered about whether the other party enjoyed themselves with her.

As long as she thoroughly enjoyed it and came home to me emotionally and we can reclaim each other. It would be just as important for me to feel her reclaim me as for me to reclaim her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was thinking about midnights response and my own experiences.

In the past It didn't bother me to share.

It depends on the relationship, fwb,then what they do is completely up to them but looking at it from a relationship, which I'm not in anyway, at my age:

"In a club setting - 100% confidence + happiness. They came with me, played with me, played with others, played together with others, we left together" (quoted taken from midnight)

I like watching and being involved in play with a partner and othersnas this does excite me and turn me on.

Separately, although it didn't bother me in the past, I think in a reltionship I would like just to play together.

I'm not delving into being seperated by distance.

Although i'm fickle so I might change my mind again in 30 seconds.

I guess as well, what is a relationship? Where is it's boundaries... Ooo i might start another thread! That's another good question, define a relationship. You have my brain working today midnight."

You can see why i don't sleep much

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