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By *hris55555 OP   Man
over a year ago

liverpool

always send a face pic with your 1st message or wait until asked ?

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"always send a face pic with your 1st message or wait until asked ? "

I'd send one, the odds are stacked against single guys so you don't want to make them any higher.

Some women might use the no photo attached as an initial reason to delete the message

Good luck

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

Entirely up to you, some people request one, some don’t. It’s your picture, you decide what to do with it, just don’t expect a response from those who request one if you don’t send it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *hris55555 OP   Man
over a year ago

liverpool


"Entirely up to you, some people request one, some don’t. It’s your picture, you decide what to do with it, just don’t expect a response from those who request one if you don’t send it"

Would you prefer one sending or not bothered

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

If your profile pic is already a face pic I wouldn't see any need to attach one

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By *hris55555 OP   Man
over a year ago

liverpool


"No "

Only if you ask lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No

Only if you ask lol"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No

Only if you ask lol

Yes "

Yeah but no but

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here


"Entirely up to you, some people request one, some don’t. It’s your picture, you decide what to do with it, just don’t expect a response from those who request one if you don’t send it

Would you prefer one sending or not bothered "

There’s no point asking me as I’m one person out of 1000s, I’m not the view of all here and statistically insignificant.

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By *eparrain1Man
over a year ago

Stone

I always wait till we exchanfe few messages.

Some, though, demand a face pic while having an avatar and no pic on their profile: puzzling!!

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

For me yes..... and definitely if it states it on their profile.

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By *hris55555 OP   Man
over a year ago

liverpool


"No

Only if you ask lol

Yes

Yeah but no but "

Well just ask then don’t be shy lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if you’ve got a face like a slapped arse? This site can be so cruel to some of us

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By *hris55555 OP   Man
over a year ago

liverpool


"What if you’ve got a face like a slapped arse? This site can be so cruel to some of us "

Hmm your right there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what you think is right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No

Only if you ask lol

Yes

Yeah but no but "
whats wrong with his butt?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always send one because it stops people messaging back.

But if you've got one as your profile photo then I don't think you need to worry.

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I am one of those people who do not send face pics.

It is for discretion reasons nothing else.

I've had my pictures stolen from this site and placed on a porn website. I was mortified!

Our friends and family have no idea about our lifestyle. We'd prefer to keep it that way as we know that they would pass judgement. Are we ashamed....no. We just prefer to be discreet.

We all have our ways of doing things.

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Depends if you're butt ugly? Gotta give yourself a chance with your personality first surely? Unless your personality is ugly, then run with the face

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Nope

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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I think in general send one as lots of people like one. For me personally though if someone doesn't fit what my profile is actually looking for then all pics are pretty unimportant.

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We dont attach face pics as we have them on our profile but we would prefer a face pic if anyone sends us a message

Mrs2

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Depends if you're butt ugly? Gotta give yourself a chance with your personality first surely? Unless your personality is ugly, then run with the face "

Looks like I'll need to rely on my personality then.

Damn.

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

Yes saves a lot of time in some cases... And some Awks Convos x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s one as your profile pic so I would say no need

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

Yes, if there's an initial attraction it could improve your chances along with a well written message, it's ultimately up to you,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I don't reply if there's no face pics, and I very rarely initiate contact if there's no face pic on the profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See i have a face for radio, so always a bit erm i don't wanna, I do attach another pic but not cock.

Of they ask for face pic then I will but it would be taken then not an old one

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

You should just send a face pic if you want to not because you feel you should .

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

It's up to you op

I don't expect them 1st message, but like to swap them early on in a conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they ask for one in the first message i try and remember to attach one.

But 99% of my pics on my profile show my face anyways

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"always send a face pic with your 1st message or wait until asked ? "

Always send one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send a face pic with first message just to be polite.

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By *heonixRaven 777Woman
over a year ago

Guildford

While it is nice to receive a face picture I don’t expect one and no one should obligated to send one either I feel.

I feel I would rather get to know someone as a person, rather than allow perhaps some preconceived idea of what the person is about.

My preference for any other type of picture is to be asked first, as I have no interest in seeing what size your appendage is.

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