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 a few women have told me i havent done to well on this site because my profile isint realy selling me to well :-$ so tell me people where have i gone wrong ? | |||
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"Hi all you horny people a few women have told me i havent done to well on this site because my profile isint realy selling me to well :-$ so tell me people where have i gone wrong ?"Well to be honest it doesnt say a lot | |||
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"Hi all you horny people a few women have told me i havent done to well on this site because my profile isint realy selling me to well :-$ so tell me people where have i gone wrong ?"2 R's in Gary that's your downfall.  | |||
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"Well i did have a lot more on it at first, then i thought maybe that was the problem people couldnt be bothered to read it all :-$" But your profile says nothing about you really, just saying....  | |||
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"well spotted but i was born in Scotlant and they spell it with 2 R's "Women like men with 1 "R"se they are particular about them!  | |||
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However, you are one of hundreds of single guys on here and in your geographical region too, so your Profile has to stand out. In short, you have to "sell" yourself.
Your Profile is way too short. Invest some time checking your spelling; yes, the "spelling Police" on here will moan about this, but with the spelling errors in your Profile, it doesn't exactly promote your profile well.
Ditch the cock pics to your Private photos and show a face pic instead.
You have to expand your Profile a bit more, to give potential meets something to work on.
Plus get into the Forums, and if at all possible, get to clubs in your locality or region.
It is all a case of getting yourself noticed!
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i will be taking it all on board | |||
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"Well nice to see lots off advice coming my way i will be taking it all on board "Good for you, you seem a nice genuine personable guy....xxx | |||
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i am a nice guy very easy going personality, Mmm i did have that on my profile and a few people mostly women seemed to think that ment i was buysexual and maybe thats why i wasnt get to menny girls interested in me  How the hell does easy going going personality translate into dont mind being shaged by a man lol, there was me thinking it just ment a little bit on the quiet side not the pushy in your face type, oh well you live and learn pmsl | |||
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"But you've been verified, so you're obviously successful in some aspect, Thus why the thread? I could understand the query if there was no verification. "wrong thread? | |||
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"But you've been verified, so you're obviously successful in some aspect, Thus why the thread? I could understand the query if there was no verification. wrong thread?"Eh?? What wrong thread?? | |||
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. A profile is there so that we don't have to ask. Even if you don't think it's saying much the blurb can give you an idea about someone's personality. Yours is currently suggesting you can't be bothered!
Even though your response to this thread suggests you can.
If your target audience is getting 25, 50 or more messages a day why will they start asking lots of questions if they can simply move on to someone else who has told them more already?
Oh, and general bit of advice (though it's not a criticism cos I haven't noticed any) run the spell check over your blurb when you've written it! If people do get lots of messages this can be a decider between.three or four similar profiles if you only have time to arrange one meet.
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"That's unnecessarily harsh! You can't have it both ways. If the forum 'borg' is being understanding and sympathetic to newbies then surely it should be a good thing. " No, I do not believe that was harsh (nor was it meant to be) considering that on VERY similar threads asking very similar questions by other single guys, after 9 hours 'thread life' we have all seen better thought out profiles being literally 'assassinated' - usually with 'comments/observations' which are along broadly similar lines. Gaz HAS got off lightly at this point in time (maybe it's because it's the summer hols????!!), but at least you have taken the trouble to offer him a sound, constructive critique which, if he takes it in the right vein, will help him. | |||
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"I have noticed though, that a post suggesting that the forum has been kind usually tempts both fate and the mischievous and starts the onslaught of devils advocates. " Yep, I'll give you that one.....
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ha ha, thanks for the advice i do feel a bit wiser for it hopefully I can put it to good use, sounds like a few off you expected the thread to get a lot off abusive replies ha ha, I was expecting a few arse comments I must admit lol. Oh and yes I do know my spelling is bad :-$ but bit late in life to worry to much about that, the way I see it I get close enough that you know what it was meant to be pmsl
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