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By *YKelly OP   Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

There are quite a lot of stories in the s&f forum written from a female perspective by men.

I wondered what women thought of them. Do they capture what it feels like? What are the things that are consistently wrong?

I appreciate there are a spectrum of experiences but just in general.

In the interest of balance I would ask if women writing about men get it wrong but that type of story seems to a pretty rare occurrence.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I never look in there, but if you have one in mind I don’t mind having a look and reporting back.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I rarely if ever write as a man, and never sexually. I wouldn't know where to start.

"Men writing women" is... definitely a thing, and it's rarely pretty.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I rarely if ever write as a man, and never sexually. I wouldn't know where to start.

"Men writing women" is... definitely a thing, and it's rarely pretty."

I’ve seen some crackers on Facebook

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I rarely if ever write as a man, and never sexually. I wouldn't know where to start.

"Men writing women" is... definitely a thing, and it's rarely pretty.

I’ve seen some crackers on Facebook "

I saw something on Twitter once about a woman boobily boobing down the stairs

People think our breasts are our occupation or some shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would they write it from a female perspective? Are they trans?

Men are really easy to spot when they have a fake couple/ woman's profile.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I've read some in the past.

That's where it's staying.

Instead of ingniting a burning in my loin, I went to eat junk comfort food.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Why would they write it from a female perspective? Are they trans?

Men are really easy to spot when they have a fake couple/ woman's profile. "

Erotica written from a woman's perspective is usually more popular.

It's not like they're pretending to be a woman, it's more, say if I wrote a story from the perspective of Prince William. I wouldn't, but it'd test my ability to understand and convey what I think a man's inner world and perspective feels like.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I rarely if ever write as a man, and never sexually. I wouldn't know where to start.

"Men writing women" is... definitely a thing, and it's rarely pretty.

I’ve seen some crackers on Facebook

I saw something on Twitter once about a woman boobily boobing down the stairs

People think our breasts are our occupation or some shit "

Was it “she breasted boobily to the stairs and titted downwards” by any chance?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I rarely if ever write as a man, and never sexually. I wouldn't know where to start.

"Men writing women" is... definitely a thing, and it's rarely pretty.

I’ve seen some crackers on Facebook

I saw something on Twitter once about a woman boobily boobing down the stairs

People think our breasts are our occupation or some shit

Was it “she breasted boobily to the stairs and titted downwards” by any chance?"

I think so. It was a cracker, anyway.

More like "she sighed and determined to spend more money on her next bra, because too much wobble hurts"

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I rarely if ever write as a man, and never sexually. I wouldn't know where to start.

"Men writing women" is... definitely a thing, and it's rarely pretty.

I’ve seen some crackers on Facebook

I saw something on Twitter once about a woman boobily boobing down the stairs

People think our breasts are our occupation or some shit

Was it “she breasted boobily to the stairs and titted downwards” by any chance?

I think so. It was a cracker, anyway.

More like "she sighed and determined to spend more money on her next bra, because too much wobble hurts""

Oh definitely, but most of these writers think bras are only for decoration.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I rarely if ever write as a man, and never sexually. I wouldn't know where to start.

"Men writing women" is... definitely a thing, and it's rarely pretty.

I’ve seen some crackers on Facebook

I saw something on Twitter once about a woman boobily boobing down the stairs

People think our breasts are our occupation or some shit

Was it “she breasted boobily to the stairs and titted downwards” by any chance?

I think so. It was a cracker, anyway.

More like "she sighed and determined to spend more money on her next bra, because too much wobble hurts"

Oh definitely, but most of these writers think bras are only for decoration."

Which is why men writing women is a thing

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"I rarely if ever write as a man, and never sexually. I wouldn't know where to start.

"Men writing women" is... definitely a thing, and it's rarely pretty.

I’ve seen some crackers on Facebook

I saw something on Twitter once about a woman boobily boobing down the stairs

People think our breasts are our occupation or some shit

Was it “she breasted boobily to the stairs and titted downwards” by any chance?

I think so. It was a cracker, anyway.

More like "she sighed and determined to spend more money on her next bra, because too much wobble hurts"

Oh definitely, but most of these writers think bras are only for decoration."

Or even worse, that wearing one too small will somehow give cleavage to die for and will be in no way excruciatingly painful.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

To be fair, writing sex is bloody hard without being incredibly fucking cringe. It's one reason I rarely do it anymore

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"To be fair, writing sex is bloody hard without being incredibly fucking cringe. It's one reason I rarely do it anymore "

I find it difficult to even write about my own experiences without it sounding silly or just being really basic. I wrote one story a long time ago that I’m still quite pleased with, but most of the time it doesn’t work!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"To be fair, writing sex is bloody hard without being incredibly fucking cringe. It's one reason I rarely do it anymore

I find it difficult to even write about my own experiences without it sounding silly or just being really basic. I wrote one story a long time ago that I’m still quite pleased with, but most of the time it doesn’t work!"

I rate myself as a writer and... yeah. It's definitely a skill

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By *rongstantineWoman
over a year ago

hull

Memoirs of a Geisha was pretty spectacular.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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From the ones I've read when I've been ridiculously horny and the disturbed porn of my porn hole isn't cutting it... no. They don't capture what it feels like. For the most part it feels very much like a man with his penis out, fapping as he imagines two women together, or a dominant woman with an eager man or a cheating woman (they tend to follow themes that are popular with men). Consistently wrong? Writing it like a man who is fapping over a mental image in his head of a woman rather than trying to imagine what a woman feels like.

There's the cliched, "she was dripping wet thinking about him" which always makes me think she needs to practise her kegels, the woman always gagging to give a blowjob and then wanting a quick dicking. The shaved "pussy", her firm bouncing tits, the long blonde hair (basically stereotypical aesthetics). They read very much like a lot of porn does - for the male gaze and created by a man.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

in literature in general men often write from a woman's perspective and vice versa. I find in erotic fiction some men are better at it than others, it depends if they are genuinely trying to write from a woman's perspective and like all good writers have researched their subject or if they are writing from the perspective of how they would like women to be.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"in literature in general men often write from a woman's perspective and vice versa. I find in erotic fiction some men are better at it than others, it depends if they are genuinely trying to write from a woman's perspective and like all good writers have researched their subject or if they are writing from the perspective of how they would like women to be."

I almost exclusively write from a woman's perspective, particularly sexually.

I don't even know how to describe how much it doesn't compute to contemplate describing the experience of sex as a man.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

When I try to write as a man I give myself a complex that I'm Doing It Wrong

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"in literature in general men often write from a woman's perspective and vice versa. I find in erotic fiction some men are better at it than others, it depends if they are genuinely trying to write from a woman's perspective and like all good writers have researched their subject or if they are writing from the perspective of how they would like women to be.

I almost exclusively write from a woman's perspective, particularly sexually.

I don't even know how to describe how much it doesn't compute to contemplate describing the experience of sex as a man. "

I've written short stories that involve a man in a humiliation situation. It seemed very popular with men but it didn't go into details of how he felt when he ejaculated etc

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"in literature in general men often write from a woman's perspective and vice versa. I find in erotic fiction some men are better at it than others, it depends if they are genuinely trying to write from a woman's perspective and like all good writers have researched their subject or if they are writing from the perspective of how they would like women to be.

I almost exclusively write from a woman's perspective, particularly sexually.

I don't even know how to describe how much it doesn't compute to contemplate describing the experience of sex as a man.

I've written short stories that involve a man in a humiliation situation. It seemed very popular with men but it didn't go into details of how he felt when he ejaculated etc"

Yeah I write limited POV so avoid that. I can do semi plausible "what a woman observes a man doing"

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By *YKelly OP   Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Thanks for the contributions. There was a thread in here about what it felt like to have a cock in your pussy. None of the responses from women were anything like you read in erotica nevermind porn.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I prefer not to describe it in public. My descriptions are cringe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are quite a lot of stories in the s&f forum written from a female perspective by men.

I wondered what women thought of them. Do they capture what it feels like? What are the things that are consistently wrong?

I appreciate there are a spectrum of experiences but just in general.

In the interest of balance I would ask if women writing about men get it wrong but that type of story seems to a pretty rare occurrence. "

I did a little experiment on here once with another fab member. We took it in turns to write the next part of a story but posted in my name on the 'stories and fantasies' forum. He wanted to see if his writing was better received under a female profile. If you want to have a read you can search the forum for 'Hotel Room Service'. I'd be interested to know if you can work out which bits I wrote. Feedback is welcome.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"There are quite a lot of stories in the s&f forum written from a female perspective by men.

I wondered what women thought of them. Do they capture what it feels like? What are the things that are consistently wrong?

I appreciate there are a spectrum of experiences but just in general.

In the interest of balance I would ask if women writing about men get it wrong but that type of story seems to a pretty rare occurrence. "

I don't know if that's what i've done but have written some stories on the forums that are tailored to appeal more to women. Tone, imagery and description play a key role here I think.

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