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"Depends what I'm meant to be sharing." The best sex you've ever had in your life ? | |||
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"Really like to share ?  "Not all women, no. | |||
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Not even so much as a taxi  "Guess I'm walking then | |||
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"Depends what I'm meant to be sharing. The best sex you've ever had in your life ?" Are you asking if we want to tell you about it? | |||
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"Depends what I'm meant to be sharing. The best sex you've ever had in your life ?" Then probably not no. If a guy was that good I'd rather have more 1 on 1 time with him. | |||
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"Depends what I'm meant to be sharing. The best sex you've ever had in your life ? Are you asking if we want to tell you about it? " NO I'm asking if you'd share the best sex you've ever had and could easily be the best your likely to get ? It's a fare question | |||
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"Depends what I'm meant to be sharing. The best sex you've ever had in your life ? Are you asking if we want to tell you about it? NO I'm asking if you'd share the best sex you've ever had and could easily be the best your likely to get ? It's a fare question " How will I know it's the best sex before I get it? | |||
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"Depends what I'm meant to be sharing. The best sex you've ever had in your life ?" I would share that. I'm not greedy and I don't get jealous. | |||
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"Depends what I'm meant to be sharing. The best sex you've ever had in your life ? Are you asking if we want to tell you about it? NO I'm asking if you'd share the best sex you've ever had and could easily be the best your likely to get ? It's a fare question "  no need to shout. I was just trying to understand what you were asking.
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"Depends what I'm meant to be sharing. The best sex you've ever had in your life ? Are you asking if we want to tell you about it? NO I'm asking if you'd share the best sex you've ever had and could easily be the best your likely to get ? It's a fare question no need to shout. I was just trying to understand what you were asking.
Seemed a fair question to ask but perhaps not. "Auto correct turned the No into NO Appologies | |||
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"Not on this site they don’t "I'm asking because I ain't really ever fucked a woman that wants me to fuck another woman or is even ok with the idea of me fucking another woman  | |||
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"That's mine It don't go near another woman That's mine all mine It don't look at another woman I don't share "I'm gonna go ahead and take a wild guess that those women were not into swinging. | |||
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" Personally I find sharing very enjoyable, but not everyone does! I've had some experiences where jealousy has kicked in & ruined the fun " I don't have room in my life for jealousy and that's all iv ever seen or experienced I wanted to be me but I couldn't | |||
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"Men, yes! Chocolate, no fucking chance, get your own! " Beat me to it! Chocolate, no way. Sex, yes. I have the best sex with Mr. We know each other intimately. He loves to share me with other men and I would love to share him with other women. The coming back together and talking about it afterwards is hot as fuck
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"That's mine It don't go near another woman That's mine all mine It don't look at another woman I don't share
I'm gonna go ahead and take a wild guess that those women were not into swinging."I actually wonder if any are without being coerced into it by there fellas? | |||
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"It's not for me I think lots pretend though in the hope it will make them popular " I totally agree | |||
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"It's not for me I think lots pretend though in the hope it will make them popular I totally agree "Why do you think that? Some women do love to share. Nothing to do with coercion. | |||
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"It's not for me I think lots pretend though in the hope it will make them popular I totally agree
Why do you think that? Some women do love to share. Nothing to do with coercion. "Agreed. Why would you think that some pretend? | |||
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"That's mine It don't go near another woman That's mine all mine It don't look at another woman I don't share
I'm gonna go ahead and take a wild guess that those women were not into swinging.
I actually wonder if any are without being coerced into it by there fellas?"I don't have a partner so no coercion here. My preference in recent years has been regular meets with couples I know well. | |||
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"It's not for me I think lots pretend though in the hope it will make them popular I totally agree
Why do you think that? Some women do love to share. Nothing to do with coercion.
Agreed. Why would you think that some pretend? "Bordem who knows | |||
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"It's not for me I think lots pretend though in the hope it will make them popular I totally agree
Why do you think that? Some women do love to share. Nothing to do with coercion.
Agreed. Why would you think that some pretend?
Bordem who knows "Seriously though, you asked the question, but you don't actually want to hear answers that don't agree with you? Or are you basing this on your own experience? Mrs kf x | |||
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"It's not for me I think lots pretend though in the hope it will make them popular I totally agree
Why do you think that? Some women do love to share. Nothing to do with coercion.
Agreed. Why would you think that some pretend?
Bordem who knows
Seriously though, you asked the question, but you don't actually want to hear answers that don't agree with you? Or are you basing this on your own experience?
Mrs kf x"I think he is wanted to be shared. | |||
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"It's not for me I think lots pretend though in the hope it will make them popular I totally agree
Why do you think that? Some women do love to share. Nothing to do with coercion.
Agreed. Why would you think that some pretend?
Bordem who knows
Seriously though, you asked the question, but you don't actually want to hear answers that don't agree with you? Or are you basing this on your own experience?
Mrs kf x"Of course I want to hear answers That was the whole point of me posting it | |||
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"It's not for me I think lots pretend though in the hope it will make them popular I totally agree
Why do you think that? Some women do love to share. Nothing to do with coercion.
Agreed. Why would you think that some pretend?
Bordem who knows
Seriously though, you asked the question, but you don't actually want to hear answers that don't agree with you? Or are you basing this on your own experience?
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Of course I want to hear answers
That was the whole point of me posting it "OK So some women have posted that they do enjoy it. And you then agreed with a poster that thinks lots of women are pretending to enjoy it. I'm wondering why you ignored the former but agreed with the latter? | |||
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"It's not for me I think lots pretend though in the hope it will make them popular I totally agree
Why do you think that? Some women do love to share. Nothing to do with coercion.
Agreed. Why would you think that some pretend?
Bordem who knows
Seriously though, you asked the question, but you don't actually want to hear answers that don't agree with you? Or are you basing this on your own experience?
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I think he is wanted to be shared. "Correct and his Mrs won't let him | |||
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"It's not for me I think lots pretend though in the hope it will make them popular I totally agree
Why do you think that? Some women do love to share. Nothing to do with coercion.
Agreed. Why would you think that some pretend?
Bordem who knows
Seriously though, you asked the question, but you don't actually want to hear answers that don't agree with you? Or are you basing this on your own experience?
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I think he is wanted to be shared.
Correct and his Mrs won't let him
"I'm single and don't have a mrs but if I did I'd not be controlled and told what I can and can't do just the same ways I'd never try controlling a woman in those ways. It's wrong and it's control | |||
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"Always surprised at just how many people join a swingers site that actually don't understand or agree with swinging. " Madness | |||
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"Always surprised at just how many people join a swingers site that actually don't understand or agree with swinging. " To be fair, we all have our reasons for being here, whatever they are | |||
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"Always surprised at just how many people join a swingers site that actually don't understand or agree with swinging. To be fair, we all have our reasons for being here, whatever they are "Very true | |||
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"Really like to share ? "All of them? No Some of them? Yes | |||
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 I’ve had friends over the years that met other people and there wasn’t any issues or jealousy on my part, funny how some of the other domen didn’t always feel the same about the men meeting me tho  | |||
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"Chocolate.....no way, nope never unless it's my last rolo then yes "I knew it had to be you x | |||
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"Chocolate.....no way, nope never unless it's my last rolo then yes
I knew it had to be you x"Sharing is caring x | |||
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"My perception is based on observation of forum threads, posts, profiles and status updates. The hurt, the huffs, the lamp post pissing, the not so sly digs. I accept that sometimes though it's perhaps the way the 'sharing ' has happened, rather than the sharing itself " I think the fantasy isn't always the same as the reality. I also think it's a bit of "who shouts loudest" — if everything is fine and dandy in your swinging relationship you're less likely to be posting about it than those who have had a bad experience. | |||
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"That's mine It don't go near another woman That's mine all mine It don't look at another woman I don't share
I'm gonna go ahead and take a wild guess that those women were not into swinging.
I actually wonder if any are without being coerced into it by there fellas?"Nah, 99% of the couples we've met have been totally genuine and both up for it | |||
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"Chocolate.....no way, nope never unless it's my last rolo then yes
I knew it had to be you x
Sharing is caring x"I’m all into caring me I’m a modern day saint me | |||
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"My perception is based on observation of forum threads, posts, profiles and status updates. The hurt, the huffs, the lamp post pissing, the not so sly digs. I accept that sometimes though it's perhaps the way the 'sharing ' has happened, rather than the sharing itself I think the fantasy isn't always the same as the reality. I also think it's a bit of "who shouts loudest" — if everything is fine and dandy in your swinging relationship you're less likely to be posting about it than those who have had a bad experience. " This is true but I think the poster means the huffs etc from single women when they discover they are having to share the object of their cocklust. A lot of the time that is down to the cock but sometimes, as this thread clearly shows, women really don't like to share men. | |||
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"Share my man? Yes
If that's what you was asking.
Her x"Did you get his ok with this Him x | |||
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"Share my man? Yes
If that's what you was asking.
Her x
Did you get his ok with this
Him x "Naaaaah I'm the boss | |||
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"I think sharing sexually is one thing and sharing emotionally is another. And part of the problem is that a lot of people, often women, find it hard to separate the two. For me, confidence is a big thing, and I find it hard to get my head around being desired equally to or more than another woman, but in a loving relationship, where he knows that and is willing and happy to reassure me and to work on my confidence, I'd love to see "my man" playing with others. It's just the getting to that point within the relationship." Yep, got to be a cold fish in this game | |||
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"In a club setting - 100% confidence + happiness. They came with me, played with me, played with others, played together with others, we left together Separately.. I don't know. In theory i would love for them to do whatever makes them happy, knowing that i am secure and knowing that experience is separate to me and enhances our time In reality a strong emotional bond, distance and therefore a lack of opportunity to see each other makes this more challenging. So i think I'm saying I'm on the fence "Yep. I found not having the "reclaim" time that other couples have when one of them met separately left me feeling incredibly disappointed and almost discarded. The time we had together was already limited which added to the sense of me not being secure. OK, now I understand that I wasn't ever gonna feel secure as I wasn't privy to the whole picture, but the pain I felt during the time he met alone has put me off taking that route again | |||
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"In a club setting - 100% confidence + happiness. They came with me, played with me, played with others, played together with others, we left together Separately.. I don't know. In theory i would love for them to do whatever makes them happy, knowing that i am secure and knowing that experience is separate to me and enhances our time In reality a strong emotional bond, distance and therefore a lack of opportunity to see each other makes this more challenging. So i think I'm saying I'm on the fence "This is a good explanation. | |||
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"In a club setting - 100% confidence + happiness. They came with me, played with me, played with others, played together with others, we left together Separately.. I don't know. In theory i would love for them to do whatever makes them happy, knowing that i am secure and knowing that experience is separate to me and enhances our time In reality a strong emotional bond, distance and therefore a lack of opportunity to see each other makes this more challenging. So i think I'm saying I'm on the fence "That's a damn good explanation. | |||
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"In a club setting - 100% confidence + happiness. They came with me, played with me, played with others, played together with others, we left together Separately.. I don't know. In theory i would love for them to do whatever makes them happy, knowing that i am secure and knowing that experience is separate to me and enhances our time In reality a strong emotional bond, distance and therefore a lack of opportunity to see each other makes this more challenging. So i think I'm saying I'm on the fence
That's a damn good explanation."It really is isn't it? I've liked the honesty in this thread a lot, it's refreshing. On a similar theme... I wouldn't share with a close friend. Not because I'm a bunny boiler but because my self doubt kicks in enough that I remove myself from the situation. I'd much rather see my close friend and a penis wielder happy together than be worrying about things changing. | |||
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"In a club setting - 100% confidence + happiness. They came with me, played with me, played with others, played together with others, we left together Separately.. I don't know. In theory i would love for them to do whatever makes them happy, knowing that i am secure and knowing that experience is separate to me and enhances our time In reality a strong emotional bond, distance and therefore a lack of opportunity to see each other makes this more challenging. So i think I'm saying I'm on the fence
That's a damn good explanation.
It really is isn't it? I've liked the honesty in this thread a lot, it's refreshing.
On a similar theme... I wouldn't share with a close friend. Not because I'm a bunny boiler but because my self doubt kicks in enough that I remove myself from the situation.
I'd much rather see my close friend and a penis wielder happy together than be worrying about things changing. "This bit : because my self doubt kicks in enough that I remove myself from the situation. Is exactly what I do... I step back /or remove myself totally from the equation .... But I don't know if it's self doubt, or the fear of losing ... What if they are the preference overall... Oh maybe that is self doubt, hmmm  maybe I'm putting myself on a popularity contest lol
Either way my head will flick a switch amd that person could be a complete stranger to me from then on. I am an ice queen when this happens. | |||
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"In a club setting - 100% confidence + happiness. They came with me, played with me, played with others, played together with others, we left together Separately.. I don't know. In theory i would love for them to do whatever makes them happy, knowing that i am secure and knowing that experience is separate to me and enhances our time In reality a strong emotional bond, distance and therefore a lack of opportunity to see each other makes this more challenging. So i think I'm saying I'm on the fence "This is very accurate for me too. I think the dynamic you’re in affects the way you deal with things too. | |||
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"No, what's mine is mine. Chocolate or man "Pfffffft. Ill take my cake and leave then. | |||
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"I don't share well no! Especially not if it's someone I'm really keen on. I'm with toddlers on this one...if I've licked it/them, it's/they're mine "Haha! I use this one. I’ve licked him so he’s mine | |||
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"So between the mens thread and the women thread it seems the majority do not like to share.. So who is actually swinging
And are they in 'relationships' to all appearances, if they are not swinging "I think quite a few wouldn't mind being shared... they just don't want to share their main person? Or maybe it's any person? I don't know. | |||
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"I have no issue with sharing - I'm in an ethically non-monogamous relationship and it works for us both. That does mean I like things done ethically though - I like to hear oh I'm meeting x (name not important) before he meets x. I don't want to hear the intimate details because that's a personal thing for them both but I do like knowing he had a good or bad time." This. For me I have no issues whatsoever with sharing sexually occasionally as long as I know about it beforehand...it's the openness and honesty that are important to me. I don't want to know the sordid details, just the logistical ones. I don't share emotionally though, that's a hard limit! | |||
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"Depends what I'm meant to be sharing. The best sex you've ever had in your life ?" .some do... personally I love to x and its not about sharing the best sex.. it's about watching the person I care about enjoy themselves x | |||
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"I don't share well no! Especially not if it's someone I'm really keen on. I'm with toddlers on this one...if I've licked it/them, it's/they're mine
Haha! I use this one. I’ve licked him so he’s mine "Haha...I love it! | |||
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"I have no issue with sharing - I'm in an ethically non-monogamous relationship and it works for us both. That does mean I like things done ethically though - I like to hear oh I'm meeting x (name not important) before he meets x. I don't want to hear the intimate details because that's a personal thing for them both but I do like knowing he had a good or bad time. This. For me I have no issues whatsoever with sharing sexually occasionally as long as I know about it beforehand...it's the openness and honesty that are important to me. I don't want to know the sordid details, just the logistical ones. I don't share emotionally though, that's a hard limit!" That’s the issue for me, it’s the emotional side, not the actual sex. | |||
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"Yes but I am polyamourous. I reached compersion a long time ago and sharing partners with others emotionally and physically brings me Joy "What about if you don't like the person they've chosen to spend emotional and physical intimacy with. How do you deal with that? | |||
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"I have no issue with sharing - I'm in an ethically non-monogamous relationship and it works for us both. That does mean I like things done ethically though - I like to hear oh I'm meeting x (name not important) before he meets x. I don't want to hear the intimate details because that's a personal thing for them both but I do like knowing he had a good or bad time. This. For me I have no issues whatsoever with sharing sexually occasionally as long as I know about it beforehand...it's the openness and honesty that are important to me. I don't want to know the sordid details, just the logistical ones. I don't share emotionally though, that's a hard limit! That’s the issue for me, it’s the emotional side, not the actual sex. " Does that you mean share physically but not emotionally as well? Or is it the emotional worries stopping you wanting to share physically? Sharing a partner emotionally can be wonderful, of course it can. But like any relationship it can bring its own difficulties. | |||
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"Yes but I am polyamourous. I reached compersion a long time ago and sharing partners with others emotionally and physically brings me Joy
What about if you don't like the person they've chosen to spend emotional and physical intimacy with. How do you deal with that? "Its never about us liking the other person, it's about us having a pleasurable time. I am happy when he is happy, and vice versa. Who we achieve that with is never an issue unless drama is encountered, but that would be down to Individual unwise choices and we would discuss how to avoid those people in the future | |||
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"I have no issue with sharing - I'm in an ethically non-monogamous relationship and it works for us both. That does mean I like things done ethically though - I like to hear oh I'm meeting x (name not important) before he meets x. I don't want to hear the intimate details because that's a personal thing for them both but I do like knowing he had a good or bad time. This. For me I have no issues whatsoever with sharing sexually occasionally as long as I know about it beforehand...it's the openness and honesty that are important to me. I don't want to know the sordid details, just the logistical ones. I don't share emotionally though, that's a hard limit! That’s the issue for me, it’s the emotional side, not the actual sex. Does that you mean share physically but not emotionally as well? Or is it the emotional worries stopping you wanting to share physically? Sharing a partner emotionally can be wonderful, of course it can. But like any relationship it can bring its own difficulties. " For me it means that I share physically but not emotionally - I recognise that I'm not capable of a poly relationship, I need to be my partners sole romantic emotional attachment. Sex is purely an enjoyable physical act...much like him going and having a game of tennis with someone. | |||
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"Women have vaginas and for that reason will do what they want to do" Having a vagina does not entitle anyone to do what they want If that's the case Of a nice big cock and I shall do the same | |||
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"I have no issue with sharing - I'm in an ethically non-monogamous relationship and it works for us both. That does mean I like things done ethically though - I like to hear oh I'm meeting x (name not important) before he meets x. I don't want to hear the intimate details because that's a personal thing for them both but I do like knowing he had a good or bad time. This. For me I have no issues whatsoever with sharing sexually occasionally as long as I know about it beforehand...it's the openness and honesty that are important to me. I don't want to know the sordid details, just the logistical ones. I don't share emotionally though, that's a hard limit! That’s the issue for me, it’s the emotional side, not the actual sex. Does that you mean share physically but not emotionally as well? Or is it the emotional worries stopping you wanting to share physically? Sharing a partner emotionally can be wonderful, of course it can. But like any relationship it can bring its own difficulties. For me it means that I share physically but not emotionally - I recognise that I'm not capable of a poly relationship, I need to be my partners sole romantic emotional attachment. Sex is purely an enjoyable physical act...much like him going and having a game of tennis with someone. " This for me too. | |||
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"Yes but I am polyamourous. I reached compersion a long time ago and sharing partners with others emotionally and physically brings me Joy
What about if you don't like the person they've chosen to spend emotional and physical intimacy with. How do you deal with that?
Its never about us liking the other person, it's about us having a pleasurable time. I am happy when he is happy, and vice versa. Who we achieve that with is never an issue unless drama is encountered, but that would be down to Individual unwise choices and we would discuss how to avoid those people in the future "Would you expect to know about other meets before they happened? | |||
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"Depends what I'm meant to be sharing. The best sex you've ever had in your life ? Then probably not no. If a guy was that good I'd rather have more 1 on 1 time with him." | |||
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"Women have vaginas and for that reason will do what they want to do Having a vagina does not entitle anyone to do what they want If that's the case Of a nice big cock and I shall do the same "anyone can do as they wish thats kind of my point | |||
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" Personally I find sharing very enjoyable, but not everyone does! I've had some experiences where jealousy has kicked in & ruined the fun I don't have room in my life for jealousy and that's all iv ever seen or experienced I wanted to be me but I couldn't "Maybe you could share her with your best mate | |||
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I'm asking because I ain't really ever fucked a woman that wants me to fuck another woman or is even ok with the idea of me fucking another woman "Mrs C loves sharing me with other women and vice versa, to be fair we know plenty of other couples that have exactly the same approach. Mr C | |||
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